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Galaxyowerri:
Look at this small afonja girl with small brain. So, developers are the ones building these substandard buildings in afonja domains like Bode in Ibadan and Lagos island where indigenes live while they build solid structures in their own region and settlements?? Continue seeing Igbo giants everywhere, after all we are omnipresent

The position of your brain is on a wrong side
Always read very well before responding

I don't blame the women but I blame the guy for double dating

I don't want to blame them feeling Hot is a stupid thing and being able to control it is a difficult thing to do

They should free them because it was consentual

If they had the money, they would have been lodging

This one is not an issue, come to Lagos isale eko and see hoe two walls are hugging themselves

Once a person is gready it can lead to any embarrassing things

Just because of 1ml

Their job is gone just like that

Now the worst is about to happen because if they are dismissed they will go for crime

Check out very well
All these buildings that are collapsing are built by developers who compromise standards at the detriment of the occupants

The teacher is just being insensitive, what does a one year old infant knows apart from making noise and eating ❓

Most of this kids are sent to school just for them to busy while their mum do other things not as if they know what they are doing in school

sanmtiago:
Sorry my write up may be lengthy but I'll try as much as possible to be concise

I don't usually see myself as a ladies man cause i'm just a simple person who likes it low key but ladies keep coming around. Of course I like women but I'm not the type who has that excessive impulse to have a woman around me for sex and all that romantic ish. I do have sex when I want to cause I have a girlfriend and I'm loyal to her also. I'm not loyal to her because I love her so much i think I'm loyal because I technically have this inherent self discipline so I hardly chase women. I've dated my girl friend for 2yrs and I've never cheated on her even when I've a deluge of girls flocking around me.

I'm a final year student in my mid twenties and my girl in her early twenties. I don't cohabit cause it doesn't appeal to me so all she does is visit and spend the weekend at my house at times.

Now down to the subject matter I make friends irrespective of their sex but the thing is most of the females I make friends with always want to take the friendship further, they visit me at late hours at times 8pm, 9pm and they stay beyond 10pm and once it's after 10 they begin to give frivolous excuses like, I don't think it'd be safe going home alone by this time of the night or they say they've locked my hostel gate so I literally have no choice than to let them pass the night.

The shocking thing is they begin to make romantic demands like 'can you pls cuddle me I'm cold' I find it so disrespectful cause they know full well I have a girlfriend and I'm not that kind of guy they think I'm.

It happens too often and I'm no longer comfortable with it at this same time I don't want to lose friends as they're nice people. Even as much as my girl knows my level of honesty and discipline she still nervous breakdown because of the inordinate amount of calls from this so called Jezebels.

Please how do I curb this without losing friends cause like I said earlier they're nice and to some extent they've been helpful.

Truth be told, stop deceiving yourself

You are a casanova whetheyou accept it or not

Stop flaunting yourself before ladies, they will deal with you in the long run

Stop paying attention to them abs stop giving audience to them

If you continue this way, you will break hearts and that will affect you

Stop having time for ladies their is no benefit than them clustering around you, you are not honey and they are not bees

Be discipline and focus

Though it's an inhuman act to bury any living thing alive

It's more better than using human beings

Mike has carried his rascality overseas

This time around you might get caught because they have cctv all over and any crime committed is a short cut to your deportation

Be a man

She is disobedience to you for reasons best known to her

If she is happy and comfortable wearing sexy cloths and put them on dp to attract her targets

Leave her with it and you too start a life that will make you happier

Marriage is not a prison where one will be unhappy

By the time she us done flaunting herself, you might have gotten someone that will obey you

I am a woman

But fear women

Sadiqali24:
Hy my friends, I want you to help me out.

I'm an N C E holder but currently in 300l.

There is this lady at my work place(I teach in government school) who is doing her MSc(currently), she profess her love for me and want to marry me and I'm just 22. the thing with women is that they can be intimidated by friends and maybe along the line after giving me so much hope will end up saying, "I'm not her class". your advice is strongly needed please.

Age is not an issue in this case

The issue here is
How matured are you as a man to go into marriage

If you think that you can handle the ups and downs of marriage, then go ahead

Secondly, dealing with women in marriage is different from dealing with them in friendship

Thirdly, don't get intimidated and nervous about her educational back ground because you too can go ahead and get to masters level

Lastly raising up a family with less income is like Deeping your foot in an ocean to know the dept

I did not meantion love here because love cannot cover or handle the points I mentioned

Who invited him to that place, it's a wrong appearance and wrong invitation

He is not credible enough to be with kyari

Very soon he will be telling his slaves that he's flexing with him

These people should just pack themselves and leave, the purpose of their coming was not felt

All this lesbians should just learn to keep their ways private, it's a stupid act

Whatever, those breed of foul are as stupid as anything

They don't mind even sleeping on the same bed with you

Eating from the same plate with you

They don't normally have sense like native fowl

Stupid man

Instead of him to swallow pride and humble himself and make his stay there get what he wants and go away, he is showing how uncultured he is

You think is naija where you guys treat women with disdain

donstan18:
You don't want to report him because you love him.



You are just MAD!!

You got it wrong

She is not mad but she is in love with him but hates the beating aspect and all she wants is an apology

Do you know that she is capable of making sure he is deported

The white ladies knows what love is without any material thing attached

Is because the man is a beast that's why he beats her

Finally they are now free from bondage and the oracle has been distroyed

Maxi3k:
This is the same thing queens college girls did to one Ice cream man

Stop fabricating lies

Ice cream men don't even cross their gate
They stay outside the gate

Oh Mike, you done see food wey they hungry you in abundance

Eat and eat until you will never ask for it again

Men are ganging against you ❗

Women are ganging against you ❗

Very soon gost will gang against you

GodisGood4321:
Happy Sunday to Everyone.

I'm 32yrs but still unmarried, not because I don't like to or because of money but I just have constant concerns, worries, and fears.

I have been in relationships severally where we both love, respect and care for each other; but I call it off every time it was getting really serious, not because of any grievous issue in particular (because nobody is perfect) but just because of worries and fear of the unknown.

Some of the worries I have are things like:
- Would I still like her in the near future after locking it down with her in marriage?
- Am I sure I have considered all my chances?
- Am I sure I won't regret my choice or find a better choice tomorrow?
- Am I sure this is the right person for me?
- Am I sure I'm not walking into misfortune with my two eyes open?
- Am I sure I'm done a balanced analysis in making a choice or just looking at one side?

Some people think I don't like marriage or that I'm just flexing, but these fears and concerns make me develop cold feet whenever a relationship I'm in start getting serious. These fears and doubt are real.

So guys, what were your fears and concerns before getting married and how did it turn out after been married.

You are just prosponing your judgement day or evil day

You want a marriage without stress and challenges,
Then how do you want to enjoy it without the above meantioned

You better make up your mind or go straight to monastery and become a monk.

Why are you not scared of making love ❓

What do we call this now

Stupidity ❓

Madness ❓

Negligence ❓

She is out of this world no matter her excuses

He killed himself, a modern way of committing suicide.

What is he doing in a hotel if not that he has taken drugs and wants to unleash it on the women

He killed himself, a modern way of committing sucide

This one is a modern king with a swag

This is an act of stupidity

She will join him soon

Anyway love can push one to do unthinkable, I guess she loves the man and wants to help him out since he can't stay without drugs

Don't be surprised he doesn't even have a home to sleep but sleeps under the bridge

Suffer head everywhere

Am glad you lives him and he knows how to sex you well

I will advice you take it easy with him

Guys will always cheat because they like variaties

When he is satisfied or have enough of his game, he can now learn how to be a decent guy

You are also choking him alot, learn to give him breathing space so that he can reflect on himself

What if he ends the relationship eont you cope or move on with your life ❓

Relax and take it easy with him

llade:
Am concerned cos am contemplating filling for divorce n av told ma in laws about ma intentions but am not com4table wit her in d house cos she is capable of so many tins. She has destroyed ma car n fones n said in her family's presence dat she wud av killed me long ago but for d children as she can't cater for dem alone.

You can't be filing for a divorce and still be living with her

It's not safe that way

If she doesn't want to leave the house, leave the house for her and inform the landlord that you are no longer a tenant there

As for your kids, keep paying their school fees and keep the receipts

You can be sending a particular certain amount to her for the kids
If you want to see them, go to their schools

When her rents expires,
the way and manner she will handle it,
Is her business not yours

Atimes separation helps in determining the value of the relationship

Happiness and love is what married couples need not depression

If you still insist on divorce, the court will set things right

Good thinking and good idea

It's just to appreciate their wives for their support and caring for their families.

You won't know the work of them until they leave those kids with you and travel for just one week

You will beg them to come back quickly