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because pple rip u off in Nigeria.

Hey ladies beware,this guys all want do dominate your life.An undergraduate so that she can ask u for evry penny she needs and you can somplain.

Are the parents saying no because the othern guy is in the UK or bacause they think what the lady is doing is wrong??

i think thats very common among we ladies,it just a normal thingy,most especially if the guy is just out of it or comes at the wrong time.

Can you make a list of the skills involved.

I dont think thats right,i will feel insecure with that type of guy,to me,he's not caring at all.

Its just a funny thingy but its just like that,when you have just met each other,u have a lot of things to discuss,have fun,take each other out irrespective of any other factor,you ignore mistakes because you have not known the do's and donts of your partner,over time,u dont ignore mistakes again because you think you have spent enough time together and you should have known each other well enough.

Boredom sets in because you are doing thesame thing over and over again and that why it takes a lot of love and tolerance to keep a home,even though you quarel,you will make up.Its meant to be like that.

I said it in an earlier topic that so many stuffs should be looked into in Nigerian relationships,public display of affection should be allowed and partners should get more intimate and try to spice up their love life,even if it will depreciate, it will take a longer time.

Tell her to back off from those guys,if she really wants you,i think she shld.

Lived in Ibadan for several years,attended Nickedel College Ibadan,Akobo,Stayed in Alakia ,anybody from NCI, Holla

;d ;d ;d ;d omg, lmao

Remember we have under 18 on this forum

That was a very nice joke.

It is normal,and infact its better you look for love among pple of your class because there is lot of headache in dating someone from a different class

That looks good,most especially the communication aspect

There's nothing wrong with that

she is not in love but at times older guys solve ladies problem,they understand you better but not as in 25years difference.I think 5 to 10 years difference is alright.And is the man not married already??

gbeborun:
Nigerian girls are terrible, very materialistic and greedy. if you no get money, then no show for you. abeg make u go find jamo chic, easy to maintain and no long thing. They will service you even better!

Not all Nigerian gurls are materialistic and terrible,the company you keep determines the type of gurls you hang out with.Look for those living with their parents and hose whose parent still have time for and has a stable job.

This is so dificult.

And as people has advised its all about the way you feel about her,if you think you will be able to forgive her totally,you can always give her another chance.Good luck.

looks like you have no feelings for this your so called present guy,he promise to marry you is not the issue but do you feel anything for him
and if you decide to go back to your old guy,do you consider the present guys feelings.

jaybaby:
My Dear It didnt wrk no Shyt---When i had my 1st & only BreakDwn ---I got a Packet of Cigarette & even ordered for a bottle of GIN---OMO @ the end I only got Fcked Up! I vomited like Crazzzzzzz !

Still I went Clubbing & danced like a LovePeddler --I regretted it

That one na bad thing oooooooo.

Its not only nigerian men,Nigerian ladies are also affected its all because of the mentality,we consider a lot of stuff to be immoral and as a result we neglect all this stuffs and that's one of the reason why marriages get boring after a few years because of those stuffs we have got in our head
Have you guys ever considered why relationships dont work between a Nigerian man and a lady who has been raised abroad,its all because of all this thingy we consider immoral.

thats a very funny and sad as well but i never had of such stories,you too,thats a lesson,never try to take advantages of young ladies.

its so difficult but let her know about your past and be very transparent,there's this guy i met a couple of years back,though he has dated several ladies,he made all this clear to me and he was very straight forward and transparent and trust me am now even keeping a long distance relationship with this guy though with the help of his parent.

mubowa:
i call him oko and he calls me obo

OMG thats so funny am laughing my ass off,

Anyway,i call my own his oriki "AYOFE"

Guys shouldnt generalise and besides its only when you taste something new that you realise that the old one aint alryt"ariyawo ko iyale".

Well,it all depends,there is this mentality about Nigerian gurls that guys should do most thingy and carry most burden in a relationship which shouldn't be.I think,you have to call her now because there is this yoruba adage which says "ti ogiri o ba lanu,alangba o le wo be"If u stop calling her now,she sees it as something else probably you aint caring or you have been seeing another girl,dont loose her finally because of this,try to call her,make sure things return to normal and finally you can talk about it that you feel neglected by that and that she should try to call you at least once in a while.Best of luck my brother.

I cannot see that as a sin,its just what guys of nowadays have turned into that makes premarital sex a scary thingy.

I think the best thng for you to do is to sit her down and about it,ask her why she puts on those those tight fitted mini skirt and soesnt put on trousers,to me its all about the way she feels about it,but let her know that you see no reason why she cannot put on trousers and by the way you should have noticed that she doesn't put on trousers and you should have talked about it but then there is no reason and no big deal about wearing trousers.Cheers.

I met my bf when i finished secondary school ,i haven't gained admission so i decided to learn hair dressing,this so called guy stays very close to the salon,all i realised was that he comes to my salon everyday to gist.We became friends and he later asked me out,and if i must confess,i really tripped,i have been in the relationship for almost two years now and its been fun.