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kennydotkom:
My wife has always denied me sex with her, though I know that whenever she is not in good mood, she won't allow me, but this has become frequent with her. Note that I work in another state but I come home every weekend in which I have all the privileges to have girls because I live alone.

I can decide not to come home on a weekend just to attend to other girls but I didn't. Many people often call me a pastor because my neighbor where I work has not seen me with girlfriend with all the freedom I have.

Sometimes she jokingly says that I so much like sex that she doesn't want to grow old fast because of sex. With just 2 or 3rounds am OK till next weekend oo.

HOW TRUE IS This? as for me I get satisfy whenever we have fun togeda such that I can wait till next weekend when I will return home from work.

She is not a working class type, so she does her business at home, no stress except to take care of kids. at time she complained of headache, tiredness, or even if I wake her up at around 4am when kids have slept, she will complain that why did I wake her up when she was dreaming. And if am forcing her, she will being to make noise that can wake the kids up.

Here in my place of work in abeokuta I have all the reason to sleep with other girls, in which I have told my wife herself that my conscience cannot judge me if I do, because with little time I spend with you, u often turn me down and mostly she never initiate sex with me except she is extremely happy but very rear.

I don't know who to report her to .i just don't want to flirt around because of fear of God and love I have for my kids. We can go a month without sex, she is very OK with that, I told her that she had turn herself to just roommate.

My brother you need to enlighten yourself. This is a normal phenomenon with women or ladies after marriage. That is why most experienced men on red pill and Mgtow channel on YouTube advice you not to marry.

Ladies change based on hormones, age , emotions, childbirth, etc And you will always suffer as the man for things you have no idea of. Most men are going through this in their marriage and they keep silent. Women start using sex as weapon especially when they know you are loyal to only them. It is a very stupid decision which she will likely regret over time.

The second case might be she found another lover elsewhere which I am not praying that is the case.

Solution:
Try to discuss and explain to her on several occasions that she knows it is part of her marital duties and vows. And if she continues.

Ignore her and find a solution elsewhere. Don't argue about it. Don't fight it.

Divert your attention and care to your career or younger ladies who are wild and will treat you with care.

Anyday she comes to her senses she will start asking you questions. Still ignore her. Let her beg and even hold a family meeting. Ignore her. She needs to understand she ain't the prize my brother.

You are the prize. Simple.

And the rape week continues. Gbam

This month is just rape here and there.

Makes you to start wondering if all this people know the true meaning of rape.

Everyone just dey carry rape story hear and there. Like say na the new trend.

Ok oooo

Smile4daddy:
The victim, the accuser, Timi Dakolo, Busola Dakolo, The COZA, and the Pastor together with all the Yeyebrities, those in support of the Olosho victim and those against the Accuser, the mods, the bloggers, they are all mad fellows.

Too me it is just pure crap. I feel some ladies don't really understand what rape is.

May be he molested her and had sex with her as a minor, then she consented to it. But saying rape is just pure crap.

Cause if it was rape she won't wait this long talkless of still being a choir in the man's church. Trust me I know both male and female individual who where raped. It is a deep traumatic stuff. They will kill you if they have the opportunity without any feelings. But this our olosho choir mistress.

Went to the guys house after all the incident. Took care of his new born baby,
Went to the church for years and seeing him on the alter.
Got married to a choir master who she aborted a child for at first? Then got pregnant again and married him due to the pregnancy.
Then may be timi dakolo no dey enjoy am well na him she come dey use pastor nack dey claim rape trauma.

It is too late for her to claim rape after all the constant nacking. She is just doing the #metoo rape challenge like in the usa.

Because ask around you people that were truly raped. They don't wait or take the matter this lightly as this madam is doing.

I might be wrong ooo. I am just giving a different view. Don't let emotion carry all of us. After all we know sabi her and when money and things where going smoothly at COZA choir sex/ rape fest. Them no tell us.

Hmmm hmmm

remiguy:
it is his own property

Nope, It is just his turn for now until further notice.

Weird stuff. Can't believe this. Nollywood, telemondo, zeeworld, Africa magic and co.

The downfall of African and African women. But I blame them. I blame the weak men who subscribe and support them in watching stuff like this.

Make (husband and wife ) them repair the house. Simple.

Shibaraba:
Divorce came to mind because she did something either consciously or subconsciously and you hated it.

We wey dey the institution na prison we dey we no fit comot.
We dey push am like that. Wishing we weren't
But then again no one loves going down alone
So please marry. Make you feel wetin we dey feel

That is dark and deep my brother. Gbam

Hm

This is just so funny.

Give them max 2 years. They will reduce to 2.

After 5 years. None of the husband will exist no more.

Why because men will always be men and women can not co-habit without hypergamy in their favour.

So let her enjoy her 8some while riding the CC.

Hm

stanliwise:
sorry if you feel insulted though.

No wahala. Now I know an employer will never ask her to open her back. But the fact that anyone or even you that sees a tattoed babe with another man's name on it will never take her serious.

That is just the simple truth. Safeman.

stanliwise:
olodo which one is rejected by this and that? so evn tattoo on her back? so employer will be like "please remove your shirt and turn round let me see your back"

Try to ask a question in a constructive manner without an insult. Then may be i might reply or take you on. If not ,well wish you luck in answering your question. Simple.

Hmm where should I start from.

So she/he thinks her display of the tattoo is her sign of loyalty to him?

My brother it is only your turn for now.

Now for her. She has tagged herself for life.
She is now a damaged good ( Everywhere she goes ( office, job interview, business partners), people she meets, ( both future and prospect men) family member etc. They will always see her as a fool. They won't tell her. Most people will have a piece of her and move on, knowing that she is messed up.

I prefer to have a dreadlock on my hair which I can easily cut off than have a tattoo which is unremovable.

Now am sure random people will soon come here and start claiming they do stuff like that abroad without any meaning or consequences. Trust me they always try to get it off later in one way or the other. They also realise it was just pure stupidity.

I wish her luck in her future endeavours.

Crystalqueen:
Some people are so wicked. If u knew she was cheating on u, u should have cancelled the wedding before the day or at least before the church ceremony, not disgracing the lady after the church wedding... Just imagine, all that jollof rice wasted... U for just save the money use do beta thing

That is the new trend. Dump them on the altar. The money doesn't matter.
Ladies never really understand what it takes for men to decide they want to marry in a world full of free sluts who even treat them nice than their suppose fiancee.

I think she (bride ) decided to marry the guy due to societal norm or was her last option. Cause she was already fvcking up and down (cvck carousel crew).

The guy being a weak man took time to decide he isn't doing again until wedding day. Gbam.

They both disgraced themselves by washing and drying their dirty pants outside.

Simple

So many weak men. I repeat blue pilled weak men in Nigeria. I was once one. I must admit.

Problem

Even some of our fathers are weak men. They never really understood what being a man entails before marrying. Thus leading to our mothers manipulating them and making them feel like a man. But in reality, they accepted their proposal as a last option. While they keep contact with their alpha male boyfriend that jilted them.

Meaning the foundation isn't strong. Leading to the production of weak boys to be men like most Nigerian men. And the circle is continuous and its reloops over time (Deep stuff).

Solution

One has to break away from it by defining the man one wants to be. By focusing and leaving alone to develop oneself mentally and financially. Once you have gone through that stage and survive alone. Trust me know women or female can control you because you have lived a principled life. It either she accepts or leave. Which you won't even be bothered about. Why because (you) ''one have to pass through hell to reach Paradise '' ( John Wick 3, 2019 parabelum).

Simple.

Please what does this rutual induction entails?

I hope she doesn't make unnecessary and useless oath that she will regret in few months cause baba is old.

He cant keep her amused. Forgot all the money and Viagra. But they will both learn.

All those who attended the ritual induction na just to show face. In between her mother must be cold and heartless sha. She knows and sees the mistake of her being a 5th or 6th wife. but kept quiet. Damn.

handsomebanana:
OK oo
Have fun living like a monk

Thanks have fun going back into the plantation. Lmao

handsomebanana:
Go MGTOW in Nigeria?

You can't even be MGTOW and Redpill together.

Gerrarahia

You need a knowledge of redpill first. By understanding female nature and that the game has been rigged in ones favour. Then you go into rage mode and depression. Before finally accept that MGTOW is the only way to build yourself as a man. And have inner peace.

So trust me you can have red pill knowledge and still go MGTOW at the end of the day.

Some go alpha male immediately after redpill.

It is a choice .simple.

Hmmm the person above read my mind.

The bros dey feel alright but the babe seem more into the whole wedding vibe + davido.

Only if they knew. But we that have decided to go MGTOW and Redpill. Nothing surprises us anymore.

Simple logic. She monkey branched. Lmao.
She made sure that the branch of another tree is available before she left the other branch.

She will do the same after marriage or five years into the relationship. When the same new boyfriend becomes obsolete. Lmao.

Women are cats. Fickle and love hidden or dark (secrets) things. They can never be loyal no matter what you offer. They will always want more (hypergamous nature ).

That is why most live life full of regrets at old age. Mainly after 30-35 when they hit the wall.
The wall will always reverse at that age for men.

Gbam.

luminouz:
Lmaoooo...and ur full of ursef...I will never feel that way...cuz itz not her fault...if ur such a guy,learn to be accommodating,she is the one who suffered,not u. I say things as they are,no dillydallying around.

May I add that ur the senseless one cuz I never abused him....did u say I'm a female?? Ode ni e mehn!!! Check my previous posts

Like I said you must always add a little insult in your comment. You can't just pass your message in a sensible manner. Guess it is from your education or upbringing.

No probs. You have proved your point.

luminouz:
Did she ask to be kidnapped or raped??
BTW...after PEP, contraceptives and counselling, she should be right as rain.

Any husband who hates his wife in this kinda situation is big, fat FOOL!!!

Modified:
The things I would love to do to those guys eh...especially their diicks...been long my dogs ate asun

You are full of emotions. He only asked a question, which trust me most husband or boyfriend go through that trauma after such terrible event happened to their babe or wife experience, without saying a word. It is just the truth.

Instead of you to reply in a sensible manner you start insulting. It shows me you might be a female behind a male moniker.

May the whole family heal and let this trauma pass them by.

I use to think Europeans and westerners are heartless. But Nigerians have no heart.

Since the day I noticed this. I became extremely careful.

Every guy out there have to learn and be redpill+
alpha+ mgtow. You need to go through the rage stage and learn to accept women for what they are truly.

After that nothing can shock you even if you end up marrying and realise some deep secrets your wife kept from you

Simple. Don't hate the messenger. Analyse the message and search for more wisdom.

So if it was anyone else he won't apologize .

He said his mind and observation. Simple.

Which one is curse. Abeg make all of them go sleep Jaree. Infact I Don vex. I am going to sleep too.

StupidInyamiri:
This is a generation
Where depressed and broken people are trying to be happy and make other people happy and happy people are pretending to be depressed just to gain sympathy

The deep and sublime truth, that is what you stated above . Your head dey there.

It is a big shame. Most Nigerian men do worst.

It is the fault of the Fathers out there.
Most mothers tell their daughters every secret of their lives and how to keep/control their men/husbands ( males ).

But fathers will be forming busy for their own sons. Leading to sons growing up to be men like this one who died and willed nothing to his children.

For all those feminist /female/simps/ male about to quote me. I will accept your insult only if you can pray for your future sons to follow this man footsteps.

Gbam

If you buy the properties, put it in your name and make the next of kin your children .

If she buys the properties, she should put it in her name and make the next of kin your children .

It is simple. No need for unnecessary attention. It when one start hoping to own it all from either side, that is where i suspect stupidity.

Is this our problem in this country. Like seriously going after strippers in a well known strippers club.

Nigeria is just a joke. So they waisted government resources and fund to carry out such an operation. Pssh.

We all know the type of people that frequent and lavishly spends money at such avenues. Most people (married and unmarried ) of both religion (Christian and Muslim ) do perform highly immoral activities worse than those strippers. But they claim holy.

Mediocrity and hypocrisy is the new trend in Nigeria.

IamD18:
And this is revenge, right?

Smh! These ladies and their fish brain

You both should have continued cheating and sleeping around, let's then know who will loose by looking cheap at the end of the day

Your head correct.

Thanks to the internet. I have come to learn more.
Ladies never realise that na woman dey always find husband at the end of the day. Men don't look for wife.

The amount of body counts for a woman makes her a hoe and the husband who marries her is called a hoe husband + simp.

For guys it is called a master key. Cause he opens all doors. It is a double standard. But what can one do.

She should continue and do competition with the guy abeg. Last last na church she go dey go in her early 30's forming virtuous woman looking for husband.
God can not be mocked.

Hmmm

Holywizard:
I'm highly depressed and saddened.
A graduate without a meaningful job to eat.
Sometimes I just feel like to end things.
Social media is not helping things seeing my mates living larger.
God plz help me

Hmm. Now let me give you a little advice.
Please I say do not hate the messenger, instead listen and gain a deeper understanding of the message.

I have been through depression and healing gradually. I can talk on this subject matter well from experience.

You are not enjoying the process to your happiness.
You are just looking for the end result. You see you need to learn certain things in depression stage. Trust me I know it sound weird but you will realise this when it is over.

Firstly I will tell you to thank God you are experiencing this at a young age. Because you can plan and work for better future. It is a message for you to get prepared and plan your future well. I can bodily tell you 80 percent of people experience it at old age. Why? Cause they got a job immediately after school and got married but they never really understand the true nature or essence of life.

Second, You need to read books not on depression. But on wealth creation not rich creation. There are a lot of books on get rich scheme or advice but avoid them. This wealth creation. books will give you deep knowledge on how to survive financially all through your life.

Thirdly, social media is fake. You should know that by now. A lot people are on fickle fate. The fact you see a turkey flying doesn't mean a turkey can fly. You need to have an inner reflection on what works for you and makes you happy on the low. Not following or stocking people's profile to reflect on yourself.

And generally to curb all you need God for divine wisdom, knowledge and understanding. You need him to take you on turbulent water where people (family, friends, relatives, enemy, lovers etc) leave you.

That is where you will you will grow from being a boy to a man. The transition into your end result. Young friend enjoy it and learn.

Safe.

Holywizard:
I'm highly depressed and saddened.
A graduate without a meaningful job to eat.
Sometimes I just feel like to end things.
Social media is not helping things seeing my mates living larger.
God plz help me

Hmm. Now let me give you a little advice.