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What you are passing through is normal of the kind of marriage you are into

The constant quarell you are having is because you guys have not lived together for a whole year to understand yourself

He is not really attached to family responsibilities because he doesn't get to see the day to day activities involved in running a normal Nigeria home

He is now use to free life and staying long with you and the kids is a disturbance to his life

I will advice you face your children and make yourself happy and move on

He is happier abroad with his freedom that's why he didn't relocate you guys,

You have to be happier in naija because you are responsible for your own happiness.

Worst case scenario you guys can separate and every one will live peacefully

I repeat, he is not use to running a home,
he is married but living a free life

I attended same sex school and it helped me to struggle with my mates and try hard to come out better if not best and helps me to be independent

Those in mix school looks up to the boys to help them in their duty or jobs because they feel it's hard and it should be left to the boys

Whereas those in same sex school have no option than for them to do the job or duty themselves

Same sex school have the tendency to expose girls to early sex and such is dengerous to the girls

Most public school have more drop outs because their counterparts who are boys practices sex with the girls who doesn't know how to play safe

But those in missionary school of same sex still keeps their virginity more because they don't really have Chances of meeting the boys unless when they are on holidays

Secondary school age for girls especially is the time to grap them

They develope all developable, if you don't nurture them at that period you will loose them

Those in same sex school hardly talk about boys because they hardly know them

But the ones in mix school talks about them because they make passes at them and the next thing is to go experimental.

Patman123:
Is this right for her to do.
Although I have told my female colleague and others to back off.
But she still keeps calling my phone.
Sometimes she is naked at night using psalms to curse and pray against them.
She claims they attack her in the dream.
I want to stop her from making those dangerous prayers just because of the innocent family members of the women. Some are married.
She says I can't stop her

There is no smoke without fire

You must have given her the impression that you have female admires

You must have give her the impression that you are a ladies man

You would have stopped paying attention to her

You must have stopped showing her affection, that is if you have ever done so before

Cutail your excesses and seat her down, talk to her and prove your innocence

What she is doing is as a result of her state of mind not being happy

If you have or keep female's she must not suspect you at all

Women can detect danger in marriage more than men

The most important thing in marriage is happiness of both parties

What leads to happiness is love for each other

If the guy in question is happier with her despite she has an infant, it's his choice,
He already knows that she is nursing a baby

His parents should allow him to follow his heart

He is the one in the field and he is the one in procession of the ball, he should be left to play it well

Marriage is not for sentiments but for true love and happiness

@op

I suggest you relax and go into a relationship and watch it grow

Don't be too desperate to have another child quickly

I can see that you are capable of taking care of them (kids)

But what about yourself❓
Who will take care of you

I will advice you be a good girl and a loving girl

Go to parties and shopping malls you will see decent guys there

Open your heart and feel free to interact with men

If your former spouse or lover doesn't know your worth,
Someone some where appreciates you

Give yourself another chance to feel loved as you need it

As the new relationship you are going into is smooth, you might wish to become pregnant and be prepared to take full responsibility of that child

Love is every where you can even get one in a funny circumstances

Goodluck to you

The Rivers state I know won't take nonsense from any God father and God son

Puppet or no puppet

They have been killing themselves ordinary

So this time every body should take cover

And prepare for the worst

philsbaba:
Ambode tried to cut the excesses of tinubu. Thats why he is where he is today

With time tinubu excesses will be cut, if not by man it will be by God

It's a gradual process

Bishop4bella:
You no get choice than to congratulate him....welcome on board Tinubu's boy.

He has a choice but he choses to humble himself

There is no gain in pride

Better for him

Lopeztranto:
I guess they ate the corpses of innocent Nigerians that died due to their dirty game of politics.

Lol, Nemesis

That's a good one from Jimi,

Politics without bitterness

Maturity all the way

Though it wasn't easy for Jimi but this single act has saved life

Both the life of yoruba and ibos

Lopeztranto:
Many more to go

Wil you eat their corpses ❓

This guy done come with him suspense

What happened to their apc candidate 48hrs to election was part of what affected the apc candidate

But even at that, the apc candidate wouldn't have won the election

It's the luck of the pdp candidate that means the indigens are happy with him

amaniro:
Something they worry that state walai. I can't live there. Their election na war

Tell me the state without war ❓

Including your state

Pavore9:
Uche Nwosu being deceived by his father-in-law!

Why you dey call person wey fail❓

His god father/in law could not continue his plans because the Imolites mumu don do

seunfly:
Wow Rochas will cry.

He has already cried his cry

agbarisocket:
OHANAEZE IGWE.has never and he can never see this kind of car in his villagers..local man

The ohaneze's and igwe don't live on borrowed items

They struggle for it and acquire it

They the ibos, are hard working and goal getters.

What an unfortunate thing to happen to him

He forgot that he is back to a land where death can occur carelessly

This Mike life is just revolving around women and bad guys

He no dey even fear

He posses the good and the bad side of a man

Ejimagift:
Our wildlife is been depleted and kids here celebrate killing of snakes by hailing Lala. I think its time the federal government criminalize the killings of wild animals especially snakes. Anyone caught with a dead snake must be shot dead by firing squad.

They are killing humans and going scort free talk less of animals

Suggest some thing else

Fear no gree any man approach this one

And that's how their numbers are increasing

sexybaby22:
When he dies who will take care of these young kids. Does the expect the next king to cater to his enormous responsibilities when he himself might also want multiple wives?

Since at his age and senses, he doesn't have family planning

He is breeding future land grablers, stull miners, thugs, cultist, Area boys

Because they will hide under the umbrella of Royal family and deal with people

Don't be suprise if the aspirant is her grand child or related to family

If not, tell me what would make her go extreme

Very soon people will stop going for election voting because anyone can be a victim

Since different forms and kind of sickness is more in the north, establish the best hospitals for them do that they won't be coming down to other states for their
beg beg

Na then,
Afonja

Them no they miss their target

Skull mining

Their mate they go off shore make fortune come back

Them dey hear they harvest their people

Ndi ojoo

ireneidiva:
So where you come from. the requirement for marriage is cooking for a mans friend whenever he calls you? Madam, desperation is a bad thing.

Your response to my post was not even relevant to the topic

You mentioned desperation, what has desperation got to do with the topic

She said she won't cook and I said she is not yet ready to settle down

It's different from desperation

Victni:
From Gistvic.com

Lagos socialite, Pretty Mike who once bought himself a sex doll as birthday gift, shares new video of him dancing as he talks about making once self happy and motivated. Gistvic Reports.

Pretty Mike says if he dies today, he dies alone and what his family will do is just to mourn him. Gistvic Reports.

He wrote:


See video of him dancing below:

Gist From Gistvic.com>> https://www.gistvic.com/2019/03/if-i-die-today-i-die-alone-what-family.html

Of all he mentioned, I didn't see where he said

Pray to God

He is out of this world

If the snake has bruises all over its body then someone did it and hang it there for warning of impending trouble

But if no single scratches on its body, good it died there on the spot

It's an act of stupidity, who does he wants to impress

Kenshinmunac:
Good evening everyone, I have an issue, I just met this girl recently. At first she seemed very calm quite and reserved until I got to find out that she is this very impatient type of person that gets angry easily and talks back at one, if I ever try to raise my voice at her when she does something I don't like she will be like "are you shouting at me I don't understand, you are raising your voice?"

I am now even scared to talk to her and correct her because she will talk back at me and it will lead to argument because I hate my gf talking back at me, and she is so fucking proud and won't calm down and I too am the type that get angry easily, I can't seem to cope with this her character guys I'm thinking of ending the relationship, but it's hard cause I got attached to her already

She has refused to be controlled and like to do what ever pleases her. She basically wants to make the rules in this relationship and I don't want to let her so I don't seem like a weak man. We have broken up and made up twice now because of this anger issue we can't seem to tolerate each other and I don't want or give her the chance to make the rules

I'm afraid if I get married to her tomorrow the union will end up in disaster as it will be filled with quarreling and fighting except one of us come down for each other and I don't want to be her foot mat since I'm the man in the relationship I feel she should come down for me since I will be the one to take care of her, provide and shelter her. I deserve that fucking respect she has no right to talk back at me over the slightest of things just because I express my displeasure over things she does wrong.

Please guys, advice me I'm fucking heart broken right now. I still love her and we broke up again this evening and this time with a whole lot of word exchange guys.

I'm just confused. I hate moving from relationships to relationships. I'm so fragile emotionally. It fucking devastates me

She already knows that you can't do without her

Thats the impression you gave her

It's either you leave to go at this early stage when nothing is attached or you endure for life

But she won't change because she is naughty by nature

If by error she becomes pregnant for you, sorry that's the end