eni4real:
You are very disrespectful!!!

Convince your wife you are still necessary? Na wah oo.

emrain:
Religion is not about heaven and hell nor God and Satan.

The stories in religious books are there to help teachers teach children how to survive peacefully and harmoniously with others.

Religion was all about survival. Sadly not anymore.

The modern world believes Abrahamic religions have outlived their usefulness because they've killed God.

There's no longer anything to fear, so many people no longer have reasons to endure the pain of this world. No hope of eternal life. Surprisingly, Slave morality is on a rapid rise in disguise.

Hope has become a fraud.

Empathy is only employed when it's convenient.

The things our fathers were ashamed of are what we celebrate today.

Religious leaders live out their grandiose fantasy at the expense of their sheeple because they've replaced God.

Is atheism the answer? From my experience, I don't think so.

Most atheists in religious countries are usually apathetic and in some cases bitter. This doesn't help anybody, not even the atheists themselves.

The easiest way to save Africans from modern religious manipulators (if you care) is to become very religious and inspire the sheeple in bondage to be more educated and see for themselves that God is dead and it's time to move on.

How do you do this? Become a Sunday school teacher, preacher etc. Intentionally expose your audience to thought-provoking books and materials that helped you come to terms with reality. While at it, always emphasize on empathy and how our collective survival and advancement depends on it.

In the end, liberating Education is what we need. Not apathy, elitism, bitterness, etc that comes with being an atheist in this part of the world.


PS- Good/bad fortune has nothing to do with God. It has everything to do with you and the people you surround yourself with.

What is the meaning of life?

hopefulLandlord:


loads of bullcrap without answering the question I asked

The universe is not eternal , there is a consensus with the science community that this true. Anything that caused the universe , time and space to exist must be outside it and anything outside time is infinite

GeneralShepherd:
I am here!

What made me loose faith? The inefficacy of prayers did the magic for me. If it worked god did it,if it didn't it's not god's will and if you ask questions you are damned.

It during my journey after youth service in my quest for a job that I realised god doesn't exist
Intact I landed my first job when I discarded the idea of God.

How time flies and believes change?

You only need to propose once to a woman . If a girl wants to be with you that day will be the best day of her life.

Save yourself future stress and move to Canada. There are many Nigerian girls with higher standards in Canada

Let me make it clear here my dear. I understand that you really like this guy and you are into him. I want to let you know a few things.

1. It took me a long time to realise that there is nothing like I am not ready for a commited relationship. It is just a nice way to say I don't want to date YOU.

2. You had no right to go through his phone because he is not your bf. And even if he was you still have no right to go through his phone. A phone is so so personal that there are so many things on there that deserves the utmost respect.

3. I am sure you have at one point distanced yourself from someone. Think about and then it will help you realise that he is not for you.

4. Dating is about finding someone you are compatible with and not to fall in love at first sight. This also took me a very long time to realise.

Summary leave him. Next guy you meet enjoy his company and if you can leave sex out of it until you are sure there is compatibility between the two of you

xendra:
I'm not surprised to see men saying she should have kept this within the family. na from clap dem dey enter dance. a man that can come home 2am and slap the wife that same night deserves no sympathy. na so she go keep quiet till it gets worse and he kills her.

naija men, Una try o

Their is no justification for violence in a relationship.

daddytime:
No matter wetin you do brother, this marriage na manage e no go last. Sorry, but this is the honest truth.

A precedent has been set, so, at the slightest provocation, your in law's will March down to move their pikin.

Get smart...

If na me, na dem go beg me to come carry my wife back....

How old is this wife by the way?

NB

Please, if you are the guy who advertised a size 44 shoes sometime last week, or you know the guy in person, kindly mention me.

Their is no justification for hitting your partner on both sides for no reason

phillippians:

whatever happens she's a human being, it's all boils down to finance... See why I fear poverty more than death itself. She died because she choose prostitution which is as a result of lack of money. Ladies misbehave alot when they lack so no one should blame her lifestyle. Another problem with social media.
Someone's life is at stake and instead of helping people around are busy making videos.
THERE ARE PEOPLE THAT JUST MOVE ABOUT ON HUMAN SKIN BUT ARE DEVIL THEMSELVES. REAL DEVIL

She died becuase of domestic violence. It had nothing to do with her life choices

Rexnegro:
fine we know we can't compare but why pick the bad roads in Nigeria to show and pick the best roads in Dubai to show. you want to tell me that everywhere in Dubai is like that and everywhere in Nigeria is like that too ?

The problem is that you people like to defend rubbish but I don't blame you.

Every road in Dubai is like that , every road in UK and Australia is in excellent to moderate condition. I never saw any pothole for once in any of these countries

okorotalkative:


I think every property is a liability, even women. lol

Modified :- I didn't mean that in a ridiculous way guys, you think it is easy to maintain a woman?

Women don't count as property for God's sake

Sowore my man enjoy your change that your brought to us.

Ariza:
And I wonder why it is the guy that must work on his conversation skills and keep the communication on.Is friendship/ relationship a one sided thing? Or communication a gender thing? .

If the conversation is one sided it is mostly a sign that the lady is not interested It's unto the next one.

Uni is the best place to be free as there is a limitless supply of women.

Nigeria my country!!!

Divinelady:
. Really?
Truth is I learnt a lot of things from my mum..I remember when mumsy will pay our school fees...I have 4 siblings...popsy was always in lag working and then whenever he came home, she'll ask us to go and thank him for paying our school fees....We knew he wasn't the one paying cos he usually looked confused whenever we thanked him.So I already have the mindset of doing things on my own if I can afford it.
So tell me why I would disturb another woman's child with bills if I can afford it....it's only when it's beyond my power that I'll run to him for help..

Your mother is a good wife and you will be too

I am still waiting for those that said Nigeria is better than Canada and Australia to come to this thread .

Like I continue saying, if you can run away from this country ,please do

Virginity says a lot about the character of a lady that she has self control. It may also mean that she is sex averse.

I will not be shocked if I marry a virgin who wants to have sex once in a year. It may mean that this human is sexually repressed.

So it can be either or

Beverlyjean:


Keep on living in denial... I hv brothers and I know how men think ... Everyman wants to marry a virgin..everyman might not want to date a virgin, but everyman wants to marry a virgin... No man is comfortable knowing that his wife hv 4kd a number of guys b4 him ...it breeds disrespect subconsciously

So you know every man including men that don't want to marry, men in polyamorous relationships , men in polygamy, men that marry women of loose virtue and all the different types of men with varying sexual wants?

You statement is so far from the truth.

XxSabrinaxX:

Let's see...
"A deductive argument is the presentation of statements that are assumed or known to be true as premises for a conclusion that necessarily follows from those statements."

Right. Moving on...


Wow are you behind the times .....
"To most people, the idea that conservation of energy is violated goes against everything they learned about the most fundamental laws of physics. But on the cosmological scale, conservation of energy is not as steadfast a law as it is on smaller scales. In this study, the physicists specifically investigated two theories in which violations of energy conservation naturally arise.

The first scenario of violations involves modifications to quantum theory that have previously been proposed to investigate phenomena such as the creation and evaporation of black holes, and which also appear in interpretations of quantum mechanics in which the wavefunction undergoes spontaneous collapse. In these cases, energy is created in an amount that is proportional to the mass of the collapsing object.

Violations of energy conservation also arise in some approaches to quantum gravity in which spacetime is considered to be granular due to the fundamental limit of length (the Planck length, which is on the order of 10-35 m). This spacetime discreteness could have led to either an increase or decrease in energy that may have begun contributing to the cosmological constant starting when photons decoupled from electrons in the early universe, during the period known as recombination."(First premise is rejected.)

https://phys.org/news/2017-01-violations-energy-early-universe-dark.html

Dark energy emerges when energy conservation is violated

The conservation of energy is one of physicists’ most cherished principles, but its violation could resolve a major scientific mystery: why is the expansion of the universe accelerating? That is the eye-catching claim of a group of theorists in France and Mexico, who have worked out that dark energy can take the form of Albert Einstein’s cosmological constant by effectively sucking energy out of the cosmos as it expands.

https://physicsworld.com/a/dark-energy-emerges-when-energy-conservation-...


No, it's not, Mr. Obvious
The Big Bounce: Why our universe might be eternal."
https://bigthink.com/surprising-science/big-bounce-theory


First, GeneralShepherd, you must prove a beginning. Next, you have to actually demonstrate a source. You do not get to magically assert a universe into existence.


GeneralShepherd wouldja try and keep the energy (pun, hundred percent intended) please? You just asserted "conservation of energy" and here you are citing energy outside the universe.

Are you sure you know what you're talking about?

I have always put it succinctly, I was an atheist my reason for choosing a different worldview is simply because by mere reasoning it is obvious that the universe is not eternal. It is a consensus with the science community that the universe has a beginning. I choose to worship whatever caused the beginning of the universe .

Secondly atheism leads to nihilism short and simple. Nothing means anything, the best atheism can come up with is positive nihilism.

Christianity gave meaning to my life and I am sure that no argument for God will sway you either . So there's no point going down that route and engaging you in a conversation especially when your comments are laced with insults and sarcasm.

Let me put forth a simple argument by deduction. Within the universe exists a law of conservation of energy as energy is neither created nor destroyed.

It is obvious that also the universe is not eternal and had a beginning . Therefore there must a source that existed before the start of time and the universe that in itself is eternal.

Physicists call it energy, I call him God. You can also call it the God of the gaps but that answer is fine by me

TheGoodJoe:


Thank you for the point.

I do tell her every where I go to. Before I go out and when I arrive the place. I call when I am there and let her know when I am leaving.

I do this to ease her mind at all time and build trust in our relationship. She also used to do this always. Lately, she stopped. To the point of going to an occasion and lying about it when I asked her.

So the change can not start with me. This is about the change in her attitude.

Then not telling me that she is planning to spend a night with her friend? Haba, that is far from the foundation we built in our relationship.

If you need your partner to check in with you all the time then something is wrong with YOU. You should learn to trust your partner or breakup if she isn't trustworthy

TheGoodJoe:


I am going to my friend's place and I have decided to pass a night. Is that too hard to tell a boyfriend?

Unless you live together, which it is only fair to tell your partner you won't be coming home. Otherwise, I don't think it's a big deal that is if you don't live together

Why is it a requirement for your girlfriend to seek permission from you before going out? She is an adult, with her own life and her own circle of friends.

Why does she have to justify going anyway with you first? If she isn't your type , that is one who spends her time at home, then leave her

Eniola I pray God will first give you your own runners so you can hit the gym. We'll discuss men after

My brother please marry her, she will be the best woman on earth after marriage when she even has less incentive to be nice.

She will honour you. Now I know why she insults because it's obvious you don't have sense to ask this question with all you've seen and your mum's advice.

I feel sorry for the child

Nigeria better than living in the West oo. They throw nuclear weapons on election day, we only kill few people

Osondi Owendi

DexterousOne:
They are all giving birth abroad
Which is good


one person will be there saying naija go better

They said Nigeria is better than Abroad oo

Younghacka:

Bros Thanks A Bunch.
UPDATE We Have Changed The Course To Pure And Applied Chemistry, If Her CGPA Is Okay By The End Of Her First Year, She Has An Option To Do An Inter Faculty Transfer To Nursing.
Once Again, Thank You All.

Noooooo let her do maths. I swear to you she will get a job in Amazon, Google, Facebook etc. Check their salaries bro

Younghacka:
My Younger Sister Applied For Nursing At A University, Unfortunately Her Score Was Not Up To The Cut-Off.

We Went To The Admission Office Of The School Today Due To A Message She Received And They Offered To Change It To Either:

Pure/Applied Chemistry
Mathematics
Science Education
Physics
Agric Faculty (Crop Prod./Soil Science, Fishery, Animal Science)
.
We Are A Little Confused As To Which Has A Better Career Prospective. Advice Needed Urgently As We Want To Do A Change Of Course Tommorrow.

Thanks.

Mathematics... simply because her choice of career is limitless afterwards...

Some include Software engineering, Database design , Engineering jobs ask for people with STEM degrees (Science, technology, engineering, and mathematics).

Opportunities to travel overseas to study and work if she does well is also limitless

Nothing lasts forever. At some point one of the partners will die after awhile the other partner will die. So even if the relationship is amazing nothing lasts forever. Do your best and make the best out of what you have while you have it