gentlestdude: I forgive but never forget so jilting me doesn't mean I will cut her off but I will play my game smartly and use and dump her, and she gives me free and steady fücks now plus cooking nice meals for me and bringing to my shop... at least I've saved like 100k that I would have used on hookup since January.
she doesn't have to be in me and the child's life, she's just a part of the story to make the story complete, u get? for all I know she can get robbed and shot (I get mind to arrange am trust me)
This must be one of those "arranged/been referred" kind of marriage.
Weh be say the man dun make money finish, he wan settle down marry, but he no too understand Female nature, he go come holla him sister or loved ones to help am look for wife to marry.
Sometimes, e deh end well, sometimes, e deh end like this.
It is wrong. I just greet and pass and pretend to be smiling when need be, nothing more.
No, you are the wrong one here, not him. Why pretend? That's a fake life. Keep it real, and stop being Mr. NICE GUY. Smile to them because you want to smile, not pretend. Instead of pretending to smile when need be, be real and keep a neutral face.
Women too get mind. We all know she's all in for the money. Funny enough, there are Men willing to take up her offer in the twinkling of an eye.
To the real men out there. Try to have a very strong discipline over your PENI.S. That's the only power, these women have over you. Control over the PENI.S is where most men are weakest.
Women have always known this. Since the beginning of time. They will continue to use it to their advantage.
Any understanding of how to maintain frame begins with understand this phrase: WOMEN MAKE RULES FOR BETAS AND BREAK THEM FOR ALPHAS
This explains how frames work.
"frame" is reality. And "maintaining frame" simply means being in charge of your reality, your world, as in, it's your rules and your programme. You will is done.
Now, women make rules for Betas and break them for Alphas:
Every human being has his or her own frame. Men and women have their own frame. And generally 80% of the Male population (the Beta majority) by default break frame when they deal with women,, as in they leave their own frame and enter a woman's frame, as in they abandon their own dominance of their reality and break their own rules to satisfy/align with/live by, the woman's rules - which is her frame.
This is why, by default, women have control in conventional relationships and hold all the power. It's because women have maintained frame. And men have broken frame.
But, Women break rules for the alpha.....
If a woman perceives you to be Alpha, she's more than willing to "break frame" for you and enter your frame. This is the "women break rules for the alpha" part.
When you're a weak man, women enjoy controlling you, that is they pull you into their frame and you become a puppet on strings, doing their bidding (women make rules for Betas) saying lame stuff like "happy wife happy life"
But when you're strong, women WANT and are WILLING to hand over control and rest in their femininity with the full confidence that they're safe with you, that you know what you're doing and you're able to lead, protect etc (women break rules for alphas).
A weak man awakens a woman's masculinity. And gets pulled into her frame.
A strong man awakens a woman's femininity. And inspires her to break frame for him.
Whatever state you're in, a woman will automatically become the opposite of it, because male/female interactions are by nature based on contrasts.
May this get stuck in my Brain, in my day to day activities forever and ever and ever and ever...
Seriously, women don't deserve this treatment. Let her work and buy her own car. You willremember this advice one day! Use the money for something else.
Modified: those that cursed me, your curses will bounce back on you and your mothers. I am used to your generation mob action. I still maintain my stand.
Your sister is a typical, average, Nigerian jambite.
After spending at least 6 six years in secondary school, she still can't figure out the course that best fits her passion or the course that align best with her vision.
Since yourself and your sister deh confused, make she just go learn work jeje. That one go help her more in the future.
You have spent years with your sister. Your sister knows her self better. So, do you think strangers (Nairalanders) are in a better position to choose your sister's future
Op, I pray what happened to this man in the video below will not happen to you.
The man called 911 after he shot and killed his Nigerian wife after bringing her to U.S A Not for the faint hearted.. Listen to the pain in the man's voice Don't let this happen to you ohhh Listen to this video..it is very chilling
Tonnyray: See where the confusion is? My last relationship is almost 4 years ago. If I want a relationship that's when what these sermons by "redpillers" will apply to me. Mating calls and green lights in my everyday sphere of operation are the norm, but all I want are fvck buddies. So I don't complicate my life by responding to mating calls of neighbors or colleagues at work. I have a separate phone and truecaller ID exclusively for fvckmates and potential fvckmates. It's a totally parallel life. And a fvckmate that wants to "graduate" to gf status gets eliminated ASAP. When I'm done with this "hoeing" phase of mine, then I'll look the way of my "perfect" spec in church maybe. This sh!t is simpler than what people are actually making it out to be.
Hahahahahaha. I no fit laugh abeg. The girls for church and the ones for club na the same thing, na only cloth them change. Wetin my eyes dun see for Choir, Ushering unit, and other Church worker's department eh, no be wetin mouth fit talk.
Battalion1: Swallow the redpill brothers... Maintain frame No looseguard.
I've been looking for something like this all my life...even when i was simping something Inside me was telling me guyy no be sooooo
I don't even know what I was searching com land here
I didn't even know the meaning of the link I clicked buy I just click ...
This bitches need us more than we need them na we wey be men dey looseguard
Let's carry this gospel enter Twitter help that shola guy alota guys need to be saved
That is something about Simping. Something inside of you go deh tell you say "this is not right", but somehow, somehow, the will-power to follow that voice is always overwhelmed.
What you are looking for, is also looking for you.