Yungmil: Please guys am seriously in confusion right now on what to do, I work in a tomato company in Kano state.
My supervisor who is related to the owner of the stole my money about 70k.
Now my confusion is if I should report him or not because he is our supervisor and the company only listens to him and not the other workers.
Am scared if I go ahead and report him I might end up being affected. They all speak housa which I don't.
It is only both of us in the office, yet he denied it. I don't have any other job yet
Please should what should I do?
I have just three advises to give you.
1. Make an official report that your funds was stolen from you. Provide the timing and the amount but do not state you suspect ur supervisor. If you do state you suspect him, and at the end of the day there is no evidence against. He will either set u up or get u sacked
2. Look for palm front, red dress to tie. Rub the native chalk on ur face. Then go to him when u know only u both are alone. Just make some kind funny noise like incantations. Make sure there is no CCTV camera.
Lol. He will not only give u themoney but with extra.
3. Behave like u didn't loose funds. Keep smiling. The thief will come again. Set trap. You will have a serious case if u catch him red handed not just mere suspicions.
JungleJustice01: Thanks to everyone for the input. The problem is my brother isn't so well to do financially. His salary is barely enough for him to survive and he's also an SS.
For this reason, we have been taking care of him from time past. When parents passed, I gladly left him all the funds, cars and all just to help. I still send him support time and again so it's kind of out of place to sit him down and start discussing legal terms, it'd look more like I'm trying to kick him out from getting anything anymore.
I also can't sell the house in it's current state. That will be most unwise business wise.
I'm considering dividing the house but is there any reason one half should be good and the other crumbling? How do I share fixing borehole, compound lights, entire roofing, replacing all windows and interlocking the compound?
I could easily leave the house in it's state and build mine but that's not a good legacy either.
You have a good heart. From all I read here. Some brothers no send man. Go ahead and retrofit the house. The Universe will provide more for you.
Sit yourbro down and tell him about ur plans also. His idea might be the best.
Has he started producing sperm virile enough to impregnate ?
Yes... You need to see the growth rate of this people in USA. I do not know what they feed them. I saw my cousins who are below 15 and they are almost 6.7 .
This had me realize I have had it easy I thought things like that only happen in our grandmothers generation How do women manage, 8 child from the delicate vagina
I think nigerian men are abusive
These montessori people are wicked mehn
As long as their father has money to take care of all of them. Give them good education even after graduation. I see no problem there. But I won't practice that . 4 kids. I'm done.
While growing up in warri, we had two families as neighbors. One was Urhobo while the other were Igbos. Both families had seven boys each. No girl. They sent all to university. All are graduates .
ExAngel007: Friends mourn Nigerian man who died today hours before his flight to the UK for his Masters programme
Friends of a Nigerian man identified as Okpani Ugochukwu, have taken to social media to mourn him after he died today May 19, hours before his flight to the UK for his Master's degree.
According to his friends, late Okpani Ugochukwu secured a scholarship for a Masters program in a UK University and was to leave Nigeria on Friday.
He shared a post on his Facebook wall on Thursday night, informing his friends that them he will be leaving for his Master's.
His friends say he slept and did not wake up today. They have taken to social media to express their sadness over hissudden demise.
God1000: Lol, the ICC prosecutor doesn't care because he won't travel to Russia for anything, but Putin will be arrested if he travels to any country that is signatory to ICC
Ronaldo723: My girlfriend of 8 months has broken up with me because she says I have no plans for her
I was surprised by the outburst cus she is still very young just 19 I don't know what she means by this statement because non of us are ready to marry now
I love this girl so much... I suspect that because her birthday is coming up next month and I haven't said anything about it so she feels I don't take her seriously
I have pleaded and talked to her but she is adamant about her decision that she is tired as I'm wasting her time
I haven't talked about her birthday yet cuz I'm having a hard time, things are pretty tight with me but she just can't understand
Please guys what should I do I'm truly in love with this girl that I'm having a hard time moving on
Why would u be dating a 19yr old.you still doubt the hoeing phase? All they want to do is go on dates, have wild adventures and sex escapeds.
Reminderz: smh! why is it that those people who didn't do even half of all these showoffs and PDA didn't experience divorce and cheating cases unlike people of today? it only shows that people are marrying for the wrong reasons and not because they are truly ready to commit to their partners...
what most people see as genuine in this modern times is nothing more than fantasy and satisfaction of illusions which we created for ourselves... if you like go moon make una go do honeymoon, when shits hit the fan, you'll regret ever doing this and your so called soulmate might actually end up taking your soul if you choose wrong..
World people. People must not subscribe to your terms or perspective of life. Allow people to live and you live.
Pda doesn't mean you are a simp man. Most of these people forming Redpill here abuse their women in the name of Redpill.
So I was like wow! She gats to be mad rich to say stuffd like these na. I even Googled her. No net worth. Poor people and bride.
I do not need to spend months with a lady to know if she has sense. I just need to hear and speak and see how you treat people who you do not benefit anything from.
Woman way no get sense... Na her p...sy dey suffer am.
Zigzagman: this is hard to follow in nigeria. women are not designed to understand a man's problem. All men who try to carry their wives along, it always ends in tears
Na so my neighbor decided to carry his wife along. The man dey Canada send millions for the wife to purchase lands. Madam invest it all in MMM... You know the rest.
Some people will rather allow the country burn than see someone who means well rull. Take away tribalism and religion from a nation and see it become a force. Look at china. If Dem born u well as a politician, thief public funds or collect bribe.
Now worry. Once they remove subsidy. The poverty level that will hit Nigeria will enter guiness book or records.
abobote: Blenkin is right even though some people would be disappointed.
Nigeria government and other enemies of South East, that have been celebrating the ugly incident
Please can you mention the others that have been celebrating these events in the East? Una go just buy data come nairaland with tribalistic minds and be typing shit like people who do not have one iota of sense.
I dare you to mention just two people that have been celebrating it.
southsouthking: Was it not the same police that issued the license in the first place? Let's not beat about the bush, there's are test individual have to undergo before owing a fire arm which include psyche evaluation, if Seun kuti did not pass those test, how come he owes a licensed fire arm? Let's start asking these questions because it's now obvious we have lots of crazy people out there who owes fire arms all because they have influence and money. And with their influence and money they by-pass due process just the same way lots of contraband by-pass custom check up because of one 'Oga at the top'. The Nigeria Police Force might end up shooting themselves in the leg on this case because the way they are going many questions will start popping up and they will close the case.
Please you are not in Nigeria right? How many people even pass driving test before they get licences to drive? Bribe has ruined Nigeria. Even V.I.O collect money now. Not to talk of the popo... In Nigeria, you can call the popo for someone who committed a criminal offence, they will follow you after u mobilize them o.. But you will see how they turn once the criminal has offered them much cash as bribe. Dem fit arrest you self ..
If if where to be in a sane country, the damages that bank will pay will set her up for life. Nigerian system is shitty. she might take the bank to court and then watch how the case will be ajourned for five years just because judge that collect money for back.
Lordofalmajiri: I understand the Woman's pain, how big girl like this no go fit recite ABCD? But education isn't by force Sha , she can learn a skill in future or join the hookupians .. all join...
Some people are slow learners. Does not mean they are dull. Have you not seen those students who are considered not too bright , go to universities and bag first class? While those taking first in secondary school bag 2.1?
DeJoeee: My gf just developed this recent habit of going to the kitchen with only her panties and shower cap leaving her breast bare.
Sometimes she will wear my polo(which is long on her cos I'm much taller) with no panties This is a girl who is naked shy as recent as december last year.
I'm not supposed to suspect her cos she's from a very responsible home and possibly my wife to be but the experience of others have thought me to suspect any new move of the other gender no matter how innocent.
Do I need to worry about this?
Please mods help push to front page for more mature advise . This issue is of big concern to me
Nooooo. Give her three piece suit make she wear enter the kitchen na
Megabig: Is something wrong with this our generation because I saw how my parents had a great marriage just like most of their friends.
I think relationships are not meant for some people and we have to all understand that it’s ok to be single for the rest of your lives. Why put so much pressure to get hooked with someone when you know your mind is probably somewhere else, is it desperation, greed or the insatiable nature of the human life?
So I dropped my ex at the Chinese cuisine (yes I have to be specific because she will read this and should know I wrote it)she works at on Tuesday,this is usually our routine since she starts work at 8am and I start at 9am to end at 5pm,she gets home late at 9pm sometime depending on her shift. On Wednesday,we drove as usual and on getting to her workplace, there were 3 police cars and yellow ribbons crossed over there with some people in front of it.This colleague of hers immediately seeing us trying to park there said “there is no need y’all,some 14 year old came to the store and shoot up the whole place around 5pm yesterday”. I was shocked because she should be at work too and how come she’s not aware of what we both are seeing and she tried shutting the lady up and I then further asked the lady why she also showed up since it happen yesterday and she ought to have known,she said because she’s scheduled to work today just like my babe and she was just looking at my ex,you know when you look at someone like “ hope everything is ok”?
My ex didn’t exit the car and I had to ask her where she was the previous day because I dropped her there at work,she started stammering that she went to see her lawyer,I then had to ask,so after seeing your lawyer at 5pm(which is obviously a lie because corporate mostly close at 5pm),you didn’t return to work because you ought to have known that someone was killed at your job, she then said she went home, then how did I get home before her because I close at 5pm and gets home before 6pm, I didn’t want her to keep blabbing,I immediately called her lawyers office and guess what guys?Her next appointment is June 12(Again,I wrote this so she can see it’s me). I immediately started recording a video with my camera faced down and repeated every question and she answered just in case she goes to court and I’ll nail the devil. I sha took my key from the evil,cashapped her money to take a train to her brothers place.Till today she never reach her bros place because he called and said she’s not picking and she is constantly texting.
This is a girl that got to America two years ago(I didn’t bring her)and just doing menial job for now while she work on getting her documents and also,she’s not paying rent(In todays America),I was even planning on doing something serious before the year runs out because normally,she seem homely, peaceful and seem quite calm unlike most party-prone babes we have around(E be like na this one’s worst).
What shocked me most was that I didn’t even get angry, I was just disappointed that I wasted my time but it didn’t seem like I lost something(why is that?).
Another trust shattered… smh
An okpetu in Europe na s okpetu. Na just accent go change.
FORWARDEVERLY: Emulate them and continue loosing guard to women... Ain't You... Never gonna be You... So Do you... My opinion remains unchanged.. when Dem show you shege.. if you create thread here.. I go still mock you... Rest Kid... And go Simping later...
Wise man.. Stop all these internet gangster... Are you seeking anyone's compliments or validation that your are an Alpha?
FORWARDEVERLY: The last time i was a pussy in relationships with Women was year 2015... Since then, I turned full Alpha till date... Normally I don't advertise the Redpill.. but if You were Redpilled, you for no loose guard like dis .. If you have learnt from this bitter experience then fine.. if you have not .. More lamentations would still come in no distant future...
Bro rest. The strongest (samson) and wisest(solomon) men for Bibile looseguard to Woman.