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It's not ordinary eye, the pig was a bait to bring him to death

kaffy4tope:
Imagine this daughter of Jezebel not giving a flying fVck about whom she had a child!


Bro, watch the kind of girl you wanna put that ring on to avoid stories that touch like this.

So she is a daughter of Jezebel because she walked out of unpleasant marriage ❓

The man is what ❓

Son of cain ❓

Deathisfree:
Check your dm

Your monika said death is free, I dey fear you

tommyken:
I broke up with her just last month and I have move on fine although sometimes I miss her but I throw away such feelings immediately they appear.

I broke up with her due to her cunning and cheating nature but the problem here is that whenever any one ask her of me she replies them with anger and people have been telling she is really bitter towards me.

Someone came to my house and told me she said she will never forgive me that when I was sick she was there for me but she has forgotten I was also there for her and my own sacrifices I made towards her, well am not move by such manipulation.

My problem now is that some people are telling me to beg her for forgiveness even if we won't be together but for the sake of peace and to forget the past BUT that is against my principle because doing that will give her a kind of victory and feeling that I miss her.

My Intuition is telling me to ignore her that a time will come when she will realise her mistakes and be the one to call me up, I just have this deep conviction in me to just allow her be and keep hating for all I care.

Please I would like your advice concerning this issue.
Thanks.

Women feels the pain of relationship more than men especially when they are not letting go

Send a message to her to stop tarnishing your image that you don't like it

She will reply you with tantrums and crazy words, just reply her with smiles and from there you guys can start chatting

Calm her down and let her know that you have some challenges and need to be focused

You are not dragging authority with her

Real men don't fight women even if she is fighting you, it's there nature yo throw tantrums

Remember your good times and you can still relate but without sex

What she is doing now is like she is mourning the relationship, she will be over it with time but it's a painful situation

Tunmmyzhe:
I know this thread suppose to be in Crime section because I see this as criminal offense as her action is consider as crime of the highest order but I decided to bring it to nairaland family to know the implication of this type of crime .

There is something I have been pursuing for the past 5 years which God just answered my prayer on it this month, so I was called for documentation on Tuesday which Marriage Certificate is among . since the marriage certificate is in my wife care. I decided to pick it up with other documents so I can present this coming Tuesday , when I glanced at the marriage certificate I just saw that my wife date of birth has been altered in fact the alteration is obvious because she altered it with blue pen while the original is written in black ink.

Is like somebody cut off my head immediately I saw this because I couldn't believe my eye and tears started drooping from my eyes.

Please married people on naira land help me what can do ? I must not miss this opportunity.

I have not called her now because curse is the only thing that can come out of me to her at this moment, I am thinking of reporting her in police station because it seems she is a devil behind my success.

She is nit a devil behind your own success but her own success
She must have altered it for her own selfish reasons

I wander why she didn't tell you

Just take it to where it was obtained and you will be directed on how to get a replacement

mosho2good:
I'm datijg my class

Then sit her down and talk sense to her

If she refuse to make good use of the outcome of your discussion

Be prepared to move on

mosho2good:
Thanks so much for the advice but is it normal to stay loyal to a girl and she's now playing u like a ball telling u to wait
it means she ain't loyal to u
if another guy that has money show up definitely she will go

Love is not based on money,
Love is based on selfless love for each other

You are asking if it was nice staying faithful to a lady and she is not faithful to you ❓

You must learn to date your class

If you date your level, you will experience peace and satisfaction but if you go higher and you don't have the money to give, you will have to endure what goes with it

She said no, good thats her choice

But why was she now crying ❓

These soldiers are like lion cubs, if you attack them, their parents (the entire brigade command) will take 100 in revenge

Look at now the idiots that first cause this Wahala, are no where to be found, innocent people houses are being attacked

He is thinking of having it as a pet

If its Nigerians, they will cook it as premature as it is and eat it

GistNet:
Cossy Ojiakor suffered a fall that landed her in surgery and left her unable to walk without aid.

The glamour model who has been in a wheel chair since the fall, has been sharing updates about her leg with her followers and she just shared a video of her stitches getting dressed.

In the video, the actress's leg is seen with pieces metal holding her flesh together.

"Cossy Iron. Mama Iron," the actress referred to herself because of the iron in her leg.

See more photos here; http://gistmore.com/cossy-ojiakor-shows-the-condition-of-her-foot-post-surgery-photos

Sorry for the pains you have been through, with time you will be alright

Kingosytex:


Serves the idiotic careless and senseless bitch well. I hope she is convicted and sent to the darkest part of the prison

Do you think she is bothered about it ❓

Deathisfree:
Lols. So you believe all those frames

Lol

ahahnow:
My vagina is smelling. Why won't it stop smelling? I bath everyday. I some times use wet wipes but it is still smelling. I was even bathing with detol but no change. I even stop wearing umderwear to allow breeze to blow it. What more can I do? Should I use soap and water to clean it every time I go to the toilet? This smell must stop o. My future husband can't come and meet me like this. Please help me

Vaginas has a smell but it's not an offensive smell

If you think yours is offensive, go to the hospital and do vagina swab test and runs comprehensive test on sexual disease, get yourself treated and make sure you use condom no matter how deep you love the guy

Deathisfree:
I just sent you a DM

So that when I don't reply, you will send me out at wee hrs ❓

Deathisfree:
Hello.
Me and my friend met this 2babes on a normal day,to cut the story short. We clubbed and took them home the same day
This babes didn’t allow us to have sex with them so we sent them out around 2AM

One of em forgot her bag,we searched the bag and found this “pants”below.

What dud you gain sending a woman out at that devilish hour ❓

Just because they refused you guys sex

That was a very bad one from you guys

Real men don't reat women like that because they have sisters too

TheOdd1sOut:
I used to think Nigerian girls will love you if you love them back. I believed in this cause when I was young, my older brothers and nephews usually told me that love conquers all. And their love escapades shows that (an uncle of mine married a girl he had dated since JS1).
But alas, my eyes are open. Although what I've said above is true, it doesn't work for the current generation of girls we have now. The previous generation followed that cliche, but the present generation doesn't.
All they want is money and they will give you mechanical love in return.
IM NEVER DATING A GIRL FOR LOVE AGAIN. ALL IM GOING FOR NOW IS THE KNACKS AND SEX AND PLEASURE.
Date a Nigerian girl for "love" and watch as she frustrates you.
Truely....
Romance is sweet with Finances.

*Swallows Red Pill*

This your mind set will make relationship complex for you

Instead of dating for knacking alone, just go for sex hawkers

No love attached no feelings attached

Celien was once sick after she lost her husband and brother within six months to cancer

That alone can traumatise her

mosho2good:
I'm sick and tired of her now and don't know what to do
it all started 3 years ago when I first meet her without knowing she was working for my brother then before she finally said yes to be my girlfriend and everything was going on fine until last year when her attitude change towards where by my girlfriend will be telling me that I need to have a good and solid reason before she can stay or be with me and lately she be telling me that she's busy almost throughout last year cause in her place of work she has a day off which is Monday that we do spend together but now she keep on telling me that she's busy and she be chatting with different guys and I'm no where to be found in the list.

I really love her and I'm planning my life with her but her last words to me that hurt me most was when she said the winner will be announced on the 31st of December this year.
what can I do

Since she said the winner will be be announced in December, that means you already have a competitor ❓
If I wee in your shoes, wait for the final result, if you are not the winner, move on

You will get some that will make you her winner and you will be asking yourself where was she all this while ❓

Women are naturally meant to be turned on when they are with a man they love

Unlike men that gets turned on for seeing an ordinary pant dried on a line

If women should have sex stimulating drugs, that would be risvky for the society

Deathisfree:
I’m single and jobless,My landlady has a shop but mostly she’s always home.
It all started when my landlord travelled,I Have been noticing her for about 2 weeks now. She’s always giving me too much attention she comes up to my apartment with some sexy wears and foods

Last night it was raining, she knocked my door and asked if I was busy. We enter my sitting room,watching the tv and suddenly everything started getting out of hands. To cut the story short. We sha had sex and ever since then. She’s been treating me with love and respect even more than she gives her husband

After the sex. She told me she married her husband base on his money. Shes been giving me too much attention and she doesn’t even care if we are caught or not. Please how do I play my game safe

Guy, do quick and pack out from there

Women including me by nature likes having their ways to their own advantage

Once a woman gets the attention she desires from another man, she switches, I don't know how long you will play this open secret game

You are still young to be impotent from lack of sexual control because if that man catches you, you can't excape it

As soon as you get another apartment, just tell her that you are relocating due to work

It's not going to be easy for you but try hard because of your future

Age or no age, love is the only thing needed for marriage to work

obolewu:
Good day great. People. I have always visited Nairaland as a guest, but I am presently in a serious trouble. Please i need your advice.

I am a married man with a good wife who has been in marriage for 8years, but eith no child. Before I got married, I have always been a lady's man and I had lived a sexually reckless life (even my wife is aware). In those days, my games include, party, foursome, anal and all manners of sexuality apart from homosexual. My cunninlungus is second to none and my libido is so high that I never get tired during any match. Also, I have got a fantastic 'rod' that any lady who taste it would always come back. Based on the above, i really explored during my single's days because I beleived when married, I would stay with my wife alone.

After marriage, I relocated with my wife to the US. I was involved in church activities to get me committed to the things of God and honour my marital vows. I love my wife so much and I respect and honour her. She remains my best friend and we are always playing around like teens. Our sexxx life is very active as she has learnt to keep pace with my high libido. I also stay away from bad friends who could draw me back to my old life. However, despite our great sexxx life, we have no child since the past eight years. We have done series of tests and we were both confirmed ok. We have tried the IVF options twice, but it would not work. My wife is worried. My parents are worried. Depsite this, I have remained faithful to my wife for seven years, until January last year when things happened in quick succesion.

There is this junior coleaque from Dominican republic who was to understudy me. She is so pleasant, bootylicious and busty that anytime she was with me, i uncoutrollably got aroused. She had also commended how she loved my dress sense and how she loves to have a fling with a Nigerian because she understands they are very strong. One day, we both left office late and she asked if i could drop her off in her apartment. For whatever reason, I agreed. On getting to her aparment, before I could say 'Jack' we were already having a deep french kiss. That day, I broke my vow as I had two rounds with her. That was how I gradually slipped back to my old life.

Fast-foward, a very beautiful Nigerian lady chatted me up on FB messanger in November 2018. She claimed I looked familiar and asked if I schooled in P/H and I said No, I attended FUTO, but i was a regular visitor to UNIPORT because I had friends there. We later became chatting friends and we would chatt virtually all time. Through her profile, I realised she was married to a guy who worked for and O&G company. I did not ask her. I was comfortable because, i beleved I would not have anything 2 do with a married woman. I also realised she had four children. During our chatt, she told me how her marriage has been a hell on earth. She said her hubby works in P/H and left her with the kids in Owerri. He vists every 2 weeks. He stopped her from working in a financial institution where she was engaged before marriage and made her a full house wife. Although he gives her money and bought a good car for her (Lesux Jeep), the guy had no time for her. She mentioned that the bleeps around and she has evidence. She stated that there was time he impregnated another girl that she had to call the girl and threatened her. She mentioned further that the guy is also very weak on bed. According to her, the guy cum within 3 minutes. She mentioned how he has no respect for her parents and treat them with disdain. According to her, sometimes, they don't even have sexx for up to four months. In short, she said she was tired of the marriage and she had attempted a divorce, but the hubby's family prevented that, yet the guy would not change.

Based on my church experience, I counselled her on how to make her marriage work. I used biblical injuctions to teach that it is the duty of a woman to build her home. Based on my sexual experience, i shared few tips on how she can get her man interested and highly performing in the bedroom. We exhanged phone number and we continually chatted on whatzapp. She also calls from time to time. We were just friends. Nothing beyond that. At least, we never met and I did not even intend to see her anytime soon. She is in Owerri. I am in New York. Therefore she cannot be a threat. So, I thought. However, one thing is that whenever we spoke, we discussed like we have been together for ages. I speak with her children and even played with them. While on bed with her nighty, she would call me and I have seen all her shape through video call, but to me it was nothing. Even married women walk around half naked these days.

Last month, my company got a contract in Nigeria and I was commisioned to lead the team to execute the project. So, I had to travel to Nigeria with a few guys. I did not tell her I would be travelling because I did not intend to see her. Much more, I would be in Lagos, I had no business in Owerri or P/H. Unfortunately, my Facebook location setting was not diabled and immediately i arrived Lagos, Facebook notified her I was around. She called on whatsapp when i was in my hotel at night and asked how could I visit Nigeria without telling her. She said she needed to see me. I said, it would not be possible because I was going to be in Lagos throughout as I came for official duty. She said, I should not worry, we would find a way around it. For whatever reason, I felt an urge to see her also inside me (and I promised myself I would not have anything to do with her. I was just curious to see her). On her own account, she flew down to Lagos on a friday (arranged for where the children would stay) and came to my hotel in VI. Immediately I saw her, I realised I was dealing with a paragon of beauty. An enigma per excellence a heavily loaded and endowed MILF. What I saw in picture and video calls were nothing compared with the structure standing before me. Instantly, the thought that she was married flew out of my head. Before I know what was happening, we had jumped on each other like mad dogs on heat. In a twinkle of an eye, her blouse was off, her skirt was on the floor, her bra was flung away and her pant has disappered from her buttocks. All my cloths, down to my boxers have also flung away from me. We were both stack naked as we engaged in hot kiss. Without think twice, I penetrated her without any condom. I was so carried away with her sweetness and passion that he ejaculated completely inside of her. She stayed for three days (Friday, Saturday and Sunday) and all we did was just eating, sleeping and banginng, raw without condom. If I said I had got high libido, then, I have got to learn under her. She was very 'fireful' and very tireless. When she was leaving, I asked for her account number so that I could give her some cash, she declined. She said she loved me so much that she does not need my money. She said she could not remember the last time she enjoyed herself like this.

A week after she came again sepending another weekend which was a repeat of the previous visit. Lastly she came the last weekend I spent in lagos and it was the mother of them all. Infact, she did not allow me to buy any recharge card throughout my stay in Nigeria. Before I know what was happening, she has loaded my phone with ten thousand Naira MTN card. The day I gave her twenty thousand Naira Cash, I had to beg her for hours before she reluntantly received it. Her point is always that she does not need my money. She is aware I am married but she always jealous anytime I call my wife. Interestingly, the only time her hubby called her throughout our stay was on her birthday. The call was not up to 3 minutes and she put it on speaker. The guy just said ' My beautiful Angel. Blessed is the day you were born. Blessed is the day I met you. I know I may be failing you. I know I may not be making you happy. But you are the mother of my children. I still love you. I go credit your account, make you take am enjoy your day". She was just saying.. hmmmm, Ok. hmmm. Alright. She has also told me she was comtemplating a divorce again and I advise her against same. Before I left, she bought some fantastic gifts. loads of Nigerian foodstuff. Exlusive native dresses and loads of more.

Anyway, I finished my assignment in Nigeria and returned to the US. We kept chatting and for like few weeks, she was complaining of fever. I advised she visted the hospital. She said malaria test was negative and she was advised to do a pregnancy test which came out positive. She said, for the past six months, no man, including her darling hubby has tourched her. Invariably, she says I am responsible for the pregnancy. She called me and she was crying. She told me she had to go for abortion and she was afraid. I felt, it could be a kind of set up (I don't know why I feel so). I told her she cannot abort the pregnancy that she has got to keep it. I told her I have been looking 4 a child for the past 8 years and this one that has come, I am not going to allow her to abort it. She said, do I forget she is married, just like I am? Can't i see the looming trouble? I said well, she told me she was already planning a divorce so I do not see this causing any problem for her, it will only fast-track her decision. I said as for me, she should leave my side, I would manage it. She said there is no way she can have a baby for me when she still in a man's house and she does not even beleive I have any feelings for her.

Anyway, we have been on this for about three days now. I told her if she decides to abort, she should go ahead, but that would be her decision. For me I would want the baby to be kept. She keeps crying and begging that I should agree to her decision unconditionally. Deep down within me, I do not want to have a child from outside, not even from a married woman. However, I feel something is wrong with this her pregnancy story. I just feel I am been set-up. The reasons for this I do not know. She never demand for money from me. I am just confused about the whole stuff.

Please, I need your advice

Caveat: Do not come here to abuse me or talk about morality/religious stuff. All I need are comments from matured minds. Thanks.

Hmmm

This is very dicey, if she wants to abort the pregnancy, give her the go ahead considering the fact that she is in her husband house

And if you want her to keep the pregnancy, then encourage her to divorce her husband with the hope that you will marry her

But assuming the child DNA does not match yours,
Will you divorce her and will she return back to her previous marriage ❓

If medically you and your wife have been satisfied clean, were you by any chance in your past relationship, made a woman to abort your pregnancy and she swore that you won't bear a child ❓

If yes, trace her
The outcome will determine the next move

Casemiro:
is there a way to select if my child will look exactly like me before birth?
can I use surrogacy for this?
thank

Ask God ❗❗❗

So who stopped the 9th person from entering ❓

This is one of the areas police and fire service services are needed for rescue mission, especially after the death of the second person

UjuJoan2:
That's a very baseless generalization.

Then forget about it

danberg:
Good day all,
I recently got my UK passport sent from the UK after a successful application.
I was born in the UK but Nigerian by descent. I would like to know if I would be required to present my Nigerian passport at Muritala Mohammed Intl Airport in Lagos, before I can board, since there's no Nigerian visa on my new UK passport.

I am currently processing another Nigerian passport after I lost the former but I still possess an older one.

Advise from those familiar with this situation would be greatly appreciated!

You are a dual citizen, tgst will make you have both British and Nigeria passport

British passport for going to UK and Nigeria passport for coming to Nigeria

With this you don't need visa to enter either of both countries

EditorsPalace:
Please let's discuss these issues my people and learn from each other.

Why would a woman take her suitor's or boyfriend's name to 5 or more different pastors to find out things about him?

To find out about his past life.

To find out about his future.

To find out even things she's not supposed to find out about him? Pokenosing!

Why would she visit so many places just to find out about him if she truly loves him and wants to get married to him?

What if some of these pastors mislead or lie to her?

What if some are even fake?

Please women tell us why you do this kind of thing. What do you hope to achieve?

It's so annoying how many marriages have been scattered by some of these pastors who don't see anything spiritually but would say they saw this and that about the person which isn't true.

I need answers to these issues please.

Men, what do you think if your girlfriend/lady comes to tell you her pastor said both of you should not get married?

Please I want to know. Please let's have your comments.

Men do exactly the same thing too
Just to be assured of the person you want to marry

Zielle:
Nigerians, i hail una!!!!!! Which one is God chooses whom he will bless on behalf of the family?. My first time hearing this in my entire life

Ohh really ❓

Watch out in families you know

Duke007:
This issue has been troubling me for a while. The rate of divorce in Nigeria is on a steady raise. Our court is inundated with incessant cases of couple opting for separation with the attendant consequences on the children. I have carefully followed many of such cases online and in live court. Most of our judges gives child care support for children at the rate of =N=4,000.00 to be paid by the elsewhile husband to the court on a monthly basis. This amount can barely feed a child for a week considering the economy realities. Are the judges bound by law to give such amount for child care support or what.

That amoeis just to make the man a but responsible since they know that he can't handle his home

Besides most times they don't obey

Women have taken the challenges of raising their children with or without the man in a case like this

valentineuwakwe:
Hello Nairalanders,

Nice again to be hear. Please I need advice from anyone that can give me on this issue bordering me..

I'mm a hard working self employed man of 36years and my fiancee is 39years.. We both are graduates and M.sc holders from uniport. ..

We have known selves since 2014 and told my parents in 2016 that its her I want to get married to.. They all accepted her upon meeting her and sat, January 6, 2018 was fixed for introduction... I was so happy and was in high spirit... Then come on Saturday morning, my mum called a meeting, with dad, grand mum, two of dad sisters, 2 kindred men, my immediate younger sister and brother...

My marriage issue was raised as topic and mum insisted on the age of my fiancee and said she must get pregnant first before us or myself would go for any introduction....

She was supported by 2/3 of the people present at an early morning meeting called by 4am on the same Saturday i had told my fiancee my people were coming.....

The meeting went and ended in a disaster and mum called my fiancee to cancel the introduction insisting she first get pregnant...

Please, what do you guys think I should do as my fiancee is a born again Christian with RCCG....

The issue of first takingbinnholds no place in their church doctrine...its after the wedding ...am a catholic....am in love with my woman and am not backing down....am confused and don't know what to do now...someone should please advice me....please

Please move this thread to front page as I need advice, please

Don't compromise your joy and happiness with family sentiment

What if you are impotent, what happens to being pregnant ❓

What if she takes in and after wedding the pregnancy becomes miscarriaged who do we blame ❓

What if her parents insisted that you are not the right man for her won't she fight for you ❓

If she gets yo know that your parents are the cause of her delay in marriage preparations, she might take in to please them

But she will make sure they don't have access or freedom in her house

Trust women with their revenge stuff

rafabenitez:
A friend of mine needs advice,he is married but his inlaws wont let him rest in his home,all cos he is married to there sister,he really needs advice,currently they are upto 4 of her siblings in his home.

Having inlaws in your house is an old long practice

He must never tell them or tell his wife to ask them to go, it will be used against him for life

Simple, ask eifebto start contributing to the family upkeep

If she is not working, let her know what you can afford every month and don't add a penny to it, even if it finishes in one week

Just keep quiet and be watching her and her siblings and got you, relate as if their presence means nothing to you

One day she will use her tongue to count her teeth and tell you how many they are and when that day comes, tell her that whatever she decides is OK for you

She will be the one to ask them to leave