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truthsayer009:
You know i was having your exact thoughts, but not to seem paranoid or spoiling the OP's mind when he created the thread, i decided not to say it.

It is always good to hear from the horses mouth even if the horses are pretending.

The devil you know is always better, i suspect foul play.

You got it, that's what I was thinking that made me post my comments

baby124:
So he will go and introduce himself as who and what? You need to think before giving out advice. Maybe act it out in your head. So that is how you just show up and people’s houses that you are who? Very funny..

He is a man, when he gets there, he knows how to introduce himself

baby124:
When people say *take the bull by the horn* it cracks me up so much. What if the parents reject him and humiliate him? He’s already dealing with enough. He should not go to a house where he has not been introduced to them by their child... some wicked parents will use the opportunity to arrest him as a thief for entering their house uninvited.

Is disgrace a new thing to him

Which family will insult a propose spouse of their daughter at first visit

Worst case scenario, they will reject his proposal, it's a 50/50 thing

How are you even sure, her family told her that, she may have arranged that audio report to keep benefiting from him and still blames her family for their rejection

Let him go and see things himself

When I say he should go without her notice but she will be at home, I want him to unravel things

Then how can her family arrest him as a thief for entering their house, in what manner abeg

Make you dey rehears wetin you want write before you post am

empirebosscrew:
Good day everybody. So I have lived with poliomelythis for more than two decades now. I have strived so much to achieve alot for myself because I never allowed my situation deter me from achieving my goals in life.

Everything has been going on smoothly: Education up to MSc level, a job, a car and things a man can acquire and say he has reached a level of comfort.

The one thing I'm yet to get is to be in a stable relationship. 99% of the girls I've dated never took me serious and we never lasted long. Some will even take advantage to chop my money and bail after a while. It got to a point I had a bitter negative stereotype thinking all women are mainly out there to exploit a man.

It wasnt until earlier this year when I met someone who changed the horoscope. Like she is so down to earth and actually loved me for me, without even looking at my paralysis. Things were going smoothly until she started becoming aggressive and emotional over little issues.

It took a while but she was able to open up to let me know how her family vehemently told her they dont want to see her with someone like me. They also threatened to disown her if she insisted on being with me.

Currently, we decided to stop seeing each other for the sake of peace to reign in her family. We do keep communication on a 100. We both love each other genuinely and we do not want us to split just like that.

What do we do?

Am glad you didn't allow your status to debate you from achieving what full able body couldn't

Take the bull by the horn and go and visit her parents

You can get a crate of malt and bread while going, take her and her entire family unaware when going

Go alone incase it becomes an embarrassing situation

Just tell them you came to visit them to know who her family is and you will come again with your family to inform her about your interest in their daughter

Whatever they have for you, will be revealed to you by them, if they says that they don't want you to marry their daughter, ask them why, that she loves you too

They may have their own reasons if which you have to force them to speak it out

If they refuse vehemently, drop your gift of love and leave

It's now left for your woman to fight for you

Don't even make it an issue with your woman, if she brings it up, tell her that she is not for you, simple

There in an then, start searching for a replacement but this time around, bring down your taste so that your woman to be, his family won't put you in the edge again

There will be no need to keep spending on her as before, let her feel the heat

But you guys can still be good friends because of tomorrow

shineeye1:
So because they are adults, then their immorality is excused? Well you are just the same and so it is OK by you.
You who resist God in everything and undermine his rules as laid done by our forefathers in all earlier generations will bear God's wrath in due time.

Look at devil's advocate like you, preaching

shineeye1:
So because they are adults, then their immorality is excused? Well you are just the same and so it is OK by you.
You who resist God in everything and undermine his rules as laid done by our forefathers in all earlier generations will bear God's wrath in due time.

Your curse has no effect

lessonsoflife:
I know its her privacy.

I never intend to intrude but she never wants me with any other woman.

I don't want to bang her anyway.

Which woman wants to share a man with another woman

Like wise which man wants to see his woman in another man's bed ❓

In as much as they are not minors and the girls are not complaining, that's an infringement

Anyway he may lose his job

ExAngel007:
How do you end an argument with your partner? Do you apologize or just agree?

It depends on the topic of the argument

If it's affecting your wellbeing, you argue it till the end with good points

If it's not of any benefit, you end it before it becomes an insult

LouisBERG:
Sis Why




#caLLmeBERG

Lol

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Ameboperoo:
I also bought 8kg from a shop here in Kogi but it's like mine is different than the one you posted the picture.
I hope I've not bought fake/clone Sha.

Mine is 8kg and at the back they wrote 32kg as the total weight

Let me see yours picture

Ameboperoo:
I also bought 8kg from a shop here in Kogi but it's like mine is different than the one you posted the picture.
I hope I've not bought fake/clone Sha.

Well I want to believe its the same

Though I bought mine from fouani the main LG products importers

I don't compromise standard when it comes to electrical

I go straight to their solo importer

But you can Google fouani sales outlets in Kogi, take a look at theirs and get home to compare it

I bought mine 73k

I don't know how much you bought your

He is right, no body or government officials erected the kind of statues he erected

Fastestmanalive:
Abegi that's just a false threat at the end of the day nothing will still happen to him

You think so ❓

TonyeBarcanista:
The outcome is that the cheat has been humiliated and served her own meal!

His own meal is still cooking

ogwoliun:
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/regional/nwest/370482-jigawa-local-govt-bans-men-women-from-meeting-at-night.html

Who told him sex and pregnancy only occurrs at night

Anyway there is solution to every problem

Situation001:
Shocking details posted on Facebook has got many people angry and slamming the man for humiliating his wife and her family, read the details posted below by Sandra Ibeh and lets know your opinion, was the man right?
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Sandra Ibeh Posted :

Tomorrow is 31st December 2019 and the last day of this decade. While some are in celebration mood, a man has decided to humiliate a whole family by pulling out of his church and traditional wedding scheduled for tomorrow somewhere in Anambra because his bride to be cheated on him 2 months back.
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In as much as I am not in support of what the bride did, I equally condemned the groom's last-minute decision. He knew that his bride cheated on his since October and didn't confront her. He went along with the marriage preparation putting the lady through so many stress while he remained in England hatching his evil plan.
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He came back to Abuja on the 28th and told his mother this morning that he's not going ahead with the wedding.
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The painful part of this whole thing is that he's acting as if he's doing the right thing. Spoke with him, he was laughing and the next thing he said was that I can provide my brother to take his place since everything is in place. He carefully planned to humiliate this girl and her family and to be honest, this is wrong.
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Bride to be has been crying uncontrollably in the village. She admitted that she made a mistake and she regrets her action. She had more to drink during her friend's birthday and ended up sleeping with one of their mutual friends (action she greatly regrets) without knowing that it was a setup. The next day pictures were sent to her fiance and he held on to it and acted normal until today.
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I asked him why he kept quiet and continued with the preparation, he said that he wants the girl to feel the kind of pain he felt when he saw the pictures.
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I honestly think that what he's doing is wrong and insulting to both his family and the bride's family because both families have been preparing for this wedding and are ready until he called this morning to cancel.
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Every other person is against his decision except his older brother but he's not ready to change his stance.
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This is not the kind of news one should be hearing at the end of the year. It's painful and annoying.

Meanwhile, the girl said that he had cheated on her before and she forgave him.
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My question is, why can't he forgive her too and call it even? Why grandstand? asked the poster..
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https://mobile.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10219109943432415&id=1021399118&refid=17&_ft_=mf_story_key.10219109943432415%3Atop_level_post_id.10219109943432415%3Atl_objid.10219109943432415%3Acontent_owner_id_new.1021399118%3Athrowback_story_fbid.10219109943432415%3Astory_location.4%3Athid.1021399118%3A306061129499414%3A2%3A0%3A1577865599%3A-5882944422975432997&__tn__=%2AW-R

He humiliated her by taking such a wicked decision on her happy day

Let him prepare himself very well and wait for the out come

Why did he suspend it

He should have implemented it

He did not think of the effect before saying it

imiski:
LOL I give up

Funny you

Sugarkkane:
I understand ur brain has frozen, ur moniker says it all.

It's the excess sugar that you are taking from your sugar kane that is causing diabetes in your brain

imiski:
is there anything in this world that won't make a woman nag?

I like this question

Is there anything in this world that won't make a new born baby to cry

The answer is as difficult as your own answer

Merrymen1:
Thanks so very much, you are one person who really seems to understand my position here. I will heed to your kind advice, I have already blocked her on WhatsApp, not wanting to be seeing her update status, and chat , though I hv not told her officially of my intention to call it quite , cos I don't even want to speak with her in the first let alone to chat her up any more. Pls is my approach okay

Yes your approach is normal

You don't need to tell her anything, really men don't talk but action

If you should tell her she will cry out her life and she will get you back because you are soft on her

All you are doing is to help her but the help you are giving her is making her loose

You have to protect your family because if your wife should suspect you despite your faithfulness

There is nothing you will tell you wife that she will believe

And trust is like a sticker once removed can't stick properly again

Just block all blockables if she finds out and ask you tell her thus is a new year you want to concentrate on your family

That doesn't mean you guys can't exchange greetings

Sugarkkane:
Choir ko Chorister ni

I don't care its a typo error and because you are stupid, you can't correct it

Rogosa:
Thats very true. Thanks alot for this eye-opener. Thank you.

Thanks too

MJBOLT:

will the man gender change because i dont understand how he is no longer a man.

He loses his reputation and respect from the woman and the society

That one an make a man have low spirit

imiski:
Because a man should not raise his hand on a woman. Does not mean that he should be emotionally abused. You women don't know how annoying nagging is to the receiver.

Women and their mouth has been putting them to troubles just the way men and their dicks have been putting them into troubles too

If a man can not tolerate a womans nagging, he is not yet set to be with a woman

Beating a woman, reduces you as a man and the society will frawn at you without even knowing what she did that warrants the beating

There are better ways of dealing with a woman

Best option is avoid anything that will make her nag and she won't have any reason to nag

SteveOfu:
Getting pregnant before marriage is now becoming acceptable by the society...
WHY?

It's not the society or the tradition that accepts it

It's circumstances and the individuals involved

You can pregnant a lady and she will insist on having the baby by the time your family gets to know about it, you will be advised to marry her

Sex has become so easy and cheap now because men won't let women rest and women have lost the ability to close their legs

lessonsoflife:
I called this lady who claim to love me and she was being banged and went up to answer my call.

I noticed her tone changed when she picked my call so I left the phone on for a while, she didn't cut the call and the call was on record.

I have not being talking to her smoothly, she has noticed it and has pressurized me to know why.

I intend telling her the reason but, I am considering not telling her its because of the banging.

What's your opinion guys.

If you want to have your own turn to bang her. Pls do and if not just forget it

It's her privacy

Every sex act is conscious of its environment