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denobaba:
This is a different dynamic. Men approach women for marriage and not the other way round. Given that a man is the provider, he is free to approach any lady of his choice. It's up to the lady to accept or decline.

We cannot say the same about single mom. If you raise your own son and send him to school. Would you be happy for him to bring home a single mom for marriage? Please try to be realistic.

Whatever rocks his boat, all I want is a peaceful marriage

ObamaMessi:
I just got off the dining.I ate from the same plate with an elder(someon older than me).

In our tradition, you don't eat anyhow when eating with an elder.You don't dare touch meat/fish until he permits.You don't dare reading or operating phone.You don't talk.If you are satisfied while your elder is still eating, you sit still and don't wash your hands.

I'm tired! Eating with someone older than you is damn too uncomfortable.

Who send you ?

denobaba:
Can you recommend the same for your brother? Please answer the damn question.

What goes around comes around
If you are a single father, are you forbidden to get a woman

muykem:
Good. I salute your courage if this is true
Where is Amechi resignation letter?

Forget about all these their resignation

They actually know what they are doing

They are sowing seeds to get a better appointment when the time comes

denobaba:
No way! Don't preach this myth to a brother lost in emotions. Would say the same if he were to be your biological brother?

There are tons of ladies out there who will make him far happier. By all means, begin your own family as opposed to a pre-rolled one. Who dash monkey banana

If your biological sister or daughter is a single parent, will you advise her to date herself

At least he wasn't forced to start a relationship with a single mother, whereas he has single ladies

If that is his choice all he needs is a support

MistarT:
Please candid opinions will be appreciated. Thanks.

Itwill do humanity great good, if we hear from marriage counsellors with wide range of experiences, thanks.

Being a single mother is not a curse

Circumstances normally leads to it

In every single mother, there is a single father

The good part of them is that they took the kid along while some will drop the child to the man's family and doesn't care what comes out of the child

You see most times, the single mothers takes the child because being a mother is priceless

The other thing is that they get more matured and experienced after the encounter that lead them to single parenthood

Have you ever wondered why at a stage in some situations in a man's life, he will be looking for a single mother to marry

E get why

cenaman:
Same thing that is giving me sleepless nights.

My current girlfriend was my childhood friend in primary school before we lost contact after our FSLS.
Though she's a single mom and independent woman, I don't know how to tell my parents that she is a single mom.

Tell them in which ever way it's left for you to convince them that she is the one that will make life happier with

Toktee:
No sir they are not the same.. I prefer a woman that lost her husband than the one with a child out of wedlock.... reason been that the owner of the child is somewhere and they always come around.


But the widow is single for a natural cause.

You married a si gke lady to be her man not to drag her child with anyone

You equally hope to brith your own child

Kriss216:
Even a girl you married as a virgin will care for her child more than the husband.

The only problem with single mother;
The father of her child has 98.783% access to her kpekus.

That's not true then why is she still single

Toktee:
Just Bleep her and run.... anything she tell you as a reason for her been single is lies.





They are sadist.


They are really bittered.


They are manner less


They are wayward.


Most of them just take a break from active prostitution.

Try and change your mindset and perception

Puskas:
Any attempt from you to discipline the child will not always go down well with her. She will be seeing it as a hatred for the child because the child is not yours

That's not true, she will actually love you to be a father figure for the child

Puskas:
She will end up loving and caring for her child more than you

That's a wrong impression

slimmoney:
alright ma

Good

slimmoney:
this ur solution get as e be o, so the best solution is to seal off the whole sunroof? abeg OP go to panel beater tell them to check the 2 water channels around the sun roof, it might be clogged and need attention.

You are the one that doesn't understand what I wrote

I actually did it to my own car it's the back rubber that cautions the closing that they seal not the whole roof

Visit a panel beater to explain to you how it's done with gun silicone, mostly black colour

diportivo:
so u mean there is no solution apart from sealing the Sunroof?

Most times people don't use that sun roof and it becomes stiff, any attempt to open it with force worsens the case

So best option is to seal it neatly

Oyindamolah:
Well said

Thanks

Skmoda360:
But sperm donation can't fetch you the figure of egg donation.....

So far they will make money out of it, no matter how small so that can sort themselves out

Benzemma:
You reply to him as if you know him. This your comment is very harsh nah.

Wetin concern me, that one done pass

He was derailing

Miraclenoble:
mummy God bless you .......General mummy.

Thanks and God bless you too

IamRichards:
Oga @Larryfest this is a good advice oh

He even laughed over my comments

Ebenezer2021:
Bukatyne frozen70 Mariangeles are the 3 ladies on nairaland with the most sane comments.
Though The last one I mentioned is backsliding due to her intimacy and romance with a certain useless atheist called Fernandez

Thanks for the compliment
Your last comment is funny though

Beautygoddesss:
We only hear of how masturbation affects males which could render them impotent or low sperm count among others but have neva heard if it affects females.so does masturbation affects females?? No insults plz

I don't think it has any health effects, but I know that perfection in such practice, makes the woman to have less interest in a man since she can have orgasm with it

Abasman007:
thank you very very very much... God bless you

Amen and you too

NEUSICMEDIA:
A video of some ladies standing up to their father has been shared online.

In the video, the man who is allegedly a pastor in Abuja, was accused of attempting to physically assault his wife when the daughters stepped in. The enraged man was holding a belt, and according to one of the daughters, had threatened to send their mum to her grave, however they stood up to protect their mum and stop him from beating her.

The ladies have been widely celebrated for protecting their mum.

Watch the trending video below...
https://neusicmedia.com/entertainment/daughters-stand-up-to-their-dad-after-he-threatened-to-beat-their-mum-and-send-her-to-her-grave-video/

No child will like to see her dad beating her mum, even if is her mums fault

Most men who beats their wives while the children were small, stops that nonsense the moment the children gets above 15/18yrs

Is best you walk out of your wife and even go else where to stay than beating her

She. Will be the one looking for you to come back

Though it depends ohhh, if you are the type of man that leaves family expenses like school fees and house rents with feeding for the wife or just a liability to her, she won't look for you

advanceDNA:
I don't have comprehension problem..u mentioned more than using it for business..u also castigated her spending the money on herself alone first..

it was the first part of your comment that prompted comment..you don't have to be condescending even if I have a different view from yours

If you are reacting on my first mention,
What will you say of her husband that complained of her buying a phone

The issue was that, phone shouldn't be her priority now that they need money for feeding

So, since she can use her egg to get what she wants,

Both of them can use it to raise their family this hard times

Threesha:
From DM

You just have to seat both of them down to explain to them why you can't go to school

Schooling is for those who have the interest and not just to go there to waste their time and money

Talk to your mum in private, mothers understands and will know how to talk to Dad

advanceDNA:
there's is hardly a woman here would
sell her eggs and gladly/happily use it feed man that could not bring food to the table...

.u people should stop castigating the woman...i believe many will do the same...may be not phone...but many women will gladly spend the money themselves.....

Abi it's not the gender that maintains the mentality that "my money is my own, it is my husband's money that is for both of us"

Your comment was just opposite of what I mentioned

I said they could use thst as business since they are down financially

Always try to read and understand, they have two different meaning

Maxymilliano:
Clown ... Dashing someone that could easily afford a100m fee your heard earned money to prosecute uncertain presidential bid is foolishness'

He understands his Gabe very well

He is from his state and he will pay him one day for his widow's might

POSmecrhant:
I do not know where this issue is coming from. Please who can I reahout to, to get this done?

When it's raining heavily, water will always find its way to the rug under my car foot mat

If your vehicle has a glass roof top, meet your panel beater to use sylicon to seal the top, once that is done properly it will never leak from there again

Toktee:
Humanity needs people like you... givers never lack..


You will never be stranded when you need help.

Long life shall be your portion in Jesus Name.



I rili felt for the guy but also in the same situation... can't help.

Thanks very much my dear, God will position greatly so that you won't be in a situation to lack anything

Charlex23:
You always seem to extend a helping hand to people here. Been observing you on numerous occasions. I would say that's commendable and thanks a lot for all you do. God bless you abundantly

Thanks my dear and God bless you for richly