Why go out with them??
Are they the only female friends you have got?
From your write up,they are probably not reading same course as you do.

You can't possibly tell me that you don't have any ladies or guy to hang out with except your room mates.

Now listen very carefully,
Suicide is a childish,laughable and stupid option.
Don't change your attitude toward them..
Don't try too hard to please them..
Don't hang out with them even if they invite you always find a way to decline.
Then always pray.
Yess, Chimnazaekpere.

Best wishes!

Pay her back her money.
When a girl loves you for real...she would be happy to assist you.

Whether the two of you love each other or not is not in my place to dwell on.

Fighting over little things like sharing the cost of N400 apple is quiet laughable.

What I deduced from this write up and having heard from your supposed boo side of the same story is clear and without a hint of doubt points to UNDERSTANDINGS.

You two don't understand each other not even by 50% not minding the fact that you two have already cohabit for probably a year.

Sit him down and settle the difference once and for all. And above all work on your understanding.

From what I deduce again,you two are not the quiet type.

Work on your understanding.
Work on your understanding..
Work on your understanding..

and...


Make patience a critical part of your personality.


Best wishes!!!

You guys don't understand each other.
If you must stay together,you guys need to critical work on that.

OP it seem you have anger issue if everything your fiancé say is to be taken with keen consideration,then you need to work on it.

Without the understanding,this relationship will end in chaos.

May God Almighty give you both the patience required to take the relationship to the next level but if HE ordained that you too are not meant to be together,so be it. Amen

Which channel on Dstv is showing this BBN Big brother Nigeria..

Nigerians woke up to a ludicrous treat by INEC chairman this morning. At almost the blast of the voting gun for presidential and national assembly elections, announcement of the postponement by the INEC chairman descended like a freezing dew over the polity. Like most things in this country, it wafted out initially as a now routine mischievous rumour in the early hours of the day. Earliest commentators easily dismissed it as so but the narrative grew stronger until people watched the broadcast straight from the chairman himself.

Within 10minutes, the press briefing was over; almost flippantly and perfunctorily citing logistics as the alibi for the postponement. The anatomy of that logistical impediment he did not reveal in the press conference. Less than a couple of hours later, reactive statements were issued by the major political parties billed to slug it out in the polls. Interestingly and intriguingly, each of them not only blamed INEC but traded mutual conspiratorial accusations against the commission. Particularly disturbing is the claim of no fore knowledge by agents and functionaries of the ruling party and the presidency. They would like to have us believe that they learnt of the report in the same manner the rest of the masses did. Everyone now claims or feigns prior ignorance about that sordid development.

It's doubtful if the INEC chairman really appreciates the rippling import of that announcement. It doesn't seem like he understands the magnitude of what he has done or made to do. He probably doesn't realise that the sanctity and validity of that polls have been violated irredeemably. Though largely unprovable or indeterminable, the outcome of the polls may never be the same again eventually. The electoral fates of some of the candidates would have been altered. It will be impossible to maintain and sustain voters' demographics given the suddenness and proximity of the development to the exercise. In the couple of days leading up to the supposed election, there had been massive cross movements and temporary migrations of the voting population just to exercise their franchise. Surely and expectedly, most of them will return to their bases and may not undertake another uncertain travel in a week's time. We have to remember that several States of the federation declared public holidays a day before the shifted polls just to allow concerned voters travel if necessary.

It will be mind boggling to estimate the wasted man hours and the loss to the economy this postponement has or will cause. As people shuttle back to their places of domicile, anyone can guess that preponderance of them won't go back to vote the coming week. Recall too that international observers had already flown into the country to observe the polls' proceedings. I wonder how they will be appeased and supported to wait in the country for another pregnant week or to fly back home and return at a later rescheduled date.

Is this a mischief or miscue by INEC?...opinions will certainly remain polarised or divided depending on commentator's bias. But either way, it once again reveals one thing: the constitutional callousness or crass ineptitude of the blackman. If mischief is involved, it means that the perpetrators have no scintilla of sympathy or empathy for the travails of the country and her citizenry. It's very likely that this will at least dent the nation's economic growth forecast. Of a truth, the impact cannot be accurately quantified. Were it to be easy, it's better not to even think about it or bother about the computation. The confidence in the electoral commission has been made inexorably tenuous, and for some, it may have snapped completely.

Was it simply a frank miscue?...very possible but the commission should then be constrained to contend with lugubrios incompetence and dense ineptitude. They had planned this exercise for over 3years, reassuring Nigerians of their readiness at every prompt. And if indeed they had good reasons for the shift, why did it take them almost the last hour to realise their damaging unreadiness and consequently make the postponement announcement? Why couldn't the INEC chairman appraise their state of preparedness at least 3days before the event's kick-off? If the postponement news came up some 3days earlier, it would have been more understandable or rationalizable. There wouldn't have been any public holidays and not many voting related travels would have been prevented.

It's very difficult to find a soothing or placating justification for the action of INEC. The public might never get to know the real reason(s) but whatever it is still puts the commission and their chairman in a despicable and ignominious turf. It still leaves a sour taste in the mouths of many. However one would love to look at it, the reason swings from malicious mischief and crass incompetence or somewhere inbetween. The blackman indeed has a terrible albatross. It seems to a congenital and transmissible affliction....so shameful!

*POINTS TO PONDER*
If only Nigerian voters will experimentally discern
They would realize security is arguably our existential concern
It's doubtless the nation is bogged by malignant crimes & terrors
And so, this isn't a good time to make judgmental errors

Economy obviously should be the next in the perking order
Quite precariously, crude oil hitherto remains the pivotal rudder
Nothing clairvoyant in predicting the future of non renewables are bleak
Until we look elsewhere, our economic outlook is forseably weak

Employment opportunities merit the next major focus
The indices can only be bettered by incisive creativity not hocus-pocus
Unemployment, rising ritual crimes & miscellaneous vices share a nexus
When the brain and brawn aren't positively engaged, evil hardly snoozes

Of vital interest equally is our widening sectarian wedges
The nation'll do better with ambience that shred ethnoreligious hedges
However speculative, mounting is the fear of smouldering emasculation
Factual or fabled, the polity needs effusive reassuring desensitization

In no single personality should one expect a utopian panacea
The bowels of time reside our probable salvaging cornucopia
But indicated is sensitivity to paths that leads to nowhere
While we cast our votes, the cap of solemn discernment we should wear

VOTE WISELY.