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Some of us are not fortunate enough to live with our wives. Yes some of us are faithful to our wives and we look at those pictures to keep us going until when we can sleep with each other.

Better than getting HIV from strange women

Maybe I should give my opinion having lived in the UK, Canada and Australia.

What you need to find a good partner is God! That is my belief as a Christian.

whizqueen:
If you want you can check out my YouTube Channel, I make videos on Life in Canada and immigrating to Canada, the process, the cost and available pathways

I used to be an expert on tinder and bumble. All it just made into was someone who had sex often. Online dating is designed to satisfy physical urges, if you think about it critically it goes this way for most.

1. See a cute pictures, swipe as many as you fancy
2. Match with a lot of women
3. Chat with all
4. Go for a date and try to close(sex) as many as is possible on the first date
5. Go on a second date at most, if the girl isn't putting out, onto the next one.
6. Rinse and repeat

This is antithetical to how a long term relationship start, yes every once in awhile success stories happen but as a man I got almost hooked to excitement of a new match buzzing on my phone.

Relationships should be a test of compatibility not who gives one the best orgasm as sex is not the only metric to measure suitability.

I can only imagine how it feels for women. So for any moderately attractive person, this is a bad idea in my opinion.

I will still suggest meeting people through mutual friends and family if in a foreign country.

Area4Area:
Most of you know next to nothing and won't bother to ask or make any research.
Nobody has the right to deny any Nigerian entry into the country at any time, even if she's been diagnosed as positive, she must still be allowed to come in at anytime she wants.
Nigeria only stopped the entry of foreigners from those countries she blacklisted but Nigerians living there have all the right to come in.

If the President can quarantine the whole country, why couldn't the government shut our borders and quarantine ever returning Nigerian for 14 days?

yusfatedeeprof:
1 million coronavirus cases have been recorded and over 51k death worldwide...
April 2 2020, 7:35pm

That 0.014% of the global population. Plus no one is counting the over 200k people that recovered

I am grateful for corona. Our healthcare is getting the attention it deserves. After corona, we the citizens now know that we can have better healthcare, our leaders just don't have the insentive to give it to us, so we have to make them

VAQAXY:
Anambra leads the rest of the pack. Truly the light of the entire black race

In 2020 we are celebrating radio learning. Who do us this thing

Close Nigeria? No, we need business from China.

Now residents ate being locked out of their homes in the midst of a pandemic. Nigeria is a joke

This is criminal negligence

LearnITsmash:
Every religion in Nigeria is an evil cult that has destroyed the nation for the longest time and needs to be expunged for good

Typical communist, crush people who view the world differently ! Oh sorry atheist

cRobo:
I ran from there because of the cold

I won't say a word

Which part of Australia was cold? Liar

Go Bleep yourself . Only in Nigeria, can an interviewer say this nonsense. The essence of an interview is for the interviewer to evaluate if you are a good fit. It is not a reality show where you have to impress the judges.

Also, most importantly it is also your opportunity to check if the company is the right fit for you.

Is the culture right for you?

What is the pay like can it sustain?

How is progression like?

Does the company have a continuous improvement plan for employees?

Any company that has interviewers ask you this sort of question, isnt worth your time.

Vahalar Moughulis _ All men must die

Valar morghulis - "all men must die". Rest in peace

LagosBoi2:
It is your birthday my darling wife, I have to make public this letter because you are the best thing that ever happened to my life and I can't keep silent anymore.

My friend and lover of 16 straight years, It is usual for husbands to appreciate their wives in the name of marriage but it is unusual to state reasons for the appreciation.

I think you don't just love, there should be genuine reasons to love, I will purge out my thoughts on the reasons you should be the most celebrated wife on earth.

As a young man, if all you ever wish for is to meet your partner a virgin, I personally NEVER wished for it but women who still keep their virginity against all odds for the right man should be specially celebrated in today's crazy world. Amazingly I can confidently say that I am the only man in her life for 16yrs until date, she is a completely faithful wife.

We have never had any issues over infidelity on her part during our courtship and marriage till date, I have been the one misbehaving through the years, growing up was crazy, I was the one exploring life and doing all I could but she submitted her life to me.

As a multi talented young lady, she submitted her career and life to me, believing in me despite all my mistakes, she is the only person that understands me even without an explanation to my human mistakes.

I can not easily forget her usual lines after giving her piece of advice, she will say "I do not see you as my husband, I see you as my own son, If my son should do this same thing you have just done, will i disown him?", "you are still young, you will outgrow these behaviours and be the best man for me"

I lost my biological mother 11 yrs ago but If I call you my mother, I have a genuine reason to do so because you stood by me in a way that only a mother can.

The 16yrs wasn't all rosy, about 9 of the 16 years was full sufferings and poverty, even when I lost hope in myself, you continued to have high hopes in me without any iota of doubt.

We were homeless on two occasions in our lives and then with 2 kids, you endured with me, staying with your mom while I stay with a friend, you even came to live with me in my friend's place.

Despite the humiliation, you refused to give up on me, you absolutely signed off your whole life to me. At a point you wore your best cloth to a company where I asked you to help me submit a proposal, a young lady tapped you to inform you that your dress is torn at the back.

If you have ever had to wear a cloth that is so used up and begins to split into two from the back, you will understand what this means, my wife came home and narrated the issue to me, she actually saw the dress before wearing it, she wore it because she had no better one to wear

I couldn't control my emotions, I began to cry like a baby, I can never forget what she told me that faithful day, she said "Baby, don't worry, the same me wearing torn cloths today will have enough to wear tomorrow, I will even be giving out because it will be excess" Behold 7yrs after her words came to pass, cloths and female accessories are the least of her worries.

Your wisdom is extraordinary even me your husband can not match, your heart so pure that you forgive the unthinkable. Your ways so pure that you find it difficult to tell a lie. You gave me a girl and 2 boys. 12yr, 6yr and 2yr respectively.

You stood by your promise to see me through to success, If you look for a woman who gives in everything into a relationship without blinking, that is my wife.

You politely correct me when I am wrong, you warmly advise me and leave me to make my final decisions, you respect me as a father not as a husband.

Your culinary skills are the best I have ever known, friends and family can testify to this, you are the best mother to our kids, your daughter calls you the best mom in the world, I also call you the best wife and mother in the world. They say no perfect human but you are near perfect. You are so beautiful that people who do not know you conclude that you must have several men in your life spending money on you to look younger and beautiful even after 3 kids.

I can go on and on because there is a lot to talk about you that is not open to others, you live a private life without desperation for anything in life, You are a woman of honor, dignity, value with undying strength to carry on and remain focus against all odds.

I promise to guide our union with my life, protect our family with my strength and celebrate you for the rest of your life.

Happy birthday my darling wife!

You are indeed the best!

Please help move this to FP today 26 Feb to celebrate a good woman's birthday.

Add: On your request, I have added pics.

Thank you.

I can say the same about my wife except we don't have kids yet.

I am an only son out of 4 girls and the last. My sisters paid my fees for my studies in the UK, before I could contribute financially they were the ones carrying the family.

I do not understand the obsession with having male kids, Kobe Bryant doesn't have a son, Tiger woods doesn't have a son, Obama doesn't have a son

Like Nike said Just Do it.

On a more serious note like others have said there is a very possibility that your cousin is being hunted by rival cult groups, hence his showing up without informing you.

Tell him upfront that he needs to leave or tell him that you are travelling if you want to me deceptive about it.

One thing is certain you have to do something about his presence

Basher8583:
Trust me... No one needs you guys. Go and search very well. You are your main problem. Lack of unity.
Igbos main occupation is trade so I ask you who are your customers? They are the people you are insulting.
Can you do business without customers?
Thats to show you who needs who.

Then let us go , we love to suffer

You don't have to be naked on social media to appreciate your body, that is seeking external validation

BreconHills:
The clamor to leave Nigeria exists at different levels and has completely different reasoning. Among poor Igbos, there is a heartfelt desire to leave and to leave tomorrow. Among wealthy Igbos, the clamor to leave Nigeria is a bargaining tool for access to the Presidency and even contracts. The reasoning is very simple, a wealthy Igbo stands to lose assets. The Acquisition of Lands by Alien Law (ALAL) of Lagos, for instance, states that: "No alien shall acquire any interest or right in or over land from a native of Nigeria unless the transaction under which the interest or right is acquired has been previously approved in writing by the Governor" Who wants his land title in Lagos revoked? The new n`tion would not even be a member of Ecows meaning that it would have to negotiate its own immigration and trade deals one by one. Quite apart from land, what about companies in sectors in which foreigners are not encouraged to hold assets such as transportation and haulage?

I am not going to respond to mentions etc because I also realize that this is an emotional subject for many people but until the mismatch in the argument between poor and rich Igbos takes place - no one is going anywhere. I would love for the Igbos to leave because I suspect that others would leave too and the Federation will be renegotiated as it should have been right at the beginning. But I am not going to waste time arguing about something that even its loudest proponents don't believe in.

Any leaving of Nigeria must not make Igbos poorer even in the short term. This is the fault line between the two classes of its supporters.
Igbos will never abandon their assets to others simply to make a point.

Your response is both intelligent and thoughtful. Thank you

My biggest problem with this forum is hypocrisy. The same people demonizing Nnamdi Kanu are the same people that scream that Nigeria is not working for them.

The same people support Amoetekun . If the society was functional why do we need vigilante groups?

The same people are lining up for visas to leave Nigeria. If Nigeria was so lovely why are you trying to run away?


The same hate igbo people but yet mock igbo people for wanting to leave Nigeria. If you hate us that much why endure us? Shouldn't it be your biggest wish to see us leave?

The same people feel that a country that has progressively gone back since 1960 has any hope of getting better. Are you too blind to see that this country is hopeless?

I am no fan of Nnamdi Kanu but I can't help but agree that this country is on a journey to no where

A country with almost the highest number of the absolutely poor in the world has her governors living in edifices like this.

This country is not going to get better any time soon as long as we allow politicians to get away with atrocities like this.

I spit on this hotel

Increasing the minimum wage will not alleviate poverty. What Nigeria needs is for the government to create and provide necessary amenities needed to stimulate the economy.

Good roads, steady electricity, security of lives and property, effective judicial system and good education.

Nigeria is on a very slippery slope. Our governors are now acknowledging that the Nigerian project is no longer viable or is this a play for 2023?

Nnamdi Kanu was 100% correct in his prediction about the trajectory the country is heading as far back as 2014.

Forced17:
she's not a Muslim and we have a future together

Not to be disrespectful but you are too young to be planning a future with a girl

No pain no gain . It does hurt to see these people loose their means of livelihood, however the transport sector can only improve if Okada and Keke go extinct.

Think about this if you are an investor, will invest millions of naira and pay taxes to compete with independent operators that run tax free

Naija my naija. Most people on this forum will usually lecture me on how Nigeria is as advanced as western countries. Yet we have these explosions recurring

What God has joined together let no man (including the kids) put asunder. I will love my kids but wife has priority over every one on earth including the kids and I expect the same .

It doesn't mean ignoring our responsibilities as parents

Pussywar:
If only you niggas will stop acting like big babies and stop posting every trivial thing here for nonsense attention. What exactly do you hope to hear from here? Encouragement to cheat? To divorce? Or are you hoping to get someone to volunteer to care for your children for you?? You're sex starved, the f..uck should we do? Goat.

You described yourself as a feminazi, so their no point engaging you as you lot do not put any effort into presenting any coherent thought. You just go on to spew your men hating rhetoric

oochi123:
Hmmmm.Bros,your wife did not and is not even denying you sex! Since there is an extra room why not have the whole fun there? Just be thankful she didn't deny you for life. After having the kids they want, the woman concentrates on her kids and shuts that place.you beta dey meet her for the Oza room o make konji no kee you

Why can't the kids move to their own room? Is she married to the kids or to her husband? This is ridiculous.

Ladylite:
Your left over brain didn't tell you that child bearing affects the woman's hormones...

Monkey... Your selfishness is note worthy... So you should just have sex even if she is in the mood or not.

Pls sit in a grave

A husband should have more priority than the kids. So when kids come the man becomes a furniture at home and an ATM . The marriage is suffering from a complete breakdown in communication..

You cannot ignore your husband because of the kids, nor the man ignore the wife because of work.

MrCork:
...HELL YEAAAAA....they 10 times better than our Nigerian women & they always loyal!!!(fact)

This is unfounded rubbish