₦airaland Forum

cococandy:
Why in her home?.
So she can't afford hotel accommodation to frolick with her baby boy

Anyway the man should find a solution to the problem and not let his home break over this small issue. The devil's plan is to break their marriage and he shouldn't allow that to happen.
Marriage is for better or worse.
My people don't let anyone put asunder in your home.
He should fight for his marriage and put the enemy to shame.

When two loyal people get married then you can say marriage is for better or worse...

Misstechy, what else do you do on the internet apart from blog

Khd95:
'leaning on u'
Clear me on dat


get 2 no her,aftr dat,if u discover dat shes wayward...dnt take advantage of her,rather avoid her..
Ultimately u ill nid 2 report her 2 her elder siblings first,nt her parents ooo

Resting her body on you

Francon:
Congratulations darling. Bring them home


A mumu is one who will attributes this achievement to a tribe

YORUBA girls doing great things

YORUBA girls winning awards

optimismlaz:
It is not a bad omen to like or love somebody, pls dont condem her yet, instead nurture her and direct her to d good path of life. If i may ask how old are u now? If u welcome her, treat her like a sister she will never forget u, and when she is rape u may come calling.

Do you mean ripe

Khd95:
Firstly,i blame GEJ for lack of fuel nd electricity dat drove u into her compound.



Bro,shes a minor,dnt compromise giving reciprocating her gestures tho.
Its a stage she must pass thru,bt as an adult,make frend wit her like d one u ve wit ur kid sis or cousin..
Dnt evr act like u ve been noticing her too.




If u cant do all dis,bro some 1 said'relocate 2 anoda borehole'till buhari take over

What if the girl starts leaning on you

handie:
Excellent comment.... There really are misplaced priorities... Industries would've been soo much better. As for the beautification of Uyo, pls visit the interiors and life out there is somefin else... Was once in d city and after marvelling at how beautiful d city is, I had cause tto visit nwaniba(inside uyo) and it was a far cry from d beauty I saw in strategic places. Governance should be about increasing d lot of d populace not going on some fancy jumbo projects the common man won't benefit from... What's the percentage of akwa ibomites that can afford a ticket to that stadium... Nor is governance about giving of luxury cars to artistes... All in all, Obong Godswill Akpabio tried.... Though to me, his priorities were rather misplaced

Have you heard of tourism

Jobneeded12:
Leave the old man, don't let him Tap the resources yet lets the country sign resource control so we will enjoy it like we enjoyed cocoa

OBJ's time is long gone..

Yoruba needs to develop its rural areas. Build and maintain roads...

Develop the mining and agriculture sectors in the SW..

Yoruba won't even need the federal govt positions anymore..

omonnakoda:
That will happen in fact it will expand to Warri in the long run as soon as there is peace and also to Accra . Capital is the main constraint . Lagos will be an economic hub not limited to Nigeria. The thought of the future gives me a violent erectioon and the thought of the haterrs makes me explode

tolexy007:
y can't dey extend it to ondo state? southwest is developing but I tink is only Lagos and Ogun state are d only beneficial..Akure too needs railway

There's Oil in Ondo, Gold in Oyo and Osun.. If OBJ had used his position as president then, to mine Oil and Gold the SW will be far ahead.

He was busy fighting his own people.

Right now, Tinubu and osinbajo should channel what they can to Yorubaland and develop it...

Jobneeded12:
You forgot ondo
Lagos-Ogun-Ondo-Oyo will be leading the nation

That's one of the issues with yoruba leaders..

There's oil in ondo, gold in oyo and osun...

OBJ was president for 8 years.. All he had to do was channel Nigeria's resources to mine oil and gold...

Instead, he was busy attacking other yoruba governors that were not PDP.

He is still attacking other Yoruba till date.

Dollyak:
That's just heartbreaking. The rivalry has brought out ugly hatreds from both sides. One person called me a bastard and told me I am not better than a goat just because my Mum married a Yoruba. Yorubas too are just as bad if you criticise their behaviour toward Igbos.
How I wish both side can sit down, be logical and constructive for the best of both parties.

There's no rivalry between Yoruba and any tribe...

All the tribes come to Yorubaland to succeed and later brand it NO MAN'S LAND because of the attitude of the Yoruba...

Yoruba are not naïve.. They will condone abusive words for now... They're working towards making Yorubaland better..

OBJ is a mistake..

Dollyak:
Yorubas were never this tribalistic, what happened? Yorubas are one of the most friendly and accommodating people in Africa. Some of the comments here is now making me think otherwise. My dad and most peoole I know are not like this. I hope they are not the odd one.

You can be friendly/accommodating and still be tribalistic...

Yorubas are tribalistic...

OBJ is the only un-tribalistic yoruba I know...

OBJ is a failure cos he wasn't a tribalist...

Imagine a YORUBA man trying to extradite another YORUBA man to the U.S.

That's pure foolishness..

How many U.S citizens have the U.S extradited to NIGERIA

truefact:
.why are yorubas afraid of being their own? Yorubas claim to be progressive and sophisticated, they claim to love each other, yet they coward enough not want to be on their own and have the most wonderful country in Africa..
Yorubas if you are all the goodies you claim to be, I bet you will be the one fighting for secession

Yoruba learn to stand on your own after all you could have been the first Africans to have independence. ..you claim to be first in every thing. ...at least you can be the first to secede and have a progressive country

Whether they secede or not does not matter.

building and maintaining infrastructures, basic amenities and peaceful living is what matters..

mikron:
we re all Nigerians bro. These tribal sentiments drives me insane. I want us to know we re stronger when we re United. Be u igbos, Hausas, Yorubas, we re one body, binded by a geographical enclave we come to knw as Nigeria. One love man

We are not one...

Do you know how many yorubas, hausas have talents in sports but they don't get chosen for the national team in order to show case their talents to the world

Nigeria should dis-integrate peacefully and quickly because tribal sentiments are affecting people sporting talents and opportunities..

mikron:
THIS IS VERY VERY RUDE, UNECCESARY, DIVERSIONARY AND OUT OF POINT. WE RE ALL NIGERIANS, REMOVE TRIBE OUT OF THIS PLEASE

We are not all Nigerians..
Igbos have tribalised sports to favour igbos...
That's one of the reasons Adebayor didn't play for Nigeria...

Other tribes rarely get a chance unless they are playing for notable clubs e.g ahmed musa, micheal babatunde e.t.c....

Yoruba girls doing great things...

Reference:
You are in luck for I was going to use more colourful language to describe such a person. But it all boils down to what we say about Nigerians....lazy, irresponsible, apt to handover their destinies to government/politicians, pastors/churches, and in this case employers...then turn round to blame those people, those institutions that slave drive them.

When they look at developed countries with envy, little do they realise that the drivers of prosperity are the people who take on enterprise, bear the hardship, scorn the shame, weigh the risks and drive for success. What do they think the typical proverbial 'American Dream' is all about....working for MacDonalds or for the Pentagon.

America has more natural resources, more oil and gas than most OPEC countries, only second to Russia in coal reserves, same from almost all metals and minerals yet you will never know because their resources underground is not a major yardstick by which they measure their wealth or productivity. They don't have the sense of entitlement that the average Nigerian has who consciously or sub-consciously thinks that because this country pumps out 2 million barrels of oil a day they are entitled to good roads, 24 hrs electricity, cheap fuel, free education, free meals in school, unemployment benefits and million naira jobs in banks so that they may get married, reproduce like rabbits and live happily ever after. Life is not like that.

The truth is that Nigeria is a poor country on account of low productvity, on account of the 'entitlement mentality'. Nigerians are waiting for someone else to prosper them. It won't happen. Go out and create your wealth and lifestyle of you taste. Leave the banks alone. They pay what they can afford.

You're the lazy one..

Closedoor:
You are the slowpoke here, do you think everyone is privileged?. People like you end up becoming nothing in life. If you are too immature to understand the streets and know all fingers aint equal...then shut your jew mouth up. Nobody cares what you think.

Everyone is equal

Everyone has only one brain

PunkyOh:
Couldn't careless what you are, you quoted me (on an issue that's obviously none of your concern since you say you aren't Nigerian) & I replied. Full stop.

You don't understand my comment

Your Naija hatred is making you dull

Your comment says you.. referring to only me as Nigeria..

I am Nigerian but that does not make me Nigeria...

If u don't understand this then return your certificates back to your school... If you ever attended school

PunkyOh:
No, you're just not liked, not only by South Africa but the entire globe it seems. The problem is not with other countries but you imo.

I am not Nigeria

Been Nigerian does not make me Nigeria...

Most SAfricans are dull... Promoting African on African hatred...

Look before you leap, kid...

PunkyOh:
LOL. Never mind him because women dating Nigerians are looked down upon here. They're considered cheap. Very few take the risk of having their reputation tarnished by running around with them.

Haters are hating

Nigerian men giving SA headache since the 90's...

SemuhleB:
Especially the women part cracks me up so much. Majority of South African women well the classy educated ones do not like Nigerian men. Nigerian men have a bad reputation here as they are chronic womanizers, cheats and they love to beat their girlfriends up. Nigerian men generally like women and especially yellow bones with ass and hips and they go crazy. The way they flip over women here is what makes the average South African believe that Nigerian women are not attractive. Also Nigerian men are the last on the list of the foreign men that South African women date. It seems they have an ego where they believe that they are better than every country and their women are crazy about them. They say our men are lazy but I have heard them use the same lines with Ghana men too.

Haters are hating

Nigerians are moving forward

there's no difference btw been known and fame

Brandnew2:
@Bigtt77 Trust me it will.

The market has no other choice than to grow.

Check out so many new web and mobile Apps coming into the market.

MTN for instance has it's own App store and guess who they employ to develop these Apps.

I was listening to a couple of unilag students conversation as they asserted that the Nigerian market is still going to boom just like Nollywood.

They claimed right now the market is at a point Nollywood was years ago. Now we have internationally recognized actors and actresses. The same thing will apply to the ICT industry and programmers/tech companies.

Trust me It's already happening. Check Jobberman for instance. The co-founder was my personal friend and we shared the same hostel back in school.

Look at them today.

Same also applies to countless number of start ups.

Lies

Its already Appening

There's a difference between entertainment and technology...

A very good artiste would be rich and famous.
Its by force to be famous

While

A very good coder would be rich and reserved. Its not by force to be famous

kettykings:
In terms of performance and growth Akwa Ibom has out performed and grown at a higher rate than lagos

IbokUtoroh:
illiterate, u be confirmed mumu!
d only govr fasholafit compare him self wif na theodore orji.

aresa:
Leave them alone, if they compare this scammer with Fashola one more time, I'll disgrace them...

FreeGlobe:
If tinubus servant fashola performed as half as Akpabio did in Akwa IBom, Lagos will not be the hot mess it is today.

Fashola is doing well but below par.. Go here

www.bbc.com/news/world-africa-32556640

and see the difference btw T:hiefnubu's Lagos and Fashstole's Lagos

Brandnew2:
It will.


As a matter of fact ICT companies will pay better than banks and even compete with Oil companies as their business becomes become more lucrative in the coming years.

Why are you talking about what companies pay

There are lots of programmers earning millions but they don't make noise about it

Go and check out the app stores, those programmers earn their money themselves

agarawu23:
nice one rapmoney.

I am in support of your write up But I want us to look it from another angle.

I am not in support of a young hustling guy spending lavishly on a Lady he is yet to marry but that doesn't mean he should not fall in love.(he should apply sense)

If he finally forget about ladies, chase his dream and later succeed, how will he find true love ? (no be our girls of nowadays? Ferrari things )

What if the guy is not destined to be rich? I am sure he will still settle down with one (though she might not be his dream girl)

We have few ladies who don't care if a guy is rich or poor, all they want is true love (bros I still dey find them o )

Everyone is destined to be great not just rich..

Never forget that humans have a choice.

gatiano:
That is why we don't have good drinking water now and bad healthcare system. What does that have to do with greeting or respecting an elder? Everything, use some wisdom and you would understand.

What does good drinking water and bad healthcare system have to do with this

The only people I respect and greet are family..

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Naijaonlinegists:
Please don't waste your time trying to convince a cynic like him. His just been lazy, that's all.

He could be lying that his a writer..

gatiano:
Should you see Your dad, uncle or aunty or elder family friend and you expect him to greet you first?
Should you see your Father's friend, and you throw forward your hand first for an handshake?

No problem in handshake...

The old are over stepping the culture..

haibe:
maybe.. maybe not

No maybe..
Its a fact..

haibe:
am yoruba but I have to be sincere to say this is the truth.. the elders (not all) are just too hypocritical..

Funny enough when they are angry, you will see the way they act to the other once that are older than them and you will be wondering if its not the same person that demanded respect from u

Its called pride.

They are taking advantage of the culture..

Its not just the yoruba that berates younger ones... Old people in Nigeria are this way...

The lady just wants the op's attention..