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Jovialjune1:
Cry

If you are not foolish, you will know that nobody put a gun to any man's head to forcefully give women money

Again, cry.

Jovialjune1:
You guys are so slow, did you even listen to yourself at all?

A lady must sleep with a guy because he spent on her? Do you even know the meaning of extortion? So the best way to display his grievances is to abscond abi?

So before I can talk to a guy, I should be ready to sleep with him? Talking equals sleeping with him? How old are you?

Jovialjune1:
Try to get sense, how is she a scammer?

Some guys on front page knows what that guy did was wrong so what are you saying?

obyno82:
Cuba was sanctioned for years under Castro and it only served to toughen the people and tighten their resolve. See when there is revolution, and it is supported by the people sanctions don't cripple them it toughen then because now it is seen as a struggle for survival which they must undertake to be free. And Tinubu seen romancing France even makes the situation even more tenable to them that they are struggling for survival.

optimusprime2:
I really dislike comments like this, it proves you have no idea of the state of things...

Lemme throw you a question, if the sanctions hit Niger as hard as you are illustrating, who get's hit, is it not the people of Niger?

and if the situation becomes unbearable in Niger the resulting humanitarian crisis will be handled by which country, is it not Nigeria that would have to deal with the refugee's from Niger?

just assuming there is an influx of 8 million people from Niger through the very porous northern borders, to add to the insecurity, and hardship currently in Nigeria... who will handle the situation? How many Nigerian families eat three square meals of late?

I will like to remind you that currently, Nigeria is in a very bad economic situation, and a humanitarian crisis from the North as a result of sanctions and military activity is something Nigeria should not even risk.

Infact to even let you know something vital, the people of Niger are actually struggling for their liberation from France... the same France that B.A.T is currently flirting with.

This is a situation that Nigeria should have immediately stepped in as a big brother and played high level diplomacy, using hausa elder statesmen and traditional rulers from the onset, not by using military threats and force.

War experiments at this time is something Nigeria can not afford on various levels

This B.A.T Gbajabiamila led administration is truly something...

OKUCHI11:
Staged... believe this at your own peril

Mystic216:
Court in Lagos

Isn’t that a high level of a joke

talented321:
Who told you redpiller don't marry?''
Redpill will only make you to understand the female nature and u apply your sense when dealing with them.

Mindlog:
You are right.

If you visit psychiatric hospitals in Nigeria and go to the male wards, you are more likely to see married women during visiting hours with their admitted husbands but go to the female wards, very insignificant number of men visit their wives who have been admitted there. For most men, getting the wife admitted is the best they can do and visit few times and disappear from the scene, abandoning her to her birth family to take care of.

drlateef:
Married men mostly have the means to take care of a second wife if they are looking for it. But single men are most broke and NFAs😂😂😂

mariovito:
If sex was meant for two married people, God will have made the sex part of the Instruments to only become active only after marriage.

MyExpression:
She argued it with him, before conceding under potential marriage pressure.

OP
She has shown you how she thinks...her ideology of life.

If she's really a good gurl with that kind of thinking, try groom her well and confirm her compatibility with you, before settling down.

If she has been pretending, you'll see the signs...related events will happen again...she go bleep that guy, and you go see the signs of a woman that's getting it elsewhere.

No simp because you wan love who you marry...all these rules and regulations relationship, na the man dey usually suffer.

thrillionaire:
There's this girl I've been seeing, she's very decent and holds strong religious views.
When we met, she told me she didn't want any relationship for now as she's been celibate for two years besides premarital sex isn't her thing and she can boast of having just about 3 body counts or so. But I managed to convince her date me sha.

We got along fine. No problems. She's busty, jovial, great smiles and laughter. She's fine.

Today we went out and she saw her old male friend - a former colleague at work, they exchanged pleasantries and hugged. She's busty so I didn't like the way the guy hugged her or the way she hugged him but I chested that one.

They then got all chatty while I bought roasted chicken. I occasionally looked up to see them and I noticed my girl being all touchy with this guy.. touching his chest, holding up his arm in hers, standing too close to him and kinda rubbing her busts on him (maybe unconsciously, I don't know).

Well I was angry and felt disrespected. You can't be with your guy or hubby and behave like this with another male friend you see. What happened to a dignified way of greeting and a healthy space between you two?

Afterwards I reprimanded her properly and told her how disrespectful it is to her man especially when he's there with her.. she tried to argue that it was nothing and that I'm overreacting but I told her that acts like this can send the wrong message to a prospective suitor and he'll just believe you a girl guys have easy access to. She apologized and promised not to do that again.

What y'all say? Is it okay for your girl to be all touchy with male friends?

SalamRushdie:
I hardly make a a wrong call.. Anyone that knows Tinubu should tell him this a very wrong move that will eventually backfire against his govt and even cause his own ouster by Northern Nigerian elements of the military...He should stay out of this crisis for the good of Nigeria and his own good please

Acekidc4:
President Tinubu should please not intervene in the ongoing Coup in Niger Country. He should not send Military to Niger. Niger Coup is a build up to a Proxy war between Russia and the Western Slave Masters..............In trying to please the west, May we not jam Agbako by going against Almighty Russia.


Nigerian Government Be Warned!!

talented321:
Lol''' depend Things happen for a reason and circumstances.

Nigaraw:
Met this girl online last year January, after exchanging numbers we started vibing and the whole talking stage thing. Started dating a month later . Things were so good thought I have found myself a lovely soul. She was good but much more concerned about aesthetics, snap for the glam , do some weird things for Twitter likes. Her role models are always relationship people . Gave her some advice to go back to school because she was a drop out she didn’t heed.

Okay gave her money to start some business she spent on uselsss things . She just want all that lovely dovy Instagram lifestyle and relationship glamour . Couldn’t deal broke up with her . Ever since then it’s been one hell of a ride . Everyday subbing my ass on Twitter . I don’t block people never blocked any of my exes .

She’d upload guys pictures and all.I really don’t care now I noticed her freinds writing some shit and even have the guts to tag me . Like is it even up to that Like why can’t some people just deal with break up . You teaming up to sub your ex is the new cool now.?


I have been blocking some of her friends but they still keep opening burner accounts and tagging me . I run a business with my account anybody with a good suggestion??

talented321:
Now we are dating and u take in (pregnant)' i wanted to wed u before delivery time, but in the process thing went sour for me'' but u have the ability to give me the cash to pay your dowry so that i will give u later''
Now u need this dowry to be paid too, so that you will be called a legally married woman' to gain that respect of a married woman.
Will u let it slide and born out of wedlock?
Ordinary dowry head no dey again' and u think without neck the head will stand.
na only god know why he give men power over women'' if not the oppression and shege we for enter.

Onpoint1010:
I worked with two guys and 3 girls as their security chief in a fast food restaurant as contract staffs. The guys were something else but I managed them although we had back and forth arguments because they were trying to disobey my directives.

As time went by, the then manager told me about a vacant position, "Store Manager" and helped me to apply. Unfortunately, he was transferred before I was fully employed so, he handed me over to the new manager and assistant manager.

I was employed and was happy. Those two boys then began to conspired against me, they are psychologically smart and to an extend fearless and manipulative, I like them for that.

Just of recent, they began working against me with the manager, they stopped helping me to offload goods to the store and so, I decided to stop them from entering the store to charge their phones. But they boldly told me that I can't stop them and if I do, they will beat me. They have muscle more than I do. I knew they can beat me but I decided that I won't back down.

Yesterday, I stopped the now security chief from entering the store but the manager told me to allow them. This is the same manager that supported me initially to stop anyone I want from entering the store house and to lock it each time I want to go out.

Right now, I don't know what to do, I feel like the manager is trying to make me powerless in the office.

I want to know, does the manager have the right to ask the guards to keep entering the store room or I should continue to resist them?

Any store man or woman who has had similar experience, how did you overcome it.

Rich4god:
Just one goal against Ireland would have paired us against Denmark, the easier team.

We just hope to scale through against the English side.

7demons:
Very smart of you but don't be ignorant of the fact they have uranium and lithium, and Russia is in dire need of it at this moment.

jeromestarks:
One stupid girl also told me that her pastor said she should not tell me about her health issue.
This is a girl I have loved and cared for.

The moment she said that was the very instant my love for her died.

Stupid girl following a prophet. May god separate me from an African woman who listens to a prophet.
Mtchewww!!!

UyaiIncomparabl:
So, let's assume that she has no friends that know her to where she lives but she has acquaintances. Do you think acquaintances are the right cliques to inquire about her from?

Someone like me, I don't have friends. Every friend I have ends online. I only call you a friend if you know me to my house which is so hard because I hardly trust people with my space. The only friend I have is in the USA. So, if you want to do some background checks or whatchamacallit, it will be hard because you'd have no one to ask about me from.

Except you want to start stalking me on social media which is even dead on arrival because my posts are not what I portray in the real world or you want to hire some CIA to follow me around. The best way to know someone is to just WATCH them and let TIME do its thing. Listen to what they say and watch their actions. Watch how they treat people. They will always reveal themselves when you aren't even watching.