₦airaland Forum

allcomage:
I don't support rape but life jail is no no for me. 10 to 20 is OK, then our corrupt politicians should get life jail for corruption.

ariesbull:
Which is a pure lie ..

I think Nigerians in Asians are far more richer ...especially those In Japan, South Korea and Chinese these sets of Nigerians are core businessmen You can't compare a businessman with a man that is eating hourly wages Nigerians in China, Japan, South Korea or even Vietnam do more of business and are richer ! I know a guy in China that is always ringing his Chinese partners to Nigeria to do business and do importations....Just that Nigerians in these Asians countries don't make noise

A smart Nigerian will prefer Japanese ,North Korean visa to USA or UK cos of business opportunities these countries afford

Dennisochampa:
Bros I know werin I ask... Just as it's weird to ask how much a guy is worth especially on a first date.. That's how some ladies see it as weird for a guy to ask about their age on a first date....

That one no mean say some ladies no go answer... Some go answer but others won't and u won't blame them

ariesbull:
who dash Nigerians ? Is it not the ones wey we dey see here dey drive the normal cars wey we dey drive if they come back ! Bros make Una leave story !

I am not saying that we don't have successful Nigerians in USA but they aren't even upto 10% of the entire Nigerian Americans ! The glass ceiling wouldn't let them !

I have tons of folks, I mean tons of folks from cousins to school mates in different states in USA nothing fantastic they are doing ...many never even build here seff ...Apart from one or two that are medical doctors that's all....

Others are in the street

Beverlyjean:
What I don't understand these days is how people will commit a crime and dim it fit to record and then post it .... that's totally absurd..... it shows that Genz don't know when they do wrong

ariesbull:
salary of 1,000 a day ..dude you just Dey lie that's 30k a month ...lol dey play
than a year ago, up from 20% in 2021 and the highest since at least 2014, per the Federal Reserve.

LoL

maasoap:
Even with the GENCOS and DISCOS, did you read where Oyo state govt was said to have written the NERC that the state wants to exercise her right of the partial ownership? What did that tell you? It clearly showed that running of those companies (GENCOS and DISCOS) had been left for the private sector since 2013 across the nation with exception of IPP.

You deserve that sorry of yours more than anyone if you think power minister, Jonathan and other Nigerians who know that power sector was privatised are ignorants

Dennisochampa:
Quick one, if u meet a lady on a first date and she asks you how much you're worth, be honest.... What will be your thoughts towards such a lady

Dennisochampa:
Have u heard of the saying that it's wrong to ask a woman her age??

It's a popular saying for a reason

obaidan:
Y'all want the privilege a woman gets in traditional marriage/home dynamics but want to deprive the man of the privilege of traditional marriage.
the reason a woman will work is to take care of herself, the reason a man will work is to take of the whole family... yet u people cry that women are deprived in the workplace based on gender. Should the person who is expected to carry the whole family not be given some privileges in pay, growth and all of that?

Dennisochampa:
How would u feel if ladies asked me how much they are worth on a first date??

There are certain impressions u don't create in a first date especially with a lady u wanna get serious with...

Never give her the impression that whatever you claim to feel for her is conditional......
If I'm a lady and u ask for my age on a first date... I'll sure tell you but that will also be the last date!

idahme:
You are talking like you are not in this country, a woman will impose pregnancy on who she wants to impose it on irrespective of wether she had sex with you or not. Someone who has sex with one of her men one week to your marriage can't impose a pregnancy on you? Or you are saying? Women don't care about consequences of their actions when they want to strike, know this and know peace

is decreasing this probability by going for a virgin. I don't believe in no sex before marriage if the girl isn't a virgin. You can't use me and catch cruise

idahme:
"Afterall after wedding, you all can have countless sex" This is one of the biggest lies women tell men but in reality you don't have countless sex in marriage.

Gbadugbakun:
Sweet heart it's ok. I promise to love and to cherish you let's start making babies please. I can't wait.

Karleb:
She should wait a bit. Jesus is coming.

Even tho it's important for a man to be up and doing but not all women are actually after money. It's a shame the ones after money have louder voices that those who care little about such.

My pastor recently shared a story of how his wife was feeding him when he lost his job and his new job wasn't paying enough. It went on for years o until he was back to his feet. This man I'm talking about is in the top ten earners in his local government in Lagos as of today.

wirinet:
Yes countries engage in alliances that serve their strategic objectives, but does it have to be a parasitic relationship? Sucking the life blood out of these poor African countries while giving little or nothing in return. That has been the nature of the relationship between African countries and Europe/US from the very beginning.

Why didn't the US employ the same doctrine of "strategic objectives" when dealing with European countries and Israel? The US spent billions in rebuilding Europe after the devastating war started by European themselves. They created military alliance and spent trillions defending Europe from themselves. They do the same with Israel, spending billions of dollars protecting Israel and helping their economy. But when it comes to Africans countries they remember the doctrine of strategic objectives.

Honoredeblazac:
This is a terrible news for northern Nigeria. The region will become very unsafe. This is the time Tinubu should request their presence in Nigeria. Give them a place in Yobe or Borno to replace what they had in Niger. It’s a very good opportunity for Nigeria

Villa12:
Nigerian men are also culprit. At least the ladies might be prostitute but they're better than Nigerian men that are also into prostitution, Yahoo Yahoo, kidnapping, banditary, bokoharam, herdsmen, hooliganism, streets urchins, pick pocket, ritualist, rapist etc.

Soncare:
Please am Vietnam if theres any nigeria there please give location and update about getting a work

Karleb:
This hypergamy thing doesn't end with money.

There's good look.
Popularity.
Competency.
Youth.

I believe there should be others too.

Let's talk about these too.

lastkingsman:
What recent changes are you referring to?

sonnie10:
When you say a man, I want to believe you mean those between 25- 35 years. The prime of marriageable age.
For a man, lot of factors come into play when it comes to preparing to settle down, most of which would counter the other. Let’s look at just 3 aspects, Finance, education and Job. I will leave the moral and physical aspect because they are highly individualized.
Education: A good education takes time and dedication. A man determined to do well won’t have the time for such relationship. All his energy and resources are dedicated to this course.

Job : Except you are highly connected or favored, getting a good job right out of school is not easy. A few that make it at that point are not really or immediately financially stable. At that point, their focus is on learning this new job environment and requirements.

Finance: This one is the real determinant of a guys stability. The lack of it transcends other areas . Building financial stability is a marathon not a race. At age 25-30, a young man is still learning the ropes, figuring out the paths to stability. Saving and investment is the goal when the money start coming in. They might not be considered attractive , especially when they are not living the lavish life style that most desire .

These is why you would hear that to be a man is not days job.

Gerrard59:
Well, the OP is largely correct as modern-day women are still hypergamous even though they now earn good money and have greater freedoms. The benefits most men would get have been reduced, with nothing to replace those lost benefits. You compete with women in the same school admissions and labour market, etc. There are some industries and roles men cannot even break into simply because women have occupied everywhere. So, women have reaped these benefits WHILE maintaining hypergamy - where as the man, you still have to be at the top of your game financially and societal status.

One would then ask himself, what is the benefit of being a man? Only wealthy men benefit from being men; other men don't share whatever so-called patriarchal benefits feminazis claim male folks enjoy.

In conclusion, the only benefit men derive from marriage is having children within a two-parent household, as wedlock does more harm to both genders and the greater society. Also, having children from different women whom you as the man are not married to is absolutely nonsensical and financially draining. No one should mention sex, as many married men don't even get sex from their wives, and when they do, it is timetable-based. Who makes this timetable? The woman. The reason married men patronise sex workers more than even single men, and I am willing to bet that sexually active married men get less sex while being married than single men who are equally sexually active.

So, where is the benefit?

zed7:
Im always amused to hear young men talk. You think you can handle an equal or higher earning woman? There is a reason men marry below their economic bracket.

Women will rubbish you if you are not favouring them economically. One day, they'll walk out on you, knowing very well they'll be fine without you. Half of the decisions will be taken by them. They will demand equality. You don't want to be in that shoe bro.

Negroid001:
Me and my younger sister were having our usual afternoon gossips and gists and something came up.
I asked after a close friend of hers whom i know to be very affluent and she erupted that i should stop asking after her that she doesn't
As a man, I've set the standard of not getting involved with women below my economic class or earnings and i see nothing wrong with it. If women see marrying above one's class as normal, we men shouldn't accept anyone below par also.

Let's stop fooling ourselves with love shi. Marriages and relationships are transactional.
It's an arrangement and one has to make the best of choices. What are you bringing to the table?
Men, raise your standards!

yemmit90:
Naturally, women determine who to have sex with, that is why we called forceful sex a rape. That says, men don't have power to decide who to have sex with withiout approval of women. If women don't approve, men will back off because failure to do so will land them in trouble. Besides, men don't have natural ability to resist sexual advance when they are in the mood.

So, if women dont go into prostitution, men will only try to win their hearts with love/materials items and not casually offer money to take them to bed.

Women are the real culprits.

If there is real discipline among the girls they will never accept any money for sex.

Gerrard59:
I beg to disagree. It is men because men are the ones demanding for sex. No woman goes to force a man to sleep with her. It is men who seek out to get women. It is a global phenomenon which I illustrated. It is the reason governments cannot outlaw sex services. My stance is these men who wail daily to know that it is their fellow men, rich men, that fuel this demand. Women on their own don't like to fvck random men. It is biological as they are demisexual, but when there is an enormous demand for a service which only you can provide, economics says offer it provided it is legal.

If more men adopt this stance, the supply of women doing hookups will plummet. It is that simple. But as long as there are men who fork out 80K for sexual service rising, these women will continue to be in the business.

It is not the same dynamics because in all cases, economics trumps emotions. Australian politicians don't like Chinese politicians, but because their farmers have to sell their crop produce to China (a major consumer), they are appeasing the Chinese. I don't have to like you before I sell something to you. It is business. If I don't like him, but he offers good money, why not take it? It is the reason people study hard to get into tech. They don't like tech, but because it pays better than other professions, they learn it. Should the salaries of tech workers plummet to that of say teachers, nobody will want to enter the industry.

First, apple-to-oranges. The government can argue that there are alternatives to use, even though they might not be abundant or safe. In hookup's case, there is no natural alternative for a man who wants to fvck. In developed countries, there are suitable alternatives for those who don't have cars or want to drive, and they use them. Should keke become available in Tokyo, no one will use it because trains are ubiquitous and cheaper. Let there be a vast train network in Lagos, I bet you, no one will use an Okada. In return, Okadas will cease to exist. But Nigerian governments being who they are, put the cart before the horse.

Again, I disagree. The women don't sleep with themselves or ghosts. They sleep with fellow men like you and I. Also, I am not arguing it should stop because it cannot due to testosterone. I am not that idealistic. The average man globally likes to fvck.

I mentioned this - reduce poverty rates in Nigeria and most women will see reasons not to engage in hookup because there are plentiful alternatives to earning good money. Remember, they are demisexual. So an opportunity has been made available. Also, to create a functioning society depends on the men in that society, not the women. It is you who stated that "men create the society and women integrate into it".

Zbk001:
Good morning,

Pls what advice would you give someone that want to apply for International accounting and finance (MAcc) or MSc in accounting and finance.

Raalsalghul:
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