₦airaland Forum

Nicerazor:
Not everything is political. Where were you when he was partisan and even eyed the presidential seat while he is a serving CBN governor. He needs to answer questions. Let the Security Services do their job.

yemmit90:
To some of you siding this man thinking he is fighting vote buying, your eyes will clear when he finally destroyed Nigeria economy.

How on earth will you introduce this wicked policy in a society that almost all her entire citizens transacts physically.

Make 1000 and 500 a scarce commodity, let the highest denominations depense by ATMs be 200 notes or less. Impose high taxes and charges on heavy withdrawal and deposits. Encourage zero charges on all electronics transfers.

This will gradually discourage people from holding cash and opt for electronics transactions.

SLAP44:
Banana Republic

The Federal government is no longer in control of some security agencies, they decide when to expose any government official to danger if there is a disagreement.

The constitution of Nigeria has been tossed aside once more.

Give400:
This is going to be a long write cos I want to go into details so you all will understand everything. Sorry for the typos in advance

I dated this girl for years. We used to live together before I relocated to another state.

So here is the full story. We started dating in early 2014 we were still teenagers. Tho I wasn't the one that disvirgined her but she was good then. Her breasts and everything was firm and standing. Two years later she started giving me bad behaviors. I endured till I got tired by the end of 2016 and moved on because she started disrespecting me as well. I couldn't take that and moved on.

Fast forward early 2020 she contacted me I asked how she got my number cos I changed numbers then. She said she got it from my sister. They were kind of close.
This girl pestered me and I don't even know what she told or did to my sister but I found my sister begging on her behalf that I should accept her as well.
On a norm I wouldn't have accepted her but because I wasn't in a relationship then and konji was so on my neck I had no choice than to accept her back.

Thats how we came back and free sex was enough.we lived together I was the one paying the rent. I was providing and even got her a job she used o work and contribute and everything was good in the first 4 months until the fifth month she lost her job cos she made some mistakes and lost some money and her oga arrested her. I paid up and she said she won't go back so that's how she became a sit at home gf.

Fast forward I found out she was in contact with one of her exes. I even stumbled on their Facebook chat where she was asking the guy why he got married. The guy responded that he got tired of her ass the moment he realized she was dating one reverend father. Then I knew after our initial breakup this girl went on to become a LovePeddler.

So this girl kept disturbing this guy she will call him even though he told her was married she didn't stop. The same way she was disturbing me early that year to come back. Anytime I confront her about this guy she'd lie that it's the guy that's disturbing her.

Lemme not bore you guys...so this girl proposed a business idea and since I had spare funds I wasn't using then I found it cool and I gave her 200k to buy 20 bags of groundnuts. She said she had a woman she knows in her village that used to do the business. She was to send her the money to buy the groundnut and save it then when the prices go up we will sell and make double or triple profits.

So she sent me an account number to send the money to claiming it's the woman's son account number. Alas it was her ex's account number because the account name matched with the Facebook name. When I confronted her she denied at first but later opened up and promised me not to worry that the guy was only going to withdraw the money and give to the woman as she didn't have a bank account. I kept cool even though I felt betrayed.

Now instead of 20 bags of groundnut they bought only 15k. That covid affected the markets as people were scared to go to the markets and there was no groundnut to buy. OK send me pics of the 15 bags they bought it became wahala. It took weeks of postponement before the guy sent pics. At a time I got angry and collected her phone and called and the guy picked. I asked why is it a problem to send pics of the bags. The guy blatantly told me he doesn't have any business with me that I should not call him. That really got me and I said it's enough.

So I made my own plan. I exercised patience and forfeited the 50k. Cos it was obvious I wasn't going to get the funds because when I asked to get my 50k they will say they are going to buy that I should chill. They are going to buy turned to weeks and months till I gave up.

So I waited and when it was the right time which was December we sold the groundnuts and I got profit of 100k. Cos it was sold at 20k each. So in total I made 300k. Minus my 200k that's 100k profit. They ate the other 50k.

So i got the money and played along. I acted as if I don't even know what was going. In fact I changed and started adapting to her games. I smash her more often than I used to and squeeze whatever was left of her fallen boobs to nothing. Like I made up my mind to use her and dump on the road side where she belonged. I accepted she was damaged and that was the only way to do away with someone like her.
Rent was due by March 2021. I started looking for a new apartment we was in January then. I got an apartment in another neighboring state not so far just 2k transport.

Fortunately enough for me she got a job and used to work 5 days and come home only by weekend. So I had enough time to orchestrate my plans cos this girl refused to leavve. I know some people might be wondering why I chose to run. She refused to leave me. She even called the police me when I told her I don't want to do again. They said since she's living with me and I was the one that brought her in town then I shouldn't chase her out. I said ok

So I got my apartment and arranged the placed and she left for work on a blessed day and I used he opportunity to park my valuables and important properties and left. When she got home she called I told her I had traveled to Benin republic. She asked why I packed my things and my gen I told her I sold them to add money for my journey that I will be back.
I told her I will be back in a month that it's a bug business and I will eventually hit big in two to three weeks then I will be back. She bought it


Few days later I changed my Sim and that was the end.

So fast forward to last month we met and this girl has become something else. Very dirty and unkempt. Indeed I tried for her but she really deserved where she is atm. She was really pissed when she saw me. She said lots of scary stuff even some people at the event were like what's going on. She said she still has my pictures and I should think about that. That really spooked me.

The problem now is she's still threatening that she knows I played her and she's going to make sure she hurt me spiritually or in anyway for using her and running away leaving her with nothing. That she doesn't care if it's going to cost her life. She said this on the event day and just today someone called me telling me the same thing that she's going about telling she's going to make sure I am useless just like the way I made her. I don't even want to mention the number of curses she placed on me on the event day.

What I want to know is how do I go about this. Is she just making empty threats or is it something I should take serious. If that's the case then how do I go about it my brethren. I am seriously confused and kind of scared a bit to be honest.
Cos someone else could hear her and use that opportunity to hurt me then place it on her. Anything can happen when people go about saying they will hurt you. Help a brother with the right thing to do. Thanks

ponyonm:
Why remove Giroud for Bleep sake. Griezman and dembele have been about the poorest players on the pitch in addition to a kylian mbappe who is nowhere to be found. Bleep it.

VinnyBaba:
Hahaha..See dis dude..

So Dating a Girl is now a Big Achievement?

With the way we have 2K or 5K Girls all over the Place..Is Dating or Fuccking so difficult for a Naija Guy?

Guys should think of how to Better their Finances and become Real men
instead of wasting time on so called Romantic Relationships (Dat is not heading towards Marriage)..

U Better understand dat Money is What makes a Man, Not Girlfriends or Babes, OK?

internationalman:
90% of this one topic na about woman and relationship...

Most Nairaland guys lives revolve around women. That's why almost all naija artiste sing about women and sex..

Our men in this country are unproductive. That's why the country is not progressing..

According to Nairaland boys our women are useless and morally bankrupt, but it's only because in every society, the women are the reflection of the men.

CheapHomes1:
What are the steps to greatness? How is cashless policy a step to greatness?

God1000:
It won't work sef

Ishilove:
I can see that you lack home training which is why you are so rude and running your filthy mouth like some suffering from diarrhoea of the mouth. Go back home to your mother and run your mouth at her, not me so she can see what a sorry excuse of a human being she raised. Don't quote me again if you don't want trailer to match your legs this yuletide season.

IntelChief:
Met with this dude of mine yesterday somewhere in Portharcourt, this guy had been swimming in chronic poverty for only God knows how long.

The guy is quite hardworking, alright, but making it big is not just his thing for now, try as he may.

Dube needs quality start-up capital and other financial 'shock absorbers', but the Nigerian effect is preventing him from getting help from his paddys dem (including me)

The punchline of our conversation last night was when he told me that he has about five uncles and aunties who resides abroad in very fat countries.

"What?" I said. "Why haven't you reached out to them yet?" I exclaimed.
"Am not that dull" he said. "I've tried conversing with them infinite times on WhatsApp, but when people don't want to help you, you can tell from the manner they respond to you" he said.
"Did your pops man treat them badly when they were young?" I asked.
"I don't thing so" he said. "Pops man is a pretty nice fellow, he treated them just fine back then. Intel Chief, forget about my relates abroad, will you? They are just stingy, period".

Ishilove:
Knowing the kind of person you are, she really has no business not picking calls by 11.45 pm. Relationship aside, my family will be worried sick if I am not picking my calls by that late hour so she has her own faults as well.

However, you didn't handle it well at all. Calling her boss was waaay out of line. You didn't call her family members, friends or colleagues. You jump go call boss. No, guy you were wrong and I'd be mad as well if I were in her position. Respect yourself and give her space for now. You're just being a pest and further worsening the situation.

When she is calmer and is able to solve whatever shitstorm your indiscretion caused, she may reach out to you.

Or maybe not. You win some, you lose some. If you lose this one, learn your lesson so it doesn't repeat itself

Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.

We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.

On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.

She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.

I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.

We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.

I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.

ibechris:
All my exes were ladies I could marry.

I loved them all and just that I was restricted to one woman as a Christian.



They were great ladies,hardworking and beautiful.

annisy:
Finally the end has come to our already dead education sector

Humble432:
I am not sure you understand the post. Try to read with understanding before making a comment.

nurric:
Better to get her pregnant first then huge discount will follow. If you know you know