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jamesversion:
Firstly i'm not a tribalist and secondly, the kind of sacrilegious sexual pervasion we read amongst Yorubas is mind boggling.

ah ahn.

Them take sex do kola nut and entertainment for their side

Both sexes but worst on their men who drinks all sort of agbo to get erection, who suffers it, their women

lopsoj:
This is to seek for your honest solution to this situation, no insult pls.

My younger sister is very friendly, and cynical, but this attitude of hers, is always to the extreme, she mostly lived with our elderly sister and her husband, while they leave her alone at home with their children often, this continue for long. During this time, i was away from home, because my work took me out of town.

Before my return, I was informed that my sister was pregnant for a thug she met whenever she was sent on an errand. According to her, this guy always waylaid her on the road threatening her to have sex with him, but she said it happened after she frolic with him and some other friends around the neighborhood, before he started making advances toward her. She is in her early twenties

To cut the story short, how they get to become intimate was a surprise to us. Because right now she is with a child and he wants the child to be born, yet he has no regard for any of us in our family, he insult us at will, and he is also a muslim.

Recently his family came over to apologise for his misconduct and demand we release the mother and the unborn child to them. meanwhile we do not want to have anything to do with a thug, that has no regard for the family with no sign of remorse. what do you think we can possible do on this issue

What kind of respect do you expect from a thug

Well she can deliver the baby but I don't support her moving in to the guys family

The guy will deal with her

Let her deliver the baby and learn from her mistakes

Then move on with her life

Next time, if she sights a matured man she will face front

To me, she can separate from him but divorce

It takes longe process to divorce

If she lives separately from him, it's a better option

She will have her life and freedom to deal with

It may not affect her communication with him

This is only if she doesn't depend solely on dad

Jeremih1:
Hello nairalanders, I want to know if there is any remedy for a small manhood, or any perfect pill that increases a small penis. Thank u

The most important thing is that you have a potent manhood

What you have to do is to use it well

How do you use it well

By treating a woman like the queen she is

By being caring not necessary spending money on her

By being romantic to your woman

By paying attention to your woman and giving her listening ears

By being a handy man, women love handy men

And if you think all this will be difficult for you, get a virgin and settle down with her, she may not have have gotten experience of what it is to taste different sizes of manhood

After all, some guys have a standard manhood yet they don't know how to use it

Did they include the stones

EFULEFU1:
I saw my best friends wife in a hotel with another man. Since then I have not been myself

Should I tell my friend?

Mind your business pls, you weren't paid to spy on her, even at that

When the moon refuses food the stars eats it

iCauseTrouble:
Who told you the boys are complaining of abuse?

I know that you are a culprit, just hide yourself

okechukwu101:
PLEASE TELL US NOW WITH YOUR EXPERIENCE.

Lol
Every marriage has its own experience and no matter what I try to explain, you will not understand until you experience it

DONFRANSKID:
aunty its not by force to comment if you don't know what to say then shut up. nonsense

If you had read and shut up, you won't be saying nonsense

uninspired07:
No oooo. When the money comes, it is to be used to torment, taunt, use & discard women.

That's interesting at least it will affect your mother, sisters, wife and daughters

Then finally, you will become puppet to women

Lamanii22:
I and my fiancé were actually talking about this issue... He was the one even keen on kids not coming between us but I told him outrightly that it is his mom that would come between us... I just don't want our love for each other to fade... Plus I wanna have children obviously...

Don't mind him

If your kids doesn't come between you both, who will

You better reason well because I have never seen or heard that such a thing is an issue to be bothered about

For all I know, children loves mummy and mums already knows how to give both father and children her attention

What is a man doing with breast milk of a woman ❓

That means she should breast milk forever

Look for your informations, the breast milk is for new born and after that, it drys up for pleasure for the couples to enjoy themselves

Nature has already designed it the way it should be

OmoOduduwa01:
Which is more important in relationship?
Communication or Understanding

Understanding

If you are fortunate to get an understanding partner, your communication will flow like a river

And everything thing will be put in place

Olawrites:
I had sex with my babe with intention for a baby though. It now a week now, my plans have changed

My question is:

HOW CAN I PREVENT HER BEING PREGNANT AFTER ONE WEEK OF UNPROTECTED SEX ?

Any drug or advice?

What are you charging

The gender or she carrying the pregnancy to full term

Since you desire to have baby with out doing the right full thing, you will face it when it comes

Or were you testing the potency of your sperm count

WuraSerano:
No words of endearments.
No long phone calls.
No flowers.
No nice scents or lingeries.
No treats.
No gifts.

Nothing but demand for sex.
Guys, why are you so unromantic?

There are romantic one's among them but just few of them

The one's that are not romantic are those ones thst have allowed culture to imbibe in them

Making them to be to traditional and sees nothing interesting in being romantic to a woman

But they forget that it's a man's duty to make sure his woman doesn't need another man

AkandeJoseph99:
There is this girl that I love and we've been talking and texting, I've been telling her I love her and she tells me I am special too, most times she doesn't sleep at night and even when my phone is off her call comes in almost immediate even by midnight, until recently I noticed she's losing interest and doesn't get excited talking to me again like she uses to be before. I asked her but she always said it's because she is busy, so I continued texting her because she seldom picks my call I begged her a lot and kept on calling and texting until recently I asked her what's up or she should tell me if she has another boyfriend she now said that a boy asked her to be his girlfriend and she told him yes November last year, I went ahead to ask her that what about me she said she didn't know I love her, that she thought we're just friends that I should have told her, so I got heart broken and kept on texting her but it seems the texts don't even make sense to her and when she manages to pick my call or call me she avoids many talks. Please what should I do, I've been drinking and started drugs but still. I've been having sleepless nights and can't concentrate with my life. Admin please push to front page I need help.

Just look at what you are doing to yourself because of someone you have not put a ring in her finger

Guy ❗❗❗
Pls go and start planning for your future

Leave her to her choice

Achieve greatness and you will have them dying for you

"and one low self esteemed guy will be asking what does women offer in a relationship"

LINTUNE:
alright,u have a point

Thanks for understanding, lol

LINTUNE:
hmm...deep..alright ..but u made it sound like a woman who cheats can't infect her husband

You made it so because you didn't think deep about my comment

I was commenting base on the symbol of a man in the family setting

I never mentioned any sort of infection

It was a generalised statement

LINTUNE:
I know,but what u said about how a woman that cheats and a man that also cheats, is very sentimental

Those of you reacting to my comment on this topic, got me wrong while those that understands the content gave me likes

Do you know that a man represents the symbol of his family

Do you realise that, you will be asked who's son are you (father) not who's daughter are you

A woman who looses her credibility in marriage may be sent home to her father's house

Now tell me, a man who looses his credibility in marriage will be sent to where ❓

Lamanii22:
Great article... But that number 20 though... Is there a way the love between your kids and husband be equal? Like what can one do to make it equal.. I don't want children coming between me and my husband... Or is it inevitable?

Did you mean the last four lines of your comment ❓

If you don't want children to come in between you and your husband, your mother inlaw will come in between you and your husband

Just wait and see then feel it

LINTUNE:
nairaland gals and thier terrible mentality,always looking for ways to condemn men

And you think the men have not been condemning the women

Enemyofpeace:
you sure got it right

Thanks

kingreign:
Trash!
More than three folks have even pointed out that you're foolish.
Go deal with your foolishness.

Just three folks as foolish as you are

You want to strangle yourself on my comment

Continue struggling with it

You can't beat the reach

IyaTola:
Why does sex slowly die off in a Marriage after 10+ years??

Situations warrants such to happen

Child bearing comes with responsibilities that you won't know or understand until you have those kids with you

Providing for families have become a problem instead of a responsible task

Men are not finding it easy and women, only few understands especially those that works too

Men normally have times 10 of a normal woman sex urge

When a man is faced with

School fees
Feeding
House rent
Extended family wahala
Work pressure
Lack of work
Little or No source of incomes


All these are just enough to make a man's dick flacid

Women too attach emotions to sex and the domestic work load can affect her sex urge

The only way is to have few kids so that you will have little to worry about

Just because a man got infected and spread it to his family, all the men are tagging the female comments

If it's the woman that got infected and spread it to the man, your ego would have been massaged

wHyyyyyyyyyY:
whyyyyyyyy? So as a man, we re only meant 2 giv out nd not get luv, correct? Ur head is nt correct ma. Whyyyyyy is it always about men giving n giving n giving? Wat is wrong wt u females?

It takes a man with incorrect head to detect one

patrickmuf:
Struggling to see the sense in what you just wrote.

You have to keep struggling because a man is involved in this case, if it were to be a woman you won't struggle

Mcquine:
Why are you talking like you're 5.

Haven't you heard of same story but in this case the woman infected the husband.

My Comment was for both genders

pickatyou:
Foolish quote for 2020. Una don start

You done join them be that

kingreign:
How foolish and stupid of you to comment without thinking?

Just the way you are foolish to comment with out thinking

ezugegere:
How? You mean a woman cannot infect her husband?

I said a mistake can cause harm in marriage, I didn't say infection