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dierich:
Please ignore my grammatical errors.

I've a friend and he's very close to me. we know each other more than 10years and he has been the only friend close to me right now. I was living alone in a 3 bedroom flat and he always come to sleep at my place. I'm happy coz I won't be the only one sleeping in the house.

it started when he bring 1 of his girlfriends to my house, he uses on of the rooms and I didn't complain, but the issue is he kept bringing them in and I'm tired of it. the most annoying part is the way he's using the bed. stains or shit. it came to a time I've to wash the bed coz I'm tired of seeing stains on my bed, though I'm not really using the bed but it's still my property. I've been ill since December last year, I told him what I'm facing, and even lie to him to show how critical my illness is, but that doesn't stop him from bringing them in.

please can someone advise me on how to stop him totally. he found my place d best for him since he's still living with his parent.

I don't want to offend someone that's why I want the best way to table it to him.

right now he's with his gf at my place. this particular girl use to stay overnight.. same thing last week Wednesday. and he won't even tell me someone is coming. we went to bed together Around 10pm, and by the time I woke around 1 to pee, I found out he's not by my side again, I check around and went to the other room to found him and the girl.

I'm sick of this. please how can I stop him without malice.
thanks

You are deceiving yourself

You don't want to provoke him ❗

What are you doing in a three bedroom flat alone ❓

If you don't have the confidence and boldness to tell him that you want him to stop coming to pass nights with his girlfriends your house, then there is no need complaining

Of what use is he to you or what are you benefiting from your relationship with him ❓

Only you, two death sentences and one life in prison

Go quick and meet her wherever she is

When you see her apologise to her and go your way

Next time, don't kill
Just walk away

JoanOluchi:
Very funny

It sounds funny but when the curses starts manifesting, it going to be a sad experience for him

That's a good one for him case closed

deji17:
Everytime, you wonder what Bayelsa, Delta state and others are doing with their Monthly allocation, when States with low allocation and large Civil Service are embarking on big projects like this...

Bayelsa own is the worst

No development there

The only thing they are good at is love matters

Both married and single all have lovers

Vizzy4u:
Why mike comply na 13k oo! Nawa oh! Nevermind, i've said it before, dat Ruth is a weaklin. I've always prefered sandy babyyy.. Nice one topher. Me i just hope these robbers wont near ur devices Dem fit beat u small but make em no near ur devices

Don't ever take a woman's kindness for granted

Ruth is not a weakly,
She has been patient enough with mike

She has to move on with her life

Mike is not someone a good lady can handle

Only a rascal can handle Mike because of his rascality

That was careless and risky

Any small mistake, there will be casualties every where

Because of unknown fear of harassment and intimidation,

We allow them to search your cars

If you resist, you will be tamed a thief and a stray bullet might be released

If you cooperate, they will find a fault in your papers and you will have to grease their palms to sort yourself out

For the whole family to leave the country at once is not a child's play

You guys have to start afresh over there

I suggest you go with the children and watch the way life is being lived over there and let your husband be home in naija

As you struggle you give him updates

With time you the woman will understand situations and know if you guys are settling there or not

Within the time he is in naija, he will be tidying up things incase he too is joining you guys over there

Horrible looking thing

Ayotemide:
And cheating is meant for who??

Nobody says that cheating is good

Some one must cheat on someone

Either by error or omissions

Probably he is the one preparing charms for them

Childish act

Friendship is made for matured one's

Be prepared to withstand the ups and down

How does it affect or concern the son

The woman in question is a widow and needs to be attended to

Hmmm

He acted stupidily

When they are toughened like this during training

The civilians suffers it when they pass out to serve the public

What a calamity

They have taken their stupidity outside the shores

Despite the exposure to education and science

Men who are fools still blame their wives for having only girls

He he planted cassava and expected yam

Who does such

Children are from God

Whatever the gender be grateful to God

Ask those looking for even one child to tell you thier experience

agaliboy:
Another example of weak sissy men. I hate sissy men. Men who can't take charge or control a woman. Nonsense

Until you get married before you will understand

agaliboy:
Another example of weak sissy men. I hate sissy men. Men who can't take charge or control a woman. Nonsense

You got it wrong

He is not a weakly rather he is a wise man

He converted the fight to roman

What else do you want him to do ❓

What a romantic way of handling domestic violence

This act is far better than slaughtering each other

Men should understand that women and their mouth is like bread and butter

Once they start acting funny just keep calm or walk out for fresh breath

That doesn't make you less a man

If that is OK for the couple and their family

We have to accept it too and congratulate them

The cost of travelling down was what was used to finance the traditional marriage

Both of them will be present during church weddings

That is the only marriage ceremony that can not be done by proxy

You took a big risk at first

They joined hand to scarm you

How on earth do you think a certificate can be issued to you without completing your course

That money may have gone but report them to the school authorities and they will know what to do

Though your best option is to go. Back and finish your studies so that you can defend your certificate anytime

Blame yourself for everything

What is your brain meant for if you can't reason well with it ❓

Well to me as a female, there is nothing wrong about it

The quality of materials used to sew them both bra's are of good quality materials

But the new one's tears from the moment you wash them because they are China made not Europe

Always make sure she washes it with detol and hot water with soap

At his age, how am I sure that the first wife didn't run away from him because of his animalistic behaviour

Beats of a man

Whatever her reasons for doing that was just uncalled for

Absolutely nonsense

NandiIfeoma:
Me that is already superior to you and your whole lineage. I'd baptize you in spit but a worthless creature like you who'd support a child rapist doesn't deserve it, it'd be like me throwing holy water on you. Olosho, go and open your barrel wide pussy for some pedophiles in Kiri Kiri, you'd be the type to sell your own child to fuel your drug addiction causing your madness.

You are just a beast.
You can rant as much as you like

NandiIfeoma:
It won't be well with you. Ten times thar poor boy's suffering shall be your portion

You are soo hopeless in life and it will never be well and successful for you for insulting me

What kind of mistake is that ❓

Even if you made an attempt, woman matter for no gree you

This man no send anybody