₦airaland Forum

igboamakaaa:
Such Mannerless Chriatians, just look at the brazen guts she has to say such nonsense "it serves you guys right" just because one chooses to marry his spec? It serves the male fold right to be deceived and scammed into taking care of the proceeds of an adulterous affair?
If serves men right for trusting his female partner with the sanctimony of marriage vows they shared.

We really need to revisit our moral ethics as a people. All these religious brouhaha is getting out of hand. This poster right here is saying that it serves men right to be emotionally abused and defrauded just because we choose not to marry from the "Church" (which has the worst set of pretenders as females).

Later she'd exclaim, "i am a Christian"
Do you even know what Christianity means? Jesus (Yahshua) whom you claim to be a follower of would never ever say something as irresponsible as this!

Forget about religion or no religion, many of you guys deliberately entered trap, I witnessed countless of such failed marriages, crazy about outward just because it's ur spec, usually bring tears

Many of you go into relationships with woman from beginning base on lust even if she is not virtious woman since its ur spec no problem


I believe you guy used to brag that club girls are marrying on weekly basis na

For every husband that do boast ......you are less concerned about what is happening on ur wife social media, or phone, that you rather focus on getting money, I think this will serve as eye opener, if ur own will worse than this


Any lady that let u have access to her phone, .......run with ur 7 legs

bigtt76:
Sad but you black and your kids are looking like shuwa arabs, you nor ask questions then

I doubt if husband didn't know amorous relationship was existed BTW wife and boss then

Escabado:
A guy said his friend usually fvk one married woman in there office every Monday morning and some people were shouting camar , now let me educate you , do you know that 99 % of the girls that are married between the age is 20 to 38 years are cheating on there husband . Is not a new thing as long as she has an attractive body and men are willing to give her money or help her in one way or the other she will cheat on you that's why you need to do DNA on all your kids to avoid raising another man's child. Women will hate this thread but that's the bitter Truth 99% of them cheats on there husband unless the opportunity didn't show up .

Why not put the percentage at 101% age limit from 0-100?


That 1% you hallucinted that are not cheat, how many times have you written epistle to praise them ?

Go and get life, we crossed to another year already, before you know you will reach 40 and still remain single

SAY NO TO BABA N DAGBE

Nazgul:
Loyalty ...sex is so cheap these day that even a married woman can easily give you a quickie. To have a faithful girl now is like using a spoon to fetch water in a bucket. Most beautiful girls have an unlimited number of toasters, and with time, she might just give in to one and begin to cheat on you...this scares most men a lot.

Finance... this also plays a very big role. A friend of mine wedded on the 19th of this month. I was among his committee of friends, I wouldn't want to exaggerate but on the average he spent over 3m. White and traditional.

Most men can't afford such luxury due to the present state of the economy.

Westernization. take it or leave it, Western Civilization has negatively influenced marriages in Nigeria. Hypocritical feminists are on the increase. Many women feel it's the sole responsibility of the man to provide for them while they do little or nothing to support his efforts.

Most men opt for baby mamas cos it's obvious that such orientation about marriages from the angle of the lady wouldn't be beneficial to them.

Materialism. Many relationships crumble due to this. And the few that survive till marriage crumble after few years of marriage. Marriage I believe should be more of sacrifice not about one party. When it becomes all about you and your needs, the guy becomes scared to commit. I once met a girl who told me that her ex gives her 150k monthly for her upkeep, and she went on to tell me that if I want her to consider my proposal I should add or double it. I was like wtf.

The problem wasn't even about the money but what's in it for me. Many girls are so blinded by their needs that they care less about what the provider of those needs stands to gain from them aside sex.

Let me stop here for now...

All ur sermons narrow down to one factor! Monetary factor...

Cheating has been of ages

Thou increases lately but not significant factor.

Ur friend that spent 3 million has money to waste

People do get married without do ordinary introduction

niggaman:
self control is the key, especially for men who find ourselves in the place of authority.

And for women who know their statuses have changed from singles to married

patani:
Go n sit down... Ure displaying your stupidity on public forum n resort to calling professor.. Open mouth wah like person wey get brain problem when corrected... Is that not subhuman attitude? You apparently have reasoning problem that's why u came here to defend animalistic behavior... Dindinrin.. Stop mentioning me before t*hunder fire ur pattetic animalitic* sorry a*ss

Pain you to ur bone marrow, you want us to know u finally relocated to outside after being completely frustrated back home

Remember my advice to think more than how u think now, if you plan to bring something back home, cos u re too daft

mployer:
I bet the husband knew he was dating the guy, but the money and promotion was coming, so he didn't care.

Oil dey ur head sir.


All the time that boss and his wife did embark on frequent trips for days and come, no complain o,
all the time wife will put phone on silent at home or go outside to receive Oga calls, no complain o, until she finally relocated to abroad and free money to hubby pocket cut off .

Even ordinary girlfriend it cant be hidden for long, not to talk of wife

niggaman:
Not always, some people are naturally friendly. having a boss that thinks with his dick instead of his head can be counterproductive to the organisation in most cases

God created every human being to have dual character

If you are naturally friendly ,you must know when to apply break or reverse wen tins are not playing to ur expectations

patani:
You know my problem with you?.. You dont read to understand... Maybe you got half education as BSc (Nigerian problem again) .. I was busy talking about Nigerian society being pervert you changed it to industry, specific discussion... I cited nigerian bank industry as a tipical example you are deviating from point... I cease to answer you.. It's obvious you are one of those practicing such shameful thing... #Asinwin

Oga professor problem abounds everywhere, even whre you are doing menial job in foreign land. Your foolishness did not allow you to think outside box, I mentioned popular example for you, yet u still adamant to correction, I pray you won't come as you went If you continue reason like subhuman. Provided...........

patani:
Wats the percentage? Av you worked in a Nigerian bank to understand wat I'm saying?
The way you are defending this shows you are one of them... Sick cun*t..

If you say so, I insist your reason is highly myopic, sleeping with married women is in every industry, go to civil service, go to university, go to military and paramiltary, go to film industry and end it in church /mosque

Go and do comprehensive findings before you reply me

emrain:
Just as women will remain sex objects ad infinitum, men will also remain “success objects”.

I only feel sorry for men that genuinely think a woman can love and stay loyal to them just for being handsome and “smart”.

I also feel bad for ugly hardworking women that would never find true love.

If you're going to marry a hot wife, make sure you can handle what comes with it. Beautiful women have the right to choose (whether married or not) the best man that can guarantee financial security for them after passing their prime.

As a beautiful woman, don't waste your youth with a loser, there's no dignity in poverty.
As a man, hustle o. Build yourself. Even if you're shortsighted, red pill with an empty pocket cannot get you a top-quality punna.

RIP to the dead.

Reread what you posted and access your intellectual

Anyway when you grow older than ur present age, you will understand philosophy of life

patani:
Can you see thesame Nigerian attitude in you?... Quoting me without abuse is too hard for you... It shows aw intellectually myopic you are.... N if u av comprehensive ability you will realize I didnt say people don't cheat abroad... I only said it takes people in marriage to decide they want to do it... Not someone presurizing a married person... I see pervert men in Lagos traffic winking at married women with bold ring on thier finger in traffic...Nigerians hardly accepts there is something wrong with us as a society. Even allow ur wife to mingle with Nigerians abroad they do thesame thing... I leave u to reason n come back with more intelligent statement

Is it only in Nigeria that men disturb married women? I think you are the one who his intellect Is myopic

Have you heard about Ryan giggs, a Welsh man who bedded his own younger brother wife for several years?

Woman, married or single will be disturbed by men, irrespective of country, tribe or religion, the onus lies on her to accept or reject.

niggaman:
Reminds me of my former MD in a PMI, dog in a human skin. Can sleep with anything that has hoe between their legs including married and contract staffs including cleaners

The way you dress is the way you will be addressed sir.

Wen you smile excessively to ur boss, soliciting unnecessarily financial assistance cum favors, you are bound to be slaughtered by Randy boss.

Woman facial expressions alone can make men forget his intentions for ever

BigBrother9ja:
Your father, mother and entire generation are forever miserably foolish.
Woe betide you and every thing that concerns you.
This is a Muslim thread. What are you doing here?
#It's a new year #and you've started placing curses on yourself.
You see how stupîd and frustrated you are...
You swear that I believe in Allah before posting this nonsense...
Jesus would be so proud of you.
Stupîd môron.

It's new year? You are bloody kaafr,you did not follow follow what me ur slave master imposed on you several years ago, on Gregorian calendar. This is ur punishment

You will never enter aljana

ANTIlSLAM:
It is now Gregorian NY no more Christmas day celebration, we don't beg you to congratulate us on our New year but you must use the calendar by fire by force for your daily activities... This is Nigeria and not Saudi Arabia

You slaves of allah should take paracetamol so that our matter in Christendom won't send you to your early graves one after the other

Even In Saudi Arabia they recognize and follow Gregorian calendar. As it stands now, all nations MUST acknowledge that we are in 2021. It MUST reflect in their memos to other nations

It is disgusting that a book wrote by humans, based on happenings in their society more than a thousand years ago, can still be following like zombies by someone who leaves several years after.

I pity Africa zombies who refuse to use their God given brains to think outside box

ekestic1976:
Nobody should hearken unto him. They're all scammers. If you don't have money to spend, find work. No responsible man begs to eat! Last week, one of them wailed here for money. I paid 5k into his account earlier today, but he didn't acknowledge receipt. I believe he's playing the big man. Then I baited him; telling him that my wife would send an amount of money to him in the new year in her own right. It was then that he replied that he had been busy to thank me and that there's no network where he was doing his hustle. No person should mind them!

Money you sent will be used to play, bet9ja, Bleep ashewo, and drinking energy drink.

But the truth is that when you sleep with ur own wife, it makes husband nerves relax far more than other side chick.

Maybe it's just psychological

Sadiqali24:
frustration kini?? I can look for another one.

Running away from one shadow, may God see you through.

Sadiqali24:
I met a lady yesterday......
Ask her for her digits which she obliged....
Fast forward to today.....
I called twice and she didn't pick...
Waited for about 10hrs and I called again but no answer...
I just deleted the number...

Why wasn't she straight and say look... I can't give you my number
Women and their ways... They can never change.

Blessing In disguise or frustration from deep down ur abdomen?


Those who bigger than you still in charge of her pussy, wait till Monday 4th it may be ur turn

BennyDGreat:
How can you ascertain he's been quiet on the matter?

Not everything comes on social media. These men don't live their lives on social media. They deal decisively with things without bringing it on social media.

You would be surprised he would have met with the boy and his parents personally

you don't need to answer fool so you won't be tagged as one, if Kumuyi should talk to parents, he must first come to media to placate idiots that full media.

Mother herself seems she wants more than justice.

She is on the mission to pull deeper life down.

PinkPill:
STORY!!

That's for girls who love blindly..
This girl in particular knows what she wants, and believe me, even if she doesn't get it, she will be close..

Boys cannot deceive her,
Neither will she waste time in an unproductive relationship..

Ur laughter makes me laugh, time shall tell, when you get thr

AAA593:
You want to fake his certificate even when the issuing authority has confirm it's genuineness. It will not work

And you think university management can not be questioned? Why just one certificate out of hundreds issued was different? Why his prequsite to enter university lowered than other candidates? Plus others discrepancies.

If court invites university and can't give satisfactory answer, court may affirm that certificate is forged. Believing issuing authority only wants to cover-up


Court knows when 1+1+1=1 & wen 1+1+1=3

Lekan239:
he is a secondary sch long time friends, she never knew he is a rapist

If ur epistle has anything to go by, it shows level of ur foolishness, ur girlfriend visited male friend and u come her to defend her

Abeg go with ur hallucinations

carammel:
I know the Op is being sarcastic though but this is the truth, treat your wife right.

A woman who lacked manner from cradle, that ill manner runs In her gene, no amount of respect you give he, she must misbehave

Not every woman can leave peaceful with man

I have been following bakare and his sermons since 2015, he has never for once say something outside politic on altar, and in all his sermons,he always attack personalities.

Still imaging people still going to that church, indeed religions followers are gaulible and
in african, just like slaves to religions leaders

wink2015:
Human should learn to control their emotion as uncontrolled emotion can lead to disaster.

Humans should study themselves and know how not to cross boundaries that will that will escalate their emotions, sending girl to oversees, you supposed to know it can go either way, if it goes the way you are not expected, will you cope with aftermath effect? If you can't cope better not involve in it

juniorstar:
the guy is a fool. I have never said that to the dead but am saying it now. the only time I would retract my statement is if somehow he has mental health issues. he deserves no befitting burial. he should be thrown in the evil forest. he even sent the gal to Dubai. if e pain am too much e for waste miracle b4 wasting himself now another man would be on top of miracle.

Ordinary android phone I can't buy it for girlfriend, imagining using phone I bought with my sweat to upload selfie with another guy on her timeline /status

Over my dead body!

For the vehicle, have you patronised and partner to make it global standard ?

Jemiwizzy:
Before I believe they are still some good and kind people in this world but condition showed me some realities.

I looked for help I didn't get the help but what baffles me is that before they help you they ask for sex or for you to sleep with them why ?

A guy called me last night that he would help me but I have to come over to his place and sleep with him. I was shocked you know why he already told the public he will help that he don't want anyone to take advantage of me.
So as a female no male gives us anything from his clear mind?

Put in position of your sister will you be happy if someone take advantage of your sister like that ?

.

It's not only human who take advantage of needy, even nations do it.

Country will help others in time of war, in other to have direct access to her natural resources.

Nations will give loan for the a country in distress, for them to have direct access to ur economy


Ask urself why family and friends couldnt help you for assistant you need.

Guys assume that every mature girls have
boyfriends or husbands and that it's their responsibilities to take care of their gfs.