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Dshocker:
Truth is 75% will fail or fall for it....

True true, genuine true love is scarce and and these boils down on poverty...

Take UK for example, getting sex is very difficult, unless she loves you, because the girls are comfortable and can provide basic life necessity.

Unlike in Nigeria, a girl is ready to sleep with you, all to see money to eat, it is terrible.

It’s about the looks outside. You have to live up to their fantasy and check dating platforms. Na you go run.

G00DHardDick:
You must be a simp for thinking money is the most powerful tool you have as a man. What happens when your money finishes? She'll dump your ass without thinking twice.

Young man, while money is important, Attention is the most powerful tool you have as a man, let her crave badly for it yet be extremely selfish with it. guide it very well

Attention is fickle. On an average, women get tons of attention from all social media platforms. If she doesn’t like him and he starves her of attention, it’s short one and he fades into oblivion. Now on the other hand, if an average guy she doesn’t like uses money to make her feel comfortable and have date like experiences together, she starts to get attached and develop feelings. Or would you tell me that a lady will prefer to have the attention of a suitor or sit in front of a Mercedes Benz

G00DHardDick:
Dear men,

Attention Money is the most powerful tool you have as a man, use it wisely.

Op you’re correct but it depends tho because this modern women are doing plastic surgery and it seems a lot like the original

Probably because you may seem boring to them, and you don’t tickle their fancy.

pansophist:
Nice plan, but wait o, I have seen people with such plans here, and even if they succeed, their life will never remain the same, and probably for the worse. Oya grab a popcorn let go

So you land at JFK New York airport, and probably that night, you match one whale on Tinder, and a week later, you propose. She was so excited and said YES. She said YES

So fast forward three months later, you guys are officially married, and the dawn of your American dream begins. You are on a straight ride to your green card, congratulations.

But because you didn't love her, and only sees her as a means to an end, her presence disgust you. Just the imagination of her triple-layer potbelly rubbing your body during sex makes you vomit and wonder if the juice is worth the squeeze

She proudly puts you guys' pics all over her Facebook, and something just looks off. Everyone can see it, even you. But since you are the best she can get, she doesn't care. She is happy that she found love.

Her life to you was very real, which makes it easier for her to live. But your own life is filled with lies, that made every day an agony for you. For example, she wonders why you hate holding her hands in public or going out with her since you do go out always.

She wants a child, and to keep the lies going, you have a child with a woman you desperately do not want. The sight of the child alone makes you angry, as it represents a living testimony of your lies.

Also, you are aware that even when you break up with her, the child becomes a dagger in your underbelly where you will pay child support till he/she is 18, to a woman you despise.

She probably is not an idiot. She knew deep down that something is off, and that you are with her for papers. If she doesn't knows, she has families, friends, and of course, social media to tell her that

She has evidence from your behavior because the last time you kissed her was last year, and even during her birthday, refuse to perform sexually as the black African man that you are

You keep asking yourself, does this paper even worth it? The job you manage to get is a job that stresses your life, and the money goes to sustain a home you don't want.

And if the devil wants to punish you completely, a few months to when you will be free from her without your immigration status being affected, she serves you the sweetest karma, by breaking up with you.

Then you start afresh.

To swipe for a new whale. But now you are older, probably broke as the average American, and under heavy child support payment. You just realize that suffering comes in different ways.

You reminisce on your freedom back home, and how even though you were poor, you had your life together. And wish you never started this journey.

This might not be your fate, but it's the fate of so many men in the diaspora. I personally know a 36-year-old guy with three baby mamas, still undocumented. He thought he was smart and went on an impregnation spree.

But the girls ain´t idiots. They realise he needed them for paper and never gave it to him. And if he successfully becomes a legal resident, he will start paying child support to three children. He might not even see his salary, it will be deducted automatically.

Then you realize that the saying ¨No peace for the wicked is true¨. And wish you never started this mess.

You vividly described the past, present and possible future. I was so happy when she said she was not pregnant lol

henrygold100:
my phone is taking hours to on after it went dead due to low battery. We dont have light. Am charging with powerban

Get a new charger

Na to drop song about the whole ordeal go follow

Being gay is insanity. Said it.

Lurdd:
I don't even know how to start explaining this..
I feel like I've been charmed before
And now my eyes are cleared.
Am depressed right now,
The money am saving for my house rent and other bills.. I've just lost it all this morning, just last night I was feeling bored and I logged into a betting site.. although I used to gamble a little before but I don't bet more than 200#, but I still can't just explain what I did to my self last night. So signed up betking last night..my budget was to play 500 game..till I didn't know what took me to virtual.. I first played #500 on Goal goal and under 2.5, but I lost it..then I went ahead to deposit 2k, I lost it also, I then deposited 5k and only won 700 and again lost it also.. I continued depositing and chasing my loses til I realized I've gambled away 215,000 just last night..
I can't bear this
At this critical time
I just feel like chocking myself to death

Smh. You are sport betting like a chronic gambler instead of investing like a shrewd businessman

Go and learn how to barb hair

Then you are the devil if you are tempting someone to sin during the holy month

SPAMBOX7:
I am not the type that got time to watch series but the few times I'm gonna be watching this particular series I will be updating y'all from time to time.


I'm still watching this reality show titled "Perfect Match" on Netflix and this rugged looking tattooed guy called Dom is just crying over a girl like a child. I don laugh tire.
If you judge people by their appearance especially a man you may be wrong most of the time.
One girl called him a baby in a big man's body 😂
Women are a million times more cold and brutal than any living creature. Like cut throat💀
Even if you don't have time try to watch from episode 3-5. There is so much to learn.


I'll keep updating y'all as It goes tho. For those of you who have enough time to sit and watch series this one is a good one for you. They are so many lessons to learn for both genders

You’re in for a surprise then. It’s not about playing games but about finding that genuine love and connection.

depressedlad:
im smoking cigarette now

Smoke weed, learn barbing, create YouTube channel then do forex last. Forex is very profitable but dangerous

You need money to be happy simply because it solves like 80% of whatever problems.

pikechukwu6:
Chimpanzee don't go to gym my friend. respect your identity

Uncle ruckus

No be about come back home for ins dey talk. Why not encourage your bro/sis to persevere or stay strong.

Blake755:
God give me money make I ball small 🙏🏾

Amen oo. There’s a difference between living and existing

Why do all of these men receive different visions from the same source?

Men should not cheat but should give the impression that lots of women want him if not his wife will play games with him

News?

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Like she burns with anger when I post a selfie…[/color]

Jealousy my dear. Just pour water on her so she doesn’t burn finish. She’s still your friend kinda

Women really do like guys that mistreat them

Winning international art competition in Mumbai is the ultimate validation.

Electric bicycle is what Nigerians need

You don see where banny waka come meet you give you better kiss

No be lie. Looks is extremely paramount. You gats get plenty swags, plait hair, do dreads, wear earring. Infact dress like a hiphop star. Ehnn… na when dem go dey use their leg waka come meet you.

Emperormartin:
As the topic goes, what is that weird thing your partner either your husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend have asked you to do and you're still considering it or have actually done it...

I will go first!!!

Just recently this year the girl I've been dating since last year January told me I should perforate my ear... That it'll be cool on me wearing earrings...

It's funny though but Since that time I've been thinking about it cos it's kinda weird to me

Now over to you, What's yours

Piercing your ear outside will get you more love and affection if not them go just dey look you like jjc. New breed of Africans

This guy dey use person salary by suya. Doings.