₦airaland Forum

How can man that not working gives you peace of mind?

ebubeson:
One of the killers of marriage is dating different wrong people before meeting the right partner. At this point, such a person may be so broken to the point that when the right partner comes, the feeling may be "adulterated" or "polluted" because of past hurts or frustrations.
You were so loving, caring and faithful to the wrong partners while dating, now you have the right partner and you are probably rude, watchful and careless..
Lessons: It is better to wait and marry the right person without dating, than dating several people before marrying.

U said it all, some ladies desired to date one guy before marriage, but because of wrong choice of players, she might end up with up to 7 or more body counts before she finally settled down.

The sexual experiences from different guys may not let her enjoy her marriage eventually. If she finally settled down with average husband in term of sexual skills, attention or spending for woman.

Such wife needs God grace not to look outside after marriage.

They only remember God in time of adversity.


What happens to those already in the graves? Just because of your evil intention policy intended to block only one head.

HonNL:
SOURCE

Yet some people will still not biliv in Africa charm and voodoo.

If u check the genesis very well, spell has been cast on the soldier in question. Probably from the village he posted to.

lexylaw40:
Tinubu is not in charge of fuel price ,because the oil sector has been deregulated. So its not the president's fault. And besides even atiku and obi also promised to stop ⛽ fuel subsidy. So just take it easy on the president. He is new and he his trying his best to reposition our economy.

He asked you, what did tinubu want to achieve in imposing all charges and not who is in charge or not in charge.

franchasofficia:
Unemployment means when there is lack of job or no available jobs.



Underemployment means when you are employed but your take home salary is not enough to sustain you or give you a meaningful life, that's underemployment

Underemployment means, you are employed below level of of your certificate/skills


A university graduate employed as OND capacity is under employed, even if his take-home pay is in millions.

PricelessGem1:
Apart from economy hardships, a lot of people enter into a relationship with strange motives. Like a lot of people have said, gold-digging is one key thing that both the female and male gender are guilty of. I was trying to enter into a relationship with someone that could possibly lead to marriage, all the guy was interested in was my money. At 38, he was not even a graduate, all he had was SSCE not even an OND, he had no business or employment, he was living in a one room which he could not even afford the rent. He was constantly weighing me down with his endless problems and needs. To make matters worse, he had bad temper and bad attitude. I quickly ended the relationship before going far with him and also blocked him. A lot of people enter into relationships with the wrong motive.

Any guy or man that you wantl to have relationship with, in which his eye is on ur money, I will advice u to cut him immediately.

Normally guys do have ego that they are the one taking care of their wife and kids and not the other way round.

Though, wife/girl can assist o

If by error you married such lazy iron, the marriage would become toxic after few weeks of marriage, infact u will regret ever being in marriage.

Women are not design to take full responsibility of home.

Many of such guys full town, they will never work on their weakness, but keep running down girls and institution of marriage.

BabaIbo:
Just see your level of reasoning, some single guys are not married because they are afraid of marrying wrong.

Many of them who are doing well as single men don't want situations where they will start having issues i.e doing bad and all that when they are married, as a result of that they tend to take time before finally settling down for those that later chose to marry.


No be all of them dey single because of sex, dey reason well sometimes.

Young guys are afraid to marry wrong? Ok ooo, dnt know naija Young guys are perfect been ooo.


Indeed, mere look at your post on Marriage, with title, ....of what benefits is Marriage to man! I know u need clinical psychologist for your mental health.



Thanks God u yourself admitted in your past post that people around you, have started worry about u in recent time

Because several guys of marriageble ages are in state of total hopelessness, many of them are only capable of sleeping with prostitutes in brothels, and can't put woman at home. For few that are rich enough, they still want to be sleeping around as if, sleeping with different girls bring them trophies, and for few Yahoo boys, only rugged ladies can settle down with such diabolical guys.

ibrutex:
To the married men and women in the house , let's give them some, not on papers experience which you will never be told before marriage...


Some of these I learnt through a friend....


A) If you (husband) have 5k and the woman has 3k , sum it together in marriage arithmetic , total cash available in that house is 5k, thanks.

B) As a man be prepared to enter kitchen, expecially those early morning cooking, or else be ready to visit mama put..

Keep it rolling......

A" is not always true....... though ur friend ended up in the hand of his enermy called wive.

80% of homes today are jointly sponsored by husband and wife.

I will advise u to go out and do unbias findings and not ugly experiences from ur close ffriend.

Jeezuzpick:
This "spiritual" we are always shouting about here, don't people in the West and the developed world have it?

Abi spirit no dey US ni?

They are not "spiritual" like us, yet they live better lives than us. They even live longer.

Sit down thr, and be dreaming, claiming spiritual not possible?

The oyinbo Yahoo boy are taking money from them diabolically, are they not in the US and Europe?

Though teenager do reason like clown, give u few years to understand philosophy of life

Though, too prominent here.




I also biliv it's ur papa language that's called,, "charm, "voodoo, "metaphysical, spiritual attack" among others.

Go to ur English dictionary and check the meaning of such words before u reply me

Jeezuzpick:
All your rules don't hold a candle to these:

1. If you must drink, buy your drinks and have them in front of your TV at home.

2. Better than the last one.... DON'T EVEN DRINK!

Hope know poison can also come through spiritual means? In as much we one needs to be vigilant, one should pray that satan should not catch him.

As if, you ladies will learn from history. Whenever money involved, most women throw away common sense.

UnknownGunMan:
People threatening anarchy and doom don't know Peter Obi is the one holding his supporters back.

If Obi decides to post a simple tweet like: "Youths, it's time to #TakebackNigeria" , that is when corn munchers will know who the real president is.

Hope u also remember, inciting public against govt in other to overthrow it, is an offence called sediction?

By now u are supposed to have read about MKO, I biliv the event not happen during ur time .

adebayo987:
in this analysis, I'm going to keep sentiments aside. I'll be very factual and truthful.

Yemi would have tried but Obi would have done better.

Reason being that, Yemi can be controlled by the North but that's not how we see Obi.

We see Yemi as someone who would bow to NASS should any of his policies inconvenience them. While we see Obi as someone who NASS will attempt to impeach because almost all his policies would be against the rich and very much in favour of the poor and the political elites don't want that to happen.

Tinubu is trying to pocket NASS and his fellow political elites by attempting to increase their alawee by 114% and dashing them 70bn for furniture, etc. and more to come but we see Obi as someone who would channel those expenses to productive budgets and that's where NASS would want to kill him.

I see a better Nigeria with Obi than with Yemi.

U quoted, u talked and u ranted, yet without significant headway .. ...ur Obi talked about blablabla, his once a governor of a popular and rich state, yet absolute nothing to show for his 8 years on the throne.

You can proof me wrong by mention 1st-3 significant projects he did during his reign.

Meanwhile, I pity u cos u think rhetoric and sweet talks on statistics can solve human hydraheaded problems, I also surprised that u think, being a president of multi ethnoreligion nation is equal to being a gov of a state, state which is same tribe and religion.

NewManFred:
Whenever I see a post about someone that died, especially someone that isn't a celebrity, I usually go to their social media to read their posts prior to their deaths.

Note that I don't do this out of disrespect, or mockery. I respect the dead and I feel bad for their loved ones. The reason I do this is because I want to know the kind of person they were. Sort of like a philosophical experiment.

I've done this for countless people that have passed on and I always notice the same thing: An overestimated sense of importance

These people think they are so special. Like they have God on speed dial and he genuinely cares about their wishes and will make sure they get everything they want.

They usually talk about what they have achieved and what they want to achieve as if their life is a game they designed themselves and are playing it on easy mode.

When I compare their pictures on social media with pictures of their corpse lying on the floor, on the roadside or on some cold bench, I notice a sharp contrast. In the picture of the corpse you see the real person; no fake smiles, not posing for the camera, no filters, no conscious awareness of how their are dressed, no captions on the photos. You see the real person and you realize how much they tried to hide that from the world and how their effort was useless in the end, because in the end, everyone sees them for who they really are.

It's really sad how unaware these people were about just how fleeting life is. Almost like they never sit and question the point of their existence. The level of optimism I see in their posts usually borders on naivety and represents a total detachment from the harsh reality of life, which eventually catches up to them.

First of first . Ur opinion is bias, is not everyone that write something special about themselves on social media.

2. Hope u re not heading towards joining ur ancestors?

..... meanwhile, for those who are even writing good thing about themselves. I will advise you to go and read a psychology book about "self denials". You would understand human nature better in that regard, every human beings has a nature of "false hope". That's, the body tends towards expecting good things of life, even in the midst of total despair.......

bitingcool:
you took my statement out of context. it's not about money. are you not someone's ex? do you not have any relevance you can offer to someone else based on them knowing you? that is where I took my context from. like I said poor minds think with their genitals. When I see Otedola I'm thinking of how I can glean from his knowledge, not jump into bed with him. Not everyone is bound by their scrotum sack.

Let me tell u bitter truth, experiences shown that, ex is more of curse than blessings. I have Married for years, dittos for all my friends that we grew up together.

If ur wife or girlfriend opens communication to ex, there is highly possibility they renew their old affair, infact, the exes that seperated without fight are even more vulnerable to fall.

I pray u dnt fall prey before ur eyes clear.

bitingcool:
When YOU marry, you will understand. An ex is not a virus. Breaking up with a man.or woman does not equate to enemity.. if you break up amicably, you can remain friends and communicate. An ex can be a director somewhere that can gelp you further in life. Not everyone is ready to be naked at any instant because they dated someone before. If Otedola/Dangote was your wife's ex, you will not talk to him if he says hello. Myopic minds think with their private part. An ex is a human being. no big deal.

Infact, if you find Otedola and ur wife on ur matrimonial bed, u will still applaud him, afterall, they worshipping God of money in ur family.

Candidlady:
You are insanely stuuuuupeeed for this post

Looking forward for the day touts will rape u because of ur "negligence", in which the tout will be killed.

The traumatic experience after they have been killed, I will see who would compensate it for u.

Islie:
The police said two suspects were taken into custody.



SOURCE

How does she drug? Is it by oral or injection? If it's oral, and she took it knowingly, the TV anchor also need to be blamed.

Beremx:
a man is entitled to call his ex but a woman cannot answer calls from her ex. Break sim card for what?

Abi ooooo. Infact ,a woman is entitled to marry 3 or more husbands at same time.

scoobyblogspot:
Let me even add this UP. Before she got married her ex told her that she will come and beg him. He was attending a cele church but since that didn't work until she got married once a while he calls her. She changed her number but unbelievable he got her number from a friend which lead to calling to congrate her and then kept calling once a while.

Let me tell you fact, the wife still wants to be hearing from ex. Whem she ready to cut tie with him, she knows what to do. It's game that woman knows how to play best.

It's in the hands of husband, if he will force his wife to cut tie or for him and other men to be putting different hands in same pot of soup.

scoobyblogspot:
I was having a discussion with my friend and he told me his wife ex still calls her on phone. Infact her ex called her when she got married and she told her husband that her ex is on the phone and wanted to congrate him, he spoke with him and appreciated his kind gesture . Just last week he called her again but she didn’t pick and she told my friend about it. Could there be something fishy

I pity ur friend, I'm seeing him Married our wive. If he wants to confirm, let him get the wife's social media accounts passwords unknowingly to the wife, he will see things that are secret.


Even ordinary male friends, fiance must cut them immediately after the relationship becomes strong, not to talk after marriage.

The weakest point of any woman, is when male disturbing her with attentions, .....where the chemistry normally comes, women don't understand it. They just wake up and have strong feelings for such male admirer.

If ordinary friend can easily overwhelmed &
overpowered woman with attentions, how much less ex that knows all the secrets already.

Candidlady:
Check well the man got halitosis


Default settings for men ... Factory fitted most if not all me got it

Won't let any man svck on my teetees talk more of kissing me with such demonic cursed mouth


That is samueltemi337 and miracrood2 the chronic beggars and gamblers kissing your sister with that kinda teeth

Halitosis also makes her cover breast?

Hardship.
Social media exposure
Cultural devaluation.
Weakling religion stronghold.

The last time I checked, ur state is not involving in small scale business involving alcohol among others, I think u should give chance to the state that towing towards that lane. Maybe u wait for, when federal want to chanel largesse for religion tourism

Naija civil servants? If u dnt bribe ur way out, u will never scale tru. Go to immigrantion and see things.


Any president/gov that really want to develop naija, he needs serious work on naija civil service.

Why would south west won't progress more than other regions?

Still looking forward when state would get it's own revenue to develop itself, waiting for federal to give free money making people misbehaving.


When people have freedom , their society develop faster.

One thing that certain is that, citizens know these people.

If they ready to volunteer information

If community leaders ready to surport security agencies.

If security agencies won't reveal identities of informants.

And if political leaders ready to fully collaborate with govt.

Within a month, normalcy would return back to South East.

In Biafra land, even though we have million in account, we still dress tatterdly.

THATS OUR TRADE MARK.

When price too high, there is high tendency the player flops.

Philipmoon2:
So you think everyone in Igbo land supported Nnamdi kanu, OK let me ask you this question, people that lost their love ones, are they still supporting kanu

From very beginning they supported him whole-heartedly , thinking he is a messiah, but when situations are becoming unbearable, they started changing minds. By them it has become monster.

The same thing about sharia law in the north, the offspring of Sharia law of yesterday is bokoharam today .

Then I remember how Muslims across Nigeria were reluctant to blame killers of christians in the north in various churches, before you know, they ended up slutering Muslims, that was wen they started shouting and complaining, but then it was too late.

Compare these above 2 scenarios with OPC and IGBOHO in Southwest.

Before they transform to monsters, OP B& IGBOHO were crushed down ,no thanks to Yoruba people that didn't coperate with VIRUSES wen they were still at infancy.