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carter009:
Love is a very magnetic thing and it's always difficult to say goodbye,,,, this words got me thinking.quote author=frozen70 post=80225914]I can see that the both of you are deeply in love

You can continue having sex with preventive measures till the relationship fezeel out

Stop telling her to stop calling you, both of you are feeling the the same problem and it can be very hurtful

Don't break her heart, allow her to pull out naturally

But if it gets to a stage that you guys are so glued, be prepared to adopt children if you must get married

Someone can carry your pregnancy and deliver the baby to both of you and you pay the person off

Love is a very magnetic thing and it's always difficult to say goodbye

Lol

Love is a beautiful thing and good for the mind and soul

paix:
That's why they're always swimming in their pool of REGRETS!!!!!

Says who

Once a woman is able to birth a child she is twice satisfied

When a woman is keeping silent in an issue she doesn't subscribe to, guy run for your life

It's better a woman complain over an issue she doesn't like and you will hear her out

If a woman says no problem, be prepared for a more bitter problem

Mstick:
Whenever you see UN statistics about Nigeria been a poor nation with millions of kids out of school don't call it fake news. People like this man here are the reason for such statistics. How can a teacher have 10 kids and you still want to marry another wife.

What quality of life can he offer those kids?

Dick quality and how to breed endlessly

No wander their population is always on the increase

Serves him right

10 children with teacher's salary

Nonsense and your dick is shopping for another wife

These Northern people likes breeding with no future plans

Anyway while recovering, thinks twice about your stupid plan's

Just to increase the almajiri's

They should free her joor

She acted in defence

Na by force to go under her skirt ❓

Can you try having sex naturally without condom to see if it's the same issue

Forget about those laughing, it's a funny situation and some of them have been there some time ago

2extremes:
I do not want everybody to comment on this thread. Will appreciate only those who met their wives as virgin to comment. Married men are also welcome to comment.
I feel like breaking up with my fiancee who is a virgin. I love her so much and I trust her. But am having problem with her on the issue of submissiveness. She doesn't have a mind of her own as all her decisions are influenced by her mum. Also, the dominating influence of her mum on the relationship and my personal plans is getting unbearable.
This has alway been the point of disagreement between me and my fiancee. The only reason why I am still in the relationship is because of her faithfulness.

Her mum is just being over protective of her considering the fact that she is a virgin and naive

Marry her and stay far away from her mum, then she will start having a sense of her own

Virgin or no virgin, the good girls and the bad girls were once a virgin

It's only true love that can guarantee a successful marriage

I can see that the both of you are deeply in love

You can continue having sex with preventive measures till the relationship fezeel out

Stop telling her to stop calling you, both of you are feeling the the same problem and it can be very hurtful

Don't break her heart, allow her to pull out naturally

But if it gets to a stage that you guys are so glued, be prepared to adopt children if you must get married

Someone can carry your pregnancy and deliver the baby to both of you and you pay the person off

Love is a very magnetic thing and it's always difficult to say goodbye

Onyi22:
Congratulations, money is really good, I must end up with a rich guy by all means...
Poverty is a curse

Forget about ending up with a rich guy

Be the super rich woman a guy would die for

mrjaydee:
Den go knack your toto tire

Stop displaying your self, there is no need for that

You have gotten who you need to make life and business meaningful to you, go ahead and enjoy your gift

Their hands should be tied with their legs and Bury them alive

Let them feel the pain

I know that you are down cast, don't let it eat you up

Relax and take another jamb and make a good score for your choice of study

bev12:
Thanks

You are welcome

Mourn it and move on

You deserve the best

You have to start with a DNA test to be very sure if the paternity of that child as the court will demand that

Find out what surname the child bears, if its not your surname, you challenge them to change his name to yours

Court will still grant her the custody of the child and grant you access to the child to a certain age before you take the child

Rivers and bayelsans can keep a child out of wedlock because they see no big deal in it

I know you are reacting so because you are an ibo man

movingclouds:
I love eating the frozen ones

Lol

makeherscream:
hell no I don't rush women am not a rapist

What brought about being or not being a rapist ❓

You didn't even assimilate what you read

Your response wasn't matured

Jonscotin:
I struggle to make ends meet every time. When others are lucky, I struggle even when I put in my best. Right from childhood. Am really depressed. I have made millions of naira but all always end up in people's hand. In 2014 I gave a family friend 1.14m for his co-operative society after preaching how I will be getting interest from it. Till now, he ran out of town. In 2015, I gave my neighbour 1m since they were struggling and wanted to change business and I wanted to help out. That one is stuck and and they haven't been able to pay back. With so many other little sums ranging from 200k to 15k that I have used to help people and they end up not paying me back. I am the type of person that hardly say no to people after much persuasion. I don't know why am this soft....
This year, just a month after my wedding, I have been making wrong choices. I borrowed someone 350k to give me back last month ending and he hasn't given me back. I initially refused giving him but he was calling and begging for one week, saying it won't get up to last month ending, he will give me back the money, well today is 10th and he is not picking my calls.
My business has been down of late cos of too many competitions and the people selling fakes are been patronized more then me cos I usually stick to originals. I had to put my only car for sale and I gave it to a friend to help me to sell it. Now the car just got got burnt after we just saw a buyer that was ready to pay this next day.
Am confused, why is all this happening to me. Am now a laughing stock among my classmates and coursesmates cos I was among the top in secondary school then but I wasn't lucky to study a good course. The only lucky things I have now are my wife, mother and brother. But am depressed now esp over the burnt car and no money again. I can't stand this shame. I feel like am losing it now

Let's assume that your simplicity was taken for granted

Hence fort, don't hide any financial transactions of borrowing from your wife

If possible tell them you don't have and stick to it

Law of survival is me first so apply it

No award will be given to you for being generous

You have learnt in a bitter way, no more financial help to anyone

Pray to God to send helpers to you, he knows what you are passing through and he will sort you out

Sorry for all the idiots that disappeared with your money, karma is waiting for them in their way to success

This is true difinition of poverty and risk

favinvest:
Ok ooo... speechless

Lol

zexy2030:
Apart preparation. He does not understand the women physiology..the women enjoy sex much more than men despite mutilation

True talk, but he has to do his homework

bev12:
Hi guys, I need your candid advice pls.
No insult pls

I met this Caribbean guy last year here in New York and we started dating afterwards around November last year. He is from Jamaica to be exact and I Nigerian.

I fell in love with him because of the many attributes, his character, ethics to work and other things.
We became really close, I visited him, and spent nights at his every other weekend ..

As we progressd I noticed he wasn't spending money on me. I waved it and felt it was more of a Nigerian mentality thing.

So on this particular day in May, I was at his, was meant to spend the night over there. After we went to bed, he slept off I couldn't sleep and decided to go home instead . Before I left I told him I was leaving he wasn't happy and said i was going to another guys house, i told him no and left anyway.

Afterwards I tried contacting him, called, sent him text messages and he never responded.
I left him alone for a while like 3 weeks without contacting him.
Recently I learnt he is with another girl. I feel so heart broken because I was so in love with him.
I'm so heart broken right now I really need him back.

Take control of your emotions before you destroy other people chances in your life

Men can't even stay with out having a spare girlfriend unless the most decent ones

You loved him but he loves you too and still have the same ability to live another person

It hurts but you have to move on

Men don't experience heart break like women because of our emotional being

Free your heart and yourself and search for another that will appreciate you

They don't worth dying for because they don't want to know how it feels to be heart broken

Assuming is marriage and he left all the expenses for you

Will you still love him and carry the burden alone ❓

Pls be happy and move on, someone out there is crazy about you, try and locate him and give him a trial

favinvest:
What of if the pizza is not within his reach, so he should die of starvation? he is only managing himself with cheese sha....

Although he went to far sha..

I don't know what you mean within his reach

He should know his class and where he belongs

Who hangs a bad where he needs a chair to bring it down ❓

Did you listen to your self very well or you are telling us a story ❓

What is your business with such a a lazy and wasteful man ❓

I won't blame you for marrying him because you may have not known that he is like that

But I will blame you for pouring water inside a basket knowing fully well that it can't hold water

You are the main reason that man is still behaving the way he is because he knows that you will still provide for him

The earlier you start seeing yourself as a single mother to your kids, the best for you

Start planning for those kids and yourself, leave him alone he will sort himself out

Such a ma will not allow you to progress because he is a PHD
(pull her down syndrome)

Just inform his family that you are tired of backing him because the journey is too far

Relocate and leave a normal life

There are more serious and committed people out there and you need to be loved

If this is how you Will continue and get your pension, it's your choice not ours

I think you rushed her

You didn't take time to prepare her because you were after your own interest

Take time to give her time to get connected she can't have orgasm when you have not linked the necessary nerves

Livecamp09:
Please I have this serious issue and it making me feel uncomfortable. Each time I approach a lady who I really like, I feel happy about that but when the lady start giving me her attention and love, I do feel disgusted and irritated and instantly my feeling towards her diminish and fades away. Please what could be the cause of this, I don't know what to do help me.

If at this stage you don't want to appreciate the nature way of allowing a woman to care and show love to you,

You might end up being a gay

No one can care or love you like a woman, so if you don't want it get a man

Foodforthought:
Your fingers

Then keep quiet if it's my finger and not yours

tsinzu:
How are men the reason all this is happening?

Who enters there ❓

That's a careless play

What's your business with another man's wife waist

If you must tickle, there are women out there

From Tickling you can come inside her