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shantti:
Someone should pls help me xplain what this lady wrote, i copied it and viewed it with ms word, see red lines and blue lines everywhere

I knew it, you would result to grammatical war, go back to secondary school and do WAEC, IF NOT NECO, YOU WOULDN'T HAVE KNOWN OR SEEN, 4 WALLS OF HIGHER INSTITUTION, back to your 'supposed grammatical intimidation. Why did you seek the help of MS WORD to identify grammatical blunders in an unofficial write up? Saying alot about your academic background. Despite the fact you sought the help of 'application to identify errors, you couldn't say the exact grammatical blunder I made.

Sorry for naija education, NECO and Android devices graduates.


Let me correct your blunders above

..............I copied and viewed them" on "MS WORD, saw red and blue lines everywhere.

Pronoun "it will be used for single error and not many errors.

Copied & viewed (past tense)...... Must follow by saw (past tense)

Olodoooooooooooooo

shantti:
Can u imagine how you paint someone evil, because a boyfriend did not buy a gift for his girlfriends mum on one of his visits( he bought gift for the mum on his first visit) he is now a potential bad father, bad husband and bad in law, i know u must be a woman,
Let me ask u a question, the guy you are dating, assuming he stays with his mum, will u be buying her gifts per visitation keeping in mind that u will be visiting like thrice per week. I know the answer in no, so does that now means you are insensitive, irresponsible and bad. Judging someone personality using ordinary gift as a yardstick,I spit in disgust at your reasoning, u need therapy, counselling, deliverance(six, become one wont be enough), rehabilitation,sermon, preaching, exercise( to improve brain function), early morning sun, fruits, vegetables( to improve brain function), milk, surgery, brain transplant, head transplant, yoga, sex, strolling, love and care, education, career, talent, passion, wisdom, exorcism, water, discipline, incantation and chloroquine injection

Going by barbarous you wrote up thr, Its is clearly shown you will soon enter market naked, you are going through most difficult time in ur life. your mind is seriously troubled, I pray God will see you through.

No need point of order again.

descarado:
@op, call and apologise to your man. Go and reprimand your mum else she will continue with this mentality.

A good mother in law to be will look for something to give him to take home with. That's how she will endear herself to this man and in turn make the man love and cherish you more.
Ladies use your sixth sense!

Is it mother in law that will find way to endear herself to son -in law Or potential (incoming) son- in -law that will find way to endear himself to his in-laws?

turning the whole show upside down,you guys should think deeply before posting on public forum please, ur posts can be used to deduce ur thinking faculty

GIANTPLUSHUB:
Traceey, we have passed that culture things. Now, everyone is trying to be careful and put somethings into test. You see, your man did nothing wrong at all.

How about he does not takes anything to your house but he gives you peace and comfort in marriage and always support if any situation arises in your own family side?

You need to think and go beg your man. So far he's a good guy to you. Somethings just need wisdom. Since he's into going to your house without buying something along. Next time, whenever he wants to go, try and meet him up and handover something to him to give them at home. Maybe as time goes on, he will get used to it. Do this with calm and good words, like you just want your family to see him as a more better good man.

All the very best.

since we have passed that culture, why did she need to buying gift and handed it to him to give her parents again? He should continue go there empty handed, after all, he is taking care of their daughter. I dnt think he needs to get used to culture we have outlived na.

you talked , within a second you counter your chidish opinion.

someone did something wrong, you are pampering and twisting , marriage is for mature and responsible man and not immature mind.

MakyavelitheDon:
After seeing the way you replied some people here on nairaland and after saying you hung up on your future husband it's shows me some things about you
1. You lack grace
2. You're Ill mannered and Ill tempered
3. You have your priorities completely twisted and you have no idea what marriage is about
4. Youre pompous and arrogant


I can go on but let me peg it there.

Now that your mother had used her witchcraft to truncate your marriage plans let her go and bring husband from inside the river for you.

I give that guy kudos for taking off... Both you and your mother don't seem like people a reasonable guy would wanna spend his life connected to

and the way you too reply her shows ur aggresiveness,high temperment and lack of respect. i pity the woman that will or is ur wife

LadySarah:
The first time my husband then fiance visited he brought nothing and my mom never brought the issue up. All their discussion was centered on his character as a person.

As it stands he's my moms favorite in-law when it comes to gifts which I have never solicited on her behalf. I'm always the last to know. please don't loose a good man cos of frivolities.

Ezigbo Di Di uko!

Funny though, I'm just remembering it now.let me go and ask him for African culture first time gift.

never a yardstick to proof point, then he made mistake, i am very sure when you were going to his parents place you brought gifts, definitely he would come back to his senses and made amendment;

LadySarah:
The first time my husband then fiance visited he brought nothing and my mom never brought the issue up. All their discussion was centered on his character as a person.

As it stands he's my moms favorite in-law when it comes to gifts which I have never solicited on her behalf. I'm always the last to know. please don't loose a good man cos of frivolities.

Ezigbo Di Di uko!

Funny though, I'm just remembering it now.let me go and ask him for African culture first time gift.

never a yardstick to proof point, then he made mistake, i am very sure when you were going to his parents place you brought gifts, definitely he would come back to his senses

JovialJune:
Really? Lmao,

So stupid people are in abundance on this forum, wonderful

Continue to assume and speculate your brain out, na you go tire las las.

Says he-she hermaphrodite, u say that to animal kingdom

JovialJune:
Really? Lmao,

So stupid people are in abundance on this forum, wonderful

Continue to assume and speculate your brain out, na you go tire las las.

He-she hymaphrodite is talk, you say that to animal kingdom

Trayceey:
leave those small children dear. The guy already called me last night apologising.

I'm very sure he had discussed it with grown up sane guys and not nairaland urchins. They faulted him and quickly came back to his sense.

You too should watch tongue on how to table
issues down with one your guy most especially from family sides, his and urs

DrayZee:
Of course he did. It didn’t take much for me to know he was a proper guy. But you’re taking the side of the person who called him an animal.

Comedy Central

Then animal nor normal human being

Everyone has animalistic nature, when one displaying it, people will label him or her animal

DrayZee:
“Animal” and potential “wife beater”, because he didn’t buy bread.

Wonderful.

Because he was aggressive and stop talking to her when she told him how her mother felt .

A mature guy will say, I sorry it doesn't come up to me, the issue would have died a natural death

Any man who quickly block his gf on trivia issues is aggressive in nature and potential wife beater

Though op might use heavy tongue, nevertheless

Trayceey:
lol. It really pained you seriously . So unmarried ladies at 45 should kill themselves abi. Highest fool of the century. Come and collect his contact na. Anu mpama.

Orisirisi ,o boy go and get life o


Ur attitude and level you go point towards ur lifeless attributes. Because someone who has work and taking responsibilities of certain class of people will not be digging hole looking for mountain as you did

JovialJune:
Go and check my profile and probably my comments, I'm a graduate from a prestigious University, a married woman with kids, I don't blindly support nonsense based on gender,

You this Nl people always assuming rubbish on people they don't even know offline just to drive home a useless point, accept you're wrong, simple.

Utterances are enough to know urchins, you married and you talk like this, not even married woman, I pity the poor man who finds himself In ur claws, anyway a girl who was impregnated and bundled to man's house......... we know how she will reason when other sound minds are contributing

Thou I don't believe in epistle u commented above.

Go and check meaning of riffraff and relate it with the way he-she like u behave

sapporo:
20years ago your comment would have been EOD, boss asking us to abide by our culture in this modern age is out of place because all these gurls we have now, operate under foreign culture team slay
i understand your morals, your personality is still rooted in how you were raised,some of have this upbringing to, buh now we evolve with the trends, anyhow they bring it we give it back. a cultured gurlfriend won't cut the call on her husband to be.
A woman that wants a cultured man must be cultured herself, if you gimme foreign vibe mesef go come with maths set & tape rule.

If you carry this toxic orientation into ur mariage .....i know it will wane down before you tie the knot, but if you try it, women will find it hard to leave with you

sapporo:
Bro its a "will" thing, no doctrine/culture stipulate you must bring gift. question of right or wrong doesnt play.
The most important thing a mother should be all about is ensure her daughter marries a gud man. gift is not the priority
I don't blame the mother and i won't blame the guy, the only person wrong here is the Op, instead of attacking her boyfriend she should have find a better way to give the guy heads up.

a call like; babe i notice you didnt come with any goodies to the house, i would love you to get something for mom o! no matter how small .. you can never tell these old people. laugh about it, a reasonable man wil get the message.

I concur, it seems the tongue op used too heavy, If you follow my comments you will notice I don't comment on her post directly despite I saw the post earlier, I started commenting on comments that attacking mother in law, in this situation the person who made biggest mistake is fiance, I keep repeating it, though op didn't play her card accurately as well. We are In Africa let play accordingly plz, we should stop bringing ailien culture at detriment of our own,

My wife can not imagine going to my parents house without bringing gifts even when I complain I don't have money, likewise me

According to op, going to his in law house now, not compulsory because she told him, she wont be around, why can't he stay behind if he doesn't prepare to give them gifts not even December period.

Oga school we attended shouldn't be a yardstick for us to jettison our culture of decency o, instead we should promote culture and politeness

Let me repeat my self again , my sisters and brothers in laws used to complain I don't use to call, will it good to tell them If I don't call they too can call me? I have never thought of it once


Place that he was going which is not often, haba

JovialJune:
This one go just open e-mouth waaa and be yapping about, did you read where Op said the first time he went for a visit, he brought gifts for her mum? Be hyperventilating on matter wet no concern you....

I hardly answer urchins, wen you grow older than ur present age you will understand, plz start preparing for academic activities, ASUU called off strike already, posts on marriages are not for ur age

Thou I blame op for bringing her family issue online for riffraff like you to ridicule

Trayceey:
thanks. You're right. It's festive season and that's the more reason it became a problem.

If your story is true, ......u have not seen husband o, but animal perhaps wife beater

My sister and brother in law use to complain I don't use to call them regularly....... I have never thought for once (not saying o,) ....that why cant they call me if I don't call them? Such fight is fight with someone who loves me. The same way ur mother complained

Mariangeles:
Thank you.

I don't know why people type things on nairaland they wouldn't do in reality.

I asked some guys here if they can dare go to an in-law empty handed, one said he would, the other was just going round in circle.

For me, I can't even dare to do that.

Follow nairaland people at ur own peril, many of them are just " fault finders". No matter how good intentions of the posts, they will attack the posters, many of the guys (attackers) can't try to go empty handed to ordinary girlfriend place not talk of mother in law.

Even sister in law, I buy gifts not to talk a whole mother of ur wife or wife to be.

Yet they will be Lamenting girls are bad, marriage is a scam

Why won't be problems for them, when they refused to play the game according to dictate of the rules

Juliearth:
I wonder why she didn't give him credence for paying her mother a visit. Only a man who means business would do that.

Means business? Can he do the business successful? That's question you should ask urself

A wise mother had seeeeeeeeeen that, if a guy that has not entered their house completely, can be so insensitive like this,.......how much is Eva? Soap, etc. The fiance action is enough to know he not matured enough to be calling responsible man,.... A man ready to carry responsibilities of wife and kids, just like you and others are complaining.

If he bought something and mother complained it was too small, that would have been a different story.

iamL:
Your mum should have been more concerned about his behavior and the kind of man he is.

For him to come to in-law house, not his own martenal house o ,empty handed not even when he is yet to marry their daughter Is enough to know one character, don't forget he also got angry instead of remorse when she told him how her mother felt, such fiance is animal in human skin.

If she ever marries him she will regret

Hathor5:
You should have never told your boyfriend what your mother said. BIG mistake!
Even if you mend the relationship with him, he will feel different about her from now on and I can't blame him.
Expecting people to always give you something every time they visit is pure greed or the result of poverty. I don't know which one it is in your case.

Why won't she? Going to ur in law place around festive period and you go thr empty handed, Whc type of careless and insensitive fiance is that, such guy will not be sensitive to pay sch fees and dropping food money in future, if she tries to marry such animal


Yoruba will say..... Ko moju Ko Mora (one who doesn't know what is shameful)

PopSmoke:
some of you just lack sense, so when next America go to the Moon make sure you also compare it with this sh*thole you live in,

give this dunce op assylum to America now, he go run

fools everywhere

Abobaku must die with king

Obama (black) and Trump (white), who can we say, his bastard now?


Pull America down because people said they don't want you again

My fellow beings here in jungle that ready to die bcoz of racist, I believe you will start applying break and reverse

cococandy:
What slurs comes to mind when it comes to men?

They are always the ones Coming up with what they hope will be disrespectful and shaming names for women.

Bitch
C*nt
Slut
Hoe
Olosho
Akwuna
It never ends .

Take their power away by not letting yourself feel insulted by any of that. I’m 100% for appropriation.

I pray you won't give urself HPB because of urchins on nairaland,even me that I'm male I select posts and comments to read let alone comments to reply, after first paragraph I know when to move to other comments, u see many are mad in Nigeria but few are roaming about, even in physical one should learn how to put deaf ear on what some people are saying, if you don't do that you be like them,........... Imagine, bcoz some crazy guys say foul languages towards particular gender you too you start saying it, to fight who? How many you want to start shaming? Before you know you too you become dirty stuff bcoz you want to engade In E-fighting and you take it down to ur marriage and affect ur kids.


Alpha male, simp, Virgina, people,hoe are just words from highly frustrated guys, who find it difficult to hold on to their feet, hence they take solace in degrading everyone comming their ways.

Many of them try to date girls but no single girl give them chance. Go to olosho thread and comfirm

Learn how to know who to reply and who to ignore

alphaNomega:
This is not true. Not all female bankers behave that way!! After all the stress from bank work, were you wan see strength to fuçk? Ask people whose spouses are bankers

Do you need to reply an empty headed guy? Promiscuity is at everywhere even in religion houses, yet there are decent ladies in everywhere too

Thank God you said you are teenager, at this stage, you are supposed to look straight to the future, how you will surmont big problems that are still ahead you, academic, career,marital etc.


All those people put pressure on you, only want you to be like them,..... Humans usually want others to join them for bad thing, but for the good they will be selfish that only them should attain such feast


My sister, 95% of human adults , are into problems they find themselves today, owing to the way they exploired their teenage years

I can give you several examples of people we were grown up together as teenagers who died, mad, struggling to feed owning to their excessive
waywardness in teenage years

shilz:
sorry these are the kind of orientation girls you have moved with have.stop generalizing please.

Where did you read that? Stop self denial, if you see how married men sleeping with girls and ladies, you will weep. Oga, statistically if 70% of data point towards a direction,..... They say people involve in that stuff, the issue of sexing more than a guy is up to 90%. Deny it at ur peril

The story I just narrated, if you were in my shoe, you would believe her hook line and sinker, based on her pretense and cunning way of lifestyle, but she met superior tactical approach

I concur ooooo


Hardly you will see a girl without dating more than 2 guys at a go, many of these girls don't know ovulation period, they believe it's a period immediately after menses. Even when they know the particular guy that impregnated them, they will intentionally give it to guy they believe capable of taking care of the baby


A lady puts pregnancy on me last August, wen I put pressure on her she confessed that she had sex with a man when she and her friends went out to drink with some men,and that after that day she didn't know where about of the man, yet she insisted I was the one who owned the pregnancy...., keep saying, its woman who knows who impregnated her........ After less than two weeks that she terminated 4 months pregnancy, she accepted to sleep with another man again just because he wanted to do birthday bashing for her, they had sex in the night of birthday.

These are kinds of orientation girls have these days, they sex different guys/men without remorse, gone are the days girls took cognisance of body counts.

ppogba:
Anybody that argues with you that something will come out of this should either be a baby or just arriving Nigeria from the moon.

Denying it now
Has she not resulted to media trial?

If everyone that have issues come online to fight it, cyber space would have exploded.