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Joyless004:
Good morning all.
Sorry to disturb some persons this morning.. but I need serious help...

30years plus of my life now,I was born into a devoted Christian family and have been devoted to God all my life but I keep asking myself questions.throughout my days in University,I refused to put my hands in anything that will make me shed blood or offend my fellow human.

All my life, we have been fighting spritual battle that kept the whole family not progressing. Nobody moves forward in life. The worst part of the whole scenario is that the women being married into the family attend all sorts of native doctors and we kept on praying hoping that one day things will change but it kept on getting worse.

Now since it seems all our prayers ain't changing anything in the family. I have made up my mind fully to also go diabolic and face the repercussions provided I set my siblings free free from this evil pple.. I can't continue waiting and keep on getting old hoping things will change one day.


What I really need now is someone that will refer me to d greatest SPRITUALIST or NATIVE DOC where I can get immediate positive results. Please I don't need anyone to start preaching to me.. I have had enough of it all my life. If you can't offer what I seek for,then ignore my messages.. my mind is fully made up n allow me to face the consequences of my actions.

Please do Dm me if you u can help out with my request. .

Just be careful whichever way you want to go

But as it is now, fight for your self not for other siblings who's wives are diabolical

Law of survival is, me first

zedegit:
In recent times, some women have decided to get back at their husband by denying him sex or feigning tiredness.

My question to them is why did you get married?

Men if you know you like sex, better discuss it with your intended and tell her never to use it as a bargaining chips nor food.

Some men avoid such topics but it comes to haunt them later on.

Madam, if you know you don't have strength for sex, please don't marry.
Marriage is not by force.

Don't frustrate the men.

There is more to this than what you just said

Every mallam with his own kettle

ZaRuleOfLaw:
let all the tenants go to meet him together. you guys will all agree on whether to hire a generator or contribute for petrol to fuel any available generator in the compound. landlord must contribute to avoid cheating oo.

If all the tenants go to him, only him will be the one talking because others will keep quiet, you can't force your landlord to contribute because he is not bothered

yommen:
Fellow Nairalanders, I need your piece of advice on this matter. I have lived in my flat for 4 years now, a building of 4 sets of 2 bedroom flats with tenants occupying 3 while my landlord occupies 1. He is still working and all together, I can confirm that he has collected nothing less than 2 Million Naira in rents since about 5 years ago the house became habitable. Still my landlord doesn't have a gen.

The issue at hand is water. Who should be responsible for this?

The transformer in my area is faulty for 2 weeks now and we don't know when we'll have electricity supply again. Supply in my area is quite reasonable but now, its a case of transformer that needs to be taken away. It was during the lockdown I bought a 1.9 KVA gen which obviously I cannot release to pump water. A co-cotenant also has I-pass-my-neighbor gen. You can't believe my landlord and his family charge their phones at my place!

Now we are suffering to get water . I didn't sleep well last night cos I didn't shower. I had very little water to bathe which I decided to save for bath this morning before going to work. The place we(landlord and tenants) fetched water previously is an incompleted building and they haven't pumped water in the last 2 days.

I am thinking of confronting him with questions. I once did actually but it was a case of refuse disposal. My landlord still goes under the cover of night to dispose his refuse within the neighborhood. He later said disposal of refuse is my business which made to find my way, a genuine means.

Now, is provision of water my business? Please ii need your advice. T

Thanks

You know what, you don't know what he has agreed to do or not to do in the place of generator and if his other tenants can talk at his back and can't confront him, then they are waiting for you to do that

Just buy that blue drum and get phone number of a mallam to be suppling water for you

At times let's leave somethings to sort it's self out

Alternatively, your generator can pump water but constantly using it will affect it due to the capasity and once you start you must complete it

So stay away from confronting your landlord, you are not his only tenants

Samson345:
Good day nairalanders
I need your advice on life issues , am 25 years old with no tangible savings at this age I feel time is not on my side I lost my last savings to one investment platform that gives you 40 percent of your capital every week .Now am down to square one.i just got admission this year into the university ,I don't want to be a failure in life,I have skill though ,am a plumber but I'm not know like that. I only get small small job that fetch me very little income in my school here.I need advice on how best to pick early and still meet up in life .what skills can I learn or advice can you give me nairlanders I have no helper aside my mum and she is also struggling .I want to make her smile and happy she is now getting old and weary .pls nairalanders I need your advice pls
I wait for your advice in keen anticipation and hope .Thank you

What a man need in life to succeed is

Be determined
Be focused
Be committed
Stay away from bad boys
Stay away from women
Stay away from day dreaming

Go closer to God, he is the
only one to put you straight and through in life

All these stupid sites that gives you extra bonus like you committed yourself to, have you ever asked yourself if the reward is as possible as it is, won't they include their entire kindred just for them to gain positively too

Be wise pls, I don't believe in bring 10k and collect 2k every week as interest, even banks gives only 3% and still collect it back through service charges

officialJP:
Let me start by saying am in a depression zone/confused. Am 25 years old and I only have ssce certificate, I've been working for the past 6years but nothing to account for my life is just a full mess, recently my brother sent me out of his house saying am useless even accuse me of being a drunkard, smoker, keeping bad company and late night and many more, but God in heaven knows I don't do the above mentioned, well people said he only did that so that I can free him and his wife to be, because the lady always complain I don't like her. Funniest part is that this my same brother is the one I always listen to his advice but always turn out negative, but recently I stopped listening to him i try to be a man and what happened next is sending me parking now I stay with a friend but I will be living soon, well what i really need help on is how can I arrange my life "note my family is somehow complicated" how can I start up my life from this junction.

Since your father is complicated and you can't say it the way it is

Go to your brother and his wife
Apologies to both of them in the presence of each other and you will hear from the houses mouth why you were asked to pack out

Tell him to allow you in and help you get a room to stay then help your to start selling anything that will cost you like below 50k for a start up

You can't remain idke after WAEC exams, no skill, no admission, no trade.

If he can get accommodation for you good tge start looking for school to teach so that you won't be idle

As it is now, no one can send you to university because of funds

But within you, change your character, the home belongs to women so respect his wife and respect your self

Ajilla:
Good morning nairalanders,
I have been unable to sleep for the past few weeks now due to the problem I am facing at the moment.
I proposed to my girlfriend that I av dated for two plus years now and she said yes but my family have refused to support my decision to marry her due to her father's reputation of being diabolical and extremely wicked.
The man in question has been separated from my girl and her mom since she was little(abt 5yrs old). My siblings really love the girl as she is very homely and loves my family the way I do, but ever since I proposed to her, talks abt the spiritual consequences of marrying her has been flying about.
Please I need ur advise, thanks




P.s: we are from the same village and u know in an Igbo community, you have to go to her father's to seek for her hand in marriage irregardless of her parents separation

Your parents are against it because they don't want him to come another world in your children if you marry her

You can't really marry her without the parents permission especially the dad

First find out why the father separated from the mother

Godson213:
Good afternoon my amiable family people. I am planning a wedding with my fiancée my budget is 500K. Will it be enough for food and drinks. People coming from my side aren’t that much. She is yoruba and her mum says she wants a low key wedding and she understands we are young couple. But I just want my money to be able to cover for most things so it doesn’t look poor or low class.

Even this 500k na struggle I struggle am. Babe is on my neck and her business is going good. Please I really want to know what is needed

You are not impressing anyone to wed your wife

Get a caterer to give you budget for food and drink
Get the hall budget
Get the budget for her dress
Get for little bride and groom
Get your cloth budget
Get the souvenirs budget

Keep extra 50k in case its needed

NwekeUG:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/60-year-old-fake-doctor-treating-covid-19-patients-arrested/%3famp=1

Meaning he has been practicing for long

CuteVally:
Good evening Nairalanders.

Please i need an advice on the next step i should take in life. I am a guy, 25 years of age and still living with my parents, though i am not jobless but recently my bank account just hit one million and 200 thousand naira.

So my parents are advising to buy a landed property in my home town that will take about 900 to 1 million naira. But the thing is that i am 25 and i feel at my age i should no longer be staying with my parents, so i want to rent a flat and furniture it to my taste, i feel it is time to move on, i need my freedom to finally face life like a man.

So my question is, should i purchase a landed property at 25 and continue living with my parents or pack out and start my Adult life. Note: i am not jobless".

Staying with your parents and buy a land I a good idea

Getting a rented apartment and furnishings it, to get your freedom to life and face your challenges comes with a price tag

You see that money with you has no value until you invest it
Once you rent an apartment, you will rock life to the fullest but if you don't take time with the kind of friends you keep both male and female, that will be the beginning of another careless life

I suggest you buy land in lagos nit your town unless you don't live in lagos, but if you live where your parents suggests you should but the land, then good

But if you are settled in Lagos, buy land in Lagos, while you are still living with them, start building it eve if it's self contain apartments like three or mini flats like three

Put them for rent when you finish it, take the rent money add it up and get accommodation in town and live there

The remaining part of the land, you build your own house, where your family will stay in future

Pls think twise, there should be no careless spending of that money, you will still enjoy your single life but get plan now first

iwaeda:
https://punchng.com/nba-invitation-withdrawal-unfair-el-rufai/

Who invited him in the first instance, someone who can't handle the security of his state

Nksleek:
Suspected cult killings continues unabated as another young man identified as Afam Francis was gruesomely murdered on Wednesday evening in Asaba.

According to eyewitnesses, the victim was attacked and killed at the Limpopo bar at summit junction, Asaba, Delta State.

The victim had his skull shattered and his brain spilled all over the place.

Our source shared the photos with the caption;

CULTISM_KILLINGS_AND_DELTA_STATE_GOVERNMENT_SILENCE

This is the face of Victim of today’s killings at Limpopo bar at summit junction, Asaba, Delta State.

His skull was destroyed by his assailants, the Police men who came to pick him to deposit at the motuary were looking for nylon to pack his shattered brain.

Source: https://focusnaija.com.ng/2020/08/19/breaking-another-killing-in-asaba-victims-skull-shattered-with-brain-spilled-graphic-photos/

If anyone by any chance fraternizes with cultist he is already part of them

It's either they kill you ar you kill someone

maduxs:
Admin please bring this post to light. I have an albino girlfriend, we have been dating for a while now but the fact remains that the stigmatization is too much. People discriminate against her so much.

Every time I'm walking with her people looks at us as if we came from another planets. All my close relations and friends I told about her discouraged me from getting married to her. Everybody is against me, they told me how can I introduce albinism to my lineage.

I understand that she has a very poor visual acuity, she is prone to skin cancer, she will depend on me to get some certain task done especially under sun.

She is a very good girl, what I'm looking at is what is inside her I mean her personality even though she is obese, she gives me peace of mind.

Finally she is also a petrochemical engineer, and very brilliant person though her albinism has been disadvantageous to her from getting a better job. I just proposed to her against all odds even though I'm all alone.

Should I go on to marry her? Please I need advice from people with mature minds.

Congratulations on your new life into matrimony

Love is a very strong bond, the more you cherish it the more it renew itself

Do you know that normal black colour parents can give birth to Albinos

In this case, will you chase your biological child away

What every man needs is someone that will give him peace of mind irrespective of her color, tribe, complexion and the rest

She is even an intelligent woman for her to study the course she did, getting job now is grace of God not skin color

What you will understand is that, those people distracting you, if assuming she is their biological sister, won't they wish a man comes to marry her

Follow your heart, it will lead you to ever lasting peace

Every Mallam with his own kettle, some containers beer others contains water

Lipscomb:
Hope that will not cause setback to our country.

How ⁉️

NevetsIbot:
So a female friend dropped into my dm distraught at her skin condition. She was talking about her having stretch marks and how embarrassed she was about it... While I was trying to calm her down and let her know it was natural for someone who's gaining weight or for most people even... (I have tiger stripes on my bum too na ).. She maintained that this one was a big issue and she has been emotional and even lost her confidence...

According to her, her marks just started turning black and she has used organic creams to treat it, shea butter and just got coconut oil.
She sent a picture of her skin at the waist running to the back.

She would like a natural treatment cos she doesn't like these chemical stuffs from the counter. I for one don't like drugs and all.

If she is on cream, she have to stop it

The more weight she puts on the more her body expands

Simply, leave it the way it is the more she rubs her hands there, the more it expands

Who in his right senses will apply for his death

Senoritaluvy:
I need matured mind in the house to help look into this before I make mistake again.
I had a son with my ex years ago. He's 6ys old now.
All through this yrs, my family and I have been the only source taking care of my son. To be honest, I don't even have time for myself any more. I can't remember the last time I had a serious relationship with any man. I became a total worker holic because I needed to give him a good life.

But I'm afraid. I can't be enough for my son, I need a father figure in his life.
What if something happens to me? Who will be there for him?

Recently, I've been thinking. I want my son to have relationship with his father before he gets older, but that guy is so annoying. Each time he calls, he keeps promising and apologizing. I don't know what is actually wrong with him.

I've not been lucky to meet any one who could be like a father figure to my son and I don't want to single handedly raise a son without a father.
I've been thinking of taking him to his father and let him stay with him for a while, but I'm scared. Will my son be alright?
Am I making a mistake already?
What would you advised?
I'm 32yrs now and i need my life back, and I want my son to be okay. What do I do?

Your idea is good

Seat him down and let him know what really happened

Tell him that you want to go and struggle so that life will be meaningful for you and her

He will listen amd agree with you

Then inform the father of your plans and start with him going there on holidays, as he goes there, he will be bonding with the rest of the family and he will be the one to tell you how happy he will be or how sad he will be if he should stay with them, he can only experience this during holidays

As for his father that that is always apologising and begging you, that's a delay tactics

Let him man up, if he can't fix his first child in his life then let him do it byeforce

Now, if your child leaves you, you now have to opportunity to be free once again and replant your life

You will always come across men, but don't expect too much from them, they too are looking for a woman that will accept them the way the economy have kept them

Be prayerful too, everything is best known to God

Psalm6ix:
https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-a2hLgUBRFq4/Xzp8URnJj6I/AAAAAAAAJr0/jG6csx1V-YwUWs-fjI5ZLHryl88MddPQwCLcBGAsYHQ/s1600/IMG_ORG_1597668415788.jpeg

A Twitter user, Identified as Faku Mpolweni has Lamented that his Fiancee returned his engagement Ring after 8 years of Entanglement.

The Heartbroken man wrote on twitter: “She returned my ring Ring today after 8years of engagement yonke. Never trust women.”

https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-kRlgCw91cCY/Xzp8UzbakXI/AAAAAAAAJr4/z5yS8tFW_zMrONVDVQZ-PSgKZhF05faTACLcBGAsYHQ/s1600/IMG_ORG_1597668369448.png

https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-6lg5sV0fnt0/Xzp8WftKFHI/AAAAAAAAJsA/-iIPR94ah-ktXxX5eFdCR1YQ870HYM0OgCLcBGAsYHQ/s1600/IMG_ORG_1597668386938.png

https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-l6DiArL6rZo/Xzp8VruagPI/AAAAAAAAJr8/wJmQJ4QK5noXsQ1g-KyDpF2v2ya0cNuIQCLcBGAsYHQ/s1600/IMG_ORG_1597668386991.png

More Reactions at: https://www.kingsparo.com/2020/08/she-returned-my-ring-today-after-8.html

She took a wise decision

How could you keep a woman waiting for 8 years

eluyerab:
God bless you and thanks for the clarification. I assume quite a number don’t know what they’re about buying.

Amen, yes they don't and thats why I made that clarification

kenwills:
You've spoken well!
Thanks for the advice.

Thanks for the acknowledgement

kenwills:
Hello nairalanders, I've been on this forum for a longtime but I decided to create a new account to remain anonymous.

We are just 3 but my elder sister always feels unconcerned about I and my younger brother to the extent that if I don't call to check on her she never does, she ceases any opportunity to talk bad about me to anyone who cares to listen and since I've been in school, she has never bothered to know who foot my bills, pays my fees nor how I survive. I felt uncomfortable with this attitude because she has been like this since childhood.

So I approached her recently, and asked her why she behaves as though I'm an enemy to her. I made her see reasons why we should lookout for each other and hold no grudges against one another, seeing that our parents is no more. But she flared up suddenly and started shouting at the top of her voice, that we have no business at all and whatever I become tomorrow is none of her business either, that I should stay away from her henceforth cos she's never going to support me in any way.

I was heartbroken to hear what has been on her mind over an unknown issue because I only wanted us to be united as one family. Pls I need your advice, if you were in my shoes what would you do?

Am very glad she made it known to you that she doesn't care

You know what, don't excommunicate her but bear in mind that you don't have a sister in her person

Struggle very well so that you don't ever depend on her

Make sure you take your junior one along as you go

A time will come she will need that unity, by then it's your shell she will be dealing with

She is in her own world, watch and see how she is going to swim with out a life jacket

Just ignore her and move on

You don't know her agreement with her gods

AnonymousRebec:
What does it mean when the person you are getting to know does not reply your WhatsApp messages even after 3 days and you can clearly see that this person is online or was recently online.

I got to know this person through a mutual friend. The mutual friend made it clear to him, that I'm someone he should take seriously and the mutual friend gave him my number and he contacted me.

So we have been talking from time to time. But he behaves wierd sometimes. Sometimes, especially during the weekends, he doesn't come online for the whole weekend and only sends a message on Monday morning. Even if I send a message on whatsapp during the weekend, i will not get a reply until monday morning. He has done this a couple of times.

Recently, I sent a message since Friday last week but he has not replied and this oga is online oo and he is looking at my WhatsApp status. The guy in question is in his mid 30s and I'm in my mid 20s.

I was thinking we can get to know each other, but as it is now, I don't have energy for stress.

There must be something in him that is driving you crazy about him

He doesn't have your time because you are all over, give him a break and you will see if the relationship worths it

Be a woman, don't allow yourself to be used and dump

Aniediimeedet:
Good day. You've got a lovely stand.
Can it go for 10k?
07036780996
Thanks.

I ply wood of HDF wood is above 15000, do your calculations

portune:
Nigerians your help is highly needed. Shaun, pls front page.

What kind of wife constantly denies of her husband full conjugal rights. Even during time a woman's body craves 4 sex, husband put condom on, she went into bathroom, urinated and fingered herself to satisfaction there only to come out sighing upnand down saying she is in a bad mood. That their business is not going well.

This case is serious. A man who rushes home once market closes. Rarely goes out. In fact fellow men always say he doesn't come out.

What on earth is the name of the devil manipulating my wife? For your info , I dont cheat on her and we never had any cheating case.
HELP ME PLS!!@

There must be some unresolved issues that have been making her to behave as if she was created with a hidden dick

Seat her down a d ask her why the attitude

If she says nothing and repeats nothing, just don't bother. Start your own let's see who will get tired

If sex is your happiness sort yourself out

Life is too shot for one person to determine your happiness

Rtk5:
When couples are at a point of divorce, who amongst them do you think is always willing to work harder to avert the divorce & safe the marriage for the sake of the child because some men or women do not give a damn about an innocent child when thinking of divorce?

No one goes into marriage to get divorced

Circumstances that will threaten peace of mind, life and happiness is one of the reasons

But if the woman is working and the man is working and divorce issues comes up, she is definitely going with the child because she is capable

If in a situation the woman is not working and have no hope of #10, she stays and endure the emotional trauma for the sake of the children

Woe betide the man if he doesn't have any means of lively hood, it will be better for him not to trigger anything that will lead to divorce

He will not be with the wife or the children but may have access to them

The best is, let's manage each other so far your life is not threatened

adadike:
I only pity your wife sir. The poor woman will be crying out her eyes by now. Shameless old man. Tufiakwa! Ihere eme chi

For where, every woman who knows her husband is a womaniser, doesn't get moved with such disgraceful act

Haba, no be today she don take patience pill

prof2007:
SOURCE: https://dailypost.ng/2020/08/18/i-hit-my-husband-whenever-he-makes-senseless-demands-wife-tells-court/

Thiania what you get when a man want to remote his wife instead of seating down to plan their marriage

Well she beats him straight away, that means the man lost his respect long ago

Nonsense

juliabobly65:
Hello nairalanders, I need your opinions on this matter.

My boyfriend of 3 years who is now my fiancee (we are talking marriage already) is constantly talking to his ex girlfriend (who is now married).

They discuss all manner of things, ranging from how she misses him and wished she had waited for him.

Trouble started when he told her he was planning to settle down (I still wonder why he told her) ever since she's always coming up with pots of lies against me. She claims someone told her so many things about me.

She fabricating lies isn't my major concern because I know once something good is about to happen the devil comes in many ways than one to destroy it.

I've told my man all about my past life and everything in it, recently he accused me of withholding some information of my past. The ex girlfriend had a chat with and told him things I don't even know about.

Nairalanders this lady is married, why is she poke nosing into our affair?? If she loved him that much, why did she marry another man?? Why is my man giving her audience Is he still in love with her I know she's obsessed about me. Her constant chats with him, makes him accuse me of things I've never done in my entire life.

I told him we should suspend the marriage until he's done with his investigation since he doesn't believe me cos he said if he finds out something I did in my past in the future and I didn't tell him it will be a problem.

Admins pls push to front page.

You didn't tell us how come his ex knows much about you and your past

Anyway it's good you tokd him to put a hold on the marriage plans and do his investigations

That's shows that you are not desperate about marriage

Give him enough time

Then bear one thing in mind, exs hardly leave each other even if that person is married in her own case, she is married so she is just doing what ladies does when they feel pained about that their ex is having a marriage proposal

You can't stop them from communicating, if possible he will sleep with her, that's if she doesn't have a grip of herself. Wetin concern the man

In as much as you knows that what she is saying is not true, just relax and let him do his finding as if he doesn't have a past

But just tell us how she got to know about who you are

They have a point

ojonugwa25:
I returned 7.2 million naira wrongly paid into my account from fcmb into my first bank account only d cashier rewarded me with 5k,it a pity .

You really saved the cashier his job and you went home with a peaceful mind