Femmyfamous4u: Hello all, I need to know if I'm doing some things right or over reacting.
My wife and I just married some months ago and we just spend here and there on stuffs. I bought food stuffs in the house and told her I will place her on 40k monthly to cover for soups and all and I expect her to add to it if it's not enough.
I foot all bills- house rent, Power, and all . She earns a decent 6 figures salary also which is slightly higher than mine without the allowances I get.
She expects me to still give her another allowance apart from the 49k I give her for food.
Each time she buys stuff in the house she always want me to pay back in full; most times, I just pay a part of it which she always frowns and complains about.
It appears she has a notion that her money is her money and mine is ours.
My income is more than hers though.
Do you think I should still give her personal pocket money?
Your wife earns more than you if I did read right. Then you are the only one spending. My question is what is she doing with her earnings?
Bro, your wife is saving her money for life after you die. After bills don kill you.
chisomkachy: Arrests 4 members of cartel, obtains court order to freeze millions in bank accounts, seize Lagos, Port Harcourt properties linked to leaders of syndicate
. Over 143million pills of opioids, 2tons of C/S seized in Apapa, FCT, 5 states
envoymedia: Nigeria's former aviation minister, Femi Fani-Kayode has said it is time for Nigerians to call on security agencies to declare Labour Party's presidential candidate, Peter Obi a terrorist following the leaked audio chat between the LP candidate and Bishop Oyedepo - founder of the Living Faith Church, IGBERETV reports.
As heard in the audio, Peter Obi pleaded with Oyedepo to help him canvass for Christian votes in the South West. Also, LP's spokesperson released a statement confirming the authenticity of the leaked audio.
Reacting to the development, Kayode wrote on his Twitter handle;
I work in a lounge in sabo and i'm paid 11000 a month.I have served my boss faithfully and dilligently for months during the course of my stay in this shop despite being owed salary.Even when other workers left citing underpayment and workload,i still stayed. It happened that during governorship election season,our lounge was robbed.The robbers made away with 194,000 new naira notes my boss kept in his office. what was more shocking that the robbery was a clean one meaning the robbers had access to the key to his office.It's only me and my boss that have the keys so I was questioned and interrogated.I didn't know anything about it and so I said.I was beaten and bruised. Nobody believe me say i dey innocent
Police came and i was detained.i was in cell for 13 days(i hear am for cell God)before being released last week.I was rold the culprit has been found.It was my boss mistress and brother that planned it.How they knew about the money is what i don't know. My boss messaged me to return but i don't want to.I want to know if i'm making the right decision.Thanks.
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Look for another. Your sanity worth pass 11k. He didn't even apologize. Lol.
I have a 3 siblings and I am at odds with my eldest who is a lady. The way it is, I may never have a conversation with her again.
She was the first person to be invested in by my parents after which I came. Luckily enough, she was able to strike gold in her career and do well for herself. She went abroad for her masters with my parents supporting with half-payment. Unfortunately, whenever it came to family demands and helping the other younger siblings, she has either been negligent or grudgingly does so.
Few years after going abroad, she decided to lockup and sends only 40k home which is supposed to cater for food for a month. Now parents are retired, the whole family weight falls on my following sibling and I. The youngest one education is on me. Happy she will finish soon. Parents need to be supported in challenging times, one is coping with diabetes and the other is with some challenging issues I can't say here. Their savings are being sapped by their needs to keep living on.
But my so-called elder sister based in Canada despite knowing their condition is silent. She still sends her peanuts, while I and my younger brother who is an upcoming fashion designer do 2X what she does. This aches our parents and sometimes makes our mother cry and our father rant with regret.
A time now came, our mum got admitted in the hospital. Condition was so salient that she had to be hospitalized for weeks. Hospital bill was 450k. The Canada-based first born doing a good job, who was always talking to her, praying with her on phone, etc only sent 100k. We the others did the rest. Glad mum is back at home but her heart is broken and has refused to talk with her. She's been in Canada for 5 years and has refused to even support any of her siblings to come abroad too.
My other siblings say because we all refuse to be dictated to by her is the reason for her behaviour. I don't care. Mine is that if you know that you are going to be useless to a family, let your parents know before hand so the money used in training/feeding you can be used for farming business which will despite bad weather bring returns than on a child who feels is not obligated to support the parents who supported you all through.
Did you ever care to talk to her and actually find out if she is not struggling there?
People should have these mindset that no one owes you anything. Even ur blood brother doesn't owe you anything.
Well if truly your Sis is doing well and she isn't helping then that is not good. Believe me you can spend 10yrs overseas and still struggle. Life is just grace.
ExAngel007: A Nigerian lady is of the opinion that begging someone for sex is a form of rape.
It all started when a Twitter user shared a thread disapproving of the notion that begging for sex is rape. The Twitter user had written
IT DEFINITELY ISNT RAPE. Begging someone for sex to the point they agree might be exhausting and unhealthy but it isn't rape. Rape has a clearly defined meaning.
So long as consent was affirmatively given, it isn't rape.''
Begging for sex is rape - Nigerian lady argues Responding, @LAJOKESAB said begging for sex is definitely rape.
‘’It is definitely Rape. The emotional manipulation that comes with being begged for sex is so exhausting and rigorous that a lot of women give in eventually to be raped. If it was consensual, no one will have to beg.
Rape is any unlawful sexual activity and usually sexual intercourse carried out forcibly or under threat of injury against a person's will or with a person who is beneath a certain age or incapable of valid consent because of mental illness, mental deficiency, intoxication, unconsciousness, or deception compare sexual assault,.
Udo155: Chinonso Ukah (born on May 27, 1996) is a Nigerian comedienne, influencer and actress, known by her stage name Nons Minaj or Ada Jesus has stirs reaction over her recent advert she advertised for a soap company. Nons Miraj went extremely nak€d and video herself taking bath with the advertising soap.
snthesis: Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried we got married young and she now in her early 30s
p.s she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain
onthehill: Nigerian Pastor Shares Edited Photo Of Blessing CEO's One-Legged Outfit (Photos)
Nigerian pastor, Ab Isong has shared an edited photo of Blessing CEO in which her one-legged outfit was covered with Catholic Women Organization (CWO) wrapper, IGBERETV reports.
I do not mean to body shame anybody but I have noticed that those ladies who have alot to offer do not go naked in the name of fashion. But you see those okpetu... always showing their ass. Before you mention your father here., tell me any lady on Forbes list that has done a butt job.
See them full Lagos Island.. looking like cartoon.
ozalogbo: I am the first child of my mother, and I have two younger male siblings. I am doing well financially. My wife is the last of four children in her family. My dad died when I was still in the university, and this affected my mum.
However, as she aged, her health waned. She was a retired teacher. My brothers are not in the country. Both of them are in Europe. I wanted to have my mother stay with me in her later years because of her health and loneliness but my wife did not want it.
Whenever she was ill and I brought her home to be with us, my wife was usually hostile, especially if my mum had stayed beyond a week. She did not hid her disapproval, and this caused problems in the marriage. People advised that I should send my mum away and pay someone to live with her and take care of her. They said that marriage was between a man and his wife, not between a man, his wife, and his mother. I did and peace returned. Eventually my mum passed on after a few years.
Along the line, my father in law also died. And down the line, my mother in law's health began to deteriorate. We live in the same town. Among my wife's siblings she is the only one doing quite well. Now there are suggestions that the mother should come and live with us so that my wife can give her proper care. I believe that her living with us and seeing her grandchildren will help her. And indeed i have no problem accepting her, but when i remember the treatment my wife gave to my mum, there is a strong revulsion, in fact, anger in me. I shared with a friend, and he advised i forgive my wife, but the revulsion is so strong that i would feel cheated if i agreed.
What do you guys think. She reminded me then that marriage was between a man and his wife only. Shouldn't this also apply to my wife now?
Do you even know how lonely your mother is? You are the only child in Nigeria ryt? Wetin you dey even reason self na wetin I no understand...
ozalogbo: I am the first child of my mother, and I have two younger male siblings. I am doing well financially. My wife is the last of four children in her family. My dad died when I was still in the university, and this affected my mum.
However, as she aged, her health waned. She was a retired teacher. My brothers are not in the country. Both of them are in Europe. I wanted to have my mother stay with me in her later years because of her health and loneliness but my wife did not want it.
Whenever she was ill and I brought her home to be with us, my wife was usually hostile, especially if my mum had stayed beyond a week. She did not hid her disapproval, and this caused problems in the marriage. People advised that I should send my mum away and pay someone to live with her and take care of her. They said that marriage was between a man and his wife, not between a man, his wife, and his mother. I did and peace returned. Eventually my mum passed on after a few years.
Along the line, my father in law also died. And down the line, my mother in law's health began to deteriorate. We live in the same town. Among my wife's siblings she is the only one doing quite well. Now there are suggestions that the mother should come and live with us so that my wife can give her proper care. I believe that her living with us and seeing her grandchildren will help her. And indeed i have no problem accepting her, but when i remember the treatment my wife gave to my mum, there is a strong revulsion, in fact, anger in me. I shared with a friend, and he advised i forgive my wife, but the revulsion is so strong that i would feel cheated if i agreed.
What do you guys think. She reminded me then that marriage was between a man and his wife only. Shouldn't this also apply to my wife now?
You Dad died while you where in the University right? Meaning your Mom was there for you and your siblings. All through the years of struggle. Now you are financially okay for you Mom to relax and enjoy her old age. You wife is against the idea and wants to bring in her Mothet into your home.
Omo everyone should play the hands they are dealt. Your wife is selfish. You can actually see how selfish she is if you do suggest that you both rent a place and pay someone to take care of her Mom.
I still don't know why you are looking for advice? Na wife ur pay the bride price?
Students and Pupils also joined in test running the BLUE LINE Rail built by the Lagos State Govt, which runs from Marina to Mile 2 … The Test run continues for different groups of people across the State, to familiarize Lagosians with the Rail system.
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Students and Pupils also joined in test running the BLUE LINE Rail built by the Lagos State Govt, which runs from Marina to Mile 2 … The Test run continues for different groups of people across the State, to familiarize Lagosians with the Rail system 🚃🚃#GreaterLagosRisingpic.twitter.com/K8vW2sM6xn
RTID: Blacc Chyna changed her name back to Angela White.. got all the fillers removed from her face and is getting tattoos removed…she got saved May of 2022….removed her only fans account in which she made 230 million dollars…. And is going back to her regular body…When God calls you to change…you will SURRENDER🙏
I absolutely love that for her🙌🏽
Who is she fooling Man. Let her give out the proceeds of the 230million na.
Voice22: ,Outrage as vigilante reportedly kill a 27 yrs old man over missing phone in Abia State
A yet-to-be-identified official of the Abia State Vigilante group has sh%t and k#lled a 27-year-old staff member of De Choice Eatery, Izuchukwu Mbakwe, in Umuahia, the Abia State capital.
According to multiple reports, the incident happened on Sunday, March 26, when the deceased had approached his manager over unpaid 5-months salary. It is alleged that the manager thr£atened Izu and ordered thugs to a§§ault him. One Eberechi Ezeocha on Facebook reports that while the deceased attempted to leave the premises, the thugs sh%t him in the legs resulting in his d£ath.
Another source reports that the deceased had arrived the company’s premises for work when the Internal Auditor summoned Vigilante Security Guards and demanded his arrest over the disappearance of a company-owned "Nokia Torch."
Overzealous guards were accused of str#pping and a§§aulting him before sh@@ting him at close range with a Pump Action Rifle. He was subsequently rushed to FMC Umuahia for treatment, where he passed on.
ebukajay184: 5 Men Burnt To Death For Allegedly Trying To Steal Tricycle In Onitsha (Graphic Photos)
Five men were burnt to death after they allegedly attempted to snatch a tricycle operator of his tricycle in Onitsha, Anambra State, IGBERETV reports.
The incident occurred at old Nkpor road, close to the headquarters of People’s Club, in the commercial city of Onitsha on Saturday, March 25, 2023.
An eyewitness said that the suspects allegedly tried to steal a tricycle from the owner in broad daylight when they ran out of luck and were caught.
“Mob who gathered after the men were rounded up, refused the advice of some people to call in the police. They first started by striping the men naked and beating them up, and eventually, some people brought old tyres and fuel, and they were set ablaze. It was a very bad sight today, and everyone watched and supervised, while the men burnt to death,” he said.
Emenike Obinna shared a graphic video from the scene with the caption;
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Ehinjuola: My name is Dimeji( not real name tho), I'm in my final lap in one of the prestigious uni in Nigeria, it happens my fiancee and I have been dating for long now, recently she discovered that she missed her period (though I'm not happy with it and at the same time I don't want ab*rtion) and couple the fact that I really love this lady and I want future with her. I want to quickly do her introduction before the bump is visible n I have taken a bold step by taken my parents to hers for unofficial intro before the real intro which has been set for next two months. But recently I do observe that she do post on her status about praying not to choose wrongly in term of relationship, (she has once asked me whether I don't feel we are rushing things in one of our conversation one time like that) plus the fact that whenever I called her recently the vibe is not there any longer, this is the person we are both serious with the relationship oo Infact she's the one that's pushing thing initially.
My question now is that, Is it anxiousness or marriage phobia or early pregnancy symptoms or she's just confuse or the feeling of not been ready that's worrying her? (She will be 26 next month)
You are in your finals and you have a fiancée?
Bro, pregnancy shouldn't be a reason to get married to the wrong person. Your babe is obviously not ready for marriage. It's obvious you wanted her to be in your future but have you asked yourself for once if you have just been painting pictures in your head?
You can be a responsible father even if you do not marry her.
Yedidea: I'm Solomon an Ibgo from my father's side,and my mom is a Ghanaian, My mom took me from Nigeria to Ghana ( UNAWARE ) of my father as I was a baby so I have never seen my own biological father ever since Born, and I have tried all humanly possible means to find him but not avail, my mom have declined to tell me every Truth about my father, after all my pressure on her to tell me where my dad is until now no good answer from her, but I'm desperately want to see my dad.
You Mom ain't sincere with his name. Who answers Paul Peter
The only information I have about Him is- my mom told me that His name is Paul Peter She said she has forgotten the sir name of my Dad, and she has also forgot the Nigeria state my dad comes from , My Dad was then a mechanical engineer in Lagos in assembling excavators ect..there was a pictures proofing that but she seized it, and she failed to tell me.
The Company name, I have my father's very old picture with me, posted with my mom, I'm now at age but I sincerely want everyone who will come across my massage join the searching help till I find my real family, my mom name is Grace , that was the name my Dad was aware of.
Please my precious reader help me found my dad and my home back in Nigeria, this is my Ghanaian number for call and WhatsApp -+233553121901 , God bless you and your family for helping me Amen.
1phone: This month of may complete a year I started dating this babe that I wanted to marry. But I noticed on several occasions through her attitude that her body is in the relationship but soul and spirit is not with me. I have spent in making sure she is fine. She got all my attention. And I have even gone to see her parents . So I stumble on this her comment on a guys page on Fb today. I confronted her and she just, without any remorse, said it’s just a comment neither did she call to apologize
Please experienced elders, is it enough reason to quit now?
Lol. It took you a year to notice that you have been dating yourself.
Why should someone arrested for cyber crime be freed because he supports a particular Canditate of your choice? Yet you celebrated the incarceration of hush puppy
That's crude Hypocrisy.
But what's with OBIdients and criminality
From Hudenyi whom Oxford Uni axed because of fraudulent book lunch, misogynism, sexism and racketeering. Now to Jude for Yahoo Yahoo
Well it's not surprising, Obi has penchant for criminality
Shame no even dey ur mouth? Your principal is a documented drug baron ooo
Family › Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by IamtheTruth1(m): 6:52pm On Apr 02, 2023
