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CelebritiesRe: BBNaija's Chichi Shows Off Her Buttocks As She Marks Her 23rd Birthday (Pix) by Gerrard59(m): 3:55am On Jan 11, 2023
My issue with this kind of yansh is that it is artificial. It seems there are many artificial yanshes in that part of the country. Thank goodness the madness has not reached the part my family is based. Alternatively, Southern Africa is always available.

BTW, ChiChi was a stripper at Silver Lounge before BBNaija, so nothing surprising.
CelebritiesRe: BBNaija's Chichi Shows Off Her Buttocks As She Marks Her 23rd Birthday (Pix) by Gerrard59(m): 3:53am On Jan 11, 2023
Buddha3:
Calm down!

He's not wrong. Chichi went under the knife for whatever resources she's throwing in your face now. To think she's even claiming 23 when pictures of her old face from 8 to 10years ago are on Facebook, is even the annoying part.
Which means she should be in her thirties. shocked She better cash-out from this hustle cos e get expiry date o.
TravelRe: Can I Visit An Embassy To Enquire About Their Country's Intl Scholarships? by Gerrard59(m): 2:38am On Jan 11, 2023
Akwukalia:
Go to Twitter and follow pages like
@Oludeewon, @wakawaka_doctor, @Opedia3 @FinaNapoleon from there you can see other suggested handles. You will see schools(with links) with scholarship opportunities in the US, UK, the Netherland, Sweden, China, Japan & S. Korea, etc. Then comeback to nairaland and read reviews about the country's visa process, duration and success rate
If you notice, he did not quote you but quoted the random bloke who claims to be an embassy official. Yet he claims he is intelligent. I won't be surprised his type supports Tinubu and Buhari.
TravelRe: Can I Visit An Embassy To Enquire About Their Country's Intl Scholarships? by Gerrard59(m): 2:36am On Jan 11, 2023
Regex:
Sure, go ahead, it is better than being poached by these hungry visa agents
They will tell him that the information is online, and if he is not in Abuja or Lagos, that is a total waste of money. Also, one does not need an agent to do anything regarding travel. It is totally unnecessary. Additionally, no security personnel will allow him entry without an invitation. My friend who got a fully-funded scholarship cannot go to the Canadian embassy to ask why it is taking so long for IRCC to respond to his application even after submitting all documents. But one random bloke believes he would be attended to because he wants to know which scholarships are offered by the country. undecided

Last I checked, embassy officials are not unemployed!
TravelRe: Can I Visit An Embassy To Enquire About Their Country's Intl Scholarships? by Gerrard59(m): 2:31am On Jan 11, 2023
Banilla:
Oh! How would I know? I came here to ask, that means I'm more than intelligent. I don't know everything and I'm willing to learn. The way most of you behave, it shows how badly you were brought up.
You are not intelligent. If you were remotely intelligent, you should have taken the first advice by Tensa20. You don't have to visit an embassy to inquire about available scholarships, it is not done anywhere. During this covid period, you need an invitation to be at an embassy. Even if you get attended to, you will be told to check online for information. EVERYTHING IS ONLINE!

Most importantly, undergraduate scholarships are very scarce and uber-competitive. Do you have straight As in WASSCE? Have you written SAT? IB? What are your scores? Have you written IELTS/TOEFL? Again, everything is online. The same bandwidth you used in creating this thread and posting stoopid replies would have been used to do a simple Google search "UK undergraduate scholarships", "scholarships in the US for undergraduate studies for international students" etc. It is so simple. That is what I did recently. I Googled "scholarships for international students in Japan", got to the page, downloaded the PDF and checked one by one for the requirements and announcement dates. I wrote down the ones I qualified for. The following week, I applied to two and got them. That is how you show intelligence, not mentioning the Mod as if you want him to come and beat the respondents.

BTW, which secondary school did you finish from?
FamilyRe: From 55k Salary To 125k God Is Wonderful by Gerrard59(m): 2:21am On Jan 11, 2023
Like the men above have stated, you don't need any more kids. If possible, later in the year, start saving so that you undergo vasectomy. The average Nigerian man will begin to indulge in extra-marital affairs once change enter him hand, and in your case, you will stay alone. The next thing we will read is body no be firewoood. So to prevent unwanted pregnancies both at home and abroad, ensure you take measures.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Gerrard59(m): 5:27pm On Jan 08, 2023
shegzhkn:
@ the bolded - let me guess this is largely due to the progress made by the Aryan race, am I right??
I don't know how it connects to the Aryan race, but since white men dominated societies by colonising countries and regions, plundered some wealth by the way and built functioning societies, they became admired and renowned globally. Humans generally admire the features of prosperous people. Through that, the white man gets love and attraction anywhere he goes. He is seen as economically viable for procreation, intelligent and offers stability. So, a South Korean woman would rather stick with a white man since she knows her offspring will have better options than with a black man. The same across all regions. Shey even Ramlot stated it - a black man is seen as a poor person at an initial glance until a conversation is made to distinguish whether he is African American or black African. An African American is viewed differently from a black African, especially when it comes to procreation and stability. Questions arise: if I follow him back home, would I maintain my standard of living over there? Can a Swiss woman afforded all the amenities and living standards maintain her lifestyle if she follows her Nigerian man home? She go fit see work wey go dey like the one she has in Basel?

First-generation Nigerians especially the men aren't really the prize as most people think. This might be different in a place like Australia and Canada due to the nature of their immigration policies, but those are exceptions not the norm.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Gerrard59(m): 5:15pm On Jan 08, 2023
Bossjakande:
I dont tink it will be hard for naija girls. Dey can get a naija other African or a white guy to sex Dem even witout money.but is harder for guys even in naija if u dont have money u can neva get a girl for sex not to talk say ur in Canada were a white girl wont even talk to u
Women are largely demisexual, so they see sex differently from men. Also, some of the approaches will be from non-black men who have fetish they want to accomplish by fvcking a black woman. Since there are more black men than black women in the abroad, this induces a scarcity of black women in the abroad, especially outside North America/Western Europe. Also, in the west, remember, you have black women who have been part of the system. So, it won't be easy for an Adenike or Ngozi of yesterday to start competing with a Sharon born and bred in the US/Canada/UK. The Nigerian girl will lose out. In non-black societies, she becomes a fetish - which to her is not good. In return, she sef is not interested in her black African brother because he has nothing to offer in the meantime.

Yes, it is hard without money to get a woman in Nigeria, but even with money, it becomes harder to get a woman in the abroad. Your money is nothing to her. The same job you do, she does it. Besides, she is privileged as a citizen making her get the best opportunities you cannot access on a student's visa. You think I can use money to attract a Japanese girl that flocks shopping malls every weekend with money she got from highly paid part-time jobs? shocked How much do you think I have? grin Or you think a dude who went to study in Switzerland or Norway can use money to entice the Swiss/Norwegian girl? grin

I am glad OP created this topic as I wanted doing the same, but lack of experience in western societies held me from doing so.

Las las, we go marry ourselves upon the Ndi alfa meil and feminism on social media.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Gerrard59(m): 5:02pm On Jan 08, 2023
pocohantas:
The fact that he included himself in the ugly men. To be sincere, the face of the recent immigrants are so strong. All of them o. Don’t you see their YouTube videos? Always complaining about snow and whatnot.

Someone I know traveled to the UK. She is in her mid 30s and it is the same complain. Mind you, my male friends complain too. Only that the guys are more realistic and open to dating back home. The ladies (including this one I know) are seriously cherrypicking. Nigerians hate themselves too much.
The average Nigerian man is ugly. That is one hill I will die on. I had a comfortable life in Nigeria. Now, imagine it for people who hustled under sun, rain, inhaled generator fumes, sat in go-slow etc., before they japa'd. It was through pictures of males in that Facebook group that I realised our men are not really handsome. Our women are finer even without make-up.

Thank God you attested to the recent folks in the UK. Their face too strong with lots of railway-like marks on them. Without money, those men won't even have partners in Nigeria. The one who got a girlfriend after downloading 24 apps was literally the most handsome. Even the interviewer was not handsome. A lot of re-fining would be needed for at least five years to change the narrative at least facially.

Inhaling generator fumes for more 25 years has effects on facial looks.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Gerrard59(m): 2:12pm On Jan 08, 2023
tensazangetsu20:
Like you get I am fat and I cant see my dick and I can still get laid in naija. Abroad what will be my fate. I just pray tinubu can make Nigeria good o.

RomanceRe: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Gerrard59(m): 2:08pm On Jan 08, 2023
Raalsalghul:
Na wa oh!

Guy man go dey curse him existence now. cry

Gerr.ard59, this is the more reason you shouldn't blame some men when they want to come home and "Bleep all the baddest bitches" with foreign currency earned over the years Their eyes don see something.

I saw you calling out one the other day. cheesy
I recall that post of mine when I met a Gambian lady recently, Man! See yansh and breasts! That was when my hypothesis that if you were born and raised in a black-dominated society for at least 25 years and later relocate to a non-black society, you will always yearn for some features found in that black-dominated society came to fore. This Gambian lady had the features of a typical black African woman. I have met a Jamaican lady, and she did not wow as this Gambian lady did. However, all the black women I have come across had typical features you would expect in a black woman. In fact, at that moment, I forgave Nairaland men who said one of the best things to enjoy in Nigeria as a rich person is the availability of sexual partners. With what I saw, I see why some men plan travelling to parts of sub-Saharan Africa just to fvck.

The day I saw a Japanese girl (could have been Korean who knows) at the train station that had bigger than usual boobs, I murmured see breasts! shocked shocked E no dey common. So, when you see one, you praise Master Jesus.

So yes, I forgive them for I did not know what they have gone through. Now, I understand. cry
RomanceRe: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Gerrard59(m): 2:07pm On Jan 08, 2023
Neddstark:
If you're a real nigga who knows how to woo a woman, even if you're in Saudi Arabia getting pússy will never be a big problem.

Its Nigerian women that suffer this.
This is how you would get into trouble. You think abroad is Nigeria where you stop women along the road anyhow or walk up to a stranger and ask for number? You even used Saudi Arabia to buttress your post. It is like you don't like yourself. I am not fazed by it because I was used to it while in Nigeria, but what the OP said is true, and it is extreme in societies with very few black people. Even at that, black ladies are not interested in most black guys. If this can happen in the UK, imagine the same in Finland, Norway etc. The black men who might score chicks will be African Americans who by virtue of being American citizens, are seen as top-class men.

But for a black African man? grin grin grin
TravelRe: Canada Will Humble You, I Miss Cheap Nigerian Pussies: Pictures by Gerrard59(m): 1:59pm On Jan 08, 2023
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RomanceRe: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Gerrard59(m): 1:42pm On Jan 08, 2023
siofra:
Well if I'm still a virgin at 31, I'm sure I'll do fine. Sex is not important, it doesn't make one whole.

As for relationships, you can join groups with people with the same interests like you like a book club, kayaking, sky diving, hiking, camping. It must not be a romantic relationship, platonic relationships are fine.
This is something most tend to overlook. The issue is these men have had countless sexual intercourses while in Nigeria, so being in an environment where they cannot replicate or repeat those intercourses gets them hormonally imbalanced. While in Nigeria, I did not involve in sexual intercourse even when I had the opportunity, so being here and getting none does not bother me one bit. Whereas my guy is planning to bring his girlfriend over once he is done with his studies because in his words "kongi wan kill man especially in this winter".

To be honest though, if one is used to sex, winter is a terribly bad time if one is not getting a fair dose of it.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Gerrard59(m): 1:37pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:
Women can get sex as much as they want no matter how ugly they look because men are thirsty. But women don't just want just sex, they what the love, care, attention and the commitment. But you ain't finding these in the abroad as an average black woman if you are not extremely beautiful
This is true, and it is worse in East Asia. When I met a Gambian who said she dates a Japanese, I was stunned. Even white women have it worse in East and South East Asia as their white brothers are swooned over by Asian females. So you can imagine it for black females. It is why anytime I recall the female Nairalander who chose Hong Kong instead of Canada because Canada is boring, I dey burst laugh. grin grin

https://vagabondish.com/female-foreign-japan/ A tale of a white woman who lived in Japan.

White men are really privileged. Their grandparents tried for them.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Gerrard59(m): 1:25pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:
Lastly, forget about using your money to score a chick. Hypergamy and feminism is crazy, you will fail and you still won't get sex. Same apply to a woman

I'm sorry, but someone needs to debunk some lies we say here about white chick wanting black dick, no they don't want you, and that happen 99% of the time unless you really have the look game, look young, and work out that your chest is basically obvious
I stated the same few weeks ago:

Gerrard59:
That depends on the kind of woman o. In ranking order, the white man is revered worldwide and is higher than his black counterpart (thanks to their great-grandparents who dominated the world). To get the top class women in developed countries as a black African male migrant takes a whole lot - education, mannerisms, spoken language, career etc. Add the fact that most Nigerian men are ugly (myself included), some due to the suffer-head conditions they faced in Nigeria, and it gets worse. One literally has to be a Tidjane Thiam to stand a chance. It might be better in the US and other countries with a substantial black population, but in places where the black population is very minute, e get as e be. So, when they say "Nigerian men are loved in the abroad", certain questions should be asked.

- What calibre of women "love" Nigerian men?
- Which countries do they come from?
- What are the profiles of these women (height, facial looks, educational attainment, career etc)?
So, when they say "Nigerian men are loved in the abroad", I am always curious. The vast majority of Nigerian men are ugly (myself included), and this worsens the situation. I have watched videos from recent japa folks in the UK, with the kind of faces they have, I see why fvck eludes them. Nigerian men are not handsome, people should not be deceived by it. I noticed this in a relationship Facebook group I am a member of - almost the dudes were not good-looking compared to the ladies (even without makeup).
EducationRe: Covenant University To Build School Of Law & Medicine With N6 Billion - Oyedepo by Gerrard59(m): 8:24am On Jan 08, 2023
Nigeria's Harvard!

CU can be a good place for diasporans to send their children to get to know Nigeria and the attendant ethnic culture better.
FamilyRe: My Neighbor Has The Weirdest Marriage Ever by Gerrard59(m): 11:14pm On Jan 05, 2023
Braintaf23:
See mumu, y’all think of everything as a conspiracy
Modafcker! Don't mind your business. Keep putting your rotten face into another man's yansh!

Cretinous fvcktard!
TravelRe: Canada Breaks Record By Welcoming Over 437,000 New Immigrants In 2022 by Gerrard59(m): 11:12pm On Jan 05, 2023
ednut1:
passport held, they have stats for country of residence of total applicants. See below . in 2021 for example total Nigerians- 6550, total Nigerians living in Nigeria 4066.

This is just express entry sha doesn't include spouse, children and refugees.
Thanks for the clarification.

Indians choke o shocked shocked The figures are staggering!

Wetin South Koreans dey find for Canada sef? huh I would really like to know the reasons Australians (1K+) and Americans dey apply for EE. grin Holiday visas, employment visas and youth exchange visas are programs they benefit from each other. So, why EE?
AgricultureRe: Oil Palm Vs Cocoa Vs Cashew: Which Is More Profitable? by Gerrard59(m): 10:33pm On Jan 05, 2023
From my rudimentary knowledge, oil palm and cashew are the most profitable only if you utilise the entire value chain. That is where the money comes from. Oil palm has many derivatives, just like crude oil, that are in high demand globally (look towards export). In fact, I dare say cassava has greater potential than cocoa.

In the end, focus on the numbers and how you can process them. The processing is where the money is not just the harvested crops.
TravelRe: Canada Breaks Record By Welcoming Over 437,000 New Immigrants In 2022 by Gerrard59(m): 10:29pm On Jan 05, 2023
Ednut1,

Are participants measured by their country of residence (where they applied from) or actual nationality (the passport they possess)? For instance, a Nigerian based in the UK who applied, is he counted under the Nigerian stat or UK?
FamilyRe: My Neighbor Has The Weirdest Marriage Ever by Gerrard59(m): 10:13pm On Jan 05, 2023
Another topic and moniker created by the mods to stir up heated discussions.
TravelRe: My Worst Xmas Experience Ever. A Case Of Uk by Gerrard59(m): 5:17am On Jan 04, 2023
LastProphet:
Bros is not easy, until we blacks fix one African country there will be no respect for black people We are been tolerated here whether you accept it or not
I like your honesty. Your last statement should be your pragmatism going forward. Expecting native Brits to imbibe Nigerian culture does not make sense. Anyone who is interested in his cultural practice should develop his environment so that he can practice those cultural rites/events without being obstructed.

If you are in Rome, do as the Romans.
PoliticsRe: Buhari Indifference To Tinubu Campaign Is Treacherous by Gerrard59(m): 5:14am On Jan 04, 2023
Jogs1900:
Most of the northern governor won't want to go into political oblivion. People like El-rufai... His son is contesting for house of representatives, Ganduje that Tinubu and Oshiomole stood by during the Dollar period, even Masari that Tinubu financed to be governor or is it Zulum that will betray Shettimas his beneficiary? See Tinubu has paid his dues for APC and they believe its pay back time... Moreover amongst the major contestants, Tinubu has more work rate than his major opponents... Now tell me why he won't win.
One major reason I predict Tinubu will win the elections...northern governors are his backers and will do everything possible so that he wins. If Atiku wins, it is expected power returns to the south, and by then, these present governors would have gotten far older and be kept out of the political system. Why focus on the north? According to census and INEC data, it is the country's most populous region.

Come 2023, Tinubu will be Nigeria's president.
TravelRe: My Worst Xmas Experience Ever. A Case Of Uk by Gerrard59(m): 4:46am On Jan 04, 2023
LastProphet:
US is worse than what he even just said but no need trying to explain to people at home, you need to use your eye come and see it then you will understand what op is saying. Only very few are actually happy to be here bet me
LOL!

I actually live in a place with very few blacks, but you will never see me create such a thread because I understand how different societies work and humans behave. Anyone who does not like it should go back to Nigeria. There was no law stipulating Nigerians relocate to the abroad.
TravelRe: My Worst Xmas Experience Ever. A Case Of Uk by Gerrard59(m): 4:36pm On Jan 03, 2023
lexy2014:
you havent answered the question. you are complaining about UK. Who forced you to go to UK?
Don't mind the bloody hypocrites! Tell them to work hard to make Nigeria a functioning place so that they can shout, travel to far-flung places without being waylaid and drink shayo amidst prosperity and security, mbanu. Move to a new place and start craving the Nigerian experience only to dissuade others from moving.
RomanceRe: An Advice For "Nigerian Single And Well To Do Men" by Gerrard59(m): 12:23pm On Jan 02, 2023
Magnoliaa:
Very funny and annoyingly daft entities.

They pile on women, rain on their parades, give the most misogynistic takes and use it to build followers and cash out, without having no real roots in principles and all sorts of s.h.i..t.

See how everyone is chill.

Can a woman come here to create a thread and call poor (married) men miserable and they would not have shamed and e-stoned the hell out of her?

This OP particularly is one of the placard-carrying misogynist attacker on here; but see him forming a premium brand fellow.

Mtcheeeeewwwww.
Wow! You can imagine the cognitive dissonance. shocked

This is the reason being properly educated and exposed is very good. Regardless of gender, those who are poor envy their financially successful counterparts. It is part of human life. Unlike physics, where unlike pairs attract and life pairs repel. In biology, like attracts like. It is even seen across racial/ethnic groups. A rich white man will feel comfortable around a rich black man, or Yoruba elites and Igbo elites mingle together than doing so with their kinsmen. So when educated and well-off women gravitate towards men of the same income and education status, they are doing what humans across all spheres have been doing for donkey years.
TravelRe: I’m Confused And I Need Your Advice. by Gerrard59(m): 12:15pm On Jan 02, 2023
fasa199:
If for anything, don’t come back. Ask questions around and you will see hustlers in the city. Finish your studies. It is more easier to relocate to another country from Russia than from Nigeria.
OP, this is true. The other option of dating and marrying a Russian is also there. Although, it won't be easy compared to Moscow or St-Petersburg. A hypothesis I have is that as Russia has been blacklisted by many western countries, enlightened Russians esp women will develop affection for black Africans since quite a number of African countries did not publicly lampoon Russia. Also, check out churches within the region and participate. That way, you meet people who will have some sympathy for you, considering the region.

Next time, please always factor in the economics and immigration laws before choosing to relocate to a country. If anyone is to study in Russia, do so in either Moscow or St. Petersburg, and please target the top institutions so that they can aid in job hunting (e dey help in taking you to the door).
CelebritiesRe: BBNaija's Venita Akpofure Shares Her Nude Photos To Celebrates Her 36th Birthday by Gerrard59(m): 12:02pm On Jan 02, 2023
Ted4real:
Husband wey go come is after your body wey big boys don remain and not I do vows huh?
She is a single mom with two children. These children's school fees have to be paid one way or the other. wink
TravelRe: Japa: Is This Not Hypocrisy? What Do You Think Of This by Gerrard59(m): 11:58am On Jan 02, 2023
justwise:
Even you agreed with him on that nonsense?
He was correct in saying that if others who malign Nigeria (based on the screenshot) are not condemned in the same manner he gets when criticising homeownership via mortgages, then it is hypocritical.

justwise:
He is just jealous of those who managed to make a decision to leave Nigeria. Who in his right mind keep record of 200 people he knows suffering in the UK?
That is my issue with him and his colleagues. The constant opening of threads against relocation is tiring.
TravelRe: What Scares You The Most About Relocating Abroad? by Gerrard59(m): 11:45am On Jan 02, 2023
meobizy:
This topic again?! Abeg, close this forum, pay every member ten thousand Naira and call it a day. Na waste of time man dey do here.

TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by Gerrard59(m): 11:40am On Jan 02, 2023
AlphaUno:
The alarming rate of black kids in gangs is worrisome, now! Add fresh influx of kids born to these ‘woke’ immigrant parents to it. One can only hope many won’t look back in 10/15 years and regret bringing the whole family, especially their kids.
Blacks do not hold on strongly to their cultural identity - we are easily swayed.
Honestly, why is that so?

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