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Foreign AffairsRe: Sierra Leone Rejects Koroma's Relocation To Nigeria by Gerrard59(m): 1:08am On Jan 05, 2024
AcuraZDX:
In your next life, don't go down this lane with my moniker because en go bloody.

Even your top strikers know your god is a thief and failure
A rebuttal! grin

To be fair, Peter Obi's supporters' revelations were eye-punching because he was popularised as a messiah on a clean slate.
Foreign AffairsRe: Sierra Leone Rejects Koroma's Relocation To Nigeria by Gerrard59(m): 1:05am On Jan 05, 2024
Shattuck:
😂 😂 you in the north? Remind me again who boko Haram and bandits are using for suya? For some reason you think you not voting peter obi is you punishing me, like play it to your wife before sex, how's that my business. You are funny.
The north determines who becomes president. Whether they suffer from Boko Haram or not, if you don't win their votes, your candidate can never become Nigeria's president. Please learn to respect numbers.
Foreign AffairsRe: Sierra Leone Rejects Koroma's Relocation To Nigeria by Gerrard59(m): 1:03am On Jan 05, 2024
Raskimonojendor:
Same way Peter Obi and his fascist mob were trying to destroy Nigeria after he lost the election. The zombies were praying and requesting that the military stage a coup. They even started supporting military regimes in niger republic. Obidients are indeed demons. All because of a failed hypocritical and religious and tribal bigot yes daddy former Governor.
Even though you are notable tribalist, I find those posts to be hilarious and soul searching. So Obi was that bad? shocked
Foreign AffairsRe: Thoughts On Israel, Palestine, & Gaza by Gerrard59(m): 6:06pm On Jan 04, 2024
nairalanda1:
Okay. Now go and create your thread on matters that concern you. Neither Seun nor I would stop you. Leave us hypocrites alone in our hypocrisy.
The burial of a your fellow Nigerian being buried without a head: https://twitter.com/pwajok_jane/status/1742912131278717029

When would you be interested in the killings which happened in your backyard than something which happens far away even when the people involved don't like you?!
Foreign AffairsRe: Thoughts On Israel, Palestine, & Gaza by Gerrard59(m): 4:41pm On Jan 04, 2024
nairalanda1:
Okay. Now go and create your thread on matters that concern you. Neither Seun nor I would stop you. Leave us hypocrites alone in our hypocrisy.
Create a thousand threads, and it would not stop what has existed before anyone on this thread was a zygote. Care more about what happens in your backyard!
Foreign AffairsRe: Thoughts On Israel, Palestine, & Gaza by Gerrard59(m): 3:08pm On Jan 04, 2024
Promise47:
the inhumane treatments meted towards black migrants by Tunisian, Libyan and Moroccan authorities exactly this was what I was telling one Algeria guy that there country is racist but he said they aren't racist I said okay no whalah
Those clowns are profound ignoramuses who believe because they profess the same religion as those Middle Easterners, then they will be seen as the same or even accorded basic human rights. Ignorant people who think the white man was excessively brutal against black people should read about the Trans-Saharan Slave Trade, which still covertly exists till today. It was in 2007 that Mauritania outlawed slavery. Which white dominated country still trades in slaves?
Foreign AffairsRe: Thoughts On Israel, Palestine, & Gaza by Gerrard59(m): 3:07pm On Jan 04, 2024
nairalanda1:
Well, you can create your own topics on the matters you are concerned about, and people will come

But for now, leave this thread for those of us interested in the topic.
Yeah. Being more Catholic than the Pope. Awon caring citizen. Never bothered about what happens in his backyard, but amplify the issues of those who don't like him. Internet Jesus Christ!

If you were an American or Qatari, I for say it is appropriate. What stake do you have in this fight sef?!

"Those of us interested in the topic". Kukuma join the IDF or Hamas while at it.
Foreign AffairsRe: Thoughts On Israel, Palestine, & Gaza by Gerrard59(m): 2:54pm On Jan 04, 2024
nairalanda1:
He does not need to. Others too create threads about such issuses.

God knows how many threads have been created on various Nigerian crisis, it get's old sometimes.

And anyway, why bother about other African states? there is some form of hating there., lol.
Charity begins at home, where the founder of the most visited forum owned by a Nigerian ought to amplify the atrocities against fellow Nigerians and even Christians since his papa is a pastor. How many times has the news of butchered black Sudanese graced the airwaves in Egypt, Libya, Morocco etc?

"Why should we not bother about other African states?"

We have more in common with someone from Congo and Burkina Faso than anyone from anywhere in the Middle East. Recently, young Nigerian women have lamented bitterly about their experiences in Morocco as tourists. Why has your darling Seun not amplified their tweets on his forum? Or are the lives of Palestinians who CLEARLY DON'T LIKE BLACK PEOPLE REGARDLESS OF RELIGION more important than how his fellow Nigerians, women for that matter, are treated?

Does he like Palestinian terrorists who FIRST ATTACKED Israel more than Nigerian women?
Foreign AffairsRe: Thoughts On Israel, Palestine, & Gaza by Gerrard59(m): 2:48pm On Jan 04, 2024
God1000:
This conflict has exposed a lot of things and people as well.

I also condemned what Hamas did on October 7th but the response from Israel which has killed over 22,000 Palestinians and the insensitive and sadistic comments from some christians everyday is more shocking
I did a search on your moniker and discovered you only mentioned Southern Kaduna once after being continuously asked why haven't you condemned the butchering of fellow Nigerians within Nigeria by Islamic terrorists. A "Christian" who is more concerned about people who clearly don't like him, but never concerned about his fellow Christians and even fellow Nigerians who have been maimed, kidnapped and slaughtered like suya across Nigeria.

Ndito being more Catholic than the Pope!
Foreign AffairsRe: Thoughts On Israel, Palestine, & Gaza by Gerrard59(m): 2:41pm On Jan 04, 2024
Seun, whose father is a pastor, has NEVER created a thread concerning the conflicts in Plateau, Southern Kaduna, Benue (where over 200 lives were burnt to ashes while the feudalist incompetent man of a Buhari was president), Congo, Sudan (where Arab Islamic terrorists are slaughtering black indigenes) or the inhumane treatments meted towards black migrants by Tunisian, Libyan and Moroccan authorities. Heck, Seun has NEVER used his platform to voice out the inhumane treatment by Egyptian Airlines towards Nigerian customers or even contributed to the recent expose by Nigerian women who were tourists in Morocco.

He is more concerned about conflicts which existed before he was born and WOULD still be there till thy kingdom comes. How many Palestinians have voiced out about the killings of Nigerians in Zamfara? I specifically mentioned there since the victims are Muslims. How many Moroccans have bothered to know how black Sudanese Muslims are fairing? Why should you, a Nigerian, a black man, be bothered about people WHO CLEARLY DON'T LIKE YOU? Don't you have a sense of pride and dignity?
RomanceRe: Why Are Men No Longer Persistent When Wooing Ladies? by Gerrard59(m): 2:26pm On Jan 04, 2024
matify83:
No TIME to waste TIME .


New WORDS have crept into women's dictionary over time and no man wants to fall prey to their antics.

WORDS like "Cyber troll, stalker, harassment " has made men wiser and wouldn't want to continue pushing after a lady has said NO.

OR Is there another part of NO that we don't understand?
WeNoGoDie:
The #metoo harassment movement and also the fact that ladies made themselves very cheap because of the hookup culture of making quick and costly demands from men and the men demanding they quickly get what they want since he's meeting her financial demands.
Exactly! The same women who complain of such are the same women who would chant that a NO is a NO. Why then are they mystified that men adhere to the rules they put in place? In a world where private chats are shown to the world, young men should be extra careful. Because in the chats, a NO was clearly stated. Netizens would ask, why did you go against what she stated? Imagine losing all you have worked for because you no gree for woman wey don tell you NO in the first place?
RomanceRe: Why Are Men No Longer Persistent When Wooing Ladies? by Gerrard59(m): 2:20pm On Jan 04, 2024
Acidosis:
Men do that when they have several alternatives.

Some men are still persistent though. Men who know what they want.
Those men should be cautious; if not, they will termed "abusers", "sexual molesters" and the numerous mumbo-jumbo names on TwitterNG. But honestly, why would a man pester a woman for so long? It tells me she does not fancy or like him. Why date someone who doesn't like you as a person?
PoliticsRe: Why Are Black People Behind The World? by Gerrard59(m): 2:05am On Jan 04, 2024
Sunnyconvo:
Hello all,

Why is every large community of black people in this world behind? Africa is a country with a majority of black people and it is known all around the world as a third world continent and is used as an example of world hunger.

In America here, black people are only about 14% of the population yet they are responsible for over 50% of the crimes committed. Yes I know we have dealt with racism and colonization but can this really give such a hard blow to an entire people like this? Moreover, why did we suffer from colonization and slavery in the first place. What was it with us that we could not stand strong as a nation? Was it really a bad hand that led to almost an entire people being colonized or enslaved?
Well, blacks are not the only ones to suffer from colonisation and slavery. Chinese and Indians experienced similar atrocities. As for your observation, you are not alone. I don observe am tey tey.
RomanceRe: Regular Girls Have Higher Body Count Than Olosho! by Gerrard59(m): 2:02am On Jan 04, 2024
Jerkbaba:
Everytime i see all these stupid men taking all these regular girls on outings i just laugh! They think they're the first to fvuck that pussy! grin . They dont know these prostitutes in disguise that call themselves church girl have twice the body count of that of olosho even ashawo & olosho combine together! Regular girls are the worst predenters ever! And for some off you that don't know who regular girls are, let me define that for you! Regular girls (Ashawo in disguise) are the type of girls you find in banks, churches, or any other work place and even homes living with their parents that pretend to be virgins and holy! They are the worst type of females you'll ever meet in this life! If most of them open up to you and tell you their body count, you will never believe it! angry. That's why i hate them so much! It's only olosho i fvuck when kongi come my way! For you stupid men dating all these regular girls, my advise for you is end it there & now! They're playing you! Know this and know peace!
OP seems pained that men like him are taking their girlfriends out for dates and lunches while he is left with sex workers. You made your choice. Why are you angry at the choices made by other men? Weren't you taught to live and let others live? Did anyone stop you from patronising sex workers? OK, fine, "regular girls" are also promiscuous. What are you going to do about it? Call on Tinubu to subsidise regular girls? Ban them? Form a commodity price control board? Whathuh?

Something tells me you cannot afford to take girls out, even on random dates. Something tells me you don't have platonic female friends you even gist with randomly. Something tells me you don't have money even to live a comfortable life. Something tells me you will cry if you hear that some men spend 100K per night to have sex with sex workers.

Better go and find something useful to do with your life than lamenting and wailing about what other men decide to use their money for.

Ikot Ekpene alfa meil!
TravelRe: Should I Keep My Federal Job Or Travel to the U.K by Gerrard59(m): 1:55am On Jan 04, 2024
gmacnoms:
Well, I walked into the uk a few months ago and started “making money” in your language, in less than 30 days. Money enough to pay my bills. Not the type of bills paid in Nigeria with zero value.

The uk is not a bed of roses, but compared to Nigeria, it is beds full of roses.

200k*4 salary should not even be enough to make one think twice of leaving town hall.
OP is a federal government worker. We need to know the skills he has to present to employers during interviews. Abi employers for UK no dey consider skills again?
FamilyRe: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by Gerrard59(m): 11:52pm On Jan 03, 2024
Rukevwe999:
It's also vice-versa for the men. Guys forget any fantasy you have about dating a whites, asians or Latinas - the dating pool is very racist. Unless you've got money or have naturalized into their society, your best options are still Nigerian and other African women. As a black African man it's hard to find a young white girl to get into a relationship with, especially with the atrocities some of our men commit over there. As a black man you're at a disadvantage because she could easily put you into trouble and the government who is always on their side would take away everything you've worked hard for. Hear me, their women are obsessed with equality and would not tolerate your domineering nature or any other trash like our Nigerian women do. That is why passport bros are becoming a trend over there because even their men getting frustrated with them. Marry from your race and nationality abeg. We are in this together.
What would TeamForeignWomen say now? grin grin

I knew these things after some quick analysis. Thank God for my parents who did their best to ensure I got properly educated. cool
TravelRe: Nigerian Beaches Have Lost Its Glory. My Journey To Oniru Beach by Gerrard59(m): 11:50pm On Jan 03, 2024
Interesting comments.

So it is beaches in neighbouring countries then, not Nigeria. But I think the Ibeno beach is free of charge for entry.
TravelRe: Nigerian Beaches Have Lost Its Glory. My Journey To Oniru Beach by Gerrard59(m): 10:48pm On Jan 03, 2024
Worldkokoroko:
I have been to beaches in lagos, cotonou, lome, ghana and ivory coast.

My favorite two are labadi and kokrobite beach, maybe due to a funny experience i may add monogaga in ivory coast.

I normally think we Nigerians dont have this beach culture unlike our neighbors.
Kokrobite, you will just be seeing these ghana babes with big big bakasi rushing and cueing for banku and okra soup eith jist bikini.


Its 100 percent herbal and 90 percent bitter kola made without any side effects
#kokorokoman.
Nigerians are religious hypocritical than our neighbours regarding certain aspects such as wearing bikinis. You see people criticising girls for wear bikinis to pool parties as if they should have worn buba.
FamilyRe: Does A Woman Earning More Than The Husband Affect The Marriage? by Gerrard59(m): 1:11pm On Jan 03, 2024
saasala:
The major reason the marriage of our parents lasted till eternity is because our fathers were the sole or major breadwinners of the family.

The reason marriages nowadays crash easily is because women now bring something tangible to the table. This is the major reasons marriages in Western countries don't last because women now have a say.

I just laugh when I see Nairaland guys saying "Nigerian women don't bring anything to the table" Like can you handle them when they start bringing something to the table?

I will rather not want my wife to bring anything to the table or bring something very small to the table. I only need her to be a good wife, take care of the home, the kids and be submissive. That's all a woman needs to do.

Nature has not designed a woman to be a leader. The moment they earn more than you, then they become the leader which is abnormal, and since they are not wired to lead, they will crumble the ship and scatter the building.

As much as people get divorced in Nigeria, we are still among the least divorced countries in the world but the numbers are climbing up because a lot of men are asking "What is she bringing to the table?"

I understand that the economy isn't helping matters and the make up of the 21st century generally has made it possible for both men and women to work and anyone can earn more than the other, and this is a pandemic.

Women are designed to worship their men, respect them, take care of the home and the kids.

As a man, you are a king and your wife is the Queen. Queens don't work, they only look beautiful for the king to admire and they don't have any say in the house. And they dare not question the king for having concubines or taking more wives.

Men, work hard, work very hard so you can take care of your home and stop waiting for your wife to bring something to the table. You can't handle that table.

My wife is just here enjoying herself. She is respectful and takes care of the home and when she catches me cheating, she can only cry. I will pet her and beg her and go back to my cheating. And the day she cheats, she is going back to her father's house while I take another wife.
Wouldn't you love Nairaland? grin grin grin grin grin grin
TravelRe: Japa: UK Stops Nigerian Students, Others From Bringing Dependants. by Gerrard59(m): 1:08pm On Jan 03, 2024
Mayplays:
The same person kept replying that if that one no work them go enter another one, the fact that I share a passport with people that brag about leaving their country for others hurts me so deep, sometimes I tear up and wish I was from another African nation

You don’t see other Africans embarrassing themselves like this, we are everywhere like cockroaches, like our nation is war torn

Imagine some extremely poor country joking on their sites that they will soon enter Nigeria and act like they own the place, it is so extremely annoying
To be fair, migration is as old as mankind. The Chinese and Indians migrate more than we do to distant places across the world. The issue with our migration is that Nigeria, our home country, is not doing as well/progressing as the other two countries. Chinese immigrants are respected across the world.
TravelRe: Japa: UK Stops Nigerian Students, Others From Bringing Dependants. by Gerrard59(m): 1:06pm On Jan 03, 2024
ednut1:
usa doesn’t allow dependants follow study visa 🙄
I think the US does. But the dependent would not be allowed to work on a dependent visa.
CelebritiesRe: Portable Accuses His Baby Mama Of Sleeping With MC Oluomo’s Aide, Koko Zaria by Gerrard59(m): 12:47pm On Jan 03, 2024
Segxydube:
He didnt complain about the lady sleeping around... He only said she should not carry his baby to club. If u watch d video u will see they were even passing the baby around in d club.
He only has a say or control over the baby's whereabouts as a married man, not a babydaddy. Once you do babymama, expect anyhow arrangements. Baby mamaism or daddyism equates to instability.
CelebritiesRe: Portable Accuses His Baby Mama Of Sleeping With MC Oluomo’s Aide, Koko Zaria by Gerrard59(m): 12:44pm On Jan 03, 2024
IamMobisola:
She is his baby mama, not his wife. She's allowed to sleep with anyone. Has he himself not been sleeping around?.
Tell them! There is no contract binding both parties together. She has the right to do whatever she wants. The right to choose.
CelebritiesRe: Portable Accuses His Baby Mama Of Sleeping With MC Oluomo’s Aide, Koko Zaria by Gerrard59(m):
What do Team Babymama have to say? grin

When we say the best environment for raising children is a two-parent household, those who have never read an article on The Economist go dey talk nonsense.
Christianity EtcRe: Sam Adeyemi To Older Generation: Get Nigeria To Work, Youths Won’t Keep Silent by Gerrard59(m): 12:40pm On Jan 03, 2024
Ironbull:
P

The political ideology obi brought can never stand as per 2023. You can't bully anyone into power
You can't insult me, my father, my tribe and my region, my elders and yet want my votes, who does that? You can't played tribal and religion bigotry in a society like Nigeria and expect support? Sorry it won't work.
But was it Peter Obi that stated "Emi Lokan", hired fake pastors and ran on a Muslim-Muslim ticket in a country with roughly 50:50 Christian & Muslim citizens?

This kind of gaslighting eh.
Christianity EtcRe: Sam Adeyemi To Older Generation: Get Nigeria To Work, Youths Won’t Keep Silent by Gerrard59(m): 12:37pm On Jan 03, 2024
Omooba77:
https://www.channelstv.com/2024/01/02/youths-wont-keep-silent-for-long-adeyemi-tells-older-generation/
He is right. My Nostradamus by name tensazangetsu20 predicted that the upcoming generation will kill their parents or thoroughly question them for birthing in Nigeria should the country's situation worsen.

Thing be say Tensa20 has rarely failed in his predictions.
PoliticsRe: Only Those That Are Financially Rich Can End Bad Leadersip In Nigeria by Gerrard59(m): 12:26pm On Jan 03, 2024
Gerrard59:
Culture and ethnic/racial demographics play major roles in nation-building and cohesion. The vast majority of cultures in Nigeria are not pragmatic, egalitarian, enterprising, hard-working and promote integrity. Additionally, Nigeria has too many ethnic groups, creating a divisive society full of mistrust, disharmony and disunity. Looking at examples globally, the most successful/prosperous societies are those where the dominant ethnic/racial group promotes pragmatism, egalitarianism, entrepreneurship, hard work and integrity. In return, the most homogenous out of them tend to be the most successful, peaceful and safest as this homogeneity endears trust, peace and harmony. Examples abound globally and within Africa. So, if you expect component parts of Nigeria to be prosperous, you know what should be done.
FamilyRe: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by Gerrard59(m): 12:21pm On Jan 03, 2024
Mayplays:
Even in those countries, girls that dress like that are not seen as the cream of the crop, it’s just that everyone is well to do so it doesn’t matter
I am a fan of mini-skirts and shorts, but I am forced to agree with you about the bold. I am yet to see medical students dress like that. They are very conservative. Also, you are correct that the issue of some black women dressing scantily has to do with poverty, both financial and mental.

You made great points. Well done!
CareerRe: Is 400k Job In Nigeria Worth Staying Or Should I Japa? by Gerrard59(m): 12:18pm On Jan 03, 2024
Elsucre24:
I will be 31 this year. Omo the age is scaring me and I keep feeling like I’m not doing enough. I have a stable job in the private sector with a 400k monthly salary. But I still feel the impact of the economy badly. I keep asking myself, at what point will I start living the good live?
I feel stock sometimes because my job is very demanding and I almost do not have time to do other things, mind you I’m in the medical field and I work Mondays to Sundays most times but occasionally I have some Sundays to myself and sometimes a day off during the week. I can’t seem to be able to start a business as a side hustle cause most of the side hustles I can think will demand my presence at least for the first few months and I don’t really have that.
My girlfriend is pregnant, I really wanna keep it but she’s not ready, I’m not even sure I’m ready. The only way she can keep it is if I’m going to get married to her before the pregnancy starts showing and I’m as confused as hell cos I don’t know if I’m ready. She has always been vocal of her p

Thank y’all.
Remain in Nigeria. If you wanted to japa especially at your age and being in the medical field, you should have used protection.

BTW, was she the same person here?: https://www.nairaland.com/7625734/please-im-emotional-attached-she
TravelRe: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 9 by Gerrard59(m): 6:05am On Jan 03, 2024
Biola67:
See mouth like Canada and Australia… put body for the processing first na. Una think say na by mouth. Who no like Canada and Australia before
Please let them be. When they are mid-way into the process and calculate how much they have spent with almost no headway, nobody go tell them. He even mentioned Germany. Jesus! grin grin

We wey don under-study immigration policies of almost all developed countries know where to put head. Others are mentioning Germany and Finland.

I will be here to do the usual. grin grin
FamilyRe: Dear Naira Landers, Please I Need Thoughtful Opinion On This Matter (please ) by Gerrard59(m): 5:59am On Jan 03, 2024
OP would come to the reality of why his female age peers marry earlier than their male counterparts. It is biological and evolutionary. I don't see anything wrong with it. As a man, you are expected to be the provider regardless of where you are. Earning the ability to provide for and protect your family takes time, which is still nascent at your current level. Due to prevailing globalisation, competition for fewer jobs and "modernity", women are expected to "contribute". However, women, being hypergamous species, have not changed the need/desire for a provider and protector as qualities they want in a husband.

My own problem is that by the time you are in your thirties, your female contemporaries who didn't marry when they were much younger would begin to parrot mumbo-jumbo terms such as "paedophile" when you target women in their twenties for relationships. Note: these are the same women who told you to your face that your wife is in SS3 because they cannot date men at the same level as them. Fine by me. But don't expect me to date you in your thirties. You cannot deride me when we were much younger and then, expect me to put up with your antics because you did not marry earlier.

OP, apologies for my rants. But na the nonsense wey I dey read on TwitterNG and black American Twitter where women in their 30s try to guilt their male contemporaries to date them whereas they expressly told these men to avoid them when both parties were in their 20s.

I detest dishonest people, especially those who try to change the goalpost in the middle of the game.
FamilyRe: JAPA: Marry Your Man Before Coming To The UK - Nigerian Lady Advises by Gerrard59(m): 5:46am On Jan 03, 2024
Mayplays:
Our hair is the most unique in the world, if utilized well, everyone will begin to copy us

You wear freakishly long nails and freakishly long lashes, how do you do simple chores at home and what place of work allows that?

You are almost always dressed half naked, how does your community, your colleagues and your family feel comfortable around you?

You take a picture and we can hardly focus on your face that triggers warmth and real affection in a man’s heart, you always have to show your ass which you feel is the only thing that can attract a man

This in turn only attracts men that want to sleep with you which you are happy about because you know he will do anything like spend money on you, a man compliments you and the only thing he has to say is about your body and you are feeling yourself

Then you wonder why the rest of the world cannot take you seriously and view you as something just for sex and vibes

It all just points to poverty
You made great points about black women's desirability regarding dressing. However, I think it is cultural because, in East Asia, it is perfectly OK for young women to wear short skirts and shorts showing their thighs brazenly. The shorts are so short. Yet, the men don't mind and actually love it. Although, there exists a category that dresses like Deeper Life Women. Basically, half dress like Deeper Life, the other half like Christ Embassy. This is more prevalent among Koreans and Japanese. The Chinese tend to be a little bit conservative. Something like RCCG or Catholic Churches women.

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