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Hmm

Unnecessary loud sirens and traffic jam today for Abuja residents.

Wish them luck today .

Ijaycool:
Girl please create a telegram group let's join you in this business. Is it the Dubia potty chawing or what?

Because even Shuga Daddy or Big God can't provide so much in this Next Level.

Put us through. You alone can't chop all the poo ooh

Lmao You alone can't chop all the poo oooh. Lol

You killed me with that sentence.

iamrealdeji:
be giving attention when your mates are chasing money,she would just cheat on you with rich guys and dump your ass for them

You didn't get the message. Literally even if you give a lady both money and attention, she will still find an excuse to cheat. Lol

Simple means ladies can never be satisfied with both money and attention .lmao


That was the information you didn't still understand.

The truth is bitter my dear fellow Nairalanders.

You are all hating the messenger here. Instead of focusing on the message.

She just gave you the pure truth of female nature and you all are getting angry. This is a good information for guys out there to know that most ladies are like this.

So use the information to your advantage for once.
Most ladies love attention and they want to get it at all cost. It is a very stupid stuff.

Eve committed sin with the serpent even when Adam gave her everything. Lol
please note the serpent was not crawling then, until it was cursed to crawl. Lol (so get the message).

Better enjoy ladies the way they are and treat them that same way. Because they can never change (even after marriage).

They are always so focused on what they can gain (money, attention, sex, kids, security etc). They only love men opportunistically.

And that is the simple truth.

Hmm

Now when I say marriage is a scam. Some people will start blabbing insult here up and down.

I am not even bother about the lady doing what she did. It is in their nature so am not susprise.
Ladies will generally misbehave and so do men.

But the fact that she kept quiet all this while and couldn't even communicate or express herself with a man she has being with for almost 16 years.

Seriously that is just deep. I mean we are getting to know now about this because of the negotiation and things went wrong.

Imagine he had money or was in the same city. That is game over. She would have been having constant affair with the man.

Infact she might be having affairs with different men as the Nigerian scammer claimed.

Now she is playing the usual victim card has most ladies do.

Marriage na scam.

So some dumbfounded lady will try to experiment this and expect her partner to act in the same way. Lol

This one is a case of two sex starved couple.

Because no lady in her educated or right sense will hit her man out of respect.

And no man in his educated or right sense will start sucking his lady in public out of respect (except he sees her as a sex object).

But different strokes for different folks abi. You can still try this method but please come and post the outcome here on nairaland. Abeg.

It should even be a new challenge . Since stupidity equals fame in this era. #slapandsuckchallenge. Lol

Durentt:
Hello I'm a second year engineering student who just finished first year with a 4.11. The majority of my friends are on a 4.6 above and no, I'm not jealous of them because I know they worked harder than myself last year, I was busy mixing school with romance and play.

But now I was just wondering. Of course it's a new semester and students have begun reading already. At the end of the semester, some will have a 4.7, 4.3 others will get a 3.5, others even 2.8.
Why this difference when they all read and prepared from the start of the semester. What do first class graduates do that others don't.

From my point of view.
First class or distinction graduate read to learn and understand . They don't read to pass.

Most people think it is about cramming past questions or revision. If that works luckily for some, it is because of the lazy lecturers and weak institution system.

In Nigeria student bribe to pass and get first class or second class upper. So when you ask them what they do. Different excuses come up such as I don't know, or I was lucky the past questions I read came out.

You need to be a slow, patient and repetitive learner to fully grasp what others thought they understood at once.

Now for those who say no be by degree or first class. Trust me to fully understand life and be wealthy you need the three qualities I stated above in all aspect of your life to succeed.

You can be rich and OK. But to be wealthy and maintain such wealth you need the discipline of a first class student. Simple.

Now you can go and hug electric transformer if you want to argue with me. Lol

Hmm I can't understand how brothers keep making the same mistake.

It is just his turn for now ( even with or without money).

She will move on once she finds a better guy ( richer, more responsible or marriage ready guy).

She just dey use am for fame in the same process advertising for a better prospect and he is using her just for sex. Simple.

Madness.

Poverty can make anybody do anything especially ladies.

I don't blame her na money be her motivation and for the guy na fame and Toto.

They both won what they desire.

Now let me find my way.

Blissful fickle fate.

It is what happens to most people.

You must experience it and learn from it then you will become stronger.

Most people face this all through their life without knowing and keep repeating the same error.

No wonder Solomon asked for wisdom, knowledge, and understanding.

Hmm so she got dickmatized and every girl and guy on nairaland throwing the first stone (forming holy and righteous brethen).

Now don't get me wrong. Am not supporting her moves or motives. But we all know how it is for all these caged children seeing freedom for the first time. Especially if she is a girl.

Well her case was that she got caught. Simple.

Make God just give the upcoming millennials church mind because what I see on a daily basis is scary and outrageous.

Me that am even talking I wonder where my siblings are Lol

raphretle:
Her smiles are FAKE.. may God help you young man

I thought I was the only one who saw it.

Damn people dey do calm and reflective observation too.

Nairalanders I hail una.

Like you said also best of luck and may God help him.

I have come to realise that the amount of immoral married people is on the rise lately and it is worse or more than cheating couples in relationship.

This which I think boils down to the foundation of the relationship before marriage.

Even dating is like a mind game to most people. The girl opportunistically dating for a reason. The boy just been controlled by sex thinking it is love.

Now after playing around for years without creating a genuine relationship with anyone.

Age comes in and either the lady will marry any guy that present marriage to her immediately and still be fvcking outside. Like the example above to the extent in an uncompleted building.

Or the guy will go and look for a virgin (most nairaland guy's mentality) with no moral. Thinking he has made the right choice, until the truth will hit him after years in marriage that it is not by virginity that defines a compatible good wife.

Abeg for the male out there, just go redpill + mgtow+alphamale and stay on your purpose together.

For female go feminist and build your career to sustain yourself in case he messes up abeg.

The world is too big to be bother by a cheating spouse.

Psssh let me come and be going Jo.

It is better he/she reports to his family to take off what is on his/ her mind.

Than him/her stocking it up, until one day the cup go too full, and na explosion which indirectly means beating, hurting or even killing his partner.

Hmm hmm

Females are never satisfied. Until the guy takes concoction and rape you for 3 hours.

You will still come and complain of rape.

Pssh.

Hmm too many mad people are roaming in this sheet hole of a country, only few are diagnosed or known.

Even you reading this comment might be mad.

Lol

Hmm

TeeeVeeee:
Not many know that the Kwara Governor-Elect, Abdul-Razaq Abdulrahman's father is Ambassador AbdulGaniyu Abdul-Razaq, SAN, the first lawyer from Northern Nigeria. Abdul-Razaq Abdulrahman has six siblings:

Dr. Alimi Abdul-Razaq - Managing Partner, House of Laws

Senator Khairat Abdul-Razaq-Gwadabe - Lawyer and a former Senator who represented the Federal Capital Territory

Rissquat Abdul-Razaq Igue - Cotonou-based property developer and oil trader

Hajiya Aisha Lawal - Biochemist, stockbroker and former first lady of Kwara State

Mallam Isiaka Abdul-Razaq - Chief Financial Officer, Finance & Accounts in the Nigerian National Petroleum Corporation(NNPC)

AbdulRauph Abdul-Razaq - Businessman in the food and hospitality sector


https://enewsnigeria.com/meet-kwara-governor-elect-abdul-razaq-abdulrahmans-father-6-siblings-kwaradecides/

Congrats to them.

Now let me spit the bitter truth.

Kwarans scroll back up and note the business they are all into. Now please make sure you also take records cause they will soon magnify in wealth through your state money.

All the position they have held will let you know that they are ready and they know where to diversify the state fund once they enter government house officially.

They are humans and will definitely enrich themselves instead of the state.

Congrats again and enjoy the next level season starting soon.

The Dubai porta potty is real.

Bloggers might be copying and pasting to attract traffic. That is also true.

Do a google search on it and change your VPN to USA or CANADA and then you will see the real result.

American models / Instagram models way of making money.

Now for naija, I suspect the likes of Toke, stephenie, okeke etc as the major participators.

Now some random people will claim na jealousy they do me. But in reality the truth is always bitter.

It is only in Nigeria, Nigerian ladies will travel to Dubai occasionally and comeback with money and build houses. When people go to Dubai to spend or buy goods.

We are too gullible and we will use religion to support our immoral act.

If you want to quote me or dey vex. Abeg buy ticket go join them for Dubai Porta Potty show.

Hmm.i wonder what will happen if a man too should initiate saggy balls and upload pictures of it. Then tag it a movement.

I have come to accept the double standards female love and how it entails them to attraction and validation they are always looking for.

Seriously saggy boob movement.

Men need to upgrade abeg. Saggy chest, saggy balls, saggy yansh etc. Lmao

Mgtow is the only way.

No stress. Enjoy your life. No burden of my wife is cheating on me.

Work only on yourself and if by chance you have kids, they become your priorities.

Apart from that, your wife, female partner, friend with benefit or whatever you call it won't bother you

In reality and current generation. No women can be loyal and humble, even if you give them the world they will still misbehave. Eg Adam and Eve.

MGTOW for life.

Dinho20:
YOU SOUND JEALOUS

Nah. I wish that was the case.

After all I am still a virgin and will remain a virgin till I die. Lol

No man can drill me cause I have no pussy. Lmao

Now they will say why do men treat them as an object.

When they make them self appear as a sexual object.

Psssh

donstan18:
If this lady is truly a virgin, then she has my respect.

Virgin is a woman's pride.

donstan18:
If this lady is truly a virgin, then she has my respect.

Virgin is a woman's pride.

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She has your respect because of an hymen between her legs. Seriously men at times.

No wonder women fool you all and control you with vaginas.

Pssh. Seriously other men look for great qualities to deem it fit to give a lady respect.

Una na unlock pussy una dey deem fit to respect. Hmmm hmm

When I read or see things like this I laugh.

Why? Well because I have learnt never to be proud or boost of anything in life. Not because I am wicked or sadistic. But I have learnt over time life has a way of not just being fair.

Now she is happy and proud she is a virgin? Seriously.

She has advertised herself to her friends and the world.
Different kind of solicitors will come and trust me. I mean the perverted, manipulator ,rich, poor, religious evil brothers who deem it fit they have to disvirgin her.

Trust me after they open her up (in a more sadistic perverted manner) because they know that is all she has to offer. She will loose self esteem and realise she has just be waisting her time.

Virginity in civilized and western world is prehistoric. In other words nobody gives a Fvck.

But in Nigeria. People still deem it as an achievement.
She will soon understand. She is like a frog in the well who has no idea of the ocean.

What am I saying gan? Me too I am still a virgin. Lmao

Attention seeking old lady.
Still at old age. Looking for attention. Hmmm
Women and attention. Some girls on nairaland will do worst at old age.

Gbam

Heart of man is desperately wicked.

Look at the environment he is in.

He sees the brown roof and people in abject Poverty.

But still steal and embezzle their money to buy luxurious cars in Abuja.

He is given priority in the same place and among the same people he dominates their wealth.

Damn

nkwuocha:
Dear jumoke,
Your baby daddy is not your husband!You still have the legal and Godly rights to marry a more respectable man.What you did with that man was committing sin against God and tradion.By the laws of God and of the land,you owe him no damn attention or thing!You don't owe him any damn thing!He is just a sperm donor who has got No honour for your family; Knocking you up twice and still did not get to pay your bride price, until now.Get more education, connect to more responsible and respectable people(Trust me there are genuine single men who will marry you without blinking an eye),get more ambitious and don't allow an irresponsible sperm donor pull you down.Cut him off completely!I see you walking in more international scenes...Lady there comes a time in your life you cut off some certain people in other to attain achievable goals.He has done his part in your life by being just your baby daddy,keep him that way ONLY.

Lessons to men who glorify being a baby daddy.If she is good enough to be knocked up without condom,she is also good enough for her bride price to be paid.

Those people quoting me,make una kukuma buy beer and kilishi for man wey Bleep una sisters give her Belle tire and still no pay one naira for her head.Oniranus!

Your comment prove that the world is full of double standards. Now imagine it was the man that rose to fame like jumoke.

Would you give the same advice. That she is just a womb donor (child factory )?

That he find should a better wife now after all he dad not paid her bride price?

That it was just a sin they committed then?

He should get education and connect himself with more important people and move on?

This is pure hypergamy that you are insinuating to young ladies out there. I am happy I understand that earlier in life. Find a better option, always search for more to hop on.

A man must suffer sha. Satisfy her financially, mentally, spiritually, and so on, all because of what?

You will marry finish, pay the most stupid thing people talk about the most (bride price) and still end up with nothing but more responsibilities.

So you think jumoke won't still act this way even if had pay her bride price?

I advice young guys out there to just go MGTOW and any lady that come your way just Fvck them well with no emotions or string attached.

Because once a better opportunity shows up they will dump you.

WhatsApp status can forget.

Your siblings can forget.

People can forget.


But my dearest nairalanders, the INTERNET never forgets.

Give her time. She will learn.

XaintJoel20:
I would have done that long before now, but I still think she is too good to let go just like that.

I think I should tell you some few things you should know about her:
After our service year I was struggling to get a job and she advice I set up a business and helped with about 50% of the capital with which I started my current business.

When we started, she bought a large plot of land in my state and just recently developing the plot for agricultural use.

On all the occasion she has visited me in my state, she has done so with her money and also getting plenty of goodies for me and my family.

Just recently, she bought into my lifelong plan of travelling out of the country. She has put visible plan on ground for us to leave the country soon after our wedding.

The truth, is that when I think of her inbuilt qualities, I am force to believe I will be on the losing side if she fails into the hands of someone else.
That's why I said I am in a dilemma.

After all you clearly stated. I know your problems.

Either because you have not met a gold digger?

Or another babe dey wire your head with fvcking that you can't think straight?

Or you are just your own problem.

Abeg free the babe for a better guy that will understand her and appreciate her.

Na because of guys like you, men don't meet caring, supportive and hardworking babes.

When your type don break their heart, dem go just lock up for real men.

You will understand what you have after you ve lost her.