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........ but for God they would be making all sort of different excuses.

yemite100:
Good evening Nairalanders
There is this particular woman that we both live together in the same house, she is a single mother of three kids (males), this woman has been very close to me and I tried to assist her with the little I have and I have been supporting her and her kids financially. She has been making life unbearable for me due to her attitude, she is not my wife, we are not dating and she want to take responsibility of everything.whenever I buy foodstuffs at home within the twinkle of an eyes everything will disappear and I wouldn't want to say anything or scold her.
I work one day on and one day off in an hotel, this woman works In a nursery School and the money is not enough for her upkeep.
I decided to help this woman get a job where I work, I got a kitchen job for her so that she can take care of her kids, unknown to me that this woman has been stealing foods from the kitchen and most times she will ask customers for money and always ready to keep the change for herself, it was one of the kitchen women that reported her case the the MD and she was caught red handed, I was expecting the manger to sack her alone but to my greatest surprise the MD ask me to leave because I stood as guarantor for her, I pleaded to him to but insisted I had to leave because when the woman was interrogated she told him she has been bringing the food to my house which I know nothing about.
Last week,her kids spoilt my television set and I had to abandon it at the radionic workshop pending when I will get money to fix it
I feel so bad right now because this woman has just done more harm to my life, my good heart has finish me
This is a sad monent of my life and I don't know when it will take me to get another job in this hard time.

U finished ur life and not mother of three as u claimed.

When u ready, u will reveal underground moves you had taken to woo the woman. She read ur mind and she capitalized on ur weakness to deal with you, unfortunately you didn't reach promised land before u served breakfast.

What am I say in parable........dnt make opposite sex ur close friend, she would take advantage of u, ur kow-tow movement around her landed u whre u dnt want sir.

ufuosman:
Let his supporters come and defend him
Dis is not something of my turn
If not for greed Osinbajo or Ameachi suppose to be the flag bearer

Those supporting Tinubu don't love Nigeria
With all wot we are still going through in baba govt some people still hv the mind to support dis man knowing truly well of his conditions
I swr una get bad mind

U said it all.

We never see anything yet, thank God bandit and kidnappers are on the jugular of everyone now.
Still imagine people will leave Osinbanjo and vote for Tinubu.

sageb:
you said the truth.
Nowadays, some women are seen as sex objects.

Some women seen or some women projected themselves as sex objects?

Wealthbrain22:
Nowadays every guy says they don’t simp anymore because they have learned their lesson and “matured” but the truth is have you men really stopped simping in real life tho,? Or is it just for clout on social media.

The reason I’m asking is, women have superior power over us men, I mean sexual power..it’s facts. An 18 year old girl has sexual power over the president of America, because as a man you MUST get hornyyy at least once a week. Now tell me, what do you men do with that urge? Most of you swear you don’t masturbate, most of you swear you don’t give women a dime, now In todays generation of Nigerian women, no girl will stay with you and allow you fvck her for free…it’s a myth in 2022, never happens. If you don’t even have a nice car or a nice apartment you will not attract any woman, if you manage to deceive a village girl , she won’t come back after her eyes open.

Now tell me, you say you don’t masturbate, you say you don’t simp, so how do you people cope with all that konji? Are guys walking about exploding with sexual urges ? If that’s the case then it’s really sad, from my observations it’s like this generation has the highest amount of lonely men exploding with sexual tension because of the decay in societal standards set by these women. Because it seems to have a health sexual life in Nigeria you must simp or masturbate, that’s what I have discovered.

So if you say you’re not a simp, then you’re a chronic masturbator, if not how do you cope with your sexual tension,??

First of first! Given money to women is not simp as some pillers bilived o in as much the money is moderate, it's caring.

Meanwhile, you get to age 35 as a man and u re well to do, it's women that will be fighting, dying and simping for u...
.at 35 and above, man will have wider range of different females(16-50) to hunt for.

Wen u are in ur 20s thr is high tendency for u to be struggling financially, and wen u struggling financially, women won't look ur side, besides, u re still small to be going out with ladies/women of 35-40, which are no more hot cake in relationship market again.

marlow1962:
Only in this country I see a 25 years old guy afraid to invite his gal over at home for dinner with the family (too bad)
Even the females are not left out, even at 30 (the unmarried) are still afraid to bring dia guy over for dinner with the family ( except it’s marriage mata, no wonder majority of dem gets old at their fadas house).
Our parents only taught us how to survive ( very good), but majority fails to teach dem how to love others, express your feelings.
At age 20, Nigerian parents already know that dia sons and daughters have a love life outside the family, so I don’t see what’s wrong with inviting them over (interrogate them to know who they really are)

When u have daughter of 18 years old, please and please give her freedom to invite boyfriends to make love on ur matrimonial bed and make sure you re refree and her mother ur wife, is linesman in that very important match o.

When they ask u, tell the whole world that, it's only in this country that parents dnt allow their children to bring lovers and that u want to change the narrative.

culf:
How would they know he is a rapist. In a united compound, children play around and move around freely. Its never the child nor the parents fault. This thing just dey pain me, he for go f**k ashawo na, haba. If only he knows what he was done to that child just because of watin sef

#May God help us and our children.

U see, in as much I blame rapist and child defilement, as a parent, u also need to guide ur kids and caution them not only how to relate with people, *males and females but also how to dress.

Out of 10 boys/guys/men, only one that can effectively tame his manhood, I think we are reading hourly on social media, even btw father and daughter.

DO NOT WAIT FOR WHEN DEEDS HAVE BEING DONE OK. DELAY CAN BE DANGEROUS.


not even in face me and slap u apartment ....

blaquebelle:
How are you so sure she didn't take a guys phone to go charge for him. Assumptious snoop.

I have seen countless ladies that I know with their phones using nudes/near nudes as wallpapers. With my experience, 90% of such ladies are unrepentant olosho.

dazzlingd:
Some things u do, try some of these things in countries like US, Uk and u will find yourself in a mess. Why invading someone’s privacy

But nudes and other dirty stuffs are being leaked in advanced country, even celebrities and politicians privacies.

Hope u have the word paparazzi before

Its now clear that Obaseki is not a good leader that can coordinate people effectively in harmony. Yet he hide his delvilsh character for 8 years under Oshiomole.

Abizz:
Fastforwarded.

This man became so nonchalant that he would even take this woman to the official apartment. I mean officials inhabit about 12% of this estate and the apartments paid for by the company are literally just beside each other. You could imagine his gut foolishness, in fact, the foolishness was from both parties. Nothing happened still tho.

About two months ago.
First off, the company does give staff official phones with official sims and the sims come with free call to every official line. I mean, you could make a billion-minute call with zero naira to other staff, although to some selected levels. By default, a junior staff isn't supposed to have one unless the drivers who need them to lessen their phone call duties.
He first abused his office by unofficially allocating an official line to this lady because he wanted to be doing day time "extra cool" with her and funnily enough, despite all he earns, he couldn't buy the lady a new phone. He had to go to the store where abandoned official phones are kept to get her one of the phones. How much dem dey sell phones sef? Man could honestly afford any phone.
Of course he got away with it at first not until last month when this lady and other staff were being driven home and the lady forgot her phone in the staff bus. Someone (I suspect already hated the man and never approved of what he had going with the lady) now went through their chats. Gathered enough screenshots as evidence and sent them to some of the bosses. I suspect it's the driver because only someone with an official line could easily guess the numbers of the top officials. The first seven digits of each line are the same, only the last four are different and the last digits are kind of shared according to ranks. So for instance, if our official line was 0706789-xxxx, only the xxxx would be different and whoever uses 0 7 0 6 7 8 9 0 0 0 1 is most definitely an oga at the top.
You do not have a business with this if you don't have an official line.
The person sha shared the proofs of their romance with the management and my people, after our monthly meeting today. He was asked to drop his car key, house key and the official phone. Just like that. That was it, please submit your resignation letter today and your refusal to submit it before 4PM still means sure dismissal. I watched as he cried his eyes out and in all honesty, I pitied him and the lady as well. The two of them were sent off today with zero compensation. No nothing.

By the way, man was always talking about how difficult life was for him until he got the job. Without being told, you could picture life of a man with seven children and a wife. I could only hope he saved enough which looks almost impossible with seven children. Even me wey still single sef, na blow as e dey come for years till I manage get small sense recently.
See ehn... Promiscuity dey damage things, make I no lie. Na so Egbon take return to trenches. I pity his beautiful wife and seven children, I pity the woman as well and her own three children. I even pity myself wey type this epistle untop another person matter.. Make we sha dey learn sha.
Ire o.

Better for him, he will learn in hard way. Any man who cannot tame his stubborn manhood, let him face whatever calamity that befalls him.
Atimes, I do imagine if it's not testosterone that runs in the body of some guys/men that runs in my body. (When I see them turn to beasts whenever they sight females)

One thing about me is that, I can never, ever have romance in my place of work, my street and my church, not even office romance, most careless type of relationship.

SU50:
Someone talked about how ladies from down south sell themselves into prostitution during NYSC, I corraborated (we all know, so long as you have money to throw around, they will crawl), na lie?

Prostitutes? When he himself was unable to get lady among to date, he resulted to name calling.


Wen will u comment on males youth coper that normally visiting olosho and sleeping around with every female indengenes whre they posted them to?

SU50:
People with no self respect, they will throw themselves at you once they see you get some change.

If u dnt like one ethnic guy, does it stop other not to like him/her?

U guys u learn how to live and let leave, that's how world can have peace, after all we have countless of Igbo and Yoruba corp members in the camp.


The two p square are Igbo but married to different tribe.

Today one his happily married while one is regretting. .....

Money that is too big for u to loose do not use it to stake......it's boldly written on "bet-sites"


Not easy to make money from any angle, gambling seems to be easier for u to become overnight millionaire. it's only easy on the surface but highly deceptful underneath.

domination:
Urchins doesn't even know that tinubu name is in Pandora, while Obi has cleared his name tinubu is yet to comment on it

Oga, even unborn children know that Tinubu is a thief, but people keep hammering Obi name in Pandora scandal because the way his supporters urchins are projecting him as a saint.
........ nobody holy past oooo......

The way things are going, I'm not see atiku coming second o. Thre is high tendency that Obi will even have more votes than Atiku.

Atiku will retire by fire by force, infact, he is going home with total disgrace this time around.

Must all names be included on paper before they do the needful for the party?


Nigeria with egoistic mentality at all times.


If u guys are fighting for campaign list like this what will now happens if he wants to form cabinet.


Nigeria will not move forward until they remove excessive money attached to political appointments.

To me Obi is increasing popular because of two main points

1. Protest votes because of misrule of Buhari.

2. Sympathy votes because of south east marginalisation.

Not that Obi is messiah or he would do any magic when he gets there.

Lionnation:
I don't know where you people get your own women from most of the complain you people complain against women, I have no such experience rather is the other way round for me, well is good to be fine boy Sha, and sensible wether you have money or not, nothing like breakfast

Meanwhile, thr is high tendency u will marry wife, that will marry you base on lust and not genuine love.........in future if things ever got lull for u, by then u will understand reason why u shouldn't marry base on ur "deceptive lover boy.

Ahmback:
me na mtn and glo i wan borrow from. Then i go break dat sim.
those bast.ards too dey rob in broad day light

U re just exhibiting ur shallow mind and ur poverty mentality.


Even if they put ur type in CBN vault, ur body will still speak volume of frustrated niggard.

"Moimoi will do the work of meat, both will end as amino acid.



Though, you choose not to eat meat with ur #900 spending.

Baronthecelebri:
I don't have a girl friend

No wonder u re pouring your frustrations on innocent ladies.

I pity those who normally bring their issues to nairaland for advice. A faceless forum that 90% of participants are frustrated and hopeless.

Wedding can cause 100k if u want ni o.

Baronthecelebri:
You see, women loves bad guys she's dead now. Women will good guys and be going about with cultist, good for her, I'm happy she's dead and those useless girls that loves Bad guys will die Amen. Women are useless.

What about millions of girls that are with good guy?


Are u not good guy? Is girl not with u? If she is, what u want to say about her?

tsephanyah:
yes, PDP have to counter APC first. If they gave to a Yoruba christian, PDP will win hands down. That's why APC panicked and did the Muslim Muslim stuff. They still feared PDP will win..... I'm APC member. Lol . I wanted PDP to win because of a pity personal grudges I have with kashim shettima. APC wins awesome.....my personal grudges can go fck itself. PDP wins i just an ego bust for me. Lol

Go back and sleep, you didn't wake well.

Please try to change ur moniker to reflect ur gender when u re-awake then o. Perhaps, u will be able to reason rationally.

oz4real83:
Many years ago, I had a colleague that his friend was pestering to join his cult group, after several persuasions, there was a question he asked him in my presence that put an end to his pesterings. The question was " if I joined this your group, how often do they make their payments to members, is it bi-weekly or at the end of the month and in which currency does your group make payments to members? The guy was taken aback, he stuttered for a few seconds and his reply was "they don't pay members, but when you need people to fight for you, there will be a lot of people to do that". My colleague just hissed and told him " you don't pay and u are forcing to join all because of fight, let me know when you people start paying", that was the end of his pestering.
There was another situation I witnessed near an uncle's house some years ago, I went there for a cousin's traditional marriage ceremony, in a house nearby, I saw a group of guys beating up another guy, I made enquiry and I was told that the guy is in the same cult group with them and the reason they are beating him is because he hasn't paid his dues for some time . That was when I knew that some people dey by themselves dey join wetin dey kill them.

Meanwhile, "due" that he would struggle to pay and for one guy ,claiming to be capon, to spend recklessly on drugs, beers and hookers.


Thr was one particular soldier,I bought beer for him few years back, after taking the beers, he said, he wanted to give me his number, (apparently to be extorting me) ,that whenever anybody wants to fight me, that I should call him.

I told him clearly on the spot that, I dnt need his number, since I dnt use to fight. So,no need of collecting it. I said, if I collect his number, even when I'm not supposed to fight, I will fight, since I would have it in mind that I have one soldier-man that will fight for me, and before I know, I would become a nuisance in the streets.

When he heard this, his nerve just calmed down and he said, "na true sha".

Though, I latter collected it o, but never called him a day till his number got lost.

tsephanyah:
Delusional people.
Shouting is there time to be president, forgetting that first you have to be elected by majority of Nigerians.

If PDP gave the ticket to Igbo, APC will not even bother to campaign, cus it's just a walkover.

Igbos have to get allies and trust of Nigerians, not insulting everyone and acting all arrogant, expecting people to get behind them.

Yorubas did it and now they got the ticket in APC. Instead of y'all arrogant lowlifes to play politics and use Atiku to get to the finish line but NO, you choose arrogance all over again, shouting Obi will win 24/7 on social media, like the election will happen on social media.

Obi will lose.

Atiku will lose or win but PDP will stay in the north if the alcoholic choose threat and arrogance will work.

APC wins or lose but they'll never give ticket to SE.

Next year this time!

Next year this time!!

BIAFRA OR WAR all over again

Cus you people don't know how politics works.

So, it's only Atiku that can win in PDP now? No other southerners can win?...... with that, PDP is certainly heading to extinction.

I'm very sure ,all ur nerves will completely calm down after 2023 overwhelming defeat of PDP.

NaijaSumi:
I don't partake in such evil act. I don't also conclude and use the words Nigerians like one who lacks sense bringing the whole populace into baseless conclusions.

Take care

If u dnt partake in such dirty acts, u would have commented like a rational human being and not attacking people that condermning the act. So many people are reading the posts and comments.

Ur comment has a long way to go, by encouraging or discouraging wicked people.


Learn how to be nation builder rather than nation destroyer.

If u married and ur wife is condermning what ur kid does wrongly. I'm very sure u will strat condermning ur wife instead of joining hand to chastise child.


Have a nice night!

Knows12:
Good morning bosses,
I saw the message below on my fiancee Whatsapp and she claimed the text is not for her and the sender also apologize after she she confront the man. although I don't believe her but the man who sent the message also sent her money when she was sick last week...
Note: I have not caught her cheating or having affairs with any guy..
I need advice.
Modified: The apologies comes after I confronted her and she have to message the man in my presence.. the man was sorry but I'm thinking it's plan work cus my gf is finishing her night duty truly on Friday..
But I'm confused because have tested her loyalty before, I even offered her over 100k with my fake Facebook and Whatsapp account..
She said she can't double dating cus she love her boyfriend.
Mynd44

With this message, u cannot say she is cheating, more importantly, u said when u challenged her, she called the man in ur present immediately, and the man apologized. Yet u still said it might be plan. (U asked ur girl unexpectedly and she called the sender of the message immediately in ur present, what else u want?)

Oga, if u re not careful enough, so many randy he goats are on every social media, trying different logics to send signal to women.

.......I'm strongly believed that, that man just wanted to send dirty message to her to see her reaction......... He is afraid to ask her out directly.

NaijaSumi:
You are also part of the same Nigerians you mentioned and same goes to you

U can let us know how many u have sent to grave because u want to get hot blood money ok

Instead for the govt to be controlling finances of road union, they leave them for their own political thuggery during elections, yet they complain that no money to run govt.

Why won't be insecurity everywhere? When so many people are getting so much money illegally from different quarters.

I just love obi struggle only cos of one point.

......he is giving the two money bags run for their money....


Obi trend will give hope for genuine politicians in future against money-belief of some politicians