₦airaland Forum

llade:
Am concerned cos am contemplating filling for divorce n av told ma in laws about ma intentions but am not com4table wit her in d house cos she is capable of so many tins. She has destroyed ma car n fones n said in her family's presence dat she wud av killed me long ago but for d children as she can't cater for dem alone.

You can't be filing for a divorce and still be living with her

It's not safe that way

If she doesn't want to leave the house, leave the house for her and inform the landlord that you are no longer a tenant there

As for your kids, keep paying their school fees and keep the receipts

You can be sending a particular certain amount to her for the kids
If you want to see them, go to their schools

When her rents expires,
the way and manner she will handle it,
Is her business not yours

Atimes separation helps in determining the value of the relationship

Happiness and love is what married couples need not depression

If you still insist on divorce, the court will set things right

Good thinking and good idea

It's just to appreciate their wives for their support and caring for their families.

You won't know the work of them until they leave those kids with you and travel for just one week

You will beg them to come back quickly

What you are passing through is normal of the kind of marriage you are into

The constant quarell you are having is because you guys have not lived together for a whole year to understand yourself

He is not really attached to family responsibilities because he doesn't get to see the day to day activities involved in running a normal Nigeria home

He is now use to free life and staying long with you and the kids is a disturbance to his life

I will advice you face your children and make yourself happy and move on

He is happier abroad with his freedom that's why he didn't relocate you guys,

You have to be happier in naija because you are responsible for your own happiness.

Worst case scenario you guys can separate and every one will live peacefully

I repeat, he is not use to running a home,
he is married but living a free life

I attended same sex school and it helped me to struggle with my mates and try hard to come out better if not best and helps me to be independent

Those in mix school looks up to the boys to help them in their duty or jobs because they feel it's hard and it should be left to the boys

Whereas those in same sex school have no option than for them to do the job or duty themselves

Same sex school have the tendency to expose girls to early sex and such is dengerous to the girls

Most public school have more drop outs because their counterparts who are boys practices sex with the girls who doesn't know how to play safe

But those in missionary school of same sex still keeps their virginity more because they don't really have Chances of meeting the boys unless when they are on holidays

Secondary school age for girls especially is the time to grap them

They develope all developable, if you don't nurture them at that period you will loose them

Those in same sex school hardly talk about boys because they hardly know them

But the ones in mix school talks about them because they make passes at them and the next thing is to go experimental.

Patman123:
Is this right for her to do.
Although I have told my female colleague and others to back off.
But she still keeps calling my phone.
Sometimes she is naked at night using psalms to curse and pray against them.
She claims they attack her in the dream.
I want to stop her from making those dangerous prayers just because of the innocent family members of the women. Some are married.
She says I can't stop her

There is no smoke without fire

You must have given her the impression that you have female admires

You must have give her the impression that you are a ladies man

You would have stopped paying attention to her

You must have stopped showing her affection, that is if you have ever done so before

Cutail your excesses and seat her down, talk to her and prove your innocence

What she is doing is as a result of her state of mind not being happy

If you have or keep female's she must not suspect you at all

Women can detect danger in marriage more than men

The most important thing in marriage is happiness of both parties

What leads to happiness is love for each other

If the guy in question is happier with her despite she has an infant, it's his choice,
He already knows that she is nursing a baby

His parents should allow him to follow his heart

He is the one in the field and he is the one in procession of the ball, he should be left to play it well

Marriage is not for sentiments but for true love and happiness

@op

I suggest you relax and go into a relationship and watch it grow

Don't be too desperate to have another child quickly

I can see that you are capable of taking care of them (kids)

But what about yourself❓
Who will take care of you

I will advice you be a good girl and a loving girl

Go to parties and shopping malls you will see decent guys there

Open your heart and feel free to interact with men

If your former spouse or lover doesn't know your worth,
Someone some where appreciates you

Give yourself another chance to feel loved as you need it

As the new relationship you are going into is smooth, you might wish to become pregnant and be prepared to take full responsibility of that child

Love is every where you can even get one in a funny circumstances

Goodluck to you

The Rivers state I know won't take nonsense from any God father and God son

Puppet or no puppet

They have been killing themselves ordinary

So this time every body should take cover

And prepare for the worst

philsbaba:
Ambode tried to cut the excesses of tinubu. Thats why he is where he is today

With time tinubu excesses will be cut, if not by man it will be by God

It's a gradual process

Bishop4bella:
You no get choice than to congratulate him....welcome on board Tinubu's boy.

He has a choice but he choses to humble himself

There is no gain in pride

Better for him

Lopeztranto:
I guess they ate the corpses of innocent Nigerians that died due to their dirty game of politics.

Lol, Nemesis

That's a good one from Jimi,

Politics without bitterness

Maturity all the way

Though it wasn't easy for Jimi but this single act has saved life

Both the life of yoruba and ibos

Lopeztranto:
Many more to go

Wil you eat their corpses ❓

This guy done come with him suspense

What happened to their apc candidate 48hrs to election was part of what affected the apc candidate

But even at that, the apc candidate wouldn't have won the election

It's the luck of the pdp candidate that means the indigens are happy with him

amaniro:
Something they worry that state walai. I can't live there. Their election na war

Tell me the state without war ❓

Including your state

Pavore9:
Uche Nwosu being deceived by his father-in-law!

Why you dey call person wey fail❓

His god father/in law could not continue his plans because the Imolites mumu don do

seunfly:
Wow Rochas will cry.

He has already cried his cry

agbarisocket:
OHANAEZE IGWE.has never and he can never see this kind of car in his villagers..local man

The ohaneze's and igwe don't live on borrowed items

They struggle for it and acquire it

They the ibos, are hard working and goal getters.

What an unfortunate thing to happen to him

He forgot that he is back to a land where death can occur carelessly

This Mike life is just revolving around women and bad guys

He no dey even fear

He posses the good and the bad side of a man

Ejimagift:
Our wildlife is been depleted and kids here celebrate killing of snakes by hailing Lala. I think its time the federal government criminalize the killings of wild animals especially snakes. Anyone caught with a dead snake must be shot dead by firing squad.

They are killing humans and going scort free talk less of animals

Suggest some thing else

Fear no gree any man approach this one

And that's how their numbers are increasing

sexybaby22:
When he dies who will take care of these young kids. Does the expect the next king to cater to his enormous responsibilities when he himself might also want multiple wives?

Since at his age and senses, he doesn't have family planning

He is breeding future land grablers, stull miners, thugs, cultist, Area boys

Because they will hide under the umbrella of Royal family and deal with people

Don't be suprise if the aspirant is her grand child or related to family

If not, tell me what would make her go extreme

Very soon people will stop going for election voting because anyone can be a victim

Since different forms and kind of sickness is more in the north, establish the best hospitals for them do that they won't be coming down to other states for their
beg beg

Na then,
Afonja

Them no they miss their target

Skull mining

Their mate they go off shore make fortune come back

Them dey hear they harvest their people

Ndi ojoo

ireneidiva:
So where you come from. the requirement for marriage is cooking for a mans friend whenever he calls you? Madam, desperation is a bad thing.

Your response to my post was not even relevant to the topic

You mentioned desperation, what has desperation got to do with the topic

She said she won't cook and I said she is not yet ready to settle down

It's different from desperation

Victni:
From Gistvic.com

Lagos socialite, Pretty Mike who once bought himself a sex doll as birthday gift, shares new video of him dancing as he talks about making once self happy and motivated. Gistvic Reports.

Pretty Mike says if he dies today, he dies alone and what his family will do is just to mourn him. Gistvic Reports.

He wrote:


See video of him dancing below:

Gist From Gistvic.com>> https://www.gistvic.com/2019/03/if-i-die-today-i-die-alone-what-family.html

Of all he mentioned, I didn't see where he said

Pray to God

He is out of this world

If the snake has bruises all over its body then someone did it and hang it there for warning of impending trouble

But if no single scratches on its body, good it died there on the spot