₦airaland Forum

obstead200:
if abortion is evil, then using protection is also evil. U are preventing a life from being formed. It is the same thing as killing a formed life.

Nonsense

omooba969:
Abortion should be illegal in the western countries, NOT in third world countries bcoz it's wicked to deliberately bring an innocent child into a SAPAsized society.

HolinessForever:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LwNzORXFd8Q



https://amp.theguardian.com/world/2022/may/03/supreme-court-roe-v-wade-draft-abortion-ruling

yuping:
Abasi, what kind of ridiculous curiosity leads to this?
Angel please test that trumpet.

God1000:
Hmm, that's America for you, but I don't think we have abortion rights in the Nigerian constitution

From my findings, abortion in Nigeria is illegal and carries a heavy jail sentence up to 14 years imprisonment unless it is performed to save the life of the pregnant woman

OluwoR:
Good evening my brothers and sisters,

I sincerely needs urgent help/assistance for my Fiancee.

Met her in 2012, started dating in 2014, had our first sex in 2019, but since that 2019, anytime I make moves to have sex with Her, it's always through fight, to cut the story short, she find sex extremely painful that even anything that pass cuddling, she'll start crying, this might sound funny, but seriously it is not.
I talked to Her about it, booked an appointment with a gynecologist, my babe didn't show up, I tried to get her sexual supplements, she said they have side effects, and she disposed them.

Now, the problem is, we're planning our introduction, and we're yet to get any solution to the problem at hand,
please, who have any idea of what we can do about it.

Tonero5200:
Minimum a day I get 2 calls from different male voice wanting to speak with the owner of the phone, my girlfriend. offcus it's my phone, but she's the one giving them my contact, the whatsapp messages I get some times it's alarming, have warned her several times for her to stop, she thinks doing that will earn her my trust instead it's making me to have several doubts about our relationship status.

We quarreled some time ago can you imagine she' told me it's like am using charm on her, can't I see the number of guys thats asking her out. yes she's pretty, sometimes I wonder, it's More like she's trying to prove something to me but I need her to stop giving my number out to guys, how do I do that?

EBMedia:
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oldienavie:
So I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 months and she is perfect, actually she is a virgin, well behaved and very respectful. The relationship is going very fine but I am starting to really think deeply and I may just break up.
Why ? I have lived abroad for a while and do have a very serious phobia for travelling on Nigerian roads, her parents are a journey of 4 hours from where I am and I understand the area is rife with kidnapping and robbery of all sorts.

I find myself obsessing over having to make that trip to her parents place and also have my family embark on that journey and I always shudder at the thought of it.

I am seriously considering breaking up with her and looking for a lady whoose parents are here in the same city I reside, cos one of the things that gives me serious head ache is travelling on Nigerian roads.

Since I got back to Nigeria I have not travelled outside of the city that I am and it is because of how serious that phobia is.

But how do I tell her I am breaking up with her for this reason, it sounds very trivial but its a serious issue for me.

jesmond3945:
vanhack has over 400k coders chasing few jobs. What is the trick to land a job there?

tayo60:
As a lady, I have read countless stories here on nairaland of how men used and dumped girls not because they are not pretty, but because of some traits these ladies exhibited which turned you men off. So I have been wondering, what do you men really want? For a long lasting relationship, even a successful marriage,what can a woman do to win or capture your heart as a man? What advice will you give the female gender on relationship matters? Ur opinions will be highly appreciated. Let's learn from you!

femijay8271:
Hello everyone, truly na today i believe say the future is truly female.

Now, let me start from here...This my new neighbor just moved in last week Sunday with his wife and daughter. So as a newly rented apartment, the husband called me yesterday that he wanted to check how my generator wire was been connected because each apartment has its own Changeover.

I showed him but i advised him to call an electrician to come and do it for them.

Then today, the electrician came, though its was the same electrician that helped them to run and changed some wire before they packed in.

Note, this my neighbor husband have went out since early morning so its was his wife that was at home and his daughter.

My apartment window was closed since yesterday night so i haven't open it before the electrician came and do the wiring work.

And you know this types of glass wey b say u go dey see people wey dey outside for daytime but they won't see person wey dey inside.... And when night come, na person wey dey outside go dey see u and u wont b able to see dem... Na dat one dey each apartment.

Hmmmm, naso i get the shock of my life when the electrician finish doing his job and he's about going when he started caressing this my new neighbor's wife body, touching her breast and bumbum in our compound right directly my window.

I was like what!

The funniest thing is that this same neighbor of mine was seriously praying in the middle of the night at day before yesterday.

Well.... None of my business as i will never talk anything or do like i see anything.

I have d video on my phone for confirmation.

When i told my wife, she couldn't believe it until i showed her the video and she was haaaaaa.

Pls make una share na experience with such neighbor either male or female

Jheypeel:
Work from home ?

jmoore:
Nkechi Bianze has thrown shade at a fellow feminist who got married recently. The newly married feminist, Mercedes Ekwutosim Okwukogu uploaded pictures of her traditional wedding where she knelt down while serving her husband a drink. The picture got Nkechi so angry that she threw shades at her by making some posts indirectly targeted at her fellow feminist.

Nkechi wrote:

"I'm probably the ONLY NIGERIAN FEMINIST who had a Traditional Marriage Ceremony (with two Kings present) and still was able to NOT practice some things I consider extremely patriarchal.

1. My knees did NOT touch the ground on my Traditional Wedding Day. I did NOT kneel down to give my husband or anyone drink nor did I kneel down to receive prayers. We both stood up while the elders blessed our marriage."

Threesha:
I was at a neighbors place to pay her a visit it been ages since we last saw. I noticed the boys were the only ones at home and the mom told the boys to go sweep the house, the father raised an objection saying his is a man and shouldn't be doing such.

So, I ask why are the girl child trianed differently from the boy child?

joy4news:
The Bible promotes complete abstinence before marriage. Sex between a husband and his wife is the only form of sexual relations of which God approves.

In Islam, your sexual desires and love are considered to be something special created by Allah.

The love you feel must be shared with your spouse and partner.

Sex before marriage is not allowed because if you have sex with a random person you're not going to marry, then your are destroying the beauty of incimaity.

Share your views below

Do you think sex before marriage is haram (forbidden)?

westk:
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Badboibipo:
Aside hookups, where in Nigeria can one find a good descent girl? Is it the church where most of them sleep with the choir master? Is it in the bank where they fvck their way to the top? Is it POS attendants that are low key hookup girls? Is it online where every single girl is a hook up girl? Is it in universities, again bunch of hookup girls. Please I’m serious, for men out there looking for a serious relationship..where can they find real girls and not gold diggers in Nigeria?

MadamVanessa:



Actually not all men have obsession on women with big boobs. Some love those little pingpong that fit into their mouth infested odour perfectly.


I have breast but not as big that lady own, few men have actually said to me that my boobs is a huge turn off to them , that they really don't fancy big boobs at all. I told them fine, no offense.

But greater percentage of them can even kill just to lay their hands on my boobs based on the way I do observed them stares at it , some look at it and become utterly useless and stupid.

RickSanchez:
Thanks for the reply bro, actually there was a commitment between us to end in marriage or find someone else if we drift too far apart.

RickSanchez:
I'd like to start by saying I'm serving, Sorry if the story is all messed up as my mind is F'ed up right now.

I got into a corpers lodge which used to be a lounge. I didn't want to date anyone but this hoe kept disturbing me to. Gave in.

Usually I'm a crypto investor, I have money, I look good, I dress good. I'm not saying all these things to hype myself up but I'm okay.

Sexually I can last hours, I made her cum consistently. The only problem I have is delayed ejaculation. Which she complains about.

Now, I'm not the type to love hard as I'm already used to heartbreaks. So we dated and broke up after 4 months or so. I was okay with the breakup.

Only to find out she's been fucking around the whole time I was loving up, as she(in my mind) opened up to me about the guys that played her and broke her heart.

She goes to church frequently and if you see this girl outside you'd think she's a saint, she doesn't party, she doesn't usually drink and no smoking.

Anyway I found out that she'd be fucking her our fellow corper guys and was getting passed around, while still pretending she still loved me(after the breakup).

When I knew and she came to my side and I told her to go Bleep the guy she usually goes to she said she doesn't care.

This person who I thought had a conscience was probably a covert narcissist who wants male attention from anywhere she'll get it.

To be honest it pains me to say this but I felt foolish for actually loving the girl and started to doubt myself as a man.

I'm usually the one girls cheat on their guys with(when I was in uni) but this time around I got my share(after I became a good guy), it hit hard and it disgusted me how I got to know she was being pounded by other niggas.

Funny thing is now she doesn't hide it, she blows kisses to the nigga openly in everyone's presence.

Don't want to bitch all day about this but honestly it feels evil how someone can switch like the devil cause I had nothing but good intentions for her. And she not only did all that but boldly told people I was the one disturbing her life. Lol. It is well. I know it's the times we shared that's causing me to feel undeserved.

The one thing on my mind I Sha know is that at the end of the day I'm still an awesome dude, no matter how a hoe wants to pay me back I'll still make bank and get back out there. Thanks for reading and if you have things to add, both good or bad I'm willing to read through.

Addition ; wanted to marry her as I had enough money to and we shared(to my understanding) the same values and dreams. I doubt I'll ever fall for words or even actions of love again as I was genuinely convinced she was good.

FutureIsFemale:
A Nigerian-Romanian broadcaster and radio talk show host, Ifedayo Olarinde, popularly known as Daddy Freeze believes that Nigerian women should be allowed to marry second husbands just like their male counterparts are allowed to marry second wives.

This is coming after a Nollywood actor, Yul Edochie revealed that he has a second wife.
https://www.instagram.com/p/Cc8vRXyIIvG/

https://www.instagram.com/p/Cc7sGbcNN5J/

Solofresh2:
There is course mate of mine. We were close friends in school. So there is this day she followed me to my home (because I don't live in the hostel, I rented an apartment outside), I was so hungry so she decided to cook for me. After we finished eating, one thing led to the other and we had sex. This girl is in her early twenties just like me.

Since that day, she never lets me rest. We have been having sex and she told me she has a boyfriend. She comes to my house and we always end up having sex all the time. I have told her enough is enough but she keeps coming. I use protection though.

I blamed myself for letting her know my place
How can I discard this girl totally because as long as she comes, I will keep sleeping with her.

StilmaVsBorn2w:
No I won't

Ehinjuola:
Hello NLanders,
I got caught up with something on my neck in my neighboood recently.

There's this woman (A) who bought a sewing machine from one woman (B) 9 years ago, suddenly woman B just came from nowhere to come and claim the sewing machine that she sold years back that she only use the machine as a collateral from woman A that she didn't sell it for her.

Now the issue is Woman A has sold the sewing Machine and also insisted that if truly woman's (B) use it as collateral for how many years now she would wish if Woman B paid her back with the interest on the money which the money is way much more than money for 100 sewing machines.

Now questions is, how will I go abt it cause I happened to be one of the landlords in my area( I guess I am the youngest) and we are called to come and judge over the matter.
1. Woman's A doesn't posses the receipt of the sewing machine and as already sold the sewing machine
2. Woman's B want the machine at any cost claiming she has the receipt with her and she will use it against woman's A in court ( If the judgement didn't suite her taste in landlord meeting)


Note: They've gone to police station around early February which they've told woman's A abt the important of receipt and also let it known to woman's B that collateral shouldn't be more than a year and after that the person you borrow something from might as well claim the ownership what you use as collateral (Don't know maybe there's any law backing it though)

Abeg let it gain more audience by pushing it to front page thanks.

Kriss216:
97.432% of men married to Nigerian girls are suffering. Forget the social media fake smile. They're all living in self denial.

No sane man will abandon a good woman or treat her bad.

Dear men, don't let your wife stop you from finding the love of your life.

curiousmind11:
Please, what are the general limits or spousal privacy in modern day marriage. It is very common for some spouse to tell his/her partner, "that is my private/personal life", "that is my business ".
These days, the private parts (genitals) of married couples are easily accessed than their phones or computers. Is the phrase "better half" a mirage?

Second question: How would you respond to your partner who deletes most of his/her sms and whatsapp chats before he/she can let you into his/her phone?