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My guess;

This must be one of those "arranged/been referred" kind of marriage.

Weh be say the man dun make money finish, he wan settle down marry, but he no too understand Female nature, he go come holla him sister or loved ones to help am look for wife to marry.

Sometimes, e deh end well, sometimes, e deh end like this.

They won't listen.


When they cum, then, they cum to their senses.
The cycle goes on and on.

Some men are ready to spend 80% of their salary on top ASHAwo. Then, they turn around and blame the economy for their self inflicted injuries. Haha

PointZerom:
It is wrong. I just greet and pass and pretend to be smiling when need be, nothing more.

No, you are the wrong one here, not him.
Why pretend?
That's a fake life. Keep it real, and stop being Mr. NICE GUY.
Smile to them because you want to smile, not pretend. Instead of pretending to smile when need be, be real and keep a neutral face.

Woh!
Sometimes, I find it hard to believe i dated a single mother during my University days.

Dating a single mom is like going to jail for a crime, you didn't commit.

Women too get mind. We all know she's all in for the money.
Funny enough, there are Men willing to take up her offer in the twinkling of an eye.

To the real men out there. Try to have a very strong discipline over your PENI.S.
That's the only power, these women have over you.
Control over the PENI.S is where most men are weakest.


Women have always known this. Since the beginning of time.
They will continue to use it to their advantage.

Are you an AUTHORITY?
On what research ground did you come up with this bold conclusion?
Or, you just deh find argument this weekend.

ubunja:
On Maintaining Frame....

Any understanding of how to maintain frame begins with understand this phrase:
WOMEN MAKE RULES FOR BETAS AND BREAK THEM FOR ALPHAS

This explains how frames work.

"frame" is reality. And "maintaining frame" simply means being in charge of your reality, your world, as in, it's your rules and your programme. You will is done.

Now, women make rules for Betas and break them for Alphas:

Every human being has his or her own frame. Men and women have their own frame. And generally 80% of the Male population (the Beta majority) by default break frame when they deal with women,, as in they leave their own frame and enter a woman's frame, as in they abandon their own dominance of their reality and break their own rules to satisfy/align with/live by, the woman's rules - which is her frame.

This is why, by default, women have control in conventional relationships and hold all the power. It's because women have maintained frame. And men have broken frame.

But, Women break rules for the alpha.....

If a woman perceives you to be Alpha, she's more than willing to "break frame" for you and enter your frame. This is the "women break rules for the alpha" part.

When you're a weak man, women enjoy controlling you, that is they pull you into their frame and you become a puppet on strings, doing their bidding (women make rules for Betas) saying lame stuff like "happy wife happy life"

But when you're strong, women WANT and are WILLING to hand over control and rest in their femininity with the full confidence that they're safe with you, that you know what you're doing and you're able to lead, protect etc (women break rules for alphas).

A weak man awakens a woman's masculinity. And gets pulled into her frame.

A strong man awakens a woman's femininity. And inspires her to break frame for him.

Whatever state you're in, a woman will automatically become the opposite of it, because male/female interactions are by nature based on contrasts.

May this get stuck in my Brain, in my day to day activities forever and ever and ever and ever...

teeste:
Seriously, women don't deserve this treatment. Let her work and buy her own car. You willremember this advice one day! Use the money for something else.

Modified: those that cursed me, your curses will bounce back on you and your mothers. I am used to your generation mob action. I still maintain my stand.

Indeed. He will remember your advice today.

Ebubu:
Dangote regulatory agency


Na Dangote dey control our economy like dis


Controls construction industry with use of cement

Very soon controls the entire Nigeria using fuel

Controlling the food industry using sugar and maize

Yes, you know why?
It's because, Dangote is a smart and talented business man.

What do they know?

You're a good husband, intoxicated with a psychological Ethanol called, SIMPanol

Your sister is a typical, average, Nigerian jambite.

After spending at least 6 six years in secondary school, she still can't figure out the course that best fits her passion or the course that align best with her vision.

Since yourself and your sister deh confused, make she just go learn work jeje. That one go help her more in the future.

You have spent years with your sister. Your sister knows her self better. So, do you think strangers (Nairalanders) are in a better position to choose your sister's future

SultanOfPuna:

Op, I pray what happened to this man in the video below will not happen to you.

The man called 911 after he shot and killed his Nigerian wife after bringing her to U.S A
Not for the faint hearted..
Listen to the pain in the man's voice
Don't let this happen to you ohhh
Listen to this video..it is very chilling

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-0S_uWTwZSM


YouTube no allow me share the part 1,
so click on this link below and open in new tab To watch it on YouTube

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RsMRbFDRR2w

Thanks for sharing this.

Tonnyray:
You missed the sarcasm obviously.
The post wasn't meant to paint "church" girls in good light.

Oh! My bad.

Tonnyray:
See where the confusion is? My last relationship is almost 4 years ago. If I want a relationship that's when what these sermons by "redpillers" will apply to me. Mating calls and green lights in my everyday sphere of operation are the norm, but all I want are fvck buddies. So I don't complicate my life by responding to mating calls of neighbors or colleagues at work. I have a separate phone and truecaller ID exclusively for fvckmates and potential fvckmates. It's a totally parallel life. And a fvckmate that wants to "graduate" to gf status gets eliminated ASAP.
When I'm done with this "hoeing" phase of mine, then I'll look the way of my "perfect" spec in church maybe.
This sh!t is simpler than what people are actually making it out to be.

Hahahahahaha. I no fit laugh abeg.
The girls for church and the ones for club na the same thing, na only cloth them change.
Wetin my eyes dun see for Choir, Ushering unit, and other Church worker's department eh, no be wetin mouth fit talk.

DispatcherLagos:
Why do people still campaign for tinibu after all the atrocities he has committed and still committing in Lagos?

Thank you comrade.
May your days be long.

Good Question!

Battalion1:
Swallow the redpill brothers...
Maintain frame
No looseguard.

I've been looking for something like this all my life...even when i was simping something Inside me was telling me guyy no be sooooo

I don't even know what I was searching com land here

I didn't even know the meaning of the link I clicked buy I just click ...


This bitches need us more than we need them na we wey be men dey looseguard


Let's carry this gospel enter Twitter help that shola guy alota guys need to be saved

That is something about Simping. Something inside of you go deh tell you say "this is not right", but somehow, somehow, the will-power to follow that voice is always overwhelmed.

What you are looking for, is also looking for you.

Too bad...

NIGERIA POLITICS:







Recycling thieves.

Op. I hope you see this.

You are a very weak man! Yes, I mean it!

A woman called your mother a witch and you still had the mental capacity to accommodate such devilish claim.

Good luck with your wife husband.

From the look of things, you are the thirsty wife in that marriage. Your wife yields too much power.

Women are manipulative by nature. In that regard, your wife is doing a good job manipulating your weak self.

This world is a cold place.

Lol. Your body clock is ticking and you are worried as "the wall" is gradually approaching.

He's 32 years. He's very much at his prime.

At this point in time, this thread has almost a million view.

This thread must contain naked, undiluted and eye opening truths.
For only eye opening truths can command such attention.

Your last statement show say una dun settle the matter. Why you come still need advice?

wunmi590:
I'm writing based on the thread that grace the front page either this week or last, see below for the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/6833377/type-relationship-desire

In my own opinion, I feel it is the full responsibilities of every man, to foot every bills in your home, you claim to be the head and as the head you should always be responsible and not shy away from your responsibilities..

It is only broke men that fight their wives to share mans responsibilities, if you are not capable to take up your sole responsibility, please remain single..

You can't see Dangote or Femi Otedola splitting bills at home with their wife..

Your woman can only support you at her own will without being told to do so....

Know this and have peace of mind

Why are women selfish? Na natural follow come characteristics?

Omoooh, things deh happen o.

Your mom is divorced. Meaning she is raising you alone. No wonder.

Children raised with absent fathers are worse off.

Your mom is over pampering you, and that will get you more bad than good.

All the high and sweet sensation you feel during orgasm while you perform the act of masturbation is not worth the ills of masturbation when the ills of masturbation start catching up with you.

Fight masturbation and stop it.

You wanna have seex? Be a man and have real seex.

Una just wan finsih this man money before election.

Sha, maybe the money na money weh no get limit.

TheUndercover:
People conflate being wealthy with wisdom. Having immense wealth doesn't necessarily means the person must be loaded with valuable wisdom. A poor person doesn't mean he has no valuable insights to offer.

So being wealthy sometimes doesn't correlate with the degree of knowledge someone has.

I comprehend now.

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https://www.nairaland.com/6836417/aau-student-slaps-boyfriend-he

Knelt and got slapped by a lady in the name of Proposal.

I don't know what to call this or else say na skit.