₦airaland Forum

davillian:
Took a girl out she ordered sprite
I was shocked
I ordered my own food and drink.
After we finished talking I persuaded her to order her own food and get it packed for her to take home.

If she had ordered food, maybe you would have said she is a hungry Nigerian girl

asalimpo:
this isnt true. I've noticed d same issue. If u r smart or cerebral, u'll find ur choice of suitable dates shrinks terribly. Most nigerian women r so hollow nd empty tht a non-shallow conversation throws them off. They'll hate u for d experience of trying to get them to use their minds. I've known many women in real life,whom conversation dries up after d empty pleasantries.

So Nigerian men are intelligent??

It could be that you are meeting the wrong women...the same type of women.

But it's ok. Quite a number of Nigerian guys especially on this forum get a rush bashing Nigerian ladies. They choose to see and capitalize on the bad ones.

As i said in another similar female-bashing thread, it is only an unexposed and narrow minded guy that will make such conclusions based on his own limited and inconsequential experience.

Fake news. Bloggers be looking for ways to just discredit women

majamajic:
he is Arsena Wenger ,. bringing young players up for big buyers

Haba! You are mean

Defenderalert:
I have breezed through Ubunja miseducations and i know for sure he is no Alpha male. After males get involved in more serious issues. This one is not a serious minded person at all. Pvssy left right and center. Best is to.ignore a pathetic loser without a job.

I mean how can anyone have the time to write thos.nonsense that doesn't even hold water.

Common! How can you say this not a serious issue? Researching, studying and learning how to approach the wonderfully mysterious creations of God.

Ubunja needs to keep up the good work and take out more time to write more manuals and educate guys on how to access us.

Please give him credit

ericsmith:
yiimu !! if i bring up topics parallel to money or food now you start replying with one letter or worst still "lol"

Ok

ThothHermes:
Cry cry baby. The truth is always unpleasant. Point out one line of that thread that is untrue.
I know you can't.
This is common knowledge. If you are doing the chasing then you are at a disadvantage. This applies to men as well as women. Don't know what you are getting worked up for.

This your cry baby defense is weak

SageMK:
I have to say I've never experience this first hand.

Bro, search deep within you.
Maybe you are like a magnet to hungry women.

If you're after intellectual conversations, next time you want to pick up a woman, try visiting the state library.

I just love you(I am married and happy though before judgemental people will say I am flirting )

These guys pick easy girls from whatever site or location and start comparing them to serious minded ladies. And they keep attracting the same kind of women. They really need to check themselves.

Magnet to hungry women

I agree

Sounds like she's not into you. She is responding well to chats. She probably came for the food. But it hs nothing to do with "Nigerian girls"

It is a personal thing. It doesn't apply to all ladies. Don't generalize it

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Defenderalert:
A stupid way to reason Op needs a brain reset ASAP. I am certain he has no woman.As she chose you she is busy choosing and knacking several others.

Your brainwashing attempt has failed.

It hasn't failed. Can't you see the followers swallowing it hook line and sinker like zombies. You ain't seen anything yet.

The OP is somewhat the god of the weak men on Nairaland.

Regiomontanus:
What point are you proving by trying to shame and strawman the op? You think he isn't making it big? You would be happy if he stayed with his wife and suffer?

Was it even necessary for him to say he works with a multinational company? Of what relevance is it to his complaint?

Besides, his grammar doesn't really portray his claim

BanjiRaymond:
you won't admit it, what she said is true. Cheating shouldn't ruin your marriage as a woman. Ask your mother, she has a story to tell about your dad too. and her reasons for not quiting

And was your mum still happy in the marriage after your dad cheated? Or she just stayed because of the children and what society would say?

If she is a demon and you leave your child(who is supposed to be precious to you)with her, what does that make you?

Or are you just happy to be rid of the responsibility of caring for your son?

TANID:
Reasonably Thouth
But The Truth Is That That State Government Wouldn't Help And The painful Things Is That There's Budget Money For Something Like This And Even Ministry For Something Like This Like Ministry For Women Affairs And Ministry Emergency Etc

The government cannot keep funding people's foolish decisions. Even wealthy people hardly have 6 children. How does someone just keep churning out children like she is going to toilet?

If someone wants to help, they have to think of paying fees for 6 children...1..2..3..4..5..6. The parents didn't try at all

"another applicants worked in"

Hmmm

goat22:
Can you draw the line with peppered concealer and sugary MAC mascara?

Lol... I don't do extra. No foundation, not to talk of concealer. Pepper indeed!

It's not only women that bend their legs to snap . See Yomi Casual, Ik and Alex...lol..

You guys will be yabbing ladies. Now you act like you don't see this.

easzypeaszy:
Meaning it either them or the chipmunks that gave our ladies d idea of drawing long line wt powder along der nose

That line in professional makeup is not supposed to be that visible. Some ladies just overdo it. Besides, it's not supposed to be an everyday makeup.

Eroms4life17:
Why are nairaland women always angry ah ah? Am not fighting with you now? You have made your point and i have clearly passed a message across. Let's leave it at that.

Smh

Why all the assumptions? Who told you I am angry? Instead of you to have a simple unbiased conversation, you are getting defensive and touchy.

Enjoy your night.

lefulefu:
lol his miseducation threads seems to be working for some guys though cos some have confessed here how they applied it on ladies and it worked like magic.

Have you used it?

Kendumazy:
Government, hospitals, churches, mosques, schools, cda meetings, hotels are all needed to pass information on sensitiziing people on family planning. They full my previous street, small girl turn housewife go just dey born, born, born. You will see them with 7, 8 kids. There is even one that hawk groundnut with 5 kids on ground already and pregnant again with the sixth one the last time i saw her.

My friend's nanny is expecting her 4th child. Husband doesn't have a job. They depend on the nanny salary. She got pregnant because her mother in-law asked if it only three children she wants to have. Foolishness everywhere.

Eroms4life17:
You know say me i nor go school so all these your grammar mean nothing. Since you are right in your own eyes, let it be. But it's on record that i made this observation.

Hmmm...yet the OP says it is women that cannot hold an intelligent conversation. Please mention one big word that I used.

Right in my own eyes? Please what is right or wrong in what we have discussed?

Because I don't agree with you now, you will call me a feminist. It's ok.

ekochris:
I'm having this feeling that u guys are attributing PUAs characteristics to MTGOW and redpill.

From the little I know, I don't think redpill advocates changing of personality to get female validation. Rather it talks about the bitter truth concerning the female sexuality.


The funny thing is that if you look at all the posts by Ubunja, no matter how u try to deny or castigate it, deep down.....you know he's saying the truth. Logically and empirically....but I guess not all men can be saved.

#sayonara

Saved from what? From the women that they still follow laid down rules and manuals to be with?

What is the bitter truth about female sexuality? What's new about female sexuality? What is so mysterious about it that men have to read manuals to decipher?

lefulefu:

You see yourself!

Why don't you follow the step by step manual and formulas on how to approach a woman.

I just laugh when i read the stuffs. So someone actually sits down and spends time writing on steps on how to unravel the mystery called WOMEN .

Women are truly special

Eroms4life17:
I have nothing to do with the op or what he's saying. I have observed in virtually all threads that u visit you take very harsh stands that portrays you as a feminists. We had a strong argument some time ago on another thread. You were really vehement. I had to give way for you cos i don't have the strength.

What do you understand about feminism? Is it when a lady has an opposing opinion to a guy that makes her a feminist?

The way the term "feminism" keep flying around Nairaland, I am beginning to think that even my little 3 year old cousin is a feminist.

Sorry. I don't remember any argument. I really don't keep tabs on all my Nairaland discussions.

And if you follow my comments, you will see that i also take stands for men when i feel they are not being represented well.

lefulefu:
why u come dey take style yab my paddies iclef/ilegennd and ubunja nau. Their manual on trapping a woman seems to work for guys wey don use am.

Do you use the manual?

Eroms4life17:
You are always quick to attack guys comments on girls. We have met before on nairaland of course. Can you remember?

It's funny how you do not see anything wrong with the OPs assumption but instead you see something wrong in mine.

Your wife is the one you should speak to. Please let her know that you both need your space especially if you are newly weds. What you don't need now is people making both of you have divided attention.

I always wonder why these people keep having children that end up being a burden to take care of. It is unfair on the children.

Why will she start from with SIX children??

Environment really matters.

Only a timid and unexposed guy thinks like this

I used to find those red pill threads intriguing... reading how guys devise means to bed women...formulas and calculations on how to get a woman...like seriously!!!

But now, i hardly open the threads. It's cringe-worthy to see men acting like zombies without simple common sense on how to approach a lady on their own. How they rely on and worship someone giving them formulas on how to approach a fellow human like them.

sparko1:
This is just completely wrong, he should have given a clear introduction!

Where he got her number should not be what is paramount. What does she want to use the source for?