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You guyz are never satisfied,if she play hard to get,she fronts a lot,she's giving in almost immediately n she's too cheap, U DON'T KNW WOT U REALLY WANT.

ThoniaSlim:
cause most of them have got this general mentality that the longer it takes the more the guy would cherish them and they don't want the guy to think they are cheap

I totally agree wit dis.

money definitely is not everything but then,ladies want to live a comfortable live,no lady want to get married and start suffering.If he's waiting because he wants to be financially alryt,thens its cool,he wants a comfortable life for you i think,so you can always wait.

adeoba:
20

OMG thats too late what if you want to get married @ 20 or 21?


Its not a matter of when others started,you are unique,its just you need to mbe matured enough and know what you want,because most ladies satrted dating @ a very tender age and later felt they have made a mistake because they haven't met enough guyz and never had the opportunity to compare,i started @ the age of 15 n am still lovin evry bit of it but that was because i knew what i wanted the n picked the right guy.So search for the right guy.

You have said it all you love your guy you only fancy th other,they are two different words,love and fancy, i want to believe you know that your boyfriend aint into fashio before going out with him,so i see no reason why this should become a big deal now.

Another point i'd like you to realise in life is that your boyfriend can neva be the best,just when you think he is,you will find someom=ne else but you need to know that he's UNIQUE,no other person can be exactly like him,so don't be decieved by outward appearance,it will never last,bad boys don't want unless you're fortunate to get one who's willing to drop those trash and settle down and thats by the way an exception cuz most of them won't,stay with your boyfriend n learn to apprecaite what you've got.

i don't think its wise to move in with a guy whilst in Uni.There's no guarantee that any relationship will turn into marriage , so dont take the risk, avoid been used and dumped.

Its not always a good option to stay with a guy like that oooooooooooo

@ Seun
I totally disagree with you on this ,you can still find a good gurl thats not born again.

@topic
My bro,make sure she's from a good background and if possible avopid ladies from broken homes they are not likely to make one,a lady that will respect you and your family members and last but not the least a lady that loves you,that when you have it all.Best of luck.

I really want to know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!So i can run as if the whole world is chasing me n besides knw the reason why he's doing dat

IBDat,Debosky n Femi, y d glasses ,take dem shades off n lets c ur faces anyway sha, let me go n vote

Trust me,African women are far more reliable,infact Nigerians and Ghanians to be precise,all this level of immorality that raises alarm in Nigeria are the norm in western countries,sit yourself down and look for an african lady with a good backgroung,treat are right,give her the attention that she demands, and ,

You can't love two pple at thesame time,you love one and you are desperate to have the other because you want to fulfill your sexual desire,i think you can talk to your first girl if she can move to Abj or make arrangements of seeing each other once in a forthnight.

my brother,run for your life,its not advisble to keep such a relationship, search and you will find another cutiepie.

I think the woman herslf has left the space for that,i see no reason why a married woman will be awy from the house for over 12hours everyday leaving her husband to baby sit,even if the husband doesn't complain,i think she should be considerate and reasonable,thats damn too much and thats neglecting her home,if her husband can open a supermarket for the so called lesson teacher,i think she could have as well asked for that and take up a private business that would have saved her home because money is not everything in life.

The mother in law cannot be blamed,in fact she has been really fortunate to have such a nice mother in-law,she gave birth to her husband and i believe she must have seen some things before telling her what she told her in the first instance,she only tried to save the home by not letting the cat out of the bag and advising her

Its a pity that she has got such a LovePeddler and irresponsible man as a husband,i see no reason why a man should cheat and it would have been a different story if he had once objected to her leaving the house early in the morning and coming back late at night

Nevertheless,i think we ladies have learnt a lesson fromt his because i am very sure her so called job cannot bring her the happiness she will derive from her home and i know it can never be thesame again.

I think you have no choice than to put yourself together and sstrat from somewhere,we are afraid of every unknown journey we wnat to take ,so i think you need to put that at your back and try to get a lady but be very careful and look befor e you leap,there's this aspect that we do neglect,a lady's background and family,try to find a lady that was brought up in a proper family settings and raised with love ,they seems to value a relationship than tose from a broken home.Its never advisable for you to just sit down there,i am wishing you good luck.

Indeed,it something that kinda show how intimate you are with somone,@least you can't just kiss an ordinary guy,so i think its a way of showing some luv, But trust me,its fun if you are kissing someone that you really like.

just speak out your mind,if u're the serious type not those chop n clean mouth guyz.

If you think he is all you need in a guy,then its worth waiting for him

those i love yous
those big hugs
givin her those sexy looks
asking how was your day
telling you sweet nothings
looking straight into your eyes wih a smile on his face
crack funny jokes
holding hands when walking
give her nice pecks
taking her out to cool and quiet places
little surprises like leaving her love notes when she's not expecting hit
watch her sleep or lean on your shoulder
sending her those sweet messages when she's not with you
carrying her when she's got complain

A lot of things indeed,

OMG,so you guys are actually looking for love,keep on searching,

Get real my dear,its not a measure of how sincere he is,you need to be more careful with that type of guy.

Dont consider goin back to your old guy,it wont work out,exercise patience,try and talk to your present guy,tell him whats on your mind,then you can know what's on his mind,if he really wants to keep you or let you go.

smartsoft:
Well if she is kind of faithfull to me and she is not flirting around with other men outthere, well i will keep the relationship, because she might not want to kiss because that could lead to something else she wouldn't like.

But if she is Faithfull i will still keep the relationship, but if she is not faithfull to me well got no choice to save her heart and look else where.

I totally agree with smartsoft on this.

its alwez been lyk dat,get real,tell her ur plan.i think if u can keep each oda for 3yrs,u shld b able to work sumthing out,at least you get to see each other like once in a month and you know the reaso why its like that,she's not ignoring,its other stuffs that keeping you apart.

the best thing for you to do is not to ignore her,call her,get real and close again ,then you can discuss it wit her,dont loose her,she wil think that u aint caring again,dont loose her because of this,issues lyk dis aint worth quarelling on.

in dey happen,evryday no be xrismas now

Its pity,better days are coming anyway,

definitely,you can get one,we still have decent gurls in Nigeria.

you need no advice,you know the right thing to do.

Not all guys but most,i believe there is no law without excepption,have never been a victim of an ingrate guy though.