₦airaland Forum

grandstar:
I don't understand.

Where's the connection? The $3.4bn deal if legal will only tarnish Dangote's reputation but if illegal, he should face the music but he is untouchable.

What exactly was Emefiele arrested for? What transaction in particular? It may not be the $3.4bn transaction.

Let's put it this way, if a 60 year old CEO of a billion dollar company impregnates his illiterate 19 year old househelp, he has done nothing illegal. but If he now decides to marry her, it might be illegal as that is bigamy.

He is not my Tinubu. I am actually apolitical. I focus on policies.

The exchange rate is a very volatile issue. How to address is must be given the government nightmares.

I would propose no matter how frightening, the government should not succumb to knee jerk reactions. It might eventually become counterproductive.

Anyway, the government is barely 100 days. Too much is expected considering Buhari ran the economy aground over 8 years.

I feel the turbulence being experienced now may be due to a bust of economic recovery after 8 dreadful years.

Oga, Emefiele commited error big time, selling such dollar to Dangote is big error and he will pay for it full.

Instead of u to blame the man that was put in position of trust to be in charge of nation's Treasury, you are blaming president and Dangote.

grandstar:
It stinks but was it illegal? Dangote is not at fault here. It Buhari who started meddling in the exchange rate that created monstrous opportunities for abuse.

That is why Tinubu is determined to unify the exchange rates which provided irresistible arbitrage gaps for such impunity.

Is it Dangote they arrested now or Emefiele?

Hope u also know that ur tinubu has secured $3b to defend the naira as well.

grandstar:
Was it sold at the official rate at the time? If it was the official rate, he has done nothing bad. If below the official rate, then, he may have questions to answer.

I am here referring to the legality of his action and not its righteousness. Just like there's a difference between tax avoidance and tax evasion, legality and righteous are 2 separate things.

Why doing it in secrecy? Govt transaction should be open jare.

CBN gov that is supposed to be thorough bred professional, turned himself to tools in the hands of greedy politicians.


How I wish tinubu can have political will to probe bubu govt! Can he? birds of a feather must flock together.

Loveabove:
Please I need you people's advice and I want to be as brief and straight to the point.

My sister gave birth to 2 children under circumstances I'm not to explain here. She took ill and passed away last month.

Since we were just two of us, (our parents are late) the responsibility of taking care of this little kids of 8 and 5 has fallen on me.

God knows I love these kids and would take them as my own but I don't have a job and struggling seriously to survive. It's killing since they became my full responsibility. I was thinking any of the extended family member or a good person would come up to take them.

House rent has expired and problems everywhere.

Since no where else to take them to, I'm considering taking them to the orphanage. It's not my fault please. If I have the means, i would keep them and take very good care of them as they are very dear to me.

Like i said, i love this two boys and would take them as mine, providing for them now as it should, is the challenge.

Their presence is even affecting the small thing I am doing, especially by way of paying attention to them.

Please advise me on what to do.

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So, nobody in ur extended family that can take care of them, even if to share them. If it's that, it say alot about ur family o.

Hope u know if the kids enter orphanage, you can't recover them again?

I biliv u also know that, the children would be sold to people who need them?

dontrulee:
Smiles, let him talk joor.
Though childish, yet interesting. The matter will die down soon.

I realized something recently, if anyone including yourself is telling your own side of the story, they would never paint themselves bad or put themselves in the wrong. They tend to put the blame on the other.

When you're looking or listening to both sides of the story, usually both of them are not entirely correct. The view that's close to correct is the middle ground with both of them at fault.

@ ur bolded
No matter how u paint urself good, an intelligent person would still take out truth from the conversation.

In his conversation, he is gigolo (even though,he debunked it) , he is gold digger (even though he is bragging about wealth) and he is someone that recklessly with sex.

Meanwhile 80% of what he also said about the woman also truth.

a socialize woman=multiply sex partners
You dnt need prophet to reveal it for u.

mariovito:
One thing I'm sure of, and you can take it to the bank.

There'll be no ECOWAS military action in Niger.

It's almost one month.

They were just puffing to see what's behind the Nigeriens and also to see if they'll yield easily.

With the interests and sentiments shown from both sides, there'll be no military action.

If those guys don't relinquish power , it will certainly end in military intervention, Tinubu has "west" behind him already, he only trying to push deplomacy and convince everybody that ,he used it and not yielded.

Tinubu tactically fighting his own fight as well. If Niger in our backyard succeeded, Tinubu should also know that his seat is hot even than what it's supposed to be, not even with all these austerity measures, that also affecting nigeria military as well.

Poten111:
I have fallen in love with my colleague. She has been so helpful and close to me. We hangout a lot and she creates time for me. She dots me. She is always in a hurry to help and support. If i have a complaint she scampers to look for solution. She buys me lunch and surprises me with snacks and gifts.

I a have a place to go and I impromptu tell her. She volunteers to drive me there. She has a car and I don't. E speak at length every day. Morning and night.

In all this, I reciprocate the gestures. I show her love and respect.

After about a year. I came to the conclusion that I want to date her against my principle of dating colleagues. We once lodged in a hotel where i made my intentions clear. She said she was in a relationship. A distant one but the guy is ready to marry her. He has met her parents.

I know women love to keep their options open to avoid disappointment but i felt betrayed because how is she making out time for me.

I have re-emphasized my interest on two more occasions. She is thinking about it. I feel she wants to go ahead with the marriage plans.

So i have moved on. Cut off consistent communications with her. I rarely respond to her message especially if they are not work related. I have subtly told her that we cannot be having a subtle affair.

She doesn't seem to keep off. She has maintained her fake interest in me.

What do i do?

Anybody that yet to do introduction and not born or have pregnant for her man/ not yet impregnated or have kids at home, can still be hijacked. But you must do it legally and not diabolically.

They allow it in UK but not in naija, why won't they develop why we going backwards.

One country different laws applicable to same people.



When there is freedom and one law,. Such society move forward.

Only a yoruba that quickly critical of their own when in power. For other tribes, their mouths would be heavy and blunt, but will be sharp to attack when their tribe not in power.

[quote author=Praxis758 post=125232850][/quote]If you know how not read with bias mind, ...u will fully understood different between a choice and mandatory

Wen you tell ur wife to cook for you is certainly different from wen you asked her to cook jollof rice for you.

If you call your ur wife and tell her to cook food for you , even though you cherish to eat jollof rice.

When u get home, you meet indomie, you may angry by telling her is indomie that she supposed to cook, .....but in fairness such wife didn't commit a single sin against you.

But if u tell her that she must cook jollof rice and failure to prepare it, u will not sleep in the house that night, .....if she fails to cook exact type of rice u demanded everyone would blame ur wife for not obeying you.

Go back to Timothy, Paul kept on admonising and pleading for congregants as a result of petitions they earlier wrote to daddy Paul. TO USE THOSE THINGS IN MODERATION AND FOCUS MORE ON SPIRITUAL THINGS

U see, our God is good and know exactly how humans are, and didn't put excessive burdens we can't carry for us, but people like u from time immemorial putting burden on religion followers just to put fear in them and enslaved them to do their biddings

Wearing any form of jewelry is never a sin

BornofGod108:
What the Bible says in 1 Tim 2 vs 9

According to ur logic, woman should also refrain from wearing wrist watch, wedding rings and any expensive cloth (costly array). While man is free to wear them .

You people do misinterpret bible too often.

"If you can read between the lines", Paul was only encouraging women not to do EYE SERVICE AND SHOW OFF in the house of God, going by what was going on at that particular time.

Hagai 2:8. The SLIVER is mine and the GOLD is mine. Declare God almighty.


JEWELRY (EARRINGS, NECKLACE etc) are made from Gold, Sliver and others.

If God himself say, it belongs to him, and God gives us privileged to enjoy what belongs to him, how much less one ignorant pastor to say contrary.

Many christians that are supposed to make heaven will loose out mainly because of "gods of men" that full world today

First , Tinubu used it to settle govs but in name of masses (palliative)

Second, 80% of those that really needs palliatives don't have bank accounts.


To be honest, Nigeria problem too complicated and complex.

If ur story is real.

I think you can now see reason why woman goes for guy that better financially rather that pure love. You can see love dnt do marriage but money, you can also know now that u put the girl and her unborn baby into problem just because of "useless love and "perhaps good look.

A story of a teenage boy that his ego still raises whenever he has opportunity to toast girls.

If a 30 years old guy did exactly what you did according to ur story. To me, such guy needs to see psychologist.

If they investigate this pastor thourogly, he might have issue with other syndicates members, in which they revenged.

As if I knew this news will be breaking, just as what I told one lady in other thread. Some people (man and woman) will be saying they dnt feel pressure of being married.

When they themselves already know how they leaved in the past and the consequences now.

Rusticated student would be do any how in sch while ignorance students that are still bonafide would be coping them.

This life is k-legged indeed.

More reasons marriages are scattering like pack of card. Women are increasingly toxic in relationship with guys, which is paradging shift from how it was in the past.


If a lady finds it difficult to leave peacefully with guys for just 3 months on live TV, how much more staying with man off camera for years

Kemadealadire:
It's relative, I have so much to say but don't have the energy to type. Tell Seun to add voice.

Though, some people they know their past and already aware of consequences of how they leaved in the past , such people would be undeterred, no matter the pressure, because every rational human beings feel pressure on his/ her when she gets to certain age yet ,what is expected of her not forthcoming.
He shouldn't wait for family or Friends to feel pressure.

PDJT:
-My second wife was 32 when I married her, and she was a virgin (the most important marriage criteria). If a woman is 35 but still have her god-of-marriage intact, then you can give her a go. A virgin woman in her 30s have something in her personality that will be valuable for your matrimony. However, 40 and above is not for me except for partnership.

-Good luck to young people looking for a wife/husband, you will all need it.

Ur second wife? U said it all! You think she is* happy with choice she made eventually?

When u re the one at the center of controversy, you feel the pressure the most.


Ask her how she felt before she finally agreed to settle less with you. I biliv she would have almost cursed almighty for good decision she made about herself.

Though, I still thank God for the life of ur 2nd wife ooo.

A woman preserves herself but eventually ended in hand of poligamist.

Kemadealadire:
You will cope fine if you don't live to please society.

Encouragement comment of smiling outside but feeling the heat inner.

Everyone wants good things of life, wen it's not forthcoming, u re bound to feel the pressure, unless the person is inmbecile , not even a marriageble single or couple looking for fruit of womb.

I pity single ladies from ages 28- 35, Even ladies 25yrs of today already putting pressure on themselves wen they are not into serious relationships.
Many of female students in 300level already disturbed about the man they want to settle down with, when they will be totally less concerned about how they would get jobs after schoolings.
I imagine pressure that families and friends would be putting on ladies at ages 30 to 35.

This is more reason, guys taking advantage of girls of marriageble ages.

By 36 ,even family members would start giving up and leave her alone for her destiny.

Why not given them part of faac u witheld last month, claiming you didn' want excess money in circulation.


It seems naija govts intoxicate with debts burden on their neck oooo

I pray that people shouldnt see other side of the world.

Just near people and hear stories (man or woman/husband or wife) they are fighting for survival sake and not rights anymore, ......they see more dirty things than this and they have no options than to keep quiet and cooperate.


Some husbands send wives to do olosho , some women and daughter sleeping with same man even wen they both have knowledge of what's going on

They do all those things, not they like it or they dnt know their rights.....but survival sake.


May God not allow devil push us to the wall

Now that he is seeking for re-election, supreme court gov would be friend to even an enermy.

Naija politicians I salute u oooo.


If Mr subsidy sees that court can ask for re-election at supreme court now, he would quickly change draconian policy and start doing what people want. Then, he would forget that he is implementing draconian policy that would make Nigeria prosperous

Berrityga:
The write up is trash!! A house wife can run her business from the house!! She can also do remote jobs too! My grand mom was a working class yet she raised 7 children all graduates!! Hey are beautiful girls that are rich and can afford their bills!! Ngozi Okonjuela is a successful career woman. And a wife too! Never heard any family issues from her side.

If you are not delusional, you would know that paragraph 1 applicable to Ngozi's husband.

You would know that Okonjo Iweala that's working in far away Switzerland, wouldn't be the woman that would be cooking, washing plate and clothes of her husband in USA.

I doubt if you know the personalities you are making as ur reference.

Its more than delusional but madness, why? Because you can never ever meet perfect partner.

Some guys, most especially celebrities think that world revolves around them.

No wonder ,their marriages scatter before it even started.

Maybe he don't even know that his oga's wife is suffering and smiling inside AC she finds herself


If May Eldoche didn't marry that idiot, years back, he would be bragging now as if he is the messiah.

CoolAmbience:
He could fit anywhere.

Ministerial appointment is an advisory and supervisory position.

What do you say of the president who is expected to supervise all the ministries? Does he have to study all courses?

Dnt forget president needs people in the ministry that would supervise the professionals in the ministry and not them dribble the govt, by subjecting them to govt policies.

If u put a complete neophyte that he knows next to nothing to man such ministry.

Just know that the professionals would bring govt to his knee in that ministry.

He has been sidelined by the power that be (cabal), they want to reduce his influence by distance him away from the president and by extension corridor of power.

As a minister of information, he would be following president to everywhere and be seeing frequently, but as solid mineral, he is expected to be on the Field, looking for what is not lost underneath the ground and far away from seat of power.

When choosing a woman who works, you have to accept she can't handle the house.

If you have choosen a housewife who can take care of you and fully manage your household, you have to accept that, she is not earning money.

If you choose an obedient woman, you must accept that she depends on you and you must ensure her life.

If you decide to be with a strong woman, you have to accept she is tough, and has her own opinions.

If you choose a beautiful woman, then, you will have to accept big expenses.

If you decide to be with a successful woman, you must understand she has character, and has her own goals and ambitions.

There are no such thing as perfect.
Everyone has their own riddle, which makes us unique.