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MrBrownJay1:
forget stealing.... your husband should simply repay you the value of the jewelry EOD!

You think he has such amount of money besides, he didn't even see anything wrong in what he did

sorority11:
The only way you can steal it is to get closer to her, visit her more often, get close to her, spend a night with her by sleeping in her room. Talk more about jewelries brag about it, women can't resist the urge to show off their own by bringing it out, pretend as if you do not fancy it.

Get her cheap jewelries plenty and go to her room, and start trying out all the jewelries you bought her, from that moment when returning all the jewelries in the jewelry box, snatch it, or you can exchange it with a cheap one similar.

The final stage is to disappear, only call her on phone. She won't be able to accuse you because you also bought her jewelries except she is a psycho. And remember do not wear it in any occasion she will be attending

No matter how she steals it back, she will still wear it to the glaring of the family

Her mother inlaw wasn't the one that stole it but her husband stole from her to please his mother

Who does that ⁉️

lilyheaven:
Pay her a visit.
Do house cleaning, pick your thing.
Put it in your bag and zoom off

This will not work because she will be tagged a thief besides she doesn't know where she kept it

What she needs is a polite approach

Ask for it as if she wants to admire it and take it from there, simple

Let heaven fall, it's her property

JovialJune:
Straight to the point


I came back from L.A in January this year after giving birth to my triple blessings, I got lots of gifts and some valuable ones, the most valuable of all was a complete set of jewelry worth thousands of dollars, when I got back to the country, I gave my family and Hubby's family things I got for them, gave my mum and his mum what they specifically asked for and more, all for me to find out afterwards that my expensive jewelry is missing, I was not happy, I actually thought it was stolen from my luggage by those nuisances at the airport, for weeks I was sad because that jewelry was worth millions in naira, it was an asset and investment to me, and coupled the way these country is going, dollars will continue to rise cos this government ehn.....


Fast forward today, my sister-in-law did naming ceremony for her newborn, all for me to get there and see my husband's mother wearing my missing jewelry, I was beyond shocked, the bitter taste in my mouth, how the hell did she have it on her? I was fuming all over till I got back home, I asked hubby how she had on my jewelry, he said he gave her because he needed to give her something that came from him, my eyes turned red, I couldn't cry, I couldn't hold the rage I felt and I shouted at him to go get it back to me, he said he can't, it will be a shame to collect it back, I told him he must it back, he stole it from me, we've been shouting at each other ever since, I had to lock myself in a room so that it won't turn to a fist fight,

I've been thinking of ways to steal it back cos that's the only way I can get it without her knowing, and I will definitely steal it back, I need all the assets I can lay my hands on cos naija is not smiling lately, my husband stole it from me, very heartless human, he knows how i almost cried when i couldnt find it, so pls i need different ways i can get it back without him and his mum knowing,

P.S anyone that wants to advice should pls hold it, I don't need advice from holy people preaching that it's material things, I should let go bla bla bla, we are all in this world in this world to possess what the world can offer, and I dey get my own small small, so shove your advice, if it was my mum I would have collected it since, in fact, she wouldn't take it without my knowledge, and I value and place she and my mum on the same level cos she can give birth to me,

So ways to steal it back from her pls, thank you.

You don't need to steal it back, you just need to ask her for it and you will get it

What your husband did was too bad for a man to rob you to pay his mother

That shows that his mother's happiness is of more importance to him

He tricked you and you will use that same way to get it back

Take out time to visit your mother inlaw and don't go alone, go with a relations but your relation will act as if he or she is not aware of your mission

When you get to her house, after the normal greeting, tell her you will like to see the Jewellery she wore I the naming ceremony when she brings it out ask her how she got it hear from her, therein tell her that it was a gift given to you and your child when you gave birth to them from a family over there and you have been looking for it until you saw it in her neck

When you ask your husband, he said he ga e it to you, let her know that it's a gift you treasure and you are taking it back

Worst case let the family hate you, forget about it, that will even give you the ability to know the people you are dealing with

Take it from there to your parents and tell them everything that happened

As for your husband, go home and wait for him and see his reaction, once he starts be prepared for it

If he says anything and you have a response to it give it to him

There after call your family on phone and start a fresh to tell them how it all started as if they too they are hearing it for the first time

What next, save the jewellery in the bank or sell it, unless your mother have a better place to keep it safe for you

The marriage of today requires sence and the ability to stand out

If your husband can't protect what you have then you fight to protect it, after this they will stay clear from your possessions

You can only apologise to anyone in the conditions that you already have the jewellery with you and the apology is just eye service

It takes madness to correct nonsense

What a careless way to die

uboma:
Thank you so much.

Cheers

uboma:
You are welcome Ma'am.

Good morning.

Good morning my dear
Her case is so pathetic but she must dust it and move on

I have contributed my advice

Mizflo:
Please I need your advice. I had created this account because I am well known here with my main account because I am always active and I want to remain anonymously
Am 21 a single mum with 1 girl age 5 , her dad rejected me when I was pregnant he left when I was 4 months pregnant with her .

I had a difficult time growing up , my mum died when I was 8 years and my dad denied me claiming my mum had cheated on him and there’s no way I could be his daughter.
My aunty who was supposed to care for me had never bothered about me , she was always out leaving me in the house all alone without food , whenever I complains she will beat me telling me to go to my mum graveyard to ask her for assistance.
I have suffered in the hand of my aunty she didn’t care about my education if I have managed to complete my primary school till jss2 was thanks to this aunty who was a teacher at my school and a good friend of my mum , she sponsored me , And when I was 14 my aunty landlord kicked her out of the house because of rent arrears she said I am the enemy of progress she cant take me to her boyfriend house because he won’t accept me to stay there that I should go and look for a place , I cried and pleaded with her to take me along with her but she refuse I beg her to show me where my dad is she said he will not accept me because he hated my mum but I beg her to take me to him .
She took me to him it was my first time seeing him I looked just like him with one eye big one small but he insulted the hell out of us saying he will never accept me because my mum was a cheater she had so many boyfriends that I should ask her who my real father is but my aunty insisted that my mum had told her before she passed on that he was my dad even taught I resembled him still he denied and kicked us out like we were dogs I cried and my aunty was angry because of the insult so she left me all alone in the street but later came to me .
Since that day my life situation has worsened because I was forced to stay with different people where I was being abused , my baby dad came as a guardian angel to my life he took care of everything i needed by promising me heaven on Earth I taught he will get me out of my hard situations but I was wrong i find out he was married with kids I was heartbroken because I didn’t want to live the same lifestyle as my mum had lived but history has repeated itself just like my mother had me with a married man but she knew he was married but me I didn’t know , but it was too late for me to moved on because I was already pregnant for him and I didn’t want to abort my baby I have decide to continue the relationship but when I was 4 months pregnant he left me and blocked me from all his contacts , this is the man that has never bothered to asked about his child for 5 years now..
My little girl dont even know her dad the same way I did not know mine until
I was 14 which break my heart anytime I think about it.
My daughter and I are staying with my madam the lady tat I serve her for now 3 years but things here hasn’t been easy for us because my madam children don’t like me they keep accusing of things I don’t do like I stole their money , clothes and many more before my madam was telling them to stop with their bad attitudes towards me but I have noticed that whenever they had accused me she start getting angry with me sometimes we can go days without her not talking to me which I think I have overstayed and I am not longer wanted here I want to leave this house and to go and hustle but I feared for my daughter because I don’t want her to end up like me.
If I leave this house we will be on the street for a long time till I will be able to get somewhere else to stay with her also I don’t think I can give her the best education because if she stay with me she will end up being a teen mother just like I did something I don’t want to happen to her and I came across someone who’s willing to help me by taking care of my daughter to give her the best life something that I have always wanted for her , she promised to take care of her till university and she will give me the money to rent a room and start up business she said she will take things to the right direction like adoption but I don’t know how she will do it because I have no idea that I will have to sign up papers for agreement i have agreed because I think is really a good opportunity for me even taught I have accepted but sometimes I am getting worried about giving her my daughter I am having sleepless nights and thinking all nights.

I am just tired of living this life I didn’t ask to be born my parents created me and now I am suffering from their mistakes something I didn’t consented and I don’t want my daughter to suffer because of my mistake I think giving her up for adoption is a good thing , but I don’t know if I am doing the right things.

please no insult what is your advice for me.

Thanks

Hmmm, this is so painful but don't wallow on it else you can't take a drastic decision

It has happened, all you need is to move on with your daughter

Can I ask you a question, your baby daddy, so you know where he lives, do you have his contact details, if yes, it's time you ask him to take reasonability by taking his daughter in till you find your bearing or he gets a room accommodation for you and her then give you money to start any kind of trade

Alternatively, can you ask your pastor if you have one, to take custody of your child and ask the church to lend you money to start something doing and allow you to be sleeping in the church and keep your corner it neat till you find your bearing

At this stage of your life now, you must be humble and I repeat you must be humble to a fault

You must tolerate all insult and disgrace just for you to climb the ladder of life and success

You must be willing to serve people just to get favour especially within your church members

Don't be surprise your church members may decide to accommodate you and the church will agree to sponsor your trade

Any church members that accommodates you, be ready to be the house made in a very matured amd willing heart

When you serve people deligently, it moves their conscience to love you more and help you out

For now, seal your pussy and for get about the desires to have any form of relationship becomes any man coming to you now, is either coming to make worst your case or to give you temporary joy which will carry you away only to drop you when you list expected, that is if you don't become pregnant again

Rin to God, I mean run to God, he is the only one that will bring helper for you and give you peace of mind

Think about it

Then the issue of adopting your daughter out, is one thing I want you to think twice because it will not favour you

Adoptions are best form infancy and you take the money to find your level and forget the child

This your daughter is the only reason you are still happy having gone through hell on earth
Giving her out and knowing the family you are giving her to makes it worst for you because, it involves legal documents and you can't have her back for life

Unless it doesn't require paper work like involving a lawyer, then you can give her out, without any condition, that will enable you come back for her any time of your life and appreciate the family amd take her away

But if you will be tricked to sign any document, it's a no pls

That child has bonded so well with you that giving out that child will affect your entire life and you know what it means

Let's assume that you adopt out that child and never gets to meet another man who you will have kids for, then you are left with no child, wouldn't it be worst than anything

At this stage of your life, you have experienced hatred, so the best for you is to love yourself and be happy

Just think of what trade to go into, it could be selling of fruits, selling of soft drinks in busy markets, just anything that as little as 5000 can start. Most people selling those things I mentioned got there to patch up with life and nothing else

Once the church can allow you sleep there and pastor helps you take over your child, you will be fine

For now, Leave men alone and resist them because their own is to give you temporal joy that will end with tears

uboma:
This is a delicate and difficult case.

So sorry @Mizflo for what you are presently going through.

cc: tot

Ishilove,

Frozen70,

Please can you offer some words of advice and encouragement to Mizflo.

Thanks for the notification, let me go through

AmazingSolutnz:
I no fit laugh at JULIUS BERGERS
When fakes are rampant, it becomes necessary to ask more questions and require proofs.....

Honestly ❗

Left for me, if your husband loves you and protects you from their wahala

And they are on you, just neglect them

That alone will keep them miserable and they will never see your back

ERICCSSON:
pls forgive my typo i had to open a new acct to protect my identity....
i wont bore you with long stories i will go straight to the point.
there's a girl we have been dating for 4 years plus. recently i told my mom about plans to bring her over as per marriage plans my mom asked for a pic of my fiancee she usually takes pics of my siblings and i to church for prayers and all i have no problem with that..
yesterday my mom called me told me to come home that its urgent..this morning i hurried down only for her to tell me that my fiancee is a WITCH and i froze...i finally asked for iced water after taking one glass i calmed down and asked how come?where is this coming from?
Apparently my mom took the pic shes been pestering me for to the village (a SHRINE note my mom is a very strong church goer).... i froze again so she was told my fiancee is a witch so i should call off the relationship..imagine the nonsense...God helped me i would have given her a dirty slap if that was someone else...since i met my fiancee she has been nothing but a source of happiness to me she is an architect she has helped my life in so many ways financially and otherwise on my last birthday she gave me a building plan she designed for our house and we have even gotten a land together how can this lady be a witch last year there was a flood that affected my family compound where my parents live my fiancee helped me with funds which i used in relocating them b4 i renovated the compound i can keep going since i met this girl my life changed ...i feel so hurt what has she done to deserve all these?
shes so happy and hoping to meet them what do i tell her God?
i feel so hurt and betrayed..even my dad supports her in this madness i want to cut them off what do i say to my fianceee please help me i have been down since morning how can my parents do this to me?oh God

You can't use force to fight for her place in your family

Seat them down let them know what they don't know about her and you and her impact in your life

They will be surprise that all you did for them. Was her idea and her money

Ucee1999:
2.5 - 3 million naira

I already gotten what I want

Even you and the brain knows that, if your wife is pregnant

It's either Normal birth or CS

Yes you lost your job, pregnancy is on the way, what plans did you put in place for this kind of situation

I don't want to doubt you

Go back to the hospital, make a video call with your wife, the baby and the hospital card which shows she hard her antinetal there, let the hospital show you prove of deposit of 100k

I bet you the money will be contributed here and even have excess for provision

Even it will reach for naming

There was a case of a girl who solicited for her mother breast cancer and she got up yo 200k here, a guy gave her 100k, I gave 5k and others did

I personally asked her to prove her claim with a video and she did

Every one is just tired of the JULIUS BERGERS here

22yrs is too young for you to understand men

Just take it easy, them they do person strong things

If you eat pineapple the way the taste is sweet, you will definitely pourge

Righteousness89:
My Sister, you will Save not only your Relationship..

You will also be Saving your Head by Listening to your Parents..

If the Young Man is Serious! Let Him come to see your Parents..

Don't Let the Lure of Infatuation and Sex Destroy your Glorious Life...

There is Nothing there..

Honestly, she is just carried away and she will get heart broken when he leaves her
So is better she accepts her fate this simple way

Heartheart:
Hi I just needed to bring this here. I am 22 years of age and I am not happy at all. My boy friend and I are in a long distance relationship. Not long perse. He is in lagos while I'm in abeokuta. I served in lagos so that's how we met and we got to spend quality time together. Now since I've passed out I've been at home. I passed out in June. So it's been June that we saw last and now we're in august.He has been disturbing me to come visit him as it has not been easy staying alone, loneliness and all. I promised to visit him next week which also happened to be my birthday week. I have super strict parents but I still promised I will find my way.

I told them(parents) that I was travelling to visit a friend(girl). I could not tell them it was my boyfriend I was going to see because I knew deep down they wouldn't allow me travel to another city to see a guy. But my parents have blatantly refused that I cannot visit this girl. I had to tell my bf that I was not going to come. He was so sad and angry and he let me know he has wasted a lot of money preparing to surprise me for my birthday. He was so excited to see me and he had made a lot of plans. He told me he was disappointed in me and he doesn't think he can continue a relationship like this. Yes he comes to abeokuta sometimes but he mostly lodges in the hotel. He told me he can't continue lodging in the hotel that if I love him I will make effort. I tried to convince my parents they did not gree. Imagine, I told them I wanted to see a gf that they knew and they refused. What if I had told them he was a guy. Pls guys how do u advise me to save my relationship, I'm in a tight spot right now and really sad.

Hey, calm down before you start feeling bad unnecessarily

You know very well that whatever you tells your parents, they will never agree, unless a family relations call them to ask them to allow you to come to Lagos and search for a job, you know what that means to both families

Your boyfriend should also understand that, you are still under your parents control considering your age

He can sacrifice this last trip because of your birthday. Until you get a job doing or a suitor comes for your hand in marriage, your freedom is not guaranteed in that house

Now what's the way forward, start seeing your relationship with him as a relationship that you can't handle because your parents will not guarantee you the freedom to move about

He can assist you to get a job and for accommodation, you can be shuttling your friend house and his house

If your boyfriend is crazy over you, he will make a way

What are the ways, asking for your hand in marriage or helping you to get a job so that you can be within his reach

Now tell me what, what makes you think he hasn't been with another woman since June that you left, is his thing in your pocket?

You are still young and the future for any thing you want is still young

When he sees that he can't stay without you, things will take shape

Trust no man until he walks you to the alter

aspiring44:
Imagine.

Loose dogs, that's what they are

aspiring44:
Experience at any club has the good , the bad and ugly . On a particular Friday I went to one at opebi , Vegas + envogue. That was the day i saw homos numbering about 8 and they came around 2am all dressed feminine and as I was dancing one came behind me stroking his hard on against my ass and I landed him a dirty slap.

I yelled at him that are you mad I am your father .
What nonsense

It was so annoying because he felt since my dance was erotic he made a try.

Thanks be to God you escape that Wolf
Stupid idiot

In as much as am indifferent about this show

What exactly is the value of this show to the youths?

The only thing I understand there is a life free of worries but more of love and affection

No shame no gains

34millions for a mere casket that will be buried in the grave

That's enough money to wake him up despite he was extremely rich

bukatyne:
This sounded so funny in an off way

But what I said is true, you can't leave a married woman unattended

Those men that chased their wives away for having only girls without giving birth to a male child

Hope they know that it's not the woman's fault ?

Prof0fficial:
The problem our girls do have with guys doesn't just lie on the fact that guys can't abide to their principle of NO PRE-MARITAL INTIMACY, but rather on the fact that they still expect the guy to meet their one little need or the other.

What made you start thinking like this
If the guys don't walk up to them, how will they even know them talk more of expecting money from them
Are the guys working for them ?

blazingblender:
[color=#000099][/color]sori bro just modified it

Lol

Obataosu:
I have been having constant heart burn especially when the weather is cold or anytime I sneeze, and when I went to the hospital it was confirmed that I have ulcer which they gave me some drug that stopped the heart burn. But after sometime, the heart burn started again and at the same time I have been treating waist pain for sometime but no result. I'm single and young to start having waist pain at this early stage.

My question is does ulcer has effect on the waist?

Pls you guys should advice me on what to do to cure the waist pain and ulcer permanently.

Thanks and God bless you all

Sorry for those challenges

For ulcer, make sure you avoid spicy foods
You can take Gaviscon and omiprasol tablets, each at 30 minutes interval

Anger triggers ulcer too

For your waste pains, you don't need to massage it, just lye down on a flat surface like a floor with mat for few days, it will go

Then check your sugar intake, it could be Jedi Jedi

Pls go don't just do it any how because of the cost involve

If you can go to Igbobi hospital in Lagos, they will look into it, if you actually need it

Ephemeralbeing:
Yes. I've done this before and result showed am fine.


Actually it's a family issh. We are all slim.

But I'm really ready to add weight.

Will you help out ?

Just make sure you eat at any time of the day and eat any also drink any thing you like

Will be fine, just eat at will

MasterNeegho:
Her menstrual period ended and it wasn't up to two weeks another one started. Is that medically okay or is it medically bound to happen or is something wrong with her health?

She is very ok, unless it's repeating itself

gnykelly:
I have been trying to start a meaningful relationship for quite a while. kept bumping into these recurring case of single mom.

I don't want to go down the aisle with extra content by the side.

though they may have good character but. it still doesn't cut it for me.

what could have gone wrong as a society to produce a huge batch of single mom with so many irresponsible fathers.

It's because they refuse to use condom, that's the simple fact

But the major problem is that they don't want to carry responsibilities yet the want to enjoy what married couples are doing

tunjilee003:
She came to visit our neighbor in March during the spread of the pandemic... Due to the interstate lockdown, she couldn't travel back to Lagos,we became friends, she watches films in my room, we do laugh together and eat together....
I find her to be and extrovert, she mingles with other boys and I don't like it... The love between us began to go sour, we started having low conversation... Everything between us became a thing of the past....
Lately, we started talking back, we maintained communication, I started developing feelings for her, I told her my mind,her reply broke my heart.... She said I was too slow I should have told her since all these days that she will be leaving for Lagos in two days time..... I'm depressed.... Poor me!!

What is depressing you, are you that weak

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Ladies, how would you react if your husband tells you in a public event “You Just Dey Show Yourself”?

And guys, what is running through your mind as you say this.[/color]

There is nothing to react at that moment, she should just learn to comport herself