₦airaland Forum

leatherman:
Long overdue, campaign after election

Be appreciative for once

suzzyboss:
Is me or why is that it's always kill.. Die kill die I am always reading in our news nowadays

Worst with PM News, I don't believe their report

Always on domestic crisis

You can. Never get anything more than

Man kills wife
Wife kills husband
Man pregnant woman and sold the baby
House boy pregnant wife
Sister took sister's husband

Always stupid news

Lagos state governor and his government has really impressed me

I wasn't expecting this safety measures, since the arrival of corona virus

He has set the pace

chukwugoziegi:
Wow! I had no idea. I'll try to get that prestige water filter.

Pls do and you will see the mud clog that we have been drinking without water filter

Once in 3 months you loosen it and wash it

There are some with two or three candle stict, the more the candle stick the quicker it drops filtered water

You can replace the candle sticks if they are old as breakage

chukwugoziegi:
Some people ACTUALLY use Water Corporation in this Lagos, Nigeria? Lol!

Yes you are right, in Bariga, they use water cooperation for as musc as 17yrs I have been living there and am sure they must have been enjoying it even before I packed to the area

Though the water is not really clean, I have been using prestige water filter and it has been working fine for that 17yrs, just change the candle when it breaks or spoils

I can't imagine buying bags of pure water

It's dam too expensive for those years

amliftedhigher:
Shut up your drainage mouth. They are all oloshos I know them very well ewu

You lack manners

Go and learn how to be courteous

It will go a long way to model your life

pakingzzzzz:
Still searching

Stop it naw �

What about those girls you slept with, even the ones you promised marriage ❓

Nerdg:
She told me of being pregnant and later had a stillbirth at the 7months.

The background.
I met her when we were teens and have always loved her. She refused me sex and along the line, her neighbor gave me (who is her relation). She learnt about this and we had our first break up.
We both got admission into different universities and couldn't see again.
We later met again and settled with a condition that there would be no sex. This didn't go down well with me and I called it off. This repeated and there was even a time I walked her out of my house because of this issue and didn't give her tfare. My house is like 1hr drive from where she lives.
The issue:
I love this girl to the extent that anytime I thought of getting married, she will come to mind.
Now I have a good job and she's done with school. I proposed to her and she accepted it.
Is about 3 months now, she came on my birthday 3 months ago. That was all. She doesn't come always because she stays with her elder brother and can't leave house just like that.

Note, we haven't had sex till now.

About 2 weeks ago, I told her about how I got a girl pregnant and we had to abort it and that since then I haven't been myself. That it pains me to this day. We talked about it and she was sorry over it.

Yesterday, we had a very deep discussion and she revealed to me that she had a relationship at school. They were together for 4yrs. I then asked her if she had ever missed her period. She said yes. But not to this school boyfriend but another man. She wanted to keep the pregnancy but her parents refused because the guy is not a good person. The guy wanted the pregnancy but her family didn't want the guy to marry her. She finally had a stillbirth at the 7th month.

I was stunned. I know she's not a virgin, she told me but I was confused. Sex had always been our problem and I never expected that she had experienced something like this. Now she asked me that she hope she won't regret telling me this. I told her no that she won't regret but I'm stunned.

Please should I still go on with this marriage?

It's better to be with a person that us open and transparent than the one's that can keep secrets and take it to grave

chii8:
Hello everyone, please I need help, I want to do a little 50th birthday celebration for my husband but the problem is;
*I don't know how to go about that especially when my husband is a very private person.
*He has very few friends, likewise me.
*He's kinda of a shy person.

What I want: I feel I should do a surprise birthday party for him probably in a gathering he will be comfortable,so I need ideas on how to go about it.I will be grateful if someone here could help me out.Thank you and God bless.
(I'm sorry for bothering you guys, I'm just confused and don't know how to go about it)


@ifyalways@Sisioge@Oyindindi... please, I need your help.

For his kind of nature, arrange with his friends to liu him out if the house and bring him back with other friends to a surprise birthday

Even if they are just 4 in numbers, it worths it

Just prepare salad, fried or roasted chicken

Enough drinks for his friends

Men will prefer to chew meat and drink, though if they lije food then pounded yam with egusi, then juice no alcohol

You can do all this in your neighbours house if you have a goid one so that hubby will be taken unaware

You can also ask a caterer to do the cooking then you go and carry it when his friends takes him out briefly and brings him back, he will be surprise

But you have to plan with his friends so that they will understand

As for a gift, get him a superior shoe, you should know which one he likes by showing him pictures of beautiful shoe to choose assuming he wants to buy

The shop can be upto 25/30,k

VirginSearcher:
Hi Everyone,

Hope you doing great?

If y'all remember I opened a thread recently asking for a virgin girl to marry... had few contacts with one seemingly serious but it seems am going ahead with the decision of marrying the 18 yrs old virgin girl. Note: There are girls/friends asking me to come and marry them but the problem is that they are not virgins as they told me. And with the level of promiscuity in Nigeria and being scared of what many girls do in their relationship life I'm not comfortable moving towards that direction as I believe I may never love a non-virgin girl. So, I have decided to marry the girl and train her character wise and also in school to study a professional course I want after paying her bride price (have a reason for this). She wrote Jamb this year but I'm not interested in her enrolling into Nig school as I have better plans for her before guys that specialize in devouring Jambites notice her.
Please guys is a marriage of 14yrs age difference bad? That's my only concern but I love her and she is so innocent, beautiful and well shaped with a matured body.. Please advice am I making the right decision?

Thanks VirginSearcher!

Having read your first and second thread, I think you have an issue it could be attitude issue or believe issue

My own ys, if you like marry with 25yrs difference, just don't treat her bad or manipulate her or use her innocence

Every woman is an actor no matter the age and she is wiser than the serpent

They are going too far

Condom can be used to prevent it

They should be talking about sweat and saliver from kisses

Then hands for cuddling

These are the main points

MelesZenawi:
It will always end in Igbo amaka.


Op point of correction, he is not a Nigerian. How do you prove that the man is a Nigerian?

The headline is purely misleading. Give it the best caption please


You are infringing onthe right of this man by declaring him a Nigerian.

Even with his name ❓

Stop it naw ❗❗

javaRookie:
A friend of mine killed this snake which had 30 babies stashed up in it's belly.
Now this is a generous amount of protein right here.

* Starts washing pot while humming "Egungun don enter express Las Las" *

The baby snake is so cute, too bad they would be serving as snack followed up with a bottle of fanta.

No time.

Who will eat these warms ❓

lecoeur:
Greetings elders...

I'm living with this uncle of mine and the family, the wife's sister comes often visiting and stays for weeks.

This beautiful lady is 4 years older than I am and keeps seducing me one way or the other, how I came to this fact is due to her behaviour towards me.

I don't deem it Necessary for me to explain it but If you need me to elaborate you can quote me.
I'm just scared she may set me up because lately I refused relating much with her, I think she was smart enough to know what I'm up to and promised to deal with me (she said it jokingly).

Don't tell me that you can't handle yourself in a discipline way

Whatever decision you takes, be ready to defend it, good or bad

How much and where is uor location

ayobamiJR:
I lost my father when I was 11 months old and since then it has been my mum taking care of me and my elder sister.

Things weren't so rosy for us, my father's people took all he had and left us homeless. To the point that, from just 2 years old to 18 years old, I lived in (Oworo, Shomolu, Mushin, Ladi Lak, Sango Ota, Alakuko, Ikeja, Egbeda, Ajah and Epe).

This is a result of being homeless, we always had to move when people evicts us from their homes and by this, I couldn't finish High school (ss3) even though I was very brilliant and had represented Ogun state in a spelling bee competition.

Along the line, my mum's extremely caring in my field of need, she tries to get me everything other children enjoy too but one thing is she's so bad-tempered and she nags too.

She had subjected me to a lot of abuse while growing up, I knew it wasn't love then, it was just an abuse.

She had thrown knife at me before, hit me with hard objects and causes so much depression to my existence through this. This is the main reason I had to hustle up to leave her roof at 18, it wasn't so easy for me but I did it and she never wanted it but who wants to be in a home where you gets constantly abused?

Sometimes I wonder why people ignore all these things and mistake it for love? Or is t just my mentality cos I know that abuse is a big crime in the US.

Even on mother's day, I couldn't post her picture cos I won't be an hypocrite to have said shes the best in the world, she nags and this makes me dislike her.

Even my sister thought she could cope but now she's out and she's the only one living now (mum) . I'd appreciate any advice.

Well, you just have to deal with it with caution

She may have not been thus bad, but separating from your dad, could have made her worst

My advice is, don't be too close to her and don't be too far from her

She needs you guys now and always, answer her from a distance

She will still get worst at old age

But assuming she has a man friend, it will help so that she can still make love with him a d ut will help her calm her nerves and her head, helping her state of mind to be in the right mood

If she needs help, assist if you can and have the resources

Lastly, don't give her chances in your marriage but don't be hard on her

Be firm and accomodating

Iyiataata92:
My Take:
(1)It seems Sanwo Olu is afraid of Tinubu. He lacked the guts to refuse a meeting with him knowing the risk involved
(2)How can Sanwo Olu shake elbow with Tinubu while exposing his air routes, his nose and mouth?. What then has he been teaching Lagosians since?
(3)How can Tinubu draw support for LASG asking citizens to comply to an order he is brazenly flouting? Where's leadership in this?
(4)Why would Yinka Odumakin refer to Tinubu as 'someone' but would go on to be precise about Abba Kyari? Would he lose his voice if he says 'Tinubu came back from the UK and.........'?
(5)APC said Tinubu returned a long time and stayed indoor. The report said Tinubu returned on Saturday. I don't know who is lying here but it's easy to guess. Whichever the case, WHO stipulates 14 self-isolation. I reserve my take on this.

Tinubu should have learned something from the Abba Kyari saga unless something sinister is cooking within him

Do you need to be told that, he is, his puppet ?

kamilous:
if a religion must tag of disturbing the peace of people,then it should be Christianity unelse u want to lie.
Muslim call for prayer hardly last more than 5 minutes compare to this church that will be disturbing the peace of the neighbors day and night with nonsense sing and drum beaten and still yet claim they are worshipping God.

If that is the case, they do it once and its on Sundays, whereas the people you are supporting does it 5 times with loud speakers, haba ❗❗

What about the Muslims that still call for prayers five times a day to their faithfulls and still disturb others peace with their noisy loud speakers

Ryan03:
truth is, not everyone is comfortable with such, I am not comfortable with people just showing up in my place without prior info or telling me your departure date. Well, life is funny, I might find myself in this situation tomorrow and will have to compromise. I won't be happy tho

Assuming the man is working and the wife ya working too

His mother in law can look after the maid and children until they are back

She can comfortably carry a new born with ease

Though if she chose to be lazy, no one will appreciate her presence

Ryan03:
lol, na the man dey complain o, the wife's mother is the one staying the night. Hope the advice will be same

Honestly there was no need for his complain

The entire family should rather make use of her presence

Watching over the children is a lot of job

They should engage her

tyup:
His Fellow cartels at work

Stop it naw

Goodgod213:
After I saw how my dad suffered to raise the two of us I and my sibling till the company he was working with went down. We started living from one aunt house to uncles houses. I have been thrown out on four occasions, accused of stealing on many occasions, starved by family, disowned by my own mother who is in the abroad sending monies to different people in Nigeria and disregarding her son because I looked like my father. At 21 I moved to ibadan, stayed with a friend, dumped by my gf, Hustled to get my cert, did my Nysc, hustled more, bought a land at ibadan, bought my first car, bought another car, moved down to Lagos, rented a apartment.

Now I have a unisex salon, a boutique, a car listed on Bolt, and Presently working on roofing my project.

It’s not been easy. Not all women are mothers.

Great

You achieved this because you are focused and determined

As for you mother, forgive her, accept her, let her conscience judge her

tunary:
This one sound too good to be true. suspect lie mohammed

Your dad did wise by not getting another wife, some other men will marry another wife a d the family will divide into 12

Then the true picture will come out at old age for your dad to suffer more

Every woman will poison her own children against their dad

Goodgod213:
After I saw how my dad suffered to raise the two of us I and my sibling till the company he was working with went down. We started living from one aunt house to uncles houses. I have been thrown out on four occasions, accused of stealing on many occasions, starved by family, disowned by my own mother who is in the abroad sending monies to different people in Nigeria and disregarding her son because I looked like my father. At 21 I moved to ibadan, stayed with a friend, dumped by my gf, Hustled to get my cert, did my Nysc, hustled more, bought a land at ibadan, bought my first car, bought another car, moved down to Lagos, rented a apartment.

Now I have a unisex salon, a boutique, a car listed on Bolt, and Presently working on roofing my project.

It’s not been easy. Not all women are mothers.

Great

You achieved this because you are focused and determined

As for you mother, forgive her, accept her, let her conscience judge her

Punchline33:
I can imagine the excitement in Edo now. The best time to enjoy salaries is this period because u will stay at home and spend less apart from feeding. No transport upandan and no careless spending on bars, restaurants and ol*sh*

Staying at home will make you spend more

Idleness creates room for expenses

There is nothing to investigate as the letter has already explained what happened

Case closed

This woman has caused the death of these two men

Na waooo ❗❗

Mymynd4u:
Don't dare mi.. Low budget ebonyi igbo


I am from anambra. 1st class igbo

Sell yourself, leave others

Mymynd4u:
Watch igbo blame buhari and corona for this death



3 bad news from igbo states topping nairaland this morning...


Ain't igbos tired of bad bad negative things..

Respect your self naw ❗❗

HelloHolla:
Good evening everyone, I've been a guest for quite a while, created an account cause I need advice from the audience.

How long should an engagement ring be worn for? I've been engaged since last year May (dated for 4yrs), my Fiance hasn't talked about proceeding to do introduction or marriage, it's like he just proposed to me because he felt like.

This man has refused to be on his own, his Grandma and 5 siblings (younger and older) live with him and he takes responsibility for them all, two of his siblings living with him also have their partners living with them. It's only a 3 bedroom flat. I feel like quitting the whole thing cause I don't feel comfortable going to his house. When I do, he wants me to cook for everyone which gets me strained.

With the look of things, he has no plans of moving out for them cause he rented the apartment, neither do they have intentions of moving out on their own, it's more like a family house. My period is two days late and I'm scared to the marrow.

Please advice me on what to do cause I can't live with him if they're still there after marriage, he's not even talking about marriage, I've not asked him yet so as not to sound desperate but why propose if you don't have plans of doing the next thing after a max of 6 months?

He's 31 and I'm 24

Thanks.

The guy in question is not ready for marriage in the next five years

These are my reasons

He rented am apartment that harbours every members of his family, he can't force them out and he can't afford to go get a private one for his personal accommodation

His siblings are benefiting from his charity and they are staying with him to get the balance they need to stand

You will have to live in that same house with him if he should marry you and it means you will have to be unhappy with it where as he sees nothing wrong with it

He engaged you because he knows that you guys have been dating for four years now and you are looking forward to his engagement, but bear in mind that he can't move a step beyond that because he doesn't have the ability to start a family when his siblings are yet to get there ground

He doesn't even have the money for the marriage and he wants you to keep marking time the way he is marking time and as you do that with him, you are on your own

As you keep living with them, your money, energy, sacrifice are going into the family yet no reward for it

My advice, prepare your mind to quit the relationship as that's the only way to move on with your future

Meet him, remove the ring and give it to him, tell him you have tried so far waiting for him to seal the relationship but from the look of things, he is not prepared and you have to move on

If he pleads with you to bear with him, tell him you will bear with him but the ring have to be removed from your finger so that your hand will be free

If he says he is ready, tell him to give you time, but make sure you give him the ring back to his palm and don't receive it back

Before you do this, be prepared emotionally so that you don't have a heart break

It's been long they strike last