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Jollof rice and fish...

Kelgabriel5:
jab tak hai jaan by sha rukh khan made me cry

Indian movies...even their comedy can make someone cry

You gave no reason.What is their reason? Is it Bourne out of ignorance, selfish or other interests or being rigid?

Why are the parents rejecting the guy? That is a good place to start from.

Sterope:
What stupid love? It is lack of respect for her son, his guest and her future daughter in law. That kind of MIL will cause chaos in her son's marriage.

Exactly! I won't peel any cassava. I learnt how to make people feel awkward and bold in a non-disrespectful way...lol. By the time I say "mummy this one that you want me to peel cassava as a first time visitor, are you trying to test me?"

Abeg I cannot start forming good daughter inlaw

So Oluchi, Karen, Tosyn and IK are actresses?

At least get the facts straight. IK is a guy for one...

I heard i slept with my boss. Just because we were both staying in the same axis and he used to drop me at my bus top. Then when he had an accident and couldn't drive, i had a car then and used to drop him at his bus stop.

People are really closed minded. It was really disappointing.

It is not unrelated to the fact that many men are irresponsible. They want to have their cake and eat it. Or who impregnates these girls?

I noticed it too. There is this obsession that they try to mask but have not succeeded.

That is why you see so many threads dedicated to us whether it is for whinning, wailing or whatever. They just can't leave us be.

It may have been a test. But i don't like tests and being put under some kind of microscopic watch by inlaws to be.

That said...she should have stylishly asked if she wasn't worthy enough to be served with meat or fish. Because in Nigeria, it speaks volumes when you are served without meat especially when it is not lacking.

So both the server and the servee both have faults.

ottohan:
Is it a must to eat with fish and meat.??
I hate the smell of fish and I dont like meat sef...
I wonder how pple eat meat..dont it look as of u are eating ur flesh?

Did you study medicine?

Since you have decided to focus on the "confused" ones, i doubt that you will even be able to identify a good one even if she is in front of you.

But the good news is that more and more guys are adopting these reasons as their excuse to go to the other side and be gay. You should find a guy that will love you completely. Because i doubt that a serious minded and good woman can put up with your pettiness and immaturity.

So on behalf of many women here, i donate you to men looking for love.

lefulefu:
its not every muslim guy who engages in a polygamous marriage sef. My home tutor that taught me and my younger bro wen we were little at the time he got married he just had only one wife, this man is a very devout muslim but till today he's still married with one wife and two grownup children. Polygamy na stress to a man.

Yes there are many Muslims with just one wife. But if a Muslim man takes a second wife, it is expected because their religion condones it and the wife should have prepared her mind down even though he made sweet promises to her about not taking another wife.

But if i marry a Christian, I am not expecting my husband to take another wife...at all!!

lochi01:
and this also 5 reason student needs to save

Many students barely have enough to even eat, buy handouts and books.

When i did not marry a Muslim...why would he go and marry another wife?? If he decides to do so, that means our marriage is over. If i wantedto have a co-wife, i could have married a Muslim.

I won't kill him or fight him or his babe but i will make sure most of his money goes to me and the children. Whatever is left can be used for his new family.

Taking care of the children is not a favour to me. He owes it to them. I will move mountains to makes sure he doesn't cheat them in every good thing they deserve.

Aside that, i will move on with my life.

N.B

This nust hypothetical though. I don't believe such would happen to me.

Has he finished helping his family?

Continue what? For what reason exactly? Would rather die a single woman.

The lady is a "he"?

husbandsnatcha:
may be dey nag a lot

There will always be a reason or an excuse to cheat no matter how good the wife is...especially for a man that cannot help himself

highchief1:
from the look in your face,no be small smell go Dey ur Toto

Sorry i don't speak stupid. You can try speaking to someone who understands

What happened to the ones that are squeaky clean and dress sexy all the time whose husbands still cheat? I wonder.

Unfinished business. Hope she is ok now.

victorian:
You see? Madam, you've summed it up!
That's it.
Both of you are wise.
If one wants to be happy in this life, disregard what people will always say and go for it. Because people will always talk especially Nigerians.

For me, I don't care what people says, I do what I feel is right and what my heart and mind craves for .

God bless your home and mine too in Jesus name amen.

Amen. Thank you.

What people say is inconsequential. I have learnt not to do things basedon what people think. Now everyone is cool even my ex was at the wedding and was one of the people who gave us a special gift.

As we grow more mature, we realize that life is not as complicated as we make it

Sholaco:
Ah I no fit .. once debe is always debe o......

What if you get married and now later become friends...good tight friends with someone your wife dated in the past?

Nothing is cast in stone. Never say never

victorian:
Op if you want to marry her please go ahead. Getting a wife material these days is not as simple as people think. Even single guys in their 40s will attest to it. Because your friend did not appreciate a good woman in his life doesn't mean When God gave him one , does not mean u shouldn't when u see one.

Most women as soon as theyve broken up with their ex, it's finished. Nothing takes them back to him. Especially when u admit she's a very good woman

She won't disappoint you.

I have a friend who got married to her ex boyfriend, friend. This lady is so good but her stupid ex is a bloody player and good for nothing guy, who even scammed her of 400k! She almost died of heartbreak. Crying uncontrollably in my office explaining what happened. The 400k is gone till today.

After the breakup, his friend was shocked, her bf could do such to her and also breakup with her. Last last he married her. And they are living happily together. Very nice woman.

Some men do not deserve a good wife. They don't. God will give them a good woman, they will use selfish wicked attitude to drive her away.

You don't need to talk too much. I married my ex's very close friend...as in close friend.

Life is not hard at all. My husband and I damned the controversies it would cause and went ahead. We saw what we wanted in each other and couldn't afford to let that go because of a past of almost a decade ago.

Now we are glad we did

MrRichmond:
Very dangerous thing to do!

Friends these days cannot be trusted, as long as your guy don enter, he can get back there anytime he wishes no matter how much assurance she gives you.

A wise man once said

A pvssy once fvxked cannot be unfuvked, but it can most definitely be re-fuvcked!

so, give urself brain!

Talking about Okafor's law?

That is a myth. If a lady sleeps with an ex, it is because she wanted to and not because an ex will always have the chance to sleep with her because he has done it before.

Because he poured groundnut oil on his body to take photos?

Well...i see only one solution here...

MAKE MONEY

beardlessdude:
na lie.
you 2 dey lie.
were you not d one dat gav him greenlight to go ahead. when u was rubbing your breasts stylishly against his head when he was checking the bonnet you forget he is a mechanic.

Very funny attempt at a joke. Keep trying.

TheOdd1sOut:
just clap and pass like me.

Still he backed up his points accurately with facts. You cannot fault that. So yes he deserved the clapping you gave

MariaLavina:
One of the reasons I'm hardly frequent on my social media accounts. The things you read sometimes ehn

Especially whatsapp. One mechanic that probably helped you once whose number you saved will start chatting you up or sending videos and all.