₦airaland Forum

NwaAmaikpe:



There's not one girl... I mean not one girl in all of Nigeria who has never worn okirika.

I stand to be corrected.

What about Dangote... Otedola..and those rich guy's daughters? And me

5times. By the 4th time, i told them to allow me go and learn work .

andrew444:
Lol no mind me o ,I mean no harm ,you like pepper sha

My apologies

Truth is i won't use all of it...but more than half.

My family eats pepper well. My dad used use pepper to drink garri...either he sprinkled it in or chewed those green ones as he drank his garri.

andrew444:
Smiles if you say so ,let me agree with you

We are all different

But it is funny how you concluded that i might not be a good cook because of the amount of yellow pepper and the fact that i was using stockfish.

abramabayomi:
stock fish 200 dryfish 300 hmm what difference

Seriously? You don't know the difference? Ok

Nobodys:
..What you saying babe, I'm gonna cook Egusi soup that is a million times better than this with just 500 or 700...lolz..
This one wey the guy cook Na concoction soup.

Btw, you put stockfish in your rice?.

I learnt it from my sister's husband and i fell in love with it.

Well...if you say so. It is just that the picture of this soup os not encouraging. And i don't pray or aspire to cook egusi soup or any soup with 1k

wintersnow:
Lol well I wouldn't call it "manage"...buh would say contended... Just my kinda lady..

The spot is filled already

andrew444:
I don't think you are a good cook sorry dear

Stock fish 200 yellow pepper 100 naira ?

Will not be surprised if you are Igbo,your definition of cooking says it all .

I love yellow pepper for the flavour and i like my food spicy. I am not igbo.

What is wrong with 200 stockfish by the way?

I cook for the taste of whoever eats. It doesn't mean it would be that amount if i were cooking for another set of people.

You don't think i am a good cook...ok...lol

wintersnow:
Lolz cause you can manage 1k

Manage?!! And all the guys are already trolling me and even calling me a pretender.

princeemmma:
and your rice will be finish once, but that soup am seeing can last up too three days, even self, the soup can enter rice

I prefer the food appealing.

Dinho20:
STOP PRETENDING

Pretending for 1000 soup with something that looks like palm oil on the side?

Even if the food is on a budget, it has to look and taste good.

khvnggift:
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If U dnt have them nko

Then i will do either stockfish or dry fish and use the cash to buy those.

[quote author=wintersnow post=72225863][/quote]Lol...why?

JaceBlaze:
but they don't rape the ugly hippopotamus from Nigeria

Ok

Wow! I have been missing on the food section.

The food even looks like 1000 soup. Very inedible looking.

I would rather do concoction rice/native jollof with that 1k.

Rice. 250
Stockfish. 200
Scent leaves. 50
Yellow pepper 100
Dry fish. 300

I should have palm oil, crayfish and other things in the house.

TroubleMaker47:
Lol.
His only crime is being broke oo.
Lemme hear that she does dis if the guy was an olowo!!
Nonsense and Buhari!

Does it make his action right?

Try not to be bias towards ladies this once.

Unlimited22:
South Africa? Why?

And rape is in their DNA

asuustrike1:
I agree with you

Are you married? If no, what kind of wedding do you plan on doing?

[quote author=asuustrike1 post=72219567][/quote]The 50 people she was planning for was for her and her husband...not just her.

I know a lot of people that don't want or didn't wamt flamboyant weddings. My sister for one had only a traditional marriage and went to court. I had a white wedding of just 100 people.

Another friend did court and parlour party. It just depends on the people and if their parents can be open minded. Infact, another one did a strictly by IV wedding in a restaurant and i wasn't invited...i vexed but got over it.

People date high maintenance girls and then expect her to be cheap. They should date people with like minds.

victorian:
I love domesticated men.

My hubby is one of such men, even tough he has this tough look

Same here. If you see my hubby outside, you will never guess especially as he is in the "beard gang" and looks tough.

But men!!! He can cook every dish both local and continental, bake, he does the plumbing in the house. If a pipe is leaking or something, he fixes it. If there is an electrical issue, he does it.

He is a hands on guy that knows a lot about DIY. Even car issues, he fixes it except it is a major problem. I have not seen his type.

And with kids...fantastic. They guy try all in all. His mum and dad did a fantastic job with him.

phintohlar:
Why won't i like it, but the problem wey dey there be say. Most guys that knows how to cook don't really appreciate ladies food,they either said the salt is much or pepper no reach. You can imagine when am frying egg for my guy only for him to stand behind me and said “Do you know u've made a mistake” n am like how. Just because he knows how to cook, and anytime his cooking and am there, den he'll be like “come n learn from me oh”

Not all o...lol. My husband is a better cook but he is very comfortable with my cooking and hardly complains. And i enjoy the benefits when he cooks...awesome stuff

asuustrike1:
The blame should be on the couple not in-laws. If couple can stand their ground on having small wedding, the families of the bride or groom will obliged. But when they are swayed by what their parents feel or need it becomes a problem. I blame ladies most times for putting men in stress to get married. They make men to perform two weddings whereas in developed countries it is just one.They are good at copying the whites but they wouldn't copy well

You cannot blame the ladies and leave the man out. Both are meant to be in agreement.

And the couple cannot be blamed alone. Some tribes make it so difficult when parents want to take over. At least we read here where someone was complaining about his FIL being rigid about the church to use.

A friend of mine said she was planning for 200 but her MIL said that is her own crowd. That she should make it 450. Family makes things complicated sometimes.

Oreofepeters:
have you personally had any sad experience with a guy?.

Yes. More than one. One even took a large amount of money in the name of borrowing and fled. Many bad experiences even with the ones i didn't date.

But it never made me close my heart to the fact that there were still good guys out there. It could have been that my choices were wrong.

Oreofepeters:
Because men have done more good than harm. However I wasn't generalizing, there are some good girls out there but my fear is, the bad ones are now infecting the good ones..





How do we identify the good one?

Aha!!

So since you are a guy, you refuse to see that men are also being infested.

But we ladies see what you don't see. Because i am sure you don't date guys

jobonnairaland:
I can't. Because these Eve's are indecent and will always blame men for sleeping around.

I guess they take advantage of these men. The men were cajoled or forced against their will . They didn't chase the girl helter skelter like a dog on heat.

If we call ladies indecent, we should follow it up with men being the same except the lady is a lesbian.

Oreofepeters:
No was referring to females

Why are you ruling men out of your conclusion/generalization?

Many guys already have their minds made up about ladies being cheats, materialistic, liars, etc. They are so blinded by it that they miss the girls that are truly honest and sincere.

No one can possibly convince me that there are no girls or guys that are good and have not carried away by frivolous lifestyles and vanity

Oreofepeters:
lol bad eggs, I'm happy you admit this. You said there are still good ones out there? well I'm kinda doubting it.
The bad ones has infected the good ones they now emulate them...
It's an epidemic virus.

I hope you are referring to both sexes

Most times it is family members...especially parents that make things difficult in planning a wedding. It is supposed to be the couple's wedding.

But then, as you are planning for 150 guests, your mum or MIL has her extra 100 guests. It can be really frustrating having issues over "show-off" motivated decisions.

Oreofepeters:
why the thing cum pain you like this nau.?

However There are some truth in What he said, considering the fact that Nigerian ladies are becoming more and more materialistic day after day. It's becoming more like "the pvssy goes to the highest bidder".

Do you think it worth the stress?.

But you know guys are also getting more all about sex these days.

However, we cannot shut out relationships because some bad eggs. There are still many good guys and girls.

Makes no sense.

Dress for the part. Imagine walking in the hot sun all day wearing a suit. Not sensible.