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Don't marry that girl without seeing the biological father. You will REGRET IT if you do. Mark this comment.

segcymoor:
Says who..I should celebrate my golden jubilee next year... never take paracetamol before in my life let alone go see Dr

I get good health even without money... it's special grace though

So the only reason you think you are healthy is simply because you haven't taken paracetamol?

Truth you may not be as healthy as you assume. I want to believe you may not have gone for tests for a Long time, and that is even more dangerous.

I don't think the mother in-law was right. The whole arrangement was between the father and their lawyer.

That is all I have to say in this matter.

Dtruthspeaker:
You are the one who is delusional even to the point of not remembering that we were there when you started wishing that rapture should not happen.

So it's you who is delusional in turning your wish into something you want to see.

There is nothing like rapture or the coming back of a dead person to earth. Just live right, healthy and peaceful until the day you will die.

SeriouslySense:
Will the son of man find faith when he returns.

But in the last days, many will become lovers of self, of money, boastful and proud.

Thank God for his goodness

In those days there will be a great hunger for the word, many will wander from place to place seeking.

You are only simply rehearsing what someone wrote.

Why not attempt a more logical angle?

I have not seen a more delusional beings as those who think there will be a day when the world would end, and some people flying to the sky.

The day a person does is the end of the world for him or her.

Some of the things people believe makes me to ask whether their brains were removed from birth.

YOUTUBE9ja:
This Tinubu administration go tough sha. My advice for Nigerians is to start a YouTube channel on football and make money so you don’t cry during economic recession. Let me teach you how is been done , mention me if interested, hold your 1k o

Interested

chrisxxx:
I think Elu P say the judgement was worthless? Why appeal?

The appeal court just corroborated that assertion. Yunusa is who he is and has always been.

Alexandersantos:
Op ur story no clear...u said he played a bet on 19th of may and committed sucide on the 2nd of may...

I think he wanted to write 22nd May.

This post was sponsored by the betting companies just to encourage people to continue playing bets. Nobody won anything.

Kobicove:
So you're telling me that if a person has about N10million in those MFBs the maximum he can get back is just 500K?

200k. Not 500k

Sebastine1994:
Nairaland is dull lately since lalastica left

His last login was last year, seun what happened

Omo!! You mean that our beautiful snake ambassador has left?

Not nice at all.

fergie001:
Odinkalu is a former Chairman of Nigeria's National Human Rights Commission and a visiting Professor at Hazard Law School



Chidi Odinkalu

"HAZARD" law school?

Kobojunkie:
All I read is you equate love with sex and your wife denying you sex means she has no love for you. And you somehow think the blame should all be on her as far as all the problems you perceive in your marriage, no be so? **yawn***

Sometimes I wonder if there are robots on nairaland. But even robots do have sense.

Did you read that it takes him two weeks to see his wife again?

Did you read that she hasn't called to check whether her husband arrived safe?

Did you read that she makes no effort to make the marriage work?

Not a bank staff. That is a contract staff.

Mumvs!! They can't even spell their local government area correctly.

Oh I forgot, how on earth did Saint Obi married a LYNDA for God's sake? LYNDA!!!

Wicked siblings everywhere.

Gerrard59:
In Nigeria, the argument is that prostitution is illegal. But that applies only to Northern Nigeria, where Sharia is practiced (https://sabilaw.org/the-legality-of-prostitution-in-nigeria/). However, the same people who castigate hookups will never relocate to the North to live.

This brings me to the next solution: social engineering. If you want the women in your society to be chaste, it is your responsibility as the men in that society to insist on certain moral standards. It is why young ladies in the North do not openly practise hookup compared to the South. Even in the south, some regions are "morally" stricter than others. It is the men who set the standards. Recently on Facebook, in one of the states in the south, I read that husbands or older men sleep with secondary school girls who just finished WASSCE/SSCE. When you do so while your northern counterpart marries the same girl, you tell that girl in your society that she can charge for sex. Meanwhile, her contemporary in the north knows that for sex to happen, there has to be commitment aka marriage.

P.S. Sex is not free. You pay at a point.

Another is poverty. The poorer a society is, the greater the number of women engaging in hook-ups. Women are demisexual, but when push comes to shove, they resort to sex work. Because there is a demand. Patronising sex workers is cheaper in poor countries compared to rich nations. The common theme here (https://www.nairaland.com/7496716/what-exactly-does-one-enjoy) was that sex is cheap in Nigeria. But ask your paddies whether patronising sex workers in Canada is cheap, and hear/read their responses. The solution is to ensure your society becomes very prosperous. In return, your women will have fewer reasons to engage in hook-ups. Fewer reasons because even in prosperous societies, hook-ups still exists. Because, remember, sex is natural. There is a demand, and demand doesn’t exist in a vacuum. Unfortunately, Nigerian men have not been able to create a prosperous society (https://www.nairaland.com/6643241/nigerian-men-failed-women).

P.S. No prosperous country had women at the forefront of development.

Which north?

Sabongari in Kano is the headquarters of Prostitution. Ask anybody living in Kano.

worldclass68:
So your saying until I do introduction/marriage, my supposed fiancee has the right to go about fvcking other dudes

So after the supposed marriage/intro she would suddenly stop bah??

I think the purpose of dating/courtship is to get to know themselves..and u your saying they can go around and fvck other guys too?

Of course according to ur own opinion....

But you also mentioned that you do "chop and clean mouth".

So this is going to be a marriage of two chronic cheats.

Dearlove2me:
He really does annoying things. How can a grown man gamble away with all he has and return home empty expecting food to eat from his wife and little baby whom he left without anything?
My attitude has nothing to do here. What I tolerant, even you can not withstanding it.

Yesterday was the very first time I really insulted him. It was very annoying but I later regretted it though.

You need more education. Just from the way you sound here, you have a wrong attitude. I may just excuse you on the presumption that you are battling frustration presently.

Your husband is slipping into depression and only a more mature person with the right attitude and calmness can help him.

Let me shock you. There is no happy gambling addict. They are all sad just that they can't help themselves. They ALL know they are doing the wrong thing.

Just be calm and counsel him, that is the only solution. Nagging will complicate the whole thing, he may even become violent with time.

Peacemaker5129:
Kuti fvck up seriously
If I were the camera man I would have made money from Kuti

I get you. But I also have my suspicion that Seun may not have listened to such blackmail. He is likely to wave it off.

This looks like a threat. More like "just wait and see Tinubu's government".

tinsel:
From the above, we can see that Obi and Atiku have no case in the tribunal. What they are doing is a mere waste of time and probably to continue giving their supporters hope especially the noisy Obidients.

Go to school, you refused. See how difficult it is for you to see the ratio as clearly stated in this report.

Whatever you claim in court, the onus of proof has been shifted to you and you must discharge that burden of proof beyond any reasonable doubt.

They failed to obtained the CTC of the INEC backend server to support their claim. It's very simple to understand.

dominique:
But the boy was not kidnapped or coerced to donate his kidney, he offered to. He was the one willing to sell his kidney to highest bidder so why make him a victim? Ekweremadu is a corrupt politician that deserves to be flung in jail for stealing but that boy is no victim! He agreed to it, he's not underaged neither is he mentally unfit to decide on his own. I hope the UK authorities deports his snaky ass.

I don't think you have read the records of proceedings in this case. If you did, which I seriously doubt, your position is highly misplaced.

That boy was exploited because he was/is vulnerable. Ekweremadu and Obeta carefully evaded the fulfilment of the laws regulating organ donation. In fact, they lied to concealed their premeditated crime.

Why did the hospital declare that there was a "mismatch" even when no medical procedure was carried out?

I encourage you to go read the full trial.

Chucks13:
Pity him for?

His life

I pity Tinubu

What if you get married to someone earning above 800k and he loses the job after 2 months into marriage?

Stay or move on to the next?

Fineman2:
My name is John. I am 35 years old. I lost my first wife in 2020, so I remarried in 2021 so that my daughter can grow up with a motherly love.

However, my new wife has made it a point of duty to always maltreat my daughter.

Each time, I want to interfere, she tells me to stay out of it. I know I should stand up for my daughter but I am in love with this woman because she came into my life when I needed someone the most.

I reached out to the family of my late wife last month to allow my daughter to stay with them while I send money for her upkeep, but they refused. They said my daughter cannot grow up without a mother and still grow up without the presence of a father in her life.

I have had several conversations with my wife and I have begged her to accommodate my daughter since she is yet to conceive but she told me to get rid of her from the house.

She practically complains about everything my daughter does. I am unhappy about this but at the moment, I am caught in between the woman I love and my beloved daughter.

Please what should I do?

Was there no conversation about the welfare of your daughter before you married this devul?

Saynoomore:
The man that lived with this woman is a hero indeed! Chai! Tell me he took off pls!

The man must have seen the senior brother of shege banza together with the mother in law of lucifer.

What a toxic WiTch!!!!

So next season Sterling will be playing in the Championship? Chai!!

But wait oh! Is the owners of Chelsea still the ones producing that sachet ogogoro drink called "Chelsea"?

I asked because there is a similarity between the way Chelsea players are running on the field with the way consumers of that Chelsea drink behave.

The story is a little incredulous.

How did she see or know about the will?

No reasonable person allows a non beneficiary to his will to access it.

Skiborobo:
If you're a man and you can't buy this please don't come near me

Exactly. I don't see why you should settle for less. Since your father can buy this, you should be close to any man that your father is richer than.

Big up girl

devbits:
My first advice to you is that if you are addicted to masturbation or pornography, do everything in your power to stop it. (I said this because, I am very certain and convinced of the damage both can do to a man's health, it's usually starts with nervous system and then graduate to gastric problem, yet doctors won't see anything)

Now, you need to do other tests like Abdominal scan to see your organs, Liver function test, kidney function test and let them check your blood for pathogens, discuss all this with your doctor.

Now, the spiritual aspect, how's your dream like, because you need prayers like prayers.

Peace.

Is this truly coming from a functional brain or some sort of badly programmed robot?