₦airaland Forum

etrange:
Most of you guys here would do the same for half that amount if you had vagina, and you know it. Neither the lady nor the man complained to y'all. They're adults and they both consented. Besides, what you might consider big money might be small to him. Nigeria is very big, yet the petty stories I read on here make it seem like a small village where everyone is up the other's business: who is having sex with who, who is lazy and who's not, etc. Dude, if they want to spoil, let them spoil. You wey no dey have sex, find and mingle with like-minded individuals. Society is no longer about the people you share a region with but about the individuals you surround yourself with.

Gerrard59:
One thing I have noticed in sexual relationships or affairs is that the men who complain a lot about how women are so "sexually free" are never financially buoyant. They are always poor! I am yet to meet a man who bemoans sexual freedom for women that is well-to-do.

obotematics:
Male child is very important in Ibibio culture
If you like have 20 female children.
I have seen situations.
Please let's not heat the polity.Male children very important whether they come as shame or successful

koyyess:
Negroes can't ever progress.

Not like the males they birth turn out to be inventors.

Na g@y, thief, rapists full everywhere.

Legend2019:
Hello nairalanders, I'm a 200L mech engineering student,, I'll be 24 this year, I decided not switch to medical course, radiography to be specific, so took jamb and I'm already admitted to 100L in same school.

But now I'm weary and confused in going for the radiography again cos of age factor. Most of my mates are now graduate and I'm contemplating going to 1001 again. Though to my own knowledge, heard that radiography is better than engr....

Please, people in the house, should continue with the engineering or kindly go for the radiography...

Note: I have no issue with money

HudaIna:
My friend came back from Lagos and she was impressed how freely women dressed. She is from London and she said she wouldn’t wear half those outfits (during the day) because people will give you side eyes lol.

Those between the ages of 15/21 might pull it off but they are subjected to the same type of abuse and scrutiny. She said girls wore ‘Club’ outfits lol it’s an outfit! During the day! But she said that she was amazed how the men could concentrate because the women were fine asf!

Seun:
When she's gisting with you, if the gist is going in a romantic direction, call her out. Keep it strictly platonic and cordial. Not intimate. If she wants more than that, she will have to put a ring on it. If you can do this, delete her number without blocking her.

festusbiz:
Thanks guys. I have confirmed. Those guys are scammers. I called the embassy and they said all they mailed me isn't true jare. Thanks once more guys.

How did the employer in Japan know that the certificate is not accepted by the embassy in Nigeria? Also, check up on the required documents the embassy demands from applicants who are applying for a work visa. Check if there is a required health certificate.

In Japan, one is required to enrol in the mandatory health insurance scheme by the government. So, I am curious why you need to pay for health insurance when you are not yet in Japan? How much is the insurance certificate? When is the expiration period for this payment?

You signed the COE? Have you received the physical copy? That is, do you have the copy with you? I don't know if work visa applicants have to sign the COE, but I did not sign mine.

Worriedwife:
Him messing up didn’t mean marrying Ireti, dnt change his statement 4 him. He was very clear when he told people 2 leave his exwife and allow them move on peacefully. D man is on his 3rd wife nd somehow u still want 2 blame Ireti.

Would u be this nice to a woman on her 3rd husband? U should keep quiet and pack wherever it is u expect me to pack. Blind hypocrite

maasoap:
You thrash talk a lot, you can do better

emmaodet:
But if prices are low, people will start using air no matter how poor they are.

I still remember years ago when aero do fly from Ph to Lag or Lag to Abuja for as low as 5k, 7k. People started using them.
Some that were using road before started using air.
Even if the price rises to 15/20k, people will gladly use it.
Not the type that lag to Ph is now 50/70k one way.

The tariffs african govt places on this tickets are way too high and there is nothing to even show for such high tarrif.
No good toilets in airport, airport not first class looking etc. so what are they using all these money for? Embezzling
A Nigerian I met at the Lag airport last week that we entered taag airline together was just complaining how he booked South Africa for almost 500k one way and vowed never to come home for the next 2 years because he has lost a lot coming home this year.
That trip shouldn’t be more than 50k one way on a good day.

emmaodet:
How do you people get ridiculous flight prices like this
Here in africa, it will cost you 500k to go to luanda to and fro for just 2 and half hours flight.
Lagos to cotonou sef na about 200k
How come africa that owns and export crude that is extracted for jet fuel is having expensive flight more than the importer.
It is just like saying buying garri is far expensive than UK who buy it in africa, transport it in Uk and sell back to us.
I mean, why will garri be more expensive in lagos than UK? It is crazy

Rxzepet01:
No I am not Festusbiz that asked about Coe.
On my side, I only filled the application for for Coe, I don't have the certificate yet.
The company is RCS Corporation.

Rxzepet01:
The school that employed me is also asking me to pay for an apartment in order to get accommodation certificate they said it is mandatory for visa application and approval, and the amount is much, how genuine is this. I dey smell scam here... For those who've done this, I'd appreciate ur advice.

maasoap:
Hehe, na so u guys hate Tinubu that much? What is the basis for this fear you are trying to create? Has Tinubu ever proven himself to be a bad manager of resources? If anything, he's the best manager of resources we have got for now

Refugee1:
I've been married for 11 years now with 3 children. I am well in my 40's. I've had all sorts of girls since I became an adult. If I wanted somebody to run errands and cook, I will employ a maid and cook instead of getting married. If I want to satisfy my sexual desires, I will be buying short term love which by the way is cheaper than getting married. Marriage goes beyond that.

Maybe when you get married you will understand that having a happy home is more important than having an over bloated ego

obedience4:
Russia should allow Belarus have nukes,
So new leader may come to Belarus and caught all ties with Russia and Russian won't do nothing because Belarus can blow of Moscow..
The the same flawed scenario you wrote in your comment.
You think nukes is a piece of candy ba?why didn't Russia Iran support Assad ambition of developing nukes

Even Japan a county who is a victim of nuclear strike, its citizens are opposed having nukes in their county

Please South Korea , Japan don't need a nuke themselves, they are under the USA nuclear umbrella.
The USA nuke's are Sitting chilling in over 6 countries.

Please take your time and check out the USA nuclear umbrella..


https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nuclear_umbrella

SIRTee15:
Europe had long been struggling even before the influx of immigrants, they just kept postponing their decline. That was why they formed EU but eventually proved ineffective to stop it. Immigrants always gets the blame for every empire decline, it happened in Roman and Persian empire, it will happen with western civilization. Already they doing it, when the report came out that IQ is declining in western countries, oh it's because of immigrants from 3rd world nation- lazy n easy way out.
Nobody questioned the fact that the native population don't want to go to school anymore, intelligent ones among them don't want to have kids- it's the dumb ones breeding like rats, their working class prefer to be on welfare than engage in brain tasking jobs.
Europe's decline has nothing to do with immigrants, there's a reason they intentionally opened their doors to foreigners, go figure it out.

I beg to disagree a country has to be rich for others to copy it's culture.
Afro pop music is raving mad all over the world right now, go to South Korea, Europe, south America, on tiktok, people even sing the pidgin/Yoruba lyrics. Thanks to our naija music stars who made effort to modernise n globalised naija music.
Black American culture is far stronger than any white American culture globally. The music, the style, the attitude, the slang yet nobody wants to live in any black American community by a pole.
Indian recipe is now a main diet in UK while Mexican food is very popular in America.
When it comes to culture, people don't care of its origin. If they like it, they will embrace it.
Anyway, I'm still on a sporting culture we can export.

As for whoever plays the piper dictates the tune, the facts is in the 21st century, everybody wants to play their own tune, nobody wants to dance to European tune anymore except maybe Africa- u are right on that one.

higgs:
I don't believe this.No medical doctor will tolerate being owed salaries for that long.Abia state is badly governed but it can't be that bad.

ednut1:
Feminism has destroyed marriage

SIRTee15:
Even though I'm afrocentrist and believe in modern afrocentrism, the above is very hard to dispute, very HARD.
I sat down thinking one day if there's any indigenous African game that can be projected into a global sport....even if modernised.....I'm still searching.

But I believe the world isn't made for whites alone. This hegemonous attitude is the major reason behind today's global problems.
The whites have this believe that since they created modern civilization, then they should rule the world. They got away with it in the 1920s but not anymore. The more they push it in the 21st century, the more multipolar the world will become.
That's the reason I support the cold shoulder most countries gave western nations regarding Ukraine crisis even though I'm totally against the invasion.

ednut1:
are you expecting anyone not to go to work and be caring for aged parents

pansophist:
Yes, money is the cheapest thing anyone can have. Although a man should have money, it should not be the only thing. Character is one, virtue is another. Ambition also, to be ridiculously smart, intellectually vast, eloquent in speech, as in the content of your speech should just awe your listeners, and oh, be confident too, look good, I mean to be fit and look proportionally muscular.

have a goal that fuels you, be there for your family because she will notice it and knows what's in for her if you commit to her, be strong in your spirit and soul, and have the ability to be wicked. As in, being able to fork people up big time if they cross your redline, doesn't mean you are bad, it means you are a good person, otherwise, how can you protect yourself and her? Even Jesus that loves you will send you to hellfire if you mess up, how much more me, a human wey no fit love you like Jesus?

You see, none of the things above have to do with money, it takes investment in oneself to reach this height of personal sophistication. Also, women are way smarter than men give them credit for. Just like men will fork a foolish woman that is not virtuous, after all, what can she offer apart from sex? it's the same for women. A woman will chop a man's money if money is the only thing he can offer. But you see that strong man that has a good head on his shoulder, she will be loyal and be on her best behavior.

Men regulate women, and to make a woman (anyone actually) live uprightly and relate with you in truth, it must come from you first. Personally, I have never begged or forced a woman to treat me right, because when she sees how I conduct myself, she knows that I won't tolerate subpar treatment. A woman has to know that you chose, not settled for her, since it signifies your value. You must have options for women way better than her, so she knows the value of your commitment.

Treat her good, love her, make her feel safe and protected, respect her, provide for her, and be a man she can count on, but again, be capable of leaving her immediately she doesn't live up to her own responsibility. If she cheats, insults you, doesn't submit, argues with you like a lawyer, and just gives you the Kim Kardashian vibes, my guy, cut off. Unless she feeds you, then compromises. So be a good man, but refuse to be a pushover.

Charity begins at home, this is the true meaning of that statement. You a man are a leader, and if you lead well, women will follow. No one will follow a subpar leader, but a good one. So getting a good woman is actually an internal job, it starts first with you. Character is the main dish, but money is the topping. A man must have both.

ednut1:
she is the administrator there not care giver. Her salary and level don pass care giver own. Well this is very rampant in the western world. The family structure has been destroyed hence many people in care homes have no relatives or family who send them. Leaving their finances to these care homes. Once my children don graduate from school for abroad i am coming back home to retire make dem no throw me inside care home one day hahahaha

festusbiz:
Good day everyone. May I ask Pls. I got and ALT job in Japan. I have signed the contract and COE. My employer said I have to pay for Health Insurance Certificate that the one issued in Nigeria isn't accepted by the embassy. May I go on to pay? Can anybody help me to confirm that?

GloriousGbola:
If you know what's good for you, you are working on a masters degree in the country where you reisde. If you are as dumb as your posts portray, you will keep cruising on your lateral transfer until there is a layoff and then you see just how precarious your position really is and how Nigerian degrees are viewed

GloriousGbola:
The man is lying. Nigerian degrees are not rated abroad. Even more so if you do not have relevant working experience. No one is going to employ an inexperienced Nigerian on the basis of his degree alone.

CheapHomes1:
Aunty, it all depends. The lady in the photo is trying to sell her market (products). Those who do online or social media marketing will understand. Like it is common with these type of ladies these days, birthday is an opportunity for "photoshoot". The photoshoot entails taking pictures half naked or in sex promoting positions. All these are posted on the internet to draw attention to prospective clients that she is open for business. She has shaded her wares same way women do at any market. one of her products is her bare buttocks. Before weekend, am certain she will get some calls.

Jakumo:
One can only speculate as to how many innocent toilet fixtures shattered under the massive weight of that monstrous buttocks deformity.

The ugly and disgusting medical condition afflicting this unfortunate woman is called Steatopygia. Here is the Wikipedia explanation

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Steatopygia