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omochelsea004:
Hi guys, my fiancee & i have been together for years now & preparation is on for our wedding later this year, the relationship has been fantastic, but there is this very big 'BUT' about my fiancee, & as a matter of fact she sees it as nothing or no issue at all, but this Same thing is giving me real headache & sleepless nights because i really do love her & i do know for sure that i cannot cope with it.

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should, so her lack of interest in sex is a very big issue for me, i have talked to her about it & tried everything within my reach to solve the problem but all to no avail because she is seeing it as no biggie.

Please guys what else can i do to increase har libido? because that's the only thing I see as solution.

Is there any medication or herbs you guys can recommend for me that will definitely increase her sex drive?

Talk to her about it, she will tell you what the exact problem Is

Once a woman is with a man she loves, her body response are super

But being with a man and no body response, is not a good one

It could be psychological

It could be a bitter experience

If she is not a virgin, then why the lost of interest ❓

Have you tried turning her on by touching her body in different ways and areas ❓

Her breast needs to be fundled as romance goes on and she will be the one to ask you in

Without getting sex enjoyment In marriage, be ready to get it outside, but for how long ❓

Anyway, if you are ok with everything about her and you can manage her low sex drive, then deal with it

Sex is one of the things that calms a man down

Besides, women naturally have their own internal automatic stimulant, that's why you hardly see women sex enhancing drugs any how if not of recent

Let her open up to you just be calm and give her audience

masternoble:
I initially approached her during my 300 level first semester last year, though I was not straight forward letting my intentions known to her. Then as we entered second semester same session I shot my shot and she accepted my proposal. Throughout the three months we spent during the session, we only had wonderful romantic moments no sex though which I never demanded from her because I did not want everything to happen too fast despite realizing she keeps numerous guys around.

Fast forward, we entered another session our final year. And my birthday happened to be on the 26th of April, she got excited to celebrate with me and came for the first time to my new lodge. As a nice lover, I served her her favorite food which we ate together then proceeded with our normal romantic gestures till I got to her panties and her mood changed all of a sudden, I still never mind and tried all I could to relax her mind for the act and she resisted and begged me to stop for my good sake.

I got angry and enquired why I should not have my way into her and her response still got me confused till now. She told me that am one of a rare nice guy she has met in her life, that she doesn't deserve me because she is not good in health and would not want to see me suffer like most bad guys she had come across, also that it will be more better for me to just enjoy friendship with her with no sex attached.
Ever since then, my mind has been pondering why she made those statements. Why she considers me nice and not deserving? Or is she giving me those excuses to deny me sex?

Please fellow Nairalanders advise me concerning the situation. Should I quit the relationship with her and move on?

She based her refusal on health challenge, pet her to open up to you, you could learn something from it

I don't know how this is going to work out

So it's going to be a volunteering job ❓

No salary ❓

Hmmm

They will make it up from # 50/100 on daily basis, which will be of benefits to them

Those hiding thier pregnancies have their reasons

Ciaos:
Which man she follow go there?. Enjoy your life anty, you go soon turn grandma.

She is so independent that she is a woman that a man needs

For all I can say, she is not in a leg chain, if she wants to go, she will leave him and come back home

If she is satisfied staying with him and enjoy the comfort of the riches she is getting, then there is nothing anyone can do

She is an adult not a minor

YugoMag:


Why's she hiding their Faces?

Only her can say the reason why she always hide the faces of her husband and children

It's either their neck downwards or their back

Women has suffered in the hands of stupid men

Gammfreak:
Thanks so much for the information. I actually downloaded the past questions from google play store at #800 only. The past questions are really nice and its what m using to prepare for the exam, so I decided to share

Pls how do I down load for unizik ❓

Women and anger management issues ❗❗❗

The truth is that he was almost getting tired of the relationship

Having a child and keep it secret wasn't enough the father of the child is not in the picture of her life

So if he had married her a year into the relationship and they had kids before the discovery,

Would he have ended the marriage ❓

Men always looking for excuses when they are tired of a particular pot of soup

Some deals must have gone bad and information was locked out

Good for them, pls give the corpse to the security dogs to feed on

This people no dey shame ❓

Even at old age, they still do fruad

Bad habit

So what has he achieved ❓
taking some one life and now your freedom will be ristricted for life.

I don't know why he did it, just because of ordinary woman that can't even guarantee you of her faithfulness

Is this not a sucide mission ❓

This man must be romantic and caring to keep these two women

He must have been a very organised and committed man

I hope that device will show them taking bribe or is it those that refuses to cooperate will be shown in the video ❓

I hope that device will show them taking bribe or is it those that refuses to cooperate will be shown in the camera ❓

Hmmm

That's too hard

Why not give six months notice for them to sort out another place to relocate

Officialgarri:
From the most progressive tribe in the world. No beef with any other tribe, no playing of victim card, just progressing like normal human beings should.

If you re not an afonja, you might never really know what it means to be free.

Since you guys are the most progressive, thsts why the fulani's are after you guys

This auto josh can search for some one missing ribs ❗❗

My brothers pls concentrate in what we know you for

Don't take another tribe deals

She should not start telling lies after hugging him

Only raining season will determine the durability of that car

Davash222:
Na she be bride , na she be groom.

But, she’s just 33, why the rush

Nothing like rush

Try not to be in her shoes, she just want the world to know that she loves her self even if the men are not Forth coming due to her condition

That's a very good one,

Nigeria government should take a clue abeg

Let our children be free from those idiots harassment

anonimi:
And the masses are blind during the robbing or choose to be active-passive partakers

Come out and take the lead, you will have supporters

That's a good one, let's take it off from there

Let them loot and develope their properties, it will be handed over to government establishments

Another way of helping the government as they chose robbing the masses

Pls, do we call this a gift ❓

How many people will these canoe carry ❓

Ndi ofe mmanu, they can't stop evil doing

This time father and son doing combined illegal job

Their targets are alway people from the east

Just because they know how to hustle and make decent money

This Rivers state is now a menace to the nation

Every week, one stupid and irritating news will happen

Even the marine spirits are tired of them