₦airaland Forum

onyechez:
The rule of law does not work in Nigeria so expect nothing to come of it.
Little wonder they slap visa ban on Nigerians for certain reasons you people start to cry of bla bla bla.
Why can't the investigation be swift and justice be done. No wonder the mess buhari recommended at the ICC will never be accepted when the justice system is in shambles in Nigeria.

Comming to media every second to label everyone as culprit is not also good for justice as well, did she want media trial or real justice, If she wants real justice, why can't she presents her evidences and facts in court?

She only want undue emphathy and sympathy from media which you guys are giving her 101%.

To you guys, just as if Kumuyi should go to jail because of issues which is directly or indirectly involved

I insist nothing will come out from it

Toktee:
Are you for real, how's this case related in anyway?


The woman has enough evidence to nail deeper life, the doctor is the custody, she have them on tape..

And what will happen to deeper life? Abeg park well.


Nothing! I say NOTHING will come out from it.

LeonMacJames:
Can you propose an offline and viable solution to this case?

Thousands of issues are being resolved on daily basis without coming to media


Maa jo lo mo n weyin re......

(continue dancing I dey ur back, wen chips are down only you will remain Biko)

Before the advent of social media, differences and conflict were resolving.

[quote author=Tolexander post=97778217][/quote]All these gragra online will die down highest 2 months, AFTER EFFECTS will linger on you and your kid for years to come, at the end, nothing will come out from gragra.


I think Bukola Dakolo and her husband did gragra more than this, yet members keep trooping to church. What about daddy freeze? Does it stop people paying tithes?

Imagine bullies & trollings that bukola kids will be receiving in school and among friends, they can't be quantified


One needs to think CRITICALLY before going viral on issues that can resolve offline (without going viral)

BabaIbo:
That one is for people that will allow their wives to work.
It is either I start something on your own for you or you come and join me in my business or stay home.


BTW, I thought similar post to this was posted on the FP few days ago.

I pity ur childish believe , stay at home doesn't guarantee fidelity, it will only put burden on you solely

Tolexander:
I will find a way of leaving Canada to US or any other country for the woman. To avoid taking care of her for 3years and also committing crime. Cos i may be tempted to kill the woman.

There are many cases of how some men killed their wives (mostly nurses) in US after bringing them to US from Nigeria, financing their school fees to become professionals.

Honestly, if one wasn’t careful as a man, one might kill the woman

What do you expect from arangee wive, you came to naija and within two days, you met an adult lady, move her to abroad to leave with you permanently and you expect within a month, the two of you, would have fully understood urself

Fheelzz:
You can date a girl who likes money, materialistic things, loves anything but never do with a girl that is promiscious

Money nd materialistic will make girl promiscuous na, you won't be able to match her penchant for her worldly demands

Shifting every individual problems to the government,


Even without DNA, Nigeria govt is overwhelmined already.


If ur wife gives you another man pikin to father, na ur own headache biko

Draslo:
If it was my wife, I wouldn't wait for her to take from my food, I'd feed it to her. Not only my wife, even a gf I really like. The girl in the picture is not just a gf, she's a greedy gf.

Did you know mini of saying responsible man and not woman?

Man must be able to have big heart, able to reach compromise and not paying much attention to hear say, it seems you lack the 3 qualites I listed above .


Woman likes attention alot and be like disturbance to their guy/husband, if you misinterprete it, you may see it as a problematic lady, what that lady did in the picture was just way of showing deep love to her guy

Draslo:
I've lived with women.

I mean put woman at home as ur wife and mother of kids

Go and check her social media messages, they will hastening ur sucide.

Draslo:
SMH.

This explains women in their entirety. Woman go get 200k for account but still ask you wey get 50k for urgent 2k say she broke. If na me I go violently grab her hand and eat that piece. What rubbush!?!

Will you be able to leave with a woman?

The unlabelled lower glass btw 1 & 2

emkz:
It seems Tunde Thomas did not truly move on.

He may have had inclination that the kid weren't his (this was really glaring), but many people confronted with this tragedy of paternity fraud prefer to live in self-denial because they are unable to deal with it. I don't think Tunde was a simp, I pray no man faces this because it can ruin any man, simp or unsimp.

As for the family of the woman releasing a statement, it would have done well to keep quiet. Except those children were switched at birth, it is hard to believe they weren't Nuru's products. I mean, look at their hair, the shape of their heads, jaws and skin. It is akin to saying a Caucasian couple without any black ancestors giving birth to a mulatto, and someone presents a lame argument that it is possible.

The bank may order a DNA, but Moyo may not agree because she knows the truth. If the chief risk officer was involved in this scandal and it entered the public domain, the MD would fire that person. So the MD owes the public the duty of resigning. He is no longer morally justified to lead that bank or any organization where he'd interact with women.

Congratulations Mo, you successfully ruined two men and hopefully not, your children. If you are not careful, your children may never forgive you when their classmates start taunting them or being the subject of neighbourhood gossip as being the product of an illegitimate romping with your boss. This story has been stamped on the Internet. Money cannot buy you peace of mind.

Women should know they they reach bus stops and how to be comfortable with their husbands's incomes.

I believe the intensity of the heat already extended to family members

That was how serpent successfully deceived and manipulated eve, til date the trait still manifesting.

Just dangle cash in present of women, they melt and wet.

I knew a lady that did introduction in which I attended, despite the fact that marriage had been slated for October, during her service year, he was deceived by another guy, last December, having realised that she had deceived, she wanted to reverse but no 2nd chance for her.

Have you ever imagine how engineer and ur sister will end, perhaps death!




Meanwhile that is why pastor should desist from matchmaking couple, if problem arises, they will put entire blame on him, but if it works well, they won't remember to give him the credit.

missimelda01:
Bobrisky is catching cruise, growing his followers and making more money, follow his/her advise at your own peril

Even among women, in fact he has fan base among women than male.

I think this is testament that woman involved in homosexuality than men and that crazy about relationships stuff far more than men

The day guy.....man understand women is the day he overcomes any emotional trauma that may arise from her.


Men think pussy carry big dignity but the owner not seeing it as big deal, ready to open it under slighted....circumstances and ready to give it for whoever pleases her...low, high, rich, poor...

Sandrazima:
Most guys will leave me to my fate? In which world? Lol

Women are the real ones with abundance. Have you seen my WhatsApp? I have over 50 unreplied messages from guys. Sometimes I wonder where some of them get my number. Some of them I've told to leave me alone, that I'm not interested, yet they feel they have to prove themselves, offering to take me out and sending me card when I didn't ask. Some of them I ignore hoping they'd stop texting, yet they are still texting. I've installed GBWhatsApp many times just to hide my last seen and online so these stalkers will leave me, yet they are still texting

The more badly you treat a guy the more he chases you. Talk about lacking any self respect
But they will come online and be forming alpha. I laugh in Chinese.

i pursued a lady for six good years on social media, i got her after her second child for her husband and after sleeping with two of her sisters


fear who no fear man

my advice, just calm and respect one only guy digging ur hole

In future you will still come online and say you depressed cos ur wife's boss impregnated ur wife.

The way people close eyes to red flags and signs of infidelity is worrisome


Women cannot hide as you guys believed, if you are observant.

CalliDora1:
Why are most people here making it look like you just wake up and start beating a child for no reason? Of course no one in their right senses would do that. However, I feel it's necessary to employ flogging as a measure of correction when a child is being unruly and obstinate. However, temperance should be observed when meting out such punishment.

Children have the tendency to grow wild and beyond control if not tamed in time. I am product of moderate flogging and it has helped shaped my life for the better.

I once left my after school lessons and ran home to watch Robinhood. That day marked the beginning of the end of running away from lessons as my dad flogged the hell out of my body that day. It made me take my studies seriously.

So a little flogging here and there is not bad.

You don't need to answer foolish post from stupid moderator

No wonder society is decaying on hourly basis


Any parents that spares cane for child below age 12, even during youthful excubirant stages, he will die of attacks from such child wen he/she grows older.

LutanFyah:
I'm not supporting anybody, I'm all for justice.


I'll suggest you go back to secondary school cos you can't even type very well. Your use of grammar is terrible.

You are free, having defeated you on point and opinion, you resulted to intimidation on grammar.

Newsapapper editor, I salute ooooooo.

Kindergarten teacher I pity you, I don't have your time on grammatical stuff.


I'm for justice!

Not I'm all for justice!!

extol1:
but we told that the deceased girlfriend is pregnant

If she pregnant, yet she still died not seeing her true biological child, If a cheating wife said you are not biological kids she bore, aving impregnated another woman in which you might have learnt ur lesson, I think he should be the happiest man

LutanFyah:
Don't support evil because your church is involved.


If you're enlightened, you'd know that defilement can be difficult to prove if the victim has taken his/her bath after the act. Still,it doesn't negate the the fact that the young man was sexually abused and your church will definitely settle out of court or risk being dragged in the mud as long the case lasts thereby losing students and prospective students too.

You too should not support evil bcoz it involves church, even to the blind it's obvious the woman want to bring church down, going by her utterance and body language, did you ask your self why every other person or entity not supporting her intentions
including her own doctor except people like you who shall go down with her and her evil Child.


Is husband or relative of husband ever talk, but person like you who mourn more than bereaved

Maxymilliano:
So this was the whole essence of the brouhaha.

What happen to allowing the instruments of Justice unraveling what was hidden and commensurate sanctions meted out to anyone found wanting

That's why you people should cautious enough to throw blame , I knew this evil wanted to bring out mountain from small hole.

Issues messier than this are still resolved without coming to media

I Have said it countless times that this woman need more than justice, thank God she fully come out with her intentions


And those of you that have been blaming deeper life, kumuyi, government for not doing enough, I think you can see she is the one frustrating the whole process. She refused to let dirty issue go down, so many dirtier issues than this are resolved without throwing them to media.

I pity the woman sha, she will surely regret every of her evil action.

No wonder her husband or in-laws never come on media to shout up and down

igboamakaaa:
Oga Church warrior, stop assuming things that i never said. If you as a human assumes that for one to oppose an opinion in an argument he must have suffered from the disadvantages of that which he argues against then, once again i have to question your morals as a human.

You Hereby branded My marriage and that of all my friends as failed marriages just because i dont see things from your point of view? WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE?

I've been happily married for 8 years, I didn't meet my wife in the church, neither did we meet at a club. I met her at an art exhibition. And with time i came to understand that she was perfect for me.

That's how it's supposed to work, you just don't force someone to go marry another person he isn't inwardly and outwardly attracted to, it will always end in tears. That's exactly what happened to those set of guys.

Their pastors through their religious parents forced them to marry 'virteous church sisters' whom they couldn't even have a simple 5 minute conversation with. Who couldn't smartly and didn't have human ethics that matched their class of personalities and it obviously ended in tears.

The others who married who they were compatible with are still enjoying their marriages till now as well as I'm doing so.

COMPATIBILITY is the word, not churchy, nor religious nor whatever adjective can be used to describe that term. If you're not compatible you can NEVER have a happy marriage no matter how holy or virteous your partner may be. You understand that right? And please stop assuming stuffs, it'll do you no good at all especially if you're a married person. Have a lovely day ahead.

U said it every church girls you witnessed their marriages turn out to witness infidelity. It's less than 30 min u wrote urself.

Let me tell you bitter truth... IN every marriage that having issues, the two partners have their share of blames. In fact on many occasions men takes 60% blame

igboamakaaa:
I don't know where it was written that spec means only "outward appearance". I surely can't encourage any man to marry a girl that can't have a conversation outside religion, a girl that can't make decisions for herself without consulting her 'pastor or priest', a girl that perceives going on beach outings with her husband and family as 'sinful'. There's levels to this virteousness and religious talks.

SPEC encompasses an all round inward, outward and general characteristics of a descriptive entity. Did you hear me talk about buttocks or whatever?. I only asked that men be allowed the freedom of marrying whomever that suits their spec, same as it is for ladies. Why then narrow it down to the outward looks?

Even the 'virteous woman' or 'church girl' has a spec, if a man who likes her doesn't meet up with her intended spec she will NEVER accept him no matter how 'churchy' she is.

Honestly, in that part of the world... Religion has beclouded common reasoning which God has blessed all men with.

I think you have problems with church, go and sort urself out,.... Before you go, street girl must surely go back to street

Bye

igboamakaaa:
So, you now advice that men should marry "church girls" (of whom vast percentage are retired "club girls" as you termed them)

Bro/Sis, while i was in Nigeria, i witnessed the highest levels of hypocrisy from the congregations in the Nigerian church. Lots of friends whose wives became wildings married from the "virteous ladies" in the church who wear flowing gowns, puff handed clothes, sweep the church from morning till night and never miss shiloh revivals.

Yet immediately after they got married, Bam!! It all changed, the true adulterous whores in them came out. One even did courtship for a whopping 4 years.(how can a lady perfect the act of deceit for 4 years).

I'd rather advice guys to marry ladies that display their true character flaws before hand so they can know what they're dealing with. Virteous my ass, infact a virteous woman would rarely describe herself as such, its always the opposite for the opportunists who mask under Religion to sell themselves as "wife material" after retiring from years of whoring.

No one is sure of marrying a good wife based on his human perception of who/what is good and virteous. It's Only God who sees what we do in secret that can give a good wife/husband, that's why its advised to pray earnestly before marriage (not consulting a pastor/priest to choose your wife from his congregation).

I think I come back to read ur church girls

Did you also do statistics of those who marid church girls and remain faithful?

You and ur cliche of friends who witnessed fail marriage, can you say it boldly the problem caused only by church girls?

I will advise you to leave responsible for ur virtuous wife not to turn beast

igboamakaaa:
So, you now advice that men should marry "church girls" (of whom vast percentage are retired "club girls" as you termed them)

Bro/Sis, while i was in Nigeria, i witnessed the highest levels of hypocrisy from the congregations in the Nigerian church. Lots of friends whose wives became wildings married from the "virteous ladies" in the church who wear flowing gowns, puff handed clothes, sweep the church from morning till night and never miss shiloh revivals.

Yet immediately after they got married, Bam!! It all changed, the true adulterous whores in them came out. One even did courtship for a whopping 4 years.(how can a lady perfect the act of deceit for 4 years).

I'd rather advice guys to marry ladies that display their true character flaws before hand so they can know what they're dealing with. Virteous my ass, infact a virteous woman would rarely describe herself as such, its always the opposite for the opportunists who mask under Religion to sell themselves as "wife material" after retiring from years of whoring.

No one is sure of marrying a good wife based on his human perception of who/what is good and virteous. It's Only God who sees what we do in secret that can give a good wife/husband, that's why its advised to pray earnestly before marriage (not consulting a pastor/priest to choose your wife from his congregation).

I stop reading from wen you mentioned church girls. Go and reread my post I underline whr I wrote church girl,

I think I wrote about virtuous woman and not going for lust believing ur spec

I don't know if you married, no matter how your spec is, you will tire of all goodies less than one year

The two factors that will continue oiling the engine of your marriage are good characters and genuine love you have for each other aside other physical factor.

If you don't want to marry church girls you are free to marry Arab or shrine girls my brother

Tloc:
Read again man, he did not commit suicide. Cardiac failure.

OK, maybe that's why he had heart failure

Kobicove:
I'm sure he was aware of the relationship by tolerated it because of the goodies the wife was bringing from her job

I even read online that he can't bear kids, if it's true, it may be big reason he committed suicide........ Thinking whre to start from