₦airaland Forum

Caveatemptor:
Go back and read the interview again.
I asked pertinent questions,
1. How does she apologise for the Buni Yadi massacres, where blood thirsty Boko Haramists invaded a male school set fire to the dormitory and waited for survivors to come out and then shot them?
2. How does she apologise for the Haramists blood thirsty bombing of the United Nations building in Abuja?
How does she apologise for the Haramists bloody thirsty bombing of Police headquarters in Abuja?
3. How does she apologise or shift blame to Oby or Mrs Obama for the uncountable savage Haramists attacks on Churches/Christian places of worship?
4.What of numerous savage attacks on markets,motor parks and various military formations?
5.Are the Chinook girls the only female abducted and forcefully married off by these group of savage islamist hegemonists?
Who do we blame for all these acts of savagry and declaration of war on the Nigerian state.and Education?
In conclusion what was the offence committed by the poor school girls in Chinook,other than the fact that they wanted education and knowledge? But sadly a group of misguided savage terrorists said women/girls/men must not be educated or enlightened. And one woman called Aisha will come here and be playing on our collective intelligence and try to defend Book Haram?
I find this disgusting!

They was no clear on effort her part to apologize for the actions of the group. She doesn't represent them so why apologize for them.

In any case, I have read the interview over and over again, if you have, then you would have recognized where it was mentioned that she is not just a lawyer by training but also a mediator by profession who works with the National Human rights commission plus she is the wife of a judge.

(Google what it means to be a mediator in conflict or terrorism situations for for clearer understanding of what it may involve)

As for your questions, this part of the referenced part of the interview below should give a clue:


[b]"[size=15pt]What of the allegation that you were aiding Boko Haram? You could be charged under the anti-terrorism laws[/size].


It is a misconception. Whoever did the announcement. I don’t think the Chief of Army Staff knew about it before the thing was aired out.

[size=15pt]It’s been a long time you’ve been pursuing this road. How did the Nigerian authorities approach you or were you the one that reached out to them?[/size]


When I approached the government. I met first, Brigadier General Bello Sarkin-Yaki. The person that took me to Bello Sarkin-Yakin was Defence Minister, Bello Haliru. He was the one. When he came, I narrated the story to him and I told him these children they have listening ears. They are human beings like all of us. They can be handled.
You should stop bombing and killing, let them also stop what they were doing. He now said okay I should go to Bello Sarkin Yaki in the morning. So in the morning they took me there and I narrated the whole story. He was also very impressed. He now linked me up with Colonel Suleiman —I don’t know the surname. He was residing in Giwa Barracks. From then, I’ll be with Col. Suleiman and we’ll put the boys on the phone. Then the boys were so scared to go and meet any military man because they believed they were going to kill them. So when I call, I will connect them on the phone without them knowing I was with a military man. They would talk and talk. Then Suleiman would preach to them then they became shocked that a military man could quote Qur’an for them because Col. Suleiman was highly learned in Qur’an.
Sometimes they would come to my house and say they wanted to go and do something and I would preach to them not to do so.

[size=15pt]What year was this?[/size]

2012.

Okay, the ones that informed you beforehand about attacks, what did they do after you preached to them?

They never returned to it. They swore not to kill again. But were later killed because they renounced Boko Haram.

You were involved in a series of negotiations with the Jonathan administration, apparently it all fell through?

When this thing initially started, they wanted it to finish immediately. But later, they said people were paying them to start killing people like politicians and businessmen and to destroy businesses. So they became divided later. So those that were used to bad activities they were using them freely and they then ran out of control.
But all the while I continued pleading, begging."[/b]

If you remember very well, chibok girls were kidnapped on the 14th Night of April 2014. So she was involved well before then with the Nigerian military. Also she claimed to have first approached the government concerning mediating in 2012, the same year the Police stations and immigration buildings were bombed in Kano.

Also observe reference below suggest proof that she sensed they were about to go rogue and rebellious.

"Did you ever meet Shekau while you were going to the bush?

No, I’ve never met Shekau before. But I knew him face to face. Before the war when I went to greet Mohammed Yusuf, he would block me and not allow me to go in because I had a police orderly then.
So when I returned home, Yusuf later came to my house and started pleading and begging. [size=14pt]He used to be a simple, humble person. But I don’t know what happened and everything became like this.
One day I called Yusuf to my house and asked him if truly there was going to be a war, but he said no[/size]. Shekau and Abu Qaqa were on his entourage. Then Yusuf entered my sitting room"

helovesme:
This interview further proves just how incompetent and useless the entire government of goodluck Jonathan was.

The had sufficient intelligence to stage a covert operation to rescue those girls but the ogogoro master did absolute nothing.

When is he getting dragged to The Hague? Surely, there must be some sort of punishment meted out to his likes

[size=18pt]ANALYSIS[/size]

[size=14pt]Let us assume that What she has said in her interview is the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. [/size]

On this assumption, the following facts can be deduced from her statement (Read it over and over again without sentiments and you will discover what I have said is true plus some of her comments are buttressed by political realities that took place during the era of the kidnap).

1. She is educated and is the wife a Judge (meaning she may have access to resources in certain circles of government plus she has police orderlies and escorts).

2. She has an informal working relationship with the Nigerian military that pre-dates the Kidnap of the chibok girls.

3. She alleges and suggests that she has a personal relationship with some of the people/youths/individuals that are in the individuals cells that make up boko haram before Boko haram ever existed and not Boko Haram itself as a group including its late leader Mohammed Yusuf.

4. She repeatedly refers to these boko haram fighters as "these children", suggesting a good number of the fighters may either be youths or younger than her by far in age.

5. She never denied ever seeing Shekau or knowing him before, she simply said she never met him during her searches in the bush. In fact she even made reference to a time she went to see Mohammed Yusuf before the Boko Haram campaign started and Shekau denied her access to see Yusuf because she came with a police orderly only for Mohammed Yusuf to come and meet her in her house to plead with her for being turned back by shekau.

See Reference paragraph below
[size=14pt]

"Did you ever meet Shekau while you were going to the bush?

No, I’ve never met Shekau before. "But I knew him face to face. Before the war when I went to greet Mohammed Yusuf, he would block me and not allow me to go in because I had a police orderly then."
So when I returned home, Yusuf later came to my house and started pleading and begging. He used to be a simple, humble person. "But I don’t know what happened and everything became like this."
One day I called Yusuf to my house and asked him if truly there was going to be a war, but he said no. Shekau and Abu Qaqa were on his entourage. Then Yusuf entered my sitting room."[/size]

5. Jonathan initial quietness and denial of the chibok issue was planned and wasn't cluelessness as strong addicts/fans/patrons of APC/Buhari/Tinubu/BBOG will have you believe (Think about it for a minute, why was the Jonathan administration so eager/swift to deny the kidnap when just a phone call to the Borno state ministry of education would have been enough to verify the kidnapping claim.)

See reference paragraph blow

"What do you think is the prospect of rescuing the rest of the Chibok girls?

Assuming I had a clue that they were going to kidnap the girls, I would have been in Chibok sleeping. [size=12pt]Then I would have been in that hall and everybody would be kidnapped. I didn’t know about it. "When I heard about it, I told the government to calm down. They should keep quiet." I was able to pass the message across. I said ‘please start releasing them’. It did not take time before some of the girls were released. So by the time I knew it, the whole thing was in the media. Boko Haram now called me and said mama we are no more releasing. The Chibok girls have become diamond and gold. I asked why? They said even Obama’s wife is carrying ‘Bring Back Our Girls’. They now knew they were very important as attention was focused on them."[/size]

6. There appeared to be an initial disconnect between the Civilian JTF and Military Intelligence which is though unfortunate but understandable considering
a. the level of mistrust of security operatives.
b. the fact that government had initially denied the kidnapping ever took place (which was strategic to her cause and that of DR Davies in their efforts to secure the girls release).

7. Michelle Obama's carrying a "Bring Back Our Girls" banner online gave the girls instant "dollar" value and an opportunity to release the girls in exchange for something significantly substantial than whatever she and DR steven davis where offering.

8. She was never really important to the military (who already had informal working relationship with her) or the government, she was only declared wanted as a publicity stunt else why would military personnel not even know that she is wanted

".....I now went to the reception and I told the lady ‘I am Aisha Wakil, I am wanted’.
She asked me which newspaper and I said ‘you should know’. Then she asked me to write my name on a paper and I did and she went inside......."

9. The Boko haram officials she had contact with after the BBOG hash tags campaign began believed that the expenses she was incurring in the course of her interaction with them wasn't hers probably - note I said probably because she didn't state it for a fact in the interview - she was spending money given to her by Nigerian government, UN meant for them because Abu qaqa said for a fact in her interview that he will kill her for using money/dollars collected from the Federal government and UN on incurred expenses though the details of the expenses where not stated .

............... I spoke to him on the phone once after Abu Qaqa mentioned my name in the newspaper that they were going to kill me because the money I was spending was not from me. That I collected money from the federal government, state government and the United Nations. That they brought money in dollars..........


If her statements are true then I blame Jonathan for not staying his course of action in refusing to confirm their kidnap. All he would have done was to demand an investigation to determine if it were true and use it as a smoke screen, stall and then buy time to allow Aisha and Dr Davis do what they were assigned to do in securing the girls release.........................................however given the amount of pressure internationally and at home most especially from the political actors of the day within the PDP and without, it is understandable that Jonathan didn't continue with that plan.

Also, given her role in the previous rescue attempts, and the sheer arrogance and vulgar approach of the current administration, it is understandable why she was declared wanted in particular. Most likely they declared her wanted as a means to blackmail her to work for the current government and then take credit for the results after.

Unfortunately, it wont be easy because they soiled her reputation and value as an asset in the process of declaring her wanted plus she was much more effective working behind the scenes considering now that ISIS is now technical in charge. Now any one she approaches will demand for cash first, knowing she is most likely a Federal government stooge.

May God comfort the mothers of the missing daughters and the daughters themselves

Caveatemptor:
This woman is a Boko Haram apologist speaking from both sides of her mouth. According to her she never met Shekau face to face but said Shekau was the one always preventing her from Seeing the lat Mohammed Yusuf. How?

She glibly defends the Boko Haram kidnap of the Chibook girls and conveniently blames the failure of the rescue of the girls on Michelle Obama holding up a bbog sign. No Madam Aisha, I refuse to be fooled.
What of the school boys the blood thirsty savages called Boko Haram slaughtered in Buni Yadi? They shot those school boys and burnt all the survivors inside the hostel. This happened a few weeks before Chinook abductions. Who are you going to blame for that terrorist act?
What of the terrorist Boko Haram bombing of the United Nations building in Abuja or the bombing of the Nigeria Police headquarters in Abuja or the bombings of motor parks and markets by these blood thirsty terrorist savaged called Boko Haram?
The journalist asking her questions failed in his duty.
This woman needs to be questioned very well!

She never denied ever seeing Shekau or knowing him before, she simply said she never met him during her searches in the bush. In fact she even made reference to a time she went to see Mohammed Yusuf before the Boko Haram campaign started and Shekau denied her access to see Yusuf because she came with a police orderly only for Mohammed Yusuf to come and meet her in her house to plead with her for being turned back by shekau.

See Reference paragraph below


"Did you ever meet Shekau while you were going to the bush?

No, I’ve never met Shekau before. "But I knew him face to face. Before the war when I went to greet Mohammed Yusuf, he would block me and not allow me to go in because I had a police orderly then."
So when I returned home, Yusuf later came to my house and started pleading and begging. He used to be a simple, humble person. "But I don’t know what happened and everything became like this."
One day I called Yusuf to my house and asked him if truly there was going to be a war, but he said no. Shekau and Abu Qaqa were on his entourage. Then Yusuf entered my sitting room."

[size=18pt]ANALYSIS[/size]

[size=14pt]Let us assume that What she has said in her interview is the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. [/size]

On this assumption, the following facts can be deduced from her statement (Read it over and over again without sentiments and you will discover what I have said is true plus some of her comments are buttressed by political realities that took place during the era of the kidnap).

1. She is educated and is the wife a Judge (meaning she may have access to resources in certain circles of government plus she has police orderlies and escorts).

2. She has an informal working relationship with the Nigerian military that pre-dates the Kidnap of the chibok girls.

3. She alleges and suggests that she has a personal relationship with some of the people/youths/individuals that are in the individuals cells that make up boko haram before Boko haram ever existed and not Boko Haram itself as a group including its late leader Mohammed Yusuf.

4. She repeatedly refers to these boko haram fighters as "these children", suggesting a good number of the fighters may either be youths or younger than her by far in age.

5. She never denied ever seeing Shekau or knowing him before, she simply said she never met him during her searches in the bush. In fact she even made reference to a time she went to see Mohammed Yusuf before the Boko Haram campaign started and Shekau denied her access to see Yusuf because she came with a police orderly only for Mohammed Yusuf to come and meet her in her house to plead with her for being turned back by shekau.

See Reference paragraph below
[size=14pt]

"Did you ever meet Shekau while you were going to the bush?

No, I’ve never met Shekau before. "But I knew him face to face. Before the war when I went to greet Mohammed Yusuf, he would block me and not allow me to go in because I had a police orderly then."
So when I returned home, Yusuf later came to my house and started pleading and begging. He used to be a simple, humble person. "But I don’t know what happened and everything became like this."
One day I called Yusuf to my house and asked him if truly there was going to be a war, but he said no. Shekau and Abu Qaqa were on his entourage. Then Yusuf entered my sitting room."[/size]

5. Jonathan initial quietness and denial of the chibok issue was planned and wasn't cluelessness as strong addicts/fans/patrons of APC/Buhari/Tinubu/BBOG will have you believe (Think about it for a minute, why was the Jonathan administration so eager/swift to deny the kidnap when just a phone call to the Borno state ministry of education would have been enough to verify the kidnapping claim.)

See reference paragraph blow

"What do you think is the prospect of rescuing the rest of the Chibok girls?

Assuming I had a clue that they were going to kidnap the girls, I would have been in Chibok sleeping. [size=12pt]Then I would have been in that hall and everybody would be kidnapped. I didn’t know about it. "When I heard about it, I told the government to calm down. They should keep quiet." I was able to pass the message across. I said ‘please start releasing them’. It did not take time before some of the girls were released. So by the time I knew it, the whole thing was in the media. Boko Haram now called me and said mama we are no more releasing. The Chibok girls have become diamond and gold. I asked why? They said even Obama’s wife is carrying ‘Bring Back Our Girls’. They now knew they were very important as attention was focused on them."[/size]

6. There appeared to be an initial disconnect between the Civilian JTF and Military Intelligence which is though unfortunate but understandable considering
a. the level of mistrust of security operatives.
b. the fact that government had initially denied the kidnapping ever took place (which was strategic to her cause and that of DR Davies in their efforts to secure the girls release).

7. Michelle Obama's carrying a "Bring Back Our Girls" banner online gave the girls instant "dollar" value and an opportunity to release the girls in exchange for something significantly substantial than whatever she and DR steven davis where offering.

8. She was never really important to the military (who already had informal working relationship with her) or the government, she was only declared wanted as a publicity stunt else why would military personnel not even know that she is wanted

".....I now went to the reception and I told the lady ‘I am Aisha Wakil, I am wanted’.
She asked me which newspaper and I said ‘you should know’. Then she asked me to write my name on a paper and I did and she went inside......."

9. The Boko haram officials she had contact with after the BBOG hash tags campaign began believed that the expenses she was incurring in the course of her interaction with them wasn't hers probably - note I said probably because she didn't state it for a fact in the interview - she was spending money given to her by Nigerian government, UN meant for them because Abu qaqa said for a fact in her interview that he will kill her for using money/dollars collected from the Federal government and UN on incurred expenses though the details of the expenses where not stated .

............... I spoke to him on the phone once after Abu Qaqa mentioned my name in the newspaper that they were going to kill me because the money I was spending was not from me. That I collected money from the federal government, state government and the United Nations. That they brought money in dollars..........


If her statements are true then I blame Jonathan for not staying his course of action in refusing to confirm their kidnap. All he would have done was to demand an investigation to determine if it were true and use it as a smoke screen, stall and then buy time to allow Aisha and Dr Davis do what they were assigned to do in securing the girls release.........................................however given the amount of pressure internationally and at home most especially from the political actors of the day within the PDP and without, it is understandable that Jonathan didn't continue with that plan.

Also, given her role in the previous rescue attempts, and the sheer arrogance and vulgar approach of the current administration, it is understandable why she was declared wanted in particular. Most likely they declared her wanted as a means to blackmail her to work for the current government and then take credit for the results after.

Unfortunately, it wont be easy because they soiled her reputation and value as an asset in the process of declaring her wanted plus she was much more effective working behind the scenes considering now that ISIS is now technical in charge. Now any one she approaches will demand for cash first, knowing she is most likely a Federal government stooge.

May God comfort the mothers of the missing daughters and the daughters themselves

SmartChoices:
Stop telling people to shut up.

Stop telling people to stop telling people to shut up in this CHAIN-JI era!!

Wait............ Lemme ask Lai mohammed first

Oya you can tell them now..........

joseph1832:
It's no news that the OP is a PDP sympathiser and a GEJ apologist!.

The OP should tell us what significant progress the likes of Iweala, Diezani and Co made in the lives of Nigerians?

Me!! A GEJ apologist!!

Well, considering the current state of the affairs of my beloved country, Nigeria - from sports, to security, etc!! And your lack lustre contribution to this thread so far, I willingly accept that as a compliment.

Who get wailers form dia abeg.....

MY HUMBLE RESPONSE -Team GEJ vs Team Buhari.

US Secretary John Kerry came into Nigeria and met with Buhari; he said these words to Buhari, "you inherited a BIG problem".

In addition, everyone you meet today, have this question to ask, "how on earth did we slide into the bermuda triangle of recession in a short period of time?".

My answer to Kerry and anyone with such question is simple; we were in a serious game, and we made the WRONG SUBSTITUTIONS in KEY areas.

Just like a football game, once key substitutions are wrong the game is automatically lost, it's not rocket science.

PRESIDENT:
Out- Dr Goodluck Ebele Jonathan
In- Mallam Mohammedu Buhari

MINISTER OF PETROLEUM
Out - Dr Alison Madueke
In- Mallam Mohammed Buhari

MINISTER OF FINANCE
Out- Dr Okonjo Iweala
In- linguist Kemi Adeosun

MINISTER OF AGRICULTURE
Out- Dr Akinwumi Adesina
In- Ancestor Audu Ogbeh.

After making these substitutions in the four most critical sectors of the country, if you like call them the pillars of our economy; there is only one outcome and that is RECESSION. Even if God sends Jonah here, and the whale brings him down (because he must refuse to come to Nigeria in this time and era when every foreign investor is leaving including the indigenes, even the whale will be scared let hungry people don't eat it) Jonah will still fail to revive the economy with these jokers in these key areas. Obama will fail with this team.

It's not rocket science, you can't replace an Okonjo Iweala with a kemi and expect a miracle to happen (kemi is interested in speaking good English, unfortunately the economy doesn't hear good English).

You can't replace an Akinwumi with an aging frail Ogbeh and expect miracles (Ogbeh wants to import grass for his cows, that's his priority); how can a 74yr old secondary school dropout and religious bigot be more effective and efficient than a 58yr PhD holder?? (Buhari just wants Islam to spread, even though it means Christians been burnt alive and also he wants Biafra to DIE).

Pretending that our recent problems are not tied to these wrong substitutions, is evil and treason itself. And yes Kerry you are right, Buhari inherited a BIG PROBLEM, a country that had the largest economy in Africa and third fastest growing economy in the world is a BIG PROBLEM for a 74yr old secondary school dropout.

It's like telling my little niece who will be 9 months by 2nd of September, to count one to 10. As simple as the task might be, she will not be able; same with the Almighty Buhari, if you like give him all the executive emergency power, in Ameachi's voice "he won't do NATIN".
I leave you with TEAM GEJ vs TEAM

BUHARI; if you had a company, who will be your directors? I'm 100% sure that even the most moronic, idiotic and foolish APC supporter will take the former over the latter.

I am Oyinemi Nicholas Endeley, a son from the IZON KINGDOM and I just want to make commonsense. DAZZIT AND DAZZOL 4 NOW.
#Still on Jesus is Lord

CULLED FROM A VIBRANT FACEBOOKER

tropaz:
I have never cheated on my gf before. But I have a huge crush on tiwa.....
I see no blemish in her....
She's just everything.

I wish u know au much I can give up everything to have u...cutie!!!

That was exactly what Tee-Billz said. Until he met edible catering........

Even Nigerian artists are feeling the change as e dey hot....which way Nigeria.



Under Goodluck Jonathan. TRANSFORMATION ERA (AKA Fresh air)
Orezi: $1million in my pocket.
Davido: Emi Omo baba olowo.

Under Buhari. CHANGE ERA(I belong to everybody and I belong to nobody - not even Aisha, talkless of Tinubu -)

Orezi: alaye double your Hustle
Davido: Biko yem Ego

Isn't it about time that technocrats, wailing wailers and hailing hailers begin to constructively use criticisms to take on this government.

From our budget which is now experiencing menstrual flow and is constantly being padded, to the billions that have been returned from looting looters from the losers circle only (Aka PDP) and yet government is still borrowing to fund budgets (I said budgets cos I am sure which version of the budget we are using, whether light, medium or heavy padded) to the "Abacha is not a thief gospel", to "government is silently working out the fulani crisis", to the never ending prosecution of dasuki, to Mrs " we will continue to stimulate the economy till it recovers", to the United states of Nigeria and TSA, to "Technical defeats and victories" of Islamic terrorists meanwhile ISIS is now in full command in Nigeria and has stretched it hold from Sambisa to maiduguri to bauchi.

I, amongst many Nigerians who no sabi run like usain bolt and whey no get dual citizenship, a "quarter" caste and not half caste (From Edo state, raised in Lagos and ibadan, lived with igbos and served in Jos) am not ready to do refugee in this country nor anywhere in the world for that matter.

My advise is: can we Nairalanders as well begin to show more consideration for the facts on ground and begin to focus more on providing room for criticism of this government. No lies, no assumptions, no anonymous sources from presidency or efcc or apc, no media blitz or "Lai Mohammed Facts". Just the facts.

A smart Journalist on CNN once said "everyone is entitled to their own truths but no one is entitled to their own facts".

Let us remember that as long as we are in the country our peace is tied to it. If it has peace, we in it will have peace; if it doesn't, we won't

Please lets us look objectively and constructively (at this point I wish I was a paid mod, at least I will have access to the ban and unban button) .

I will like us to look at the state of the Nation as a whole and ask ourselves honestly if the Nation as a whole - and not buhari as an individual - is on track.

If it is, state why. If it isn't, what do you think we need to do to put it back on track.

Feel free to reference Jonathan but we are not talking about Jonathan nor his administration.

For those who can't remember, he handled power from 2010 and handed over power May 29 2015 to Gen Buhari rtd.

Buhari became president from may 29 2015 till date (17 months plus). He is in review.

All those who feel the country is not on track click like, all those who feel the country is on track click share and state your reasons.

I believe there are probably graduates in here (who never lost their original certificates; if you know what I mean - just a joke -)

spartacus11:
since when misplacing ur cert now turns corruption, do u reason from ur anus?

Well!! U whey dey reason without anus nkwa............where did I make mention of Obaseki being corruption in my comment

Which kind international painment be this............... whey Zombie no go allow me comment, drink water, keep cup.

My question remains unanswered...........................Obaseki lost e certificate, buhari lost e certificate. We never still recover from buhari certificate saga, Obaseki don enter the place......................must APC always field people whey lost certificate?? No be throway I go throway my certificate so??

Can't APC for once look for somebody that go the school to present..................no wonder every tom, dic.k and godwin wanna join APC.

Immediately you join, instantly you are incorruptible and highly learned by the power of the broom.

A bag of pure water in town is #350 already, one is #20. Na who go change am #500 na e APC wan bring as governor right?? The thunder whey go soon fire them don go buy kerosene................e go soon come.

Some of the greatest of the greatest chain smokers of our time all in one one pisure .................

aadvark:
are you from The United States of Nigeria?

who knows?? Could be from Republic of Biafra

aadvark:
are you from The United States of Nigeria?

who knows?? Could be from Republic of Biafra

Babztemmy:
@freshraymond. Thank you. We dated for only two months. But we knew we liked eachother. The mistake we made was we had no clue it doesn't and by liking. Okay now we both now actually realise we don't understand each other AT ALL. When we argue he reminds me that it was his mum who begged him to stay cause I was pregnant for him but planned pregnancy we both planned it. When we argue he also reminds me of how he wished he never settled down with me. When he is angry like this am his greatest night mare. Sometimes I just want to run away as in far away from him. He HATES me sooo much when he is angry. What keeps me going is he is really nice. He is a very nice guy and that's my encouragement he gives me everything I ask for, interms of finances, and then our sexual life is perfect. BUT the understanding each other aspect is not working. I don't know what else to do

This may sound quite awkward, but from the moment I saw this thread and the opening post; all I could just see is "affair! affair!! affair!!!".

Considering that you liked each other at one time and that you "planned" your first pregnancy together, I posit that he may have another woman who is giving him the romance his soul needs.

In or out of the bedroom, every man craves for some form of romance; something that reminds him of his value as a man.

And if he isn't receiving it from you, he is getting it from someplace else. At this point I suggest you look for someone who you mutually respect and seek their intervention about your concerns (it could be a religious cleric or an uncle or family member).

Also try and remain prayerful and continue to observe the situation for opportunities to bring in a little bit of romance - or occasions to show you appreciate him as your husband.

herbie27:
Barack Hussein Obama.

my able world president, with the best brain.

Not the one we have here.

Taaaa!!! My Friend, stop that breakdance. R U a wailer!!??

The one we have hia is ok!! One of the best brains as well.

It is his ears that we are worried about!!

I thought I was the only one that noticed Ooh!! Law student have a dress code which is quite different from what the boy is wearing. Except he had change from his school wear before he was shot.

Horsesmouth:
When only you knows what's going on in DSS and Customs!

I don't expect my words to be taken as facts. My comments are simply a matter of opinion based on my obervation(s).

In any case, I doubt you are even aware that at the start of this administration; that all DCG's of customs resigned in one, in one day while on leave in protest.

Neither are you aware of Osibanjo quick visit and have ever read the address he gave to officers and men of the custom service when letters started flying.

A simple chat with PSO's within both services is enough to clear whatever doubts you may or may not have.

Feel free to Quote me anywhere, anyday, anytime.

dopedealer:
Pls i am not taking sides but lets not judge based on what 1 or 2 people said about a whole service that has over 15000 staff.The voluntires may have there personal reasons for leaving. It is not all report that is true. You cant please everybody!!

Trust me !! I personally know folks in the service - 3 - that have put in their letters of resignation and moved to the US.

One submitted letter the week he did court wedding and has gotten a job in the states. He don take off, madam will follow later.

The other 2 went earlier than this my guy. Its no lie bro!! Its a fact.............the same thing almost happened in customs, if not that Osibanjo went to see top echelon of the service and calmed frayed nerves......

thats how Buhari rolled in 84!! Its no surprise, all security agencies get bastardized and unfair treatmentr except the army!!

Good for una!

Next time una go use una PVC's well!!

Iconicface:
Call this number 070304515137

But this number is wrong!!??

ba7man:
Budget padding had always been the norm under PDP administrations.

Imagine if it was during GEJ'S administration this was discovered........ he would have personally buried the case himself.

It's Buhari's continued refusal to sign the padded budget that called attention to this act that had bled the Nation for years under PDP.


They have no moral right to talk.

Legal rights nko?? Don't they have legal rights to talk; same as you?

MadCow1:
I nominate you for Ambassador

Thank U for ya nomination. At least it was hard won by displaying simple understanding of the text of our Nation's anthem.

Just imagine Obama endorsing/re-endorsing some woman for ambassadorial appointment and she nor sabi american National anthem.

Forget US congress, na michelle go first ask am which style she give you?? Doggy or 69 or missionary!!?

Well! With the kind of NASS we have you can never tell whether na dollar or puna she wan use take collect ambassadorial appointment.

Olodo diplomat without better diploma
Nonsense.......

MadCow1:
Who died and made your Nan a yardstick for juding Ambassadorial candidates?



And just so you know, its 3 versions of the national amthem namely; Nigeria we hail thee, O' God of Creation and Arise O Compatriots.


SO your Grandma was not Legendary like you thought..

Come Madcow1!!! Don't embarrass me hia, abi R U a confirmed olodo too!!??

I tell U say we don close National anthem chapter since Nursery 1; you dey hia dey submit wawa parade.

And for the record, "O God of Creation" is the second Stanza of our National Anthem.

If you are still in doubt, make google ya friend.

Still quote me anywhere, anyday, anytime.

O God of creation
Direct our Noble cause
Guide our leaders right.........that's the second stanza of the National anthem!!

Nonsense ambassadorial nominees!!

My grandma never had the luxury of Basic education - Form 3 was her last bus-stop - but even she can give sound rendition of both anthems (Nigeria we hail thee and Arise O Compatriots)!!

Then you want someone who doesn't even know the anthem of her country to be an ambassador to represent that country?? Rubbish!!

The National anthem is always and always one of the trivias you must answer during ambassadorial interviews and she even refused to learn that one......that is worst case of diplomatic Olodo!!

If no be connection whey she get, isn't she supposed to be struck off the list of shortlisted candidates immediately!!?? What sort of rubbish is this??

Even the last Olodo in grammar school can recite National anthem!

For the record, forget about Nigeria we hail thee. First and second stanza of the National anthem na E we use take close Nursery 1 chapter. Anybody that can't recite it or even mime/sing it, is a confirmed Olodo.

Quote me anywhere, anyday anytime.

Nonsense

Confirm from ya local dibia!!

princetom1:
Don't come to nairaland later and cry u have been scammed o. A word is enough for the wise

Bros Eyyyyiiiieee!!!

With the way this Nigerian economy dey go so, even a word sef is too much for the foolish, not to talk of the wise!!

Na this kind person na e we dey call "Mr Adannma" for Airforce Mess!!

Of which "Adannma Eh, na sweargbeh"!!!

This man is owing between 2 - 3 months salary and is sharing yams!!

Aregbesola of Foolish APC is owing over 6months even after bailout and e no even share purewater......na to dey share roaster for school uniform na e, e sabi.

Now in Osun state, all schools, both private and government schools have been directed to wear the same Uniform, both private and government school, from primary to secondary schools.........

Aregbe should go and collect learners form from fayose before it is too late Oooh!!

At least now Ekiti people are seeing their yams.....

Destined2win:
oga let's be realistic, there is little or nothing buhari can do to assist Germany. When it comes to security, Nigeria has a lot to learn

Learn ke??

Na to first expose/admit a potential student to a school/learning environment before learning go take place.

We never even get admission, not to talk of learning....

dipopooo:
Op i guess u forgot to add... Taking owner straight to heaven.

Haba #58M? I will conveniently build 50 houses wit dat amount of money in my village.

50 houses!!??

Okokobioko!! Na e be say the richest man for ya village na Kito sandals na e, e dey wear!!

Na e be say that ya village local pass Daura!!

Na so agbero take start for lagos!! Now Buhari himself wan use Ogeh do agbero!!

Its alright......

Senator Dino: Dino in bourdillion street in Lagos now, Walking down the street waiting for noisemakers. Eyin da?

Translation: Enter the place, make I see if you no go carry belle too......