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Mekzyzeus:Homosexuality is genetic. When you are conceived, you receive a copy of genes from your mother and a copy of genes from your father. If a parent has two types of attraction genes - one for attraction to males and one for attraction to females, there is a 50% chance the child will receive either gene regardless of its gender. So if the child receives a gene for attraction to females from both the father and mother, and the child is born a female, the child will have an attraction to females due to the genes she has recieved. It is obviously more complicated than this, but I have tried to male it as simple as possible for you to understand. I understand it is a crime, but Nigeria isn't exactly famous for it's treatment of people, positive history of human rights or availability of education. I don't mean this to sound mean, it's just a fact. Homosexuality used to be illegal in many countries, but is now legal almost worldwide. There are even countries that allow homosexuals to be married. It's a human rights issue. No one is forcing you to be gay. It doesn't harm you at all. Why are you concerned about how other people have sex - are you some kind of pervert? They're not hurting you! So mind your own business. |
mamagee3:Where are they? Are they very deep? Do they bleed? How is it that you discover you have the cuts - from pain or sight? |
UndisputedBosom:It seems like I am the only one genuinely concerned for her welfare. Everyone else seems to want to turn her into what *they* perceive as correct. My advice to her is to not engage in a straight relationship, especially is she feels that sex with men is "irritating" to her. A straight sexual relationship will damage her psychologically especially if she is not ready for it. If she truly believes that homosexuality is a sin, and is not a good way of life for her then she should practise celibacy. There are many churches in the USA that believe they can change a person from homosexual to straight - but they have overwhelmingly failed. There are many people who have suffered severely as a result of the conversion process. Many lawsuits have been filed and won over these cases. There are also straight couples in the USA that are made up of homosexual individuals. They have not overcome their sexuality, but accept it and talk with their spouses about it. They live within the confines of a straight marriage and manage their urges through celibacy *together*. I don't suggest your friend do this, but if that is the kind of thing you're looking for you're welcome to it. Just because we disagree on certain things, doesn't mean you have to disrespect me. I love everyone. I try to support people in distress, like your friend is now. I really urge her to do some research on homosexuality, outside of what it says in the bible and what the church says. Everyone deserves to live a full and enriching life. If your friend is a lesbian, there is unfortunately no cure and no way to "overcome" what you see as an affliction. I am sorry for her having to live in Nigeria and go through this. She is as God made her. |
abokii:Actually, that is an exeption. I use sponge or tampon in the day. Panties & pad at night. Thanks for asking :-) |
ForeverYoung197:Yeah it was disappointing to see, though he had some moves... some guys know what they're doing even if they have small meat! :-) |
SeverusSnape:Uwc. She has hard time ahead of her. Be sympathetic and not angry with her. She will thank you when she has come through it ![]() |
ForeverYoung197:It's impossible to tell how big a guy's meat is without looking at it, that's my experience. I once met a guy who was tall with big feet, really low voice and nice heavy lips/chin - but the tiniest meat I have ever seen. It was about 2cm long and had the girth of a man's thumb :-/ |
bitchcrafts:What concepts? I no longer hate all men... |
I doubt it. It's the same thing as "big feet, big meat". It's just not true. |
SeverusSnape:So don't offer advice. Offer help. So when she realises she has to leave, she knows someone is on her side. |
bitchcrafts:I will. People can fear what they don't understand, especially when it feels uncomfortable to them. What they don't realise is that you don't have to understand something in order to accept it. Everyone accepts that the sky is blue, whether they understand why or not. No one is forcing homosexuality on anyone. What consenting partners do in their bedrooms is really no one's business. Everyone should grow up a little. |
SeverusSnape:She's got self-esteem and mental health issues. Stockholm Syndrome turns to Battered Wife Syndrome. You need to offer her help so she can get away from her maniac of a boyfriend. |
seyezy:Spare me. The bible is an old book and if you obeyed everything in there, you wouldn't be cutting your hair, or eating pork or shrimp. Be real. You can't pick and choose what people do and don't obey in the bible. The most important part is to emulate Jesus love, and to show love and kindness to everyone. |
UndisputedBosom:So you're saying she was raped by a lesbian? It doesn't sound like it. It sounds like she participated willingly and now, due to the pressure of society is desperate to become straight. So her life can be easier. She still likes sex with girls -you said that, she wants an easy way out so she doesn't have to deal with her shame and the negative stigma anymore. She's a lesbian. Possibly bisexual. There is no "cure". She has to live her life to the fullest the best way she can. Entering a straight relationship will probably cause her a lot of mental health issues and she will turn to drastic means to rid herself of the emotional trauma she will endure. Support and love her. It's all you can do. |
Domislaz:It was once classified as a mental illness, but that was removed because there wasn't sufficient evidence to prove it is a mental illness. Science works on the basis of proving a hypothesis. If the hypothesis is not proven, it does not mean the hypothesis has failed. Example: scientists cannot prove definitively there is life in outer space. However, that doesn't mean there is no life in outer space. There have been several positive indications that life does exist in outer space, so people continue their research. If you claim a hypothesis, you have the onus to prove it. All experiments done that hypothesise homosexuality is a mental illness have failed to prove the hypothesis. There has been no positive indication it *is* a mental illness. So research has stopped in all respected scientific communities. There has been significant research that predominantly suggests homosexuality is a genetic trait. I can explain that more if you'd like. I'm sure you already know the definition of mental illness. An illness of the mind that causes an inability to function normally. Homosexuals function normally, their homosexuality does not inherently affect their human function. What does affect homosexuals is society - and those societal expectations can cause homosexual people to develop mental illnesses such as depression and anxiety. It's really sad. My heart goes out to anyone suffering because of this. You are normal! Just different. Like everyone else. |
izumaki:What is the problem with that? They go to church and then go home and have sex with their boyfriend. The boyfriend also goes to church and then goes home to have sex with his girlfriend. At least the girlfriend can hear the pastor, being so close to the pulpit. They can't be accused of just turning up and paying lip service to the church. |
Blackfire:I replied your pm! I am good. How u doin? |
If she lived in the western part of the world she wouldn't be so ashamed of herself. She'd learn to accept and love herself for what she is - a lesbian. People are born this way. There is a difficult path ahead of her. You can't "cure" homosexuality. It's like trying to cure your eye or hair color. You can use contact lenses, or dye your hair, but underneath your genes are still the same. I implore you to support amd love your friend while she comes to terms with who she is. Often gay people turn to drugs and alcohol and suicide in order to cope with the shame they feel. She may need to hide her sexuality, due to the laws in Nigeria , but she shouldn't feel ashamed for the way she was born. I am praying for her. God loves everyone. |
izumaki:Drag front seats? What does that mean? |
Taiyescott:Of course! ![]() |
iamdurent:I'm happy for you then ![]() |
Much love to you @iamdurent I hope you're able to escape the homophobia you live with daily. Its isn't right. I am Christian, but I don't think homosexuality is wrong. What I think is so wrong is that the government punishes such a natural thing - it's akin to throwing all people with blue eyes in prison. You seem like a kind soul, and I wish you all the love and luck in the world. |
bitchcrafts: ![]() |
Why do men do the same? |
bitchcrafts:I am calm... chill out. |
... That's not very romantic :/ |
bitchcrafts:You can believe what you want, it's if no consequence to me. |
rexericx:It was a joke... |
Seek professional help. Sex addiction is like other addictions. It has a cause and treatments are available. |
bitchcrafts:It's the result of years of neurological and obstetrics research. I didn't make it up, I learned it at school. |
Dejideji1:Agreed. However, I'm happy to be proven wrong on the stats if there are any ob/gyns or neurologists in the house? |
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