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Uglymugg:
You can have c-section if the vagina wasn't present. It's not all that important.

And in conceiving the child? Or it through the mouth? Even for IVF, the vagina is important.

Uglymugg:
They don't send 9 months in the vaginal walls, otherwise man kind would be deformed.

But they come out through the vagina and are conceived through the vagina.

So in any case, the vagina plays a role

Uglymugg:
Babies form in the womb. The vagina is to acidic to produce and nuture life.

But it is not too acidic for the baby to come out from right?

ednut1:
eg Donald Trump 'grab em by the pussy"

Donald Trump!!! We are talking about responsible and sensible men...and you mention DONALD TRUMP. Donald Trump is rich and petty...rich and foolish...rich and foul mouthed.

Please pick another role model.

ednut1:
hahahahahahah wrong. Even rich and successful pple do it

Right. That is why i didn't generalize...i said "many".

Besides, a guy that is truly rich and successful will not have the dedication and time some guys here have to shame ladies.

Eyeness:
well said dear, have you noticed they havent started slutshaming yet? Maybe it's too early to rejoice

They are still asleep. Or conveniently avoiding this thread like a plague.

But don't worry...they will soon be here especially the ones that cannot help themselves.

Responsible and sensible guys do not just open their mouths and shame ladies because they know better. It is those boys that lack wisdom and maturity that go around speaking ignorantly.

QueenBelle:
Registered on this website a few days ago. I opened my first topic and a guy immediately told me to stop dressing like a slut. That was totally. Uncalled for. The truth is, most guys here do it cause
1. They're addicted to it
2. Some do it just for cheap likes
3. Some just use it to tease you

Many do it because they are frustrated...they don't have a job and their lives are not going the way they want.

So... bringing ladies down is a way to make themselves feel better especially when they cannot seem to get the lady they want because of her demands and their lack of finance.

A wig. Interesting.

Happy Birthday

Acidosis:
ahah that's your main problem bruv.

3 things you should do;

1. Cast out the spirit of envy and greed
2. Stop comparing your spouse with your ex, and
3. Stop following your ex's Facebook and other Social Media stories.

When you break up or refuse to date someone, let go completely and don't give a flying fck about their "fantastic lifestyles". If you allow their uploads and success stories get to you, it would ruin you and make you miserable.

Don't get carried away with e.g. a car; car has killed more people than the devil. There is a reason you're currently with your spouse; stick to that reason and be guided. She's "doing fantastically well", because you've only seen the fantastic side.. what if she's stinkingly dirty, rude and abusive? You know you cant measure rudeness on Instagram. So many fantastically wealthy people have died of simple illnesses.

Focus on your spouse and make your marriage work. When I move, I move on completely without looking back. I nor dey regret anything, even if you become Queen Elizabeth tomorrow.


That's one of the major reasons I advise everyone to make spousal decisions based on sensible reasons (e.g. character/attitude, genuine love, passion, compassion, etc.), not stup!d reasons like current bank statement, and other temporarily vague reasons. While the former rarely and hardly change, the latter ALWAYS change. Majority of the great leaders today were at some point extremely broke and needy. When your decision is based on the former (like I always do), you will never ever regret anything.

Pastev1 please listen to this advice. There is so much wisdom in it.

The grass is always greener at the other side...focus on your own grass and tend it.

Take heart.

lefulefu:
ehn i am just trying to let him see it through my angle.when a lady start issuing threats there must always be one malaysian or south african bigboy around the corner busting her head with venza

Your angle is always bias towards women...seeing only the worst most times

Male off course.

No point lying

lefulefu:
deadline?
hmm its like one malaysian big boy is already proposing to her and she"s already giving u one last chance

That is where they will see you lefulefu. It is not always about more money. She could just be using that one to push the guy.

aro1:
i knw ds,bt men ar created has alpha in a relationship,u cnt compare

Alpha indeed. That alpha thing is going into extinction.

Nice post.

My dad was ill for 7yrs before he passed on. So we had work on our hands. He stopped talking and hardly recognized anyone. His friend would visit him and cry. Funny thing is that this friend died before him.


I remember having to feed him to make sure he eats. And if i was the one feeding him, i made sure the food was well garnished with onions, tomatoes, etc and also made sure it was peppery for him to enjoy it...he loved pepper. It waa not easy having to see him unable to move around and do things for himself. But my mum was very much with him till the end.

My mum lost a lot of herself and energy/health taking care of him. Soon after he passed on, her illness kicked in and she was usually quiet but always wanting to move around. One time someone saw her far away from the house and told us. It had already started raining. I took an umbrella and ran looking for her.

She said she wanted to take a stroll but got tired along the way. She eventually stopped moving around and also passed on. Aged folks need care and love though they can be very stubborn and heady..

Ladyhippolyta88:
Thank you.
Too much double standard from these folks always focusing on the females yet neglecting the males.

Whatever a lady chooses to do with her life which includes her sexual life is none of their business and their concerns and opinions are inconsequential.

It is not as if the ladies are sleeping with themselves. The guy she sleeps with is a culprit also.

Long term relationships are risky. They both decided to take the risk and it didn't work out.

Although i feel that sometimes a guy knows he has no intention of marrying a lady but still strings her along because of the free access he gets, he wants to play smart or he doesn't know how to end the relationship.

boy16:




I think she is a feminist who now realised age is not on her side.


OP if you marry her don't come back on Nairaland saying

"my wife is too old what should I do?"

He said she is a senior colleague. Not that she is older than him

JoannaSedley:
Just bills....only bills... The only thing men are expected to do, they are screaming and harassing everybody.

Who cook, clean, wash, give birth, nurture the infant, give up careers, manage businesses and work to support the family.?

Ordinary bills that women can comfortably take care of when the man is no more. You see many widows struggling to provide and cater for her family but a widower is already jumping around looking for who to share bills with. Bunch of pussies parading as men.


Just provide for your family...just that.

All this new generation mamasboy....waiting to be spoonfed. Looking for a woman to share bills with but won't share housework.... Man up and take over your responsibility

You are mean but this is the reality of many men today

AntiIslam59:
I think I need to respond to this. I purposefully ignored Pickabeau's post there but since this sentiment has come up again let me deal with it once and for all.

I do not believe there is something derogatory in stating facts(Just because someone is my inlaw dont mean I should now suddenly change stuff from reality on the ground). I have been poor too, suffering and having to endure but thank God all that is in the past now.

I have always dreamt of having a church wedding in a proper church, since I was small. what i'm getting here is more or less a shanty wooden structure in a dirty environment. I wish I could upload the pics but i'm not there now, it's someplace in Ijebu-Ode. Even my wife don't want to wed there, she doesn't even attend the church but since the joining venue is the bride's family prerogative here we are. The mother(man's wife) is flexible to other options as are the siblings. The only stumbling block is the man who says he will not attend the wedding unless it is this particular place. This is why I said the man is a very very very stubborn man. Nobody has monopoly on stubbornness, If I want to do my own agidi too I will just do only court wedding and cancel the church service. I'm just trying to take it easy. I also needed other opinions too to see whether i'm being unreasonable to try and demand a better venue. That's what brought me here.

My opinion is that you don't have to wed there.

I don't like people dictating to me especially if it is my wedding and not theirs. And i don't like rigid people like your FIL. I put them in their place as respectfully as possible.

My MIL tried something close. She said she wouldn't attend the church wedding. I didn't respond to her. It was my husband that dealt with the issue. He told her not to attend any...even the traditional.

I don't know why weddings brings out the worst in some people. But everyone needs to calm down and think of what is important.

Things really happen but it is left for the wife or husband to draw a line. We know that this not peculiar to just the women. Married men exchange nudes and hold on to their phones as if their lives are tied to it.

A friend of mine actually sent me a picture of his pen-is out of nowhere . He said it was a mistake...that he meant to send it to someone else but i knew he did it on purpose. I warned him seriously and blocked him. I told my husband about it and he just shook his head.

Things happen. Some people just want to pull you into all sort of trouble. If you don't take a stand, you will fall for anything.

Abjay97:
I dont support rape but all this women claiming rape when
1. They made themselves vulnerable by wearing skimpy dresses
2. They sleep with a well known celeb and claim rape

are not serious..
This girl claiming C Ronaldo raped her met him in a night club.. what was she expecting in a night club? A prayer?

So going to a night club or wearing skimpy clothes is justification for rape? Really?

How come the lady is always blamed instead of the guy that lacks the self control and integrity to respect a lady?

Nice post.

These are basic things that a lady should be able to do for the man they claim to love.

About some ladies thinking everything is about sex...some guys act like sex is connected to their life and they need it for survival. Maybe that's why those ladies keep using sex as payment.

You and your wife have the right to choose where to wed. If you can convince her, then you guys can both do what you want.

My wedding was done on a Sunday evening and it was not done in church. The pastors came to the venue we picked to conduct the service. My family is flexible but obviously, your FIL is not.

So i suggest you either succumb to wedding in the "pako" church or scrap the church wedding and go to court.

N.B

My friend's church wedding is still pending till today because of church/family issues. They already have 2 children while they still fight about which church to do the wedding in. Some things should not be an issue.

nwakibie3:
15 years of acting ko

Has she acted and made more money than Genevieve or Omotola?

Enjoy the perks of a good man and stop resisting.

Too many principles. Is someone supposed to print these stuffs out while going on a date? Or paste on the wall...

maxlev1:
I was once broke but now am rich. There was a girl who loved me deeply and supported me throughout the struggle. She never disrespected, hurt or looked down on me all through d broke times. Right now she is the only lady and will always be the only lady apart from my sis and mom that will enjoy my love and money. So stop deceiving the good girls out there to share ur same kind of negative mentality because it ain't good at all. Alot of guys who are made today will always go back to n pick that babe(except there was none) that supported them in their years of suffering but will bleep and dump most of the babes they meet after they are made. This is because most men don't trust ladies they know after they are made.

She didn't actually say anything negative. She said they should only stay because of love and not because of pity of what people think about sticking to him as he is not rich