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Is it not your name?


Nigerians with titles and fake respect

vanemo:
My dear I listen yo her too oh. Infact, I discuss many vital things with her. It's not like I take decisions and lord it over her. This time, I was just trying to explain why I wouldn't be able to provide the 300k now but later because of upcoming financial engagements that are more pressing. Instead of her to stay put and hear me out, she just walked away which is a sign of disrespect and not the first time she is doing such.

She didn't walk away to disrespect you she walked away because tempers were high and she wanted you to cool down both of you to cool down she didn't want to stay and say something she will regret.

Go and Google conflict resolution skills learn them. How can your mind run to violence over minor domestic issue

Oga these are normal marital communication gaps that conflict resolution skills can heal.

Your wife doesn't disrespect you she only has her own personality as you have your own..

Since discussions end with tempers rising you could write to each other. Listen to her too. You are not Lord and master

forkadict:
So where in the article did CCB declare Saraki had no case to answer? Is it that difficult to read and understand this little piece? Saraki only submitted a no case please and the CCB has reserved ruling.
Na wa o

The Code Of Conduct Tribunal has ruled that Senate president, Dr. Bukola Saraki has no case to answer in the 18 charges of non-declaration of assets brought against him by the Federal Government.

Make a financial plan together based on both your incomes, who earns more does more but you both need to equally pull your weight.


Talk to him about sharing chores don't die in anger and silence.

Goodluck

You should have filed first, you have now given him more power

EfemenaXY:
Why isn't your son's broken arm wrapped in POP?

Why is he exerting pressure on broken bones that should be wrapped up and left to heal?

They are with a traditional healer, unfortunately they just do trial and error and may mess up the arm more before running to the hospital later

Call 08057000001 and the report the police station who said they cannot do anything. Police men will be sent over as soon as you do

Nothing unusual my son prefers his father since he was about 6 months old, his father is more fun and probably loves him more.
His father bathes him more feeds him more and even strolls with him, infact the day I attempted to follow them out my son was shouting that I should go back.
I have made my peace with it sha, maybe before fathers were not close to their kids so we assumed kids loved their mother's more but now fathers make more time to be with their kids hence we see it as strange that they love them more.

Nonsense juju.

Go to the Police with a court order or simply with two strong men and pick her things.

First of all she is not a jobless woman who will have 5 hours during a week day to dress to kill for an event, she is a judge.

She probably finished sitting for the day. Flew in immediately and had her hair tied on the plane and went straight to the event from the airport.


Stay jobless on Nairaland and be criticising a Senior Federal Judge and a Governor's wife at least Seun will soon start paying

Has he resigned though?

Just asking ohhhhhhh.

Remember the first Chibok Girl Freed " Amina Ali" she was released on the 16 th of may last year a few days to democracy day to celebrate Buharis one year in office

Now again a few days to his second year in Office another set have been released.

Is this how they will be released for democracy day till he leaves office?

The timing is a little too convenient, I am one of those who marched for the chibok girls but this all sounds a little bit too convenient for me.

Anytime Nigerians say there is nothing to show to celebrate Democracy Day Chibok Girls get released.


Is this deliberate?

Do they hold the negotiations only when democracy day is approaching so they can use that as some achievement?

I am starting to believe that this was all a ploy

Pidgin2:
I hope you aren't planning to invite more than 100 people? If you want people to be happy after your wedding, with your budget invite only very close family and friends, don't tell too many people about it. It's better to invite a few guests that will leave the venue satisfied and well fed than to have guests that will leave hungry as they will never stop mocking you

Plan N700/one person (feeding)

God bless your marriage

Let them mock, they are the hungry people who cannot eat in their house and are greedily waiting for someone's wedding to go and eat there.

Abeg a couple getting married should be concerned about building a Home not about hungry people mocking them

First step is admitting there is a problem which you have done.

This happens when one has verbally abusive parents who will leave the issue and start attacking the person.

Now you have to reach the point when you realise your husband is not attacking you but disagreeing over an issue.

Issues will come and go and you will resolve it like every other couple it doesn't make you a bad person if your spouse doesn't like some things it only makes you human like everyone.

Don't listen to anyone saying increase your budget my sister, your plans are good and correct.


It is just 3 hours you should use any extra money to fund your new home. You are not trying to impress anybody abeg.

There are serious bills post wedding especially in this Buhari economy.

Anybody on Nairaland who thinks what you are spending is not enough can send donations and contributions.


Your plan and budget is good and perfect abeg, you can upgrade your ring in future when things are better

Poster don't listen to myopic people declaring your husband impotent.

He told you pre wedding that he doesn't want kids.

The economy is bad the world is going crazy, his reasons are valid.

Ask those who are chanting impotence why they want kids they won't have any tangible reasons apart from quoting scriptures selfish reasons and things society has told them. Try to get a job and combine financial forces with him then bring up the issue again if he refuses then you can decide what you want.

Your husband is bold for daring to be different

bukatyne:
Your problem is not a lack of employment; your problem is that your husband no longer (did he ever?) respects/love you and I tell you that even if you get a job today, he might have something else to hassle you about.

However, a lot of husbands don't/will not respect their wives if they brought 'nothing' financially to the table; even Yorubas call it 'alabodo'... a wife you feed to mess

@Stay at home mom: why did you decide to stay at home? Was it a joint decision or you felt that was what the home needed at that point. If it's the latter, then it's obviously not what your marriage needs and you need to dust your behind.

You also need to sort out the issue of infidelity (if you are bothered) and bad mouthing.... getting a job will not stop that.

@Men who don't want 'professional' wives who say 'yes sir' to bosses: no everyone aspires to sell rice & beans or have a supermarket...

And it is a delusional to think that you won't say yes sir to your customers if you want your business to grow.

President Buhari still says 'yes sir' to his godfathers.

Only few people have the luxury of not saying 'yes sir' to anyone and there is nothing wrong in serving people. Even the Bible says... You see the man diligent in his business; he will stand before (serve) kings and not mere men.

She is not a stay at home she has a job a contract job that is apparently not good enough for him

Madam if you need a job say you need a job don't come and emotionally blackmail people to give you a job by claiming abuse.


If the issues with your husband are as you mentioned then you have greater problems than finding a job because he will find something else to use and abuse you.


Nobody will give you a job just so you can satisfy your husband

This was yesterday poster no where in the report did EFCC say it is her money and this has been overtaken by events.

Lying and saying it is breaking news is dishonest.

The latest news shows the money belongs to NIA

Am I the only one thinking that this is a common scam format?

Get close to a lady, declare your mom sick and ask for loan then disappear when it is time to pay?

Has he paid you back yet?

This is a common scam but mostly for online love.

Apologies if this is no scam

TonyeBarcanista:
How can you be able to employ the service of security man and yet unable to buy better boxer?

Well, if a wife is having affair with anybody, Christian tenet demand that she be put away, having broken the marriage vow if the man is unable to forgive...

Secondly, the Gateman's child is the responsibility of the gateman and not the Christian husband. The man loses his job and move away with his kid...

There is no need for controversy.

You cannot forgive as a good Christian man? Bible says 70*7 times ohhhhhhh.

I hope it is the same advise for the wife in similar situation.

Some people are dirty and careless with personal hygiene

As a born again spirit filled man what would you do if your wife is sleeping with your family doctor?

Situation 2: What would you do if your wife got pregnant for your security Man and you are impotent

I will advise that you first check your self see you are doing something wrong like not making enough money, wearing dirty and torn boxers, forgetting romance etc?

Also go to God in prayers so the heart of your wife would turn back to you

Google is your friend. Case is already in court:



Stephanie Otobo, the 23 year-old lady who claimed that Apostle Johnson Suleman had a romantic affair with her, was docked on Monday in Lagos.

She was docked at a Tinubu Chief Magistrates’ Court, and accused of conspiracy, blackmail, threat to life and an intent to steal.

She was charged along with a 43 year-old, man identified as Wisdom Godstime.



The prosecutor, M. A Animashaun, informed the court that the defendants and others at large committed the alleged offence on February 14, 2017, at about 10:30am, at Police College, Ikeja Lagos.

NAN.ng.
http://punchng.com/stephanie-otobo-charged-with-blackmail/

As a born again spirit filled man what would you do if your wife is sleeping with your family doctor?

Situation 2: What would you do if your wife got pregnant for your security Man?

I will advise that you first check your self see you are doing something wrong like not making enough money, wearing dirty and torn boxers, forgetting romance etc?

Also go to God in prayers so the heart of your wife would turn back to you

blessme2019:
Correlate any of this photos to the one of the protest

You cannot see the T-shirts abi? Where the protest is clearly written on the Tees smh

Such a shame that this Government stoops so low

Anytime you want to discover hypocrisy of women just bring money issue. Then equality flies out of the window, decency and honesty we demand from men disappears.

Ha, fear God biko Nairaland women.
Stealing is stealing lying is lying no justification or excuse abeg.


Oga I suggest you deduct the exact amount from her next allowance let her understand actions have consequences and stealing is not tolerated in your home.

If she has friends like some women here advising her that stealing from the family purse is normal let her learn it isn't in your own home

First of all poster is a teenager attention seeker. See his previous posts.


Secondly the hypocrisy is amazing if this post was true nothing justifies stealing

bukatyne:
I don't think a single can adopt a child legally.

Let her find out more.

Single women above 35 can adopt

Have you noticed that the Buhari supporters are worse than those of Jonathan? Those who El-rufai referred to as " 40 man laptop crew". It turns out that they are a group of paid bloggers and Internet users whose job it is to sell propaganda, share false achievements of this Government and when the government is on The hot seat for non performance they leak a story of corruption to divert attention.

Prof Farooq leaked the story and now others are sharing. There is also a list of bloggers and Internet users being paid to do this, they have said they will share later.

So next time you come across someone insulting those who do not blindly support the President please understand that they are on pay roll to do so
There is even money provided for them in 2017 budget. I am suspecting some people here sef


Buhari Media Centre: What I know about it.

Since Prof. Farooq Kperogi made his 'revelation' about Buhari Media Center (BMC), many persons have come out with their own analysis. Is the name really BMC and is it truly secret?

In 2015, soon after President Muhammadu Buhari won election, modalities were put in place to accommodate most persons who worked for him on the social media, NOT journalists, but mainly top bloggers and social media influencers.

Garba Shehu was saddled with the responsibility and he gave the office which Atiku used as his media office to the team and named it BUHARI MEDIA ORGANIZATION (BMO). The condition for working there was that everyone selected has to relocate to Abuja. Most persons especially Lagos bloggers refused to relocate, even though less than 10 of them did. The money was penned at N250,000 monthly, which was too meagre for yours sincerely.

None of those working there use pen names but names already known with them on social media. Most of the persons who finally accepted the work are mainly on twitter and owners of powerful blogs.

From what I was told in 2015, the salaries would be paid by a certain rich Alhaji who's in support of Buhari and the place will be headed by Garba Shehu. My question then was "is this man so rich that he will pay 50 persons N12.5 million monthly without contracts from Buhari and in turn inflate it just to accommodate BMO?

Lauretta Onochie who's Buhari's PA on Social media was a member of the team. That was why I was the first to announce that Buhari had penned her down for the position 6 months before it happened.

There's no denying the fact that BMO exists but they don't use pseudonym to write. I remember that when it started, salaries were usually delayed until Garba stepped in to settle it.

But here's the shocker, over N100 million has been budgeted in 2017 budget for BMO in the name of bloggers meeting.

My last visit there was September 2016. It's a cream color one storey building located at Okonjo-Iweala drive with a black gate and enough parking space inside.

BMO exists but until 2017 budget came out, I'm not aware that the presidency pays them, even though the truth may have been hidden from some of us.

~Fejiro Oliver via Uteteneigiabi Tsar

What exactly is the aim of this post?

Should we start a go fund me page to raise 20 million for your sister? I don't understand.