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I won't buy that shoe for 20k, don't like its design.

Useless nation

EdenH:
but he releases book haram "repentants" in their hundreds

I wonder the parameters used in measuring their repentance.

1StopRudeness:
We christains should read the books Paul wrote more with understanding.. and not just go about creating multiple standards with judgmental mindset saying what a person is doing is sinful, this is why christaindom is full of too much denomination...
While trying not to conform with the ways of people who do things without any form of control or without spirit leading.. let’s not eventually slip into relegion at the same time...

there’s no heavenly dance, all is earthly derived... it is the heart that matters when dancing or any form of praise..
are u dancing to show off dance moves or tweak so people can see u are sexy...
Whateva dance u want to dance go ahead so far u ain’t heart isn’t pointing to you but pointing to God which is what true worship is.:

So you can dance Soapy Shey?

In all your gettings, get wisdom!

Hotzone:
I remembered this year when kofi Kingston visited his hometown is Ghana with his WWE Championship Belt and went back to America and lost the prestigious title.

Josh, be careful with your village people

Lol, wrestling is scripted and the victor of any match is already known beforehand by the script writers.

If they want kofi to retain his title for 10 years, they will do it.

Meklex:
self con. 150k. Anambra

Wow, you na big boy o.

It'll take me 3 months salary to pay that kinda rent.

Meklex:
yep. Last week.

Wow, neat room.

Is that a self con or just a room face? How much is it?
Location?

ganie:
I am in this situation presently,I live with my mom alone being her only son.

I am a graduate and presently employed with a salary of over 50k,I am fit to rent a room self contained apartment that is close to my place of work. Though,I intend to actualise this in the next two months.

But I have been thinking of how it will be like considering I am the only one with her though I have made it compulsory that I will continue to assist her with a stipend to cater for the expenses I take care of presently.

Please advise me.

How much is the self-con you plan to rent?

okikiosibodu:
This is highly untrue. Once discovered my "babe" in Onitsha where she was serving, screwing around, anoda one in Ekiti was busy sending her nudes up and down to different guys, and I was in Lagos.. .. You only need both lines to be online at the same time to be able to read it. When you check the option on your firefox to continue from open tabs, you don't need to be scanning the Barcode again. You just scan it once, and you are good to go, unless the other party cancels the connection
@Nobleking2000 (you can remove your number now) and Hullabaloon, here is a thread I Inc created to explain this, I hope you find it helpful.

https://www.nairaland.com/3060322/how-access-single-whatsapp-account

I once taught one of my big cousins this and he set it up on he phones of a lady he saw a future with. She was a coded runz girl. Wil ask him money for an item, and ask the same money from several other guys. When he gives her the money and other guys to do same, she wil buy one of it and snap the pix to every "Maga" that paid her, that that was what she got with the money they sent her. Each mumu will be feeling proud within himself that he was able to take care of her

I am however withholding some information cos I am not encouraging anyone it hack into anyone's privacy (even though in some cases, it is inevitable when a talented and skilled liar is involved

Thanks bro, lemme peruse the thread

Meklex:
26 and still living with my folks. Will be moving out before June

This is July, you don move out?

PotatoSalad:
Manually create a databases folder immediately after downloading the WhatsApp. Paste the file there and start WhatsApp. Then you can restore

At the bolded, does it mean I'll have to uninstall and reinstall the WhatsApp after carrying out The instructions in your first paragraph? Cos that's the only time I see the restore option.

If it's that, then I did, saw 20 messages restored, yet the chat page was blank.

I really need to grasp this method

okikiosibodu:
Whatsapp web did the trick for me. Was just monitoring it live and direct on the chrome on my phone. I requested desktop site

Can you detail how you did it?

TeeFriz:
Does it work with whatsapp too?

Nope.

PotatoSalad:
Go to the person's file manager, then go to WhatsApp, go to databases and find the chat backup of the day you want to explore. It's in .crypt12 format
Copy and send the database to your phone via Bluetooth. Don't forget to clear Bluetooth activity after sending. Then download WhatsApp Business, paste the database file in the WhatsApp folder/databases and do as if you're creating a new account, enter your second number and restore backup.
All her chats will now be displayed on your WhatsApp business app. Then read and drink sniper

Tried this, didn't work for me.

When I download the app, there's no database folder. I had to open it, created my first backup before I could see a database folder in the file manager.

Then, I copied a .crypt12 file and pasted it in the app folder, then uninstalled the app, reinstalled it, restored my backup, yet it wasn't there.


Or is there anything I missed?

goalgetter01:
bro pls can you help a brother on how to do that? I would really appreciate

Mine is very simple. Download any screen recorder app.
Tell babe that you can't access your account, tell her you don't know what's wrong, whether it's network or a problem with your account.

Give her your phone and Tell her to try logging in and out to see if hers will go through.

Switch on The app before giving it to her, as she inputs her email and password, the app will capture everything.

Thank me later

Cc : Nobleking2000
Iberu001

nasoeb:
I always count myself special and lucky for sharing just the same day of birth with an Icon in the Nigerian Project.
Please Nairalanders, show some love, because today is my special day, my one day amongst the 365, My Birthday.
Let the "Likes & Shares" keep rolling in.
Thanks.

These guys are heartless. Nobody gave you even a single like, take heart bro

shogsman:
It was a rather unfavorable even,let's just say they preyed on my weakness.

Baba, narrate with details, I beg of you.

You could be saving someone from a similar ordeal in the future.

shogsman:
I use to think I was Sherlock until I got played myself.so you're right,doesn't matter how smart you are,in this case her desperation was used against her.

Pray tell, how were you scammed?

Galaticos444:
read his earlier post(he doesnt womanize,drinks nor smoke) and probably he doesnt put on xpensive clothes and accessories.in conclusion op is living a boring life

Lolz, one man's meat.. Another man's poison


What makes life exciting for you could be very different from what I find enthralling. Each to his own

Thanks guys for the advice so far..

Gloriagee:
Well said

.

The secret is quite simple: I don't drink, I don't smoke, ain't got no girlfriend. Don't need one now.

So, the only expenses I make are feeding, T fare, and helping parents with cash when food stuff and other utilities run low at home.

I would have even saved more if not that I provided half of the rent where we currently stay, bought a new laptop and a new phone when I lost the previous one I had, and of course, upgraded my wardrobe

keepingmum:
You are only able to save 400k because you live with your parents
Do not move out till you have saved 1Millionaire that is kept aside for investment purposes such as buying a land, buying a car/bus/keke for side biz

Moving from a rent free place to your own self rented place is NOT an investment - dont allow anyone decieve you..... Like you have stated, your job is not secured, if you move out now and loose your job months down with nothing to rely on, you will use those same hands and pack your load back to your parent's

You dont have to be biz inclined to have side hustles - those are hustles not meant to be your main income, but profitable enough to cover bills like monthly mobile/data top ups, electricity bills, tp to work, dstv etc cos those bills add up

Another advantage of staying with your parents which you may perhaps agree with (i am sure this helped towards your savings as well) is that you are restricted on your "tgif" behaviour, splurging on drinks et al, mama put etc and all that would be a weekly occurence once you start living independently.

Thanks for your input. I'll put this into my thoughts

Jayslicky:
Ok that good, at least you earn over 700k in a year, the normal rule is that your rent should not be more than one-fourth of your salary in a year, it depends on how you spend money on things, it is better than if you cancalculate what expenses monthly, you calculate how much you spend on food stuff, calculate what you spend on clothes, calculate how much you give out to people sometimes, calculate the cost of maintaining the apartment you plan on getting(nepa bills, security bills etc) subtract it from your salary, if the remaining money is not up to 5k monthly, then don't even think of trying to move out of your parents house because that is not progress but waste of time.

I suggest you still stay in your parents house till at least a year more, you just started working and you need to be balanced before getting your own apartment, I know you want your space as a man but just have a little patience the right time would soon come.

As for expenses, I'm frugal with expenses. I don't drink, don't smoke, ain't a womanizer.

Thanks for your input.

shege45:
My bro people would always talk ooo. If you move out tomorrow and you ask dem to borrow you money, na dem go still yab you. My guy you don’t just move out like that ooo, you should move out with the hope of never returning. So I’d advice you stay in ur peeps house, atleast them no they chase you. So long you are not depending on them and you also contribute to the upkeep of the house. Baba dey where you dey. Its not even fat from ur work place. But always keep in mind that you would move out soon. Just keep saving bro

That's my major fear. Moving is permanent and would consume great resources....

It's an investment of its own. A necessary evil

ashewoboy:
some people will storm this thread now. inviting you to do business. don't mind them. don't do any business with anybody here. they are all scammers. I don't know why people are inhumane. somebody comes here with his predicament. your own is how to scam him. don't call anybody.

Lol, trust me, I'm not gonna listen to any business proposition from anyone here.

Jayslicky:
How much is the house rent for the apartment yearly?

I'm targeting a self-con of 100 to 120 per year... Not more than that.

Location: Anambra state.

Guys I need advice on what to do at this point in my life.

Got a job, in my state, place of work not far from parent's house (rented flat).

I've managed to save up to 400k so far, I've always longed to move away from my parent's house and get my own place, but they'd always kick against it, citing that there's no need for that since work is close to home. Left for them, they'd like me to stay till I plan for marriage whenever that will be; Lol, parents sha.

I'm already 28 years old, so I think it's time.

My colleagues already yab me anytime they get the opportunity, they love reminding me that I still dey chop mama thank you.

Problem is, the job security at my place of work is not that encouraging. I have older colleagues who have been in the company for 8 to 15 years, I've also, within my short period (less than a year now) seen about 5 workers sacked, it's a place where any thing can happen at any time.

So, should I invest this 400k in renting and furnishing an apartment with the constant uncertainty hovering over the job,and no side income yet, or should I continue staying with my parents while I invest the money in a side business which I don't know how it'll fare...

Now, frankly speaking, I'm not cut out for business, it's not my forte at all, so starting any at all comes with great risk but I still feel the need for another source of income.

On the flip side, Staying with my parents is not even as economical as most would think. Ever since I got the job, parents no dey gree say them get money again. All the bills are on me.

I'm just confused.

Salary fluctuates between 60 to 80k