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My advice is this

Let her know that your salary can not even feed you for one month talk more of the entire family

She must start something doing, be it anything

She can sell roasted plantain or even fruits at strategic bustop

Make sure you leave in a one room apartment where you can afford to pay rent easily

If your child is above 6months, introduce pap and natural food, that will give that child good health

Make a point of duty to save 5000 every month into your account

If you don't involve your wife in contributing to the family upkeep, she will assume you are capable

Live the most economic life until situation improves

Lastly one or two kids are enough for now until economy improve

She has moved her madness to davido and his family

adioolayi:
Queues seen at most filling stations... some shut!
why are we doing this to ourselves for God's sake
Just because of an envisage strike and the PMS dealers are back to ripping off Nigerians. Do we call this PMB's problem or problems created by cabals ...God help this country!

Na one problem dey lead to another

Rip

Person wey him life no get duplicate no dey contest

Them never see anything, until bank join them

That's when they will know that karki no be leather

Well the pastor did what is expected of him

It's left for them to continue at their own risk

Maradona, he is goog at his game

In as much as I wish them happy married life

They should respect themselves and keep that marriage

Marriage is not a bed of roses but it doesn't have thorns

This one done sacrifice him life for them to repair road

Must a life be taken to get things done appropriately ?

This one done sacrifice for them to repair road

Must a life be taken to get things done appropriately ?

Just tye rope around his neck

Run the idiot on a tarred road until the head pulls out of the neck

Then Bury the head and the neck in two different places or location

So you mean that those attacking you are allergic to failure ?

You that went for your great grand mother's age mate, are you not allergic to success

Among your age grades or age brackets, even you junior in females , you can't find your match

You and I knows that you are irresponsible and incapacitated to run a home as a man

You wanted a ready made woman that will secure your future because you can't hustle

People like you are the ones that made the women to see men like you as gold diggers

You settled for a woman that is moving close to grave every morning and night so that your journey to make wealth won't take long

Shame on you, As you sleep with her and keep hoping to inherit her possessions and even her corpse

Her family knows about you, but they allowed you to be with her if that will make her happy

They knows that you want to harvest where you did not sow, but they will allow you to weed the farm that's why you are still with her

For your information, her will is already written before you met her and since you have been squatting with her the family have made sure that her will has nothing to do with your name and it is with her lawyer

You have chosen to be a janitor, to their sister. Continue to be with her as her care giver till the end

The end justify the means

Doctors because life is involved

If you have options, go for contract job

State government job is not really advisable, there is no prospect there and you can't go beyond your state

Besides you are still young to be kept in a particular place

If you have options, go for contract job

State government job is for those that doesn't have options

Whatever pictures you see in front of that luth tells you exactly how their services are

Very shameful and embarrassing

Xcelinteriors:
Somehow she's saying the truth. It is only a foolish woman that will pack out of her matrimonial home just because the husband is a cheat. All men cheat and you have to stay and deal with it

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Eziokwu?

All men cheats?

All women should do what?

They should bear it or cheat on them too?

bukatyne:
And why can't a married woman open a beer parlour?

Just because you changed your gender from male to female, disguising

There are women everywhere and every corner

Yet those with low life esteem still engage in rapes

There are no difference between rape and stealing

ZIMDRILL:
you see you are limit yourself

problem with us black people we want to be everything in a business, manager, director cashier, waiter etc

a married women can still run a beer parlour, she can employ a foremen who runs the daily things while she is the back office running the actually business

Guy relax, when you are married you will understand better

Your status as a bachelor won't help you now

This one is on a mission

Let the lose men stay clear to avoid being her victims

She no send oooh

If this is his punishment for raping a herbalist daughter

Let him serve it and let others learn

ZIMDRILL:
like ? and based on what ?

always think out the box

a good business minded will never ask people on which business to venture into, if you have the talent you know what to do, what you seek is how to grow big

Get married first, then allow your wife to open a beer parlour

Then come back and tell me your observations.

Let's start with this home work first

These 19 people includes

Those that partispated

Those that witness it

Those that heard about it and did not report it

Those that their enemy friends indicted

Those that their evil crime time is up

Stay away from crime and murder, the law will catch you up if not that moment then later

Be busy get a legitimate job doing and the devil will see you busy and stay away from you

Go and face the law

AGNESikpuNNU:

But you will continue fvcking and abortion abi?

Stop it naw

That's too childish whatever she does with herself this period is her business not ours

ZIMDRILL:
yes he is right to say you got low feedback
becoz you titled kicks out unmarried people,

and you still doing the same mistake by saying married people will give advice based on experience

you are confusing two things, running a successful business has nothing to with being married, your business is has poor sales per week that has nothing to with being married, but finding products that are fast movers on the shelf. if it was about how married business women manage between running a business and family life then yes you would ask married women to mostly cheap in with ideas

but reading your post its about the business having slow sales and either improving salea by doing few changes eg getting new stuff that sell fast or trying a new business alltogether

Do you know that there are some businesses that you can't even go into as a married woman

That's the point I am coming from

This is the type of ladies that gives women bad names

All she wants is a man that will be given her money

But she has forgotten that gullibility and greed have made some girls to lose their lives

She has her life to live,

My problem with her is, even if anything happens to her, her family will be the one to lose not her because she has already towed the line of a failure

These people just like attracting satan

Season of strikes

ImperialYoruba:
So whats the beginning of the tradition of denying females, whether as a daughter or a wife, any belonging or ownership in the man's property?


If a man has been caring for his wife while alive i think she has become accustomed to a certain expectation of livelihood and dependency.

By cutting her off from that livelihood after her husband dies she now becomes dependent and vulnerable to the new owner of that property, perharps the brother or uncle or even son of the deceased. Does she now become a wife to the new inheritor?
Whats the social wisdom behind this custom?

Why couldn't that livelihood continue as a trust on the deceased's property and until such time the widow finishes her term of grieving and can make for herself the choice of a new direction in life...whether as a bride to deceased brother ot not. Why is it forced and she is left with no choice?
Share your knowledge on this.

If you read my lines very well

I am against such practice

Your questions ought to be directed to the men not me as a woman

If a husband leaves something for the wife and children to inherit, it's no bodies business to forcefully snatch it from the wife

They don't have that right or power to do so

But they hide themselves under the disguise of tradition

Uptil today I am yet to see where tradition documented such acts

But I maintain my stand that it is as a result of insecurity from the side of the men

Na them sabi