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You are still a child.

Good things happen to Good people, also, Good things happen to Bad people.

Likewise;

Bad things happen to Good people, also, Bad things happen to Bad people.

Na Time and Chance just deh play out.

Man gat nothing to lose.

I can't seem to access GTB's mobile app all day.

Big Men.

There's time for everything. Time to hustle. Time to enjoy the harvest of your hustle.

Never to marry.

Getting my kid out of wedlock.


My Life, My Personal Rules.

Oh

The lady should be the one kneeling to collect the ring, you Mo'rfucker.

During una relationship, you deh come through for her.

Una breakup. Go separate ways.

Fate still bring Una together and this time, just like previous times, she still want you to come through for her after rejecting you.

Na you Sabi sha. Na your money, so na you know how to spend am.

Good one!

Dude is a good player.

The mind of Humans.

The mind of a Woman.

Women, being the calculating gender, know all too well to hit the gym months prior to a breakup.
She's not getting in shape for you, she's getting ready to hit the ground running with the next guy she'll be fucking. -RM

This happened to my neighbor four years back.
My neighbor even got her the expensive Adidas sneakers she used for her gym sessions.
"My babe is keeping fit and maintaining her shape"

Within a month she dun begin fu#k a professional athlete she met at the gym.

Her close friend secretly leaked the whole thing to him. He did his investigation and caught her red handed.

Breakfast was served.
My neighbor went into depression for a long time. That Bross over invest for that girl head sha, all in the name of having/impressing a "Trophy Girl Friend"

CaveAdullam:
DAY 158, REDPILL 2022

Simping first starts with her making excessive little demands, and you continue to give in because these demands are small and incomparable. Then, a time comes when she will ask for something big and you want to give in because she has never asked for something these comparable to larger demands.

Since you are obstinate in proving your undying love for her, you continue to dig a pit beneath you that you'll eventually fall into, because women's demands like other humans are innumerable, and their taste buds insatiable. Even worse because for women, if your poverty or philanthropic alleviation scheme ends, their leeching love ends immediately.

Authority: Be wise.

So damn accurate.

Their demands always starts like drops of water. Little things one could give without much stress.

With time, the pressure increases in a very crafty and subtle manner.

Knowledge is bliss.

You were smart.

You came into this world alone.

She came into this world alone as well.

In the later stage of Una life, Una paths crossed.

Being humans, Una brian secrets Oxytocin(love hormone) and you say you dun fall in love.

Now ask yourself this; how can a woman who is not your mother nor your sister love you unconditionally?

It's all survival.

You reading this, yes, you! You still won't listen! Why?
Because you're ignorant, and a slave to Konji.

Young men;

Are you a teenager?

Are you in your twenties?

Are you in your thirties?

Are planning on getting married?


Never be a nice guy, especially to Women.


Definition of a nice guy:
Heavily prioritizing a woman's needs/wants/interests/happiness before yours. Viewing a lady as your World, your oxygen, your happiness, your soulmate, your angel, faultless.

She will punish you rootlessly.

Understand women nature as much as you can. With that, you can easily see through their veils.

Think! Think young men. Use your God given brians.

Emma? Lol
Them for mention the guy name in full with him Last, middle and first name.

Make the Mamiwata no go strike the wrong Emma.

If only una know how many Emmas dun nack these Oloshos.

The answer to your question is a YES, and also a NO.

If you believe it's still possible to clinch your dream of a 1st class, then it's very much possible.

If you believe you it's now a mirage, then you won't attain it.

No be strangers suppose tell you the possibility of your goal.


You have 3 to 4 semesters to go. Do your maths regarding the remaining CGPA to go, and pursue your target. No fear.


Addition: Practice Semen Retention during these last 3 to 4 semesters, with your goal in mind at all time. You go nail that goal of yours!

Ayoleeboy007:
Drive her to the airport, stop in the middle of the road and tell her the car has spoil let her come down then start making fake phone calls to your mechanic for about 1hr. Tell her to assist you in pushing the car so you can park well before lastma hold you (make sure she push the car from the back you can assist from the driver side). By then she must have missed her flight minus the heat from the scorching Sun including the embarrassment of seen pushing the car by people on the highway. After 2 hours start the car act surprise , thank God and continue the journey.

The next day tell her you just came back from the mechanic, call her to come stroll with you in the car to test it if it's working Na she go tell you say she no de around.

Men with no balls.

If he tell direct NO. he go die.

Telling him to make a scene.

Men with no balls.

Felimax:
@29, you are still a kid, Period!

Don't get it twisted bro, some guys can be 25 and they are already matured. Ok?

You simply don't know what you want. You tentatively lack the vision of what it takes to be a man.

Perhaps, you are just another variant of sex in a man's body, presently in America you can be referred to as an X sex.

You are 29 but your brain is 18, please pardon my been blunt with you. Sooner or later you will fight hard to look for the angels you are throwing away, then God may have given up on you. Then later you will equally rush to Nairaland and start screaming how there is no good girl to get married to.

The disease that will kill a dog will first take away it's sense of smell.

Trash!

OP don't listen to that trash.

You are a man and you are completely normal. There's a reason for everything. Search within you, meditate in a serine environment, you will find out why you feel that way about relationships.

No be another Homo Sapien go decide for you weda you be Man or not.

Marriage comes with a lot of financial responsibilities. In most situations, the bulk, if not all of the financial burden lies on the shoulder of the MAN.

As humans, we are emotionally attached to our money. Most men don't have their emotions under control. They allow their emotions control them.

For that reason, most men feel drained psychologically and emotionally whenever money leaves their pocket(not like what's in the pocket is even surplus to begin with).

That alone is enough to make most financially incapacitated married men moody, because the money leaves their pockets on a regular basis, all for the up keep of the Wife and Kids, neglecting himself.

Apart from a stingy, nonchalant husband, most money spent by a married man does not directly benefit him.

Married men that ain't financial buoyant. I see them as sacrificial lambs.

...all in the name of maintaining societal norms. Your income ain't enough for two, you come go add children join.

Na overthinking go be him Solace.

luminouz:
Counselling for what bro? Sleeping with your own wife? Fada Lawd!

I'd reject it if I were you!!! Tell her what you want is more sex, that's all. What exactly is the counselor going to say that will make your wife suddenly open her legs for you? Is the counselor her aphrodisiac or something? She even asked you to pay for the counselling because she is not the one who needs it, it's you, so the stewpid counselor will advise you give her time to adjust to some more BS, and spend more money on useless sessions that benefits only your wife and the counselor (by getting more money). If she cared about her sexual life or her husband, she would have gone alone for that counselling with HER MONEY, without even telling you.

You want solutions? Follow Newsoul suggestion. Play the game and if she still doesn't change but you love her and your kids, get a second wife. I support it absolutely.

You firing from all cylinders!
Nice one!

Men need the hard truth.

NewSoul:
Shut up there
You are the m.o.r.o.n here. I put it to you that if OP hires 3 housemaids that stranger he calls wife won't change a bit. And if he peradventure follow this your ridiculous advice he'll be moving from fry pan to fire. The disrespect will double. I can bet my whole life savings on that

Op once again don't heed to the advice of the confused specie above. Never report any family matter to your wife's parents. She won't change, she'll resent and disrespect you more for not being man enough to handle her and instead going to her parents like a "cry baby" in extreme cases the parents might support their daughter we've seen it happen many times.

Have you heard of this saying..."hell hath no fury like a woman scorned". When a woman wants to destroy you there's no remedy o. Even this confused sna-ke advising you above, the advice she's giving you won't work on her assuming she was your wife. I have never seen a man that took a relationship advice from a woman and everything went well.

Just do what I said and if she does not change please let her find her way out of your life. Marriage is not by force. There are many young single ladies praying for husbands waiting to take her place. Op stop being soft on that woman!

God bless you for telling the OP the raw undiluted truth.
God bless you for taking out of your valuable time to help him out.

trueSeeker01:
how can i delete daughters of eve completely from my life i think they r problem. i spent 27 years on this earth but i cant focus all i think is sex, the sex that i dont get unless i give my hard earned money.

You have discovered the problem. Now, work on your Will-power.

Life is more blissful when you can control your emotions and urges.

Control the horse, don't be weak and allow the horse ride you.

Exercise... Start to workout. Use that Konji energy to workout rather than spilling your sperm on worthless hoes.

Politics.

Time dun reach weh them go begin feed our ears and eyes with lies again.

Just the way Buhari and APC do us for 2015.

Too bad, these politicians know we get short memories and once again, their lies and formats go still sell to the hungry masses.

The man loves children naturally.

If that man is to do a DNA test, e sure me say some of those kids no be him own.

You have two children already.
You don't need marriage.

Ebubu3:
Exactly my situation

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I was never pleasant, I never got physical with her, but whenever she insulted me, I would block her on WhatsApp for few days, or just prefer to be alone.


But I did so so so much for her. That even the boyfriend she left me for, has never done for her.
Infact the amount of aid I’ve given her since she left the relationship pass the assistance her boyfriend don give am as they’re dating imagine your ex aiding you more than the boyfriend you went to after leaving him can make you look stupid
but hey before you bash me I do the assistance same way i assist anyone who begs me for assistance, now they’ve broken up from what she’s telling me but such is life for you.

Even after leaving you, she still deh collect retirement benefits from you.
Chai. Na Una deh fuel these girls entitlement mentality.

Absolute Power.

Man was pained!

No much worries Mr. Klopp.
UCL deh for you.

CCTV neighbors.


Go get busy with your own live. If you happen to be busy with your own life, you for no deh that kind neighborhood with such low income earners.

Have you thought of other perspective?

What if she's getting the money from her SIMP boyfriend whom happens to be a successful Tech guru, successful crypto trader, or other online field.



See as he settle down describ him neighbor full assets and even income. Even know wetin deh happen for inside him neighbor house.


I will forever live amongst the rich, where everyone minds their own peaceful business.


I will forever be against girls depending on their boyfriends, they should go get a job.
Same time, I will hit brutally on aproko neighbors poke nosing into their neighbours affairs and making stupid hasty conclusions without knowing the full story behind the scenes.