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Romance › Re: Less Is More by ImaIma1(f):
Massmike:
the point is in knowing the type of person your partner is. Some people like mysterious some don't. Not every body has time for mysteries or you think everybody is Sherlock Holmes.
just be wise
My point is you cannot bare it all. Save some for later
Romance › Re: Less Is More by ImaIma1(f): 10:58am On Jun 28, 2018
Less is really more. You cannot just show yourself finish and lick all the honey in the moon before the real honeymoon.

Withhold some...be mysterious.
Family › Re: Derick Omari Shows His Mother As He Meets Queen Elizabeth - Pictures by ImaIma1(f): 8:33am On Jun 28, 2018
ChiefAzubuike:
So meeting Queen Elizabeth II is an achievement to be proud of? Two years ago I met the crown princess of Japan Masako Owada during my trip to Nagoya . We had dinner together. Its was no big deal to me because I've met with big public figures like her before.
Have you met the Queen of England? Has she invited you before?
Family › Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by ImaIma1(f): 7:36am On Jun 28, 2018
cococandy:
I don’t always carry my baby every time she cries too. Neither do I run after her every time she wanders away. There’s also no need to rush to her rescue when she falls down. Unless she’s about to fall. But if she’s already down, it’s okay to call her to come to you as long as you can see the kid is alive and still breathing. Come on, they are not made of glass.

It’s not helpful in raising kids well. Plus it’s very very very very exhausting. Get the idea? At 17 months your baby’s senses are on full blast. Unless asleep or distracted by something, it is almost physically impossible for a kid to stay at a place for 20 minutes straight until around age 4.
You’re probably complaining because you’re tired of running after her (or him) and you want the mom to do it. That’s how you should know it’s not easy.


Having found balance in her steps now, the baby will EXPLORE. . They want to see and touch everything. It’s not possible to rein them in without dropping everything else you want to achieve for that day. It may not seem like a lot of work but it is if you’re still expected to do other things in the home. So maybe look at it from her POV.


Your first priority now should be to baby proof your home. Remove harmful liquids, powders and small objects and lock up them up in cabinets with child proof locks. Seal up the unused electrical outlets that are within the baby’s reach. Use baby gate (it’s a short plastic gate that can extend) to seal of the areas you don’t want him/her walking into. I used it to stop my baby from going up and down the stairs and used it to cordon off the section where the TVs and stuff like that are.
We had to remove all of our moveable furniture especially the glass center and side tables. Your house won’t look pretty but it’s worth saving yourself a trip to the emergency room.

After doing that, your baby can walk in the home wherever she wants and your wife will have time to do other stuff.

Many of life’s stresses can be avoided. Avoid this one
You think an average person in Nigeria does child proof in their houses? What of those that don't have the means to do all that you mentioned?

A mother cannot afford to be careless. Tragedy strikes without warning.

Some Sundays back a neighbour lost her son. A faulty standing fan shocked her sons. One jumped up and she told him to sleep elsewhere and she failed to check on the other son till daybreak not knowing that he had been electrocuted. People blamed her for being careless especially knowing that the fan was faulty.

Even with child proof, we can't just allow them wander without checking on them. I have seen mothers like the Ops wife. In my former street (ghetto setting) a child crawled onto the street and was crushed by a Coca-Cola truck.

People need to mind their children. Though ultimately, it is God who protects them.
Romance › Re: Nigerian Girls by ImaIma1(f): 5:09am On Jun 28, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:
Sosongo Eyeneka. You shouldn't have given him the attention he wanted. This one needs to be overtly flogged.
Ku boro mmo.

Their obsession with us is too much. They should build a shrine already.
Romance › Re: At 25 If You Still Do These 14 Things, You May Die A Wretched Pensioner by ImaIma1(f):
jaksmillioniar:
u beta shut up dis life u cant knw evrytin d fact u knew dosnt mean u mock others
You better shut up and be humble!!

If you don't know it, say you don't know it and quit growing wings on my mention.

Take your bitterness elsewhere because i don't need it.



*Added

If you are 25 and are still an overgrown baby that cannot express your opinion without insults or accept criticism without throwing tantrums, go and play with sand.
Family › Re: Help: My Wife Is So Careless With Our Kid….!!! by ImaIma1(f): 11:30pm On Jun 27, 2018
Your wife's attitude needs to be corrected for the sake of that child.

It is ok not to carry your baby everytime she cries but not to overdo it when the cry is getting too much.

My neighbour made that mistake. She would let her baby cry and cry and the girl could cry for an hour non stop until she falls asleep. Now the girl is going to 2yrs and crying is still her form of communication. She cries so much...she can cry an ocean.

I don't allow my baby cry too much except it is when i am in the bathroom and alone in the house. And when she wants to start crying plenty, i tell herto stop it. She is just 8months but i don't want to have a cry cry child. Once she can talk, she must talk rather than cry.

Please report her to her mum. And i kind of like the advice from Dami12345 though not that mean. Didn't she give birth to the child? She has to buckle up
Romance › Re: Nigerian Girls by ImaIma1(f): 9:19pm On Jun 27, 2018
mimimile93:
@"OP SHOULD TRY TO DATE LADIES THAT HAVE MORE TO OFFER HIM THAN THEIR BODIES"

such women aren't in Nigeria..
Ok. You can search outside Nigeria and pick your choice while continue to be the way we are.
Romance › Re: At 25 If You Still Do These 14 Things, You May Die A Wretched Pensioner by ImaIma1(f): 6:20pm On Jun 27, 2018
chival:
Number 5 annoys me so much. Unfortunately, there people in their thirties who still do this.
As in ehn!! I just hate seeing names spent like that. Older ones still do it. I don't know whoever lied to them that it is cute.
Romance › Re: Nigerian Girls by ImaIma1(f): 6:16pm On Jun 27, 2018
Oyindidi:
You get time to reply these clowns
The thing just tire me. Everytime Nigerian babes. They should go to Ghana biko
Romance › Re: I Just Lost Respect For Some Women Yesterday by ImaIma1(f): 5:56pm On Jun 27, 2018
Your girlfriend should not have allowed them follow. She was in on it.

I could never allow my friends to tag along when going out with my man. Three is a crowd. If he says i should invite my friends...that is a different case.
Romance › Re: Nigerian Girls by ImaIma1(f): 5:46pm On Jun 27, 2018
mimimile93:
I'm not surprised that no girl here could answer the op's qustn. It's a fact dat no naija woman has sometin to offer in a relatnshp. See has they came here to make joke of themselves. Sometin they should hide their faces in shame. I was abt mentioning UyaiIncomparabl to see if she has answer to the op's qustn since most times she display herself as being responsible. But I was shocked dat she was even here. She couldn't answer d op's qustn because she knws she has no answer.

Naija women are useless. Shame on y'all.
It is not as if we don't have answers for the op. It is probably because this issue has been overflogged and guys here are beginning to obsess about Nigerian women the way Freeze obsesses about pastors.

Op should try to date ladies that have more to offer him than their bodies. We can't be held responsible for his superficial and bad choices. Many women are impacting change in Nigeria and doing great things in the society. Let him locate those types of ladies so that we can rest.

But if he keeps getting selection from 2go, Facebook, badoo, instagram, snapchat or wherever he gets this his ladies without quality, we will keep hearing him release this same single everytime.

On behalf of Nigerian ladies especially on NL, we are officially tired.
Celebrities › Re: Daddy Freeze Reacts After Nigeria's Exit From World Cup by ImaIma1(f): 4:36pm On Jun 27, 2018
darfay:
Daddy freeze looking more like a broken record. E uses every opportunity he has to insult Christianity and that is just sick of him, he initially had my support but now he's lost it
If an accident occurs on the road, he will blame pastors.

He is simply obsessed with them. And he will do worse than the flamboyant ones he condemns if he were in their shoes
Romance › Re: 4 reasons Why I DON'T Take Women With Tattoos Seriously by ImaIma1(f): 4:21pm On Jun 27, 2018
I don't like tattoos at all...whether on a guy or girl.

Too many disadvantages. Not being able to readily donate blood.

If the tattoo starts annoying you later, you cannot just remove it easily.

I don't even like injuries leaving marks on my skin. Why would i now intentionally scratch it?
Romance › Re: At 25 If You Still Do These 14 Things, You May Die A Wretched Pensioner by ImaIma1(f): 3:58pm On Jun 27, 2018
At 25 you don't know what a cover letter is.

You are still asking "what does this cover letter of a thing look like?"

OP the No 5 just got me. How do people spell their names emphasizing their H factorhuh
Politics › Re: BREAKING: Plateau Killing: Buhari, Saraki, Dogara In Closed Door Meeting by ImaIma1(f): 3:25pm On Jun 27, 2018
I really do not understand why herdsmen are killing people. Or is it not those guys that rare cattle. Please what has rearing cattle have to do with killing people?

Or is it a terrorist group using cattle rearing as a front?
Romance › Re: Please I Need Candid Advice by ImaIma1(f): 4:52pm On Jun 26, 2018
Godnifemi:
Hmm u may be right, truth is I was only helping out, it wasn't all d assignments I do bt d ones I feel I can. I'm not doing anything cos I wanna win or keep her, I just feel it's what I shud do. Helping wen needed
It just seems like you do everything for her. I just hope she is someone who is appreciative and supportive.
Romance › Re: Great Idea.....we Challenge The Ladies!!!! by ImaIma1(f): 4:50pm On Jun 26, 2018
DonPiiko:
No be nollywood we dey discuss now
You want to come and watch "feem" nau
Romance › Re: Great Idea.....we Challenge The Ladies!!!! by ImaIma1(f): 3:38pm On Jun 26, 2018
DonPiiko:
what is your address??
1/3 Pound road Aba cheesy
Romance › Re: Great Idea.....we Challenge The Ladies!!!! by ImaIma1(f): 3:28pm On Jun 26, 2018
MrCork:
..errmm sweery. .no body is bad mounting any body...whole idea is to encourage women to be patriotic. .enjoy football and be happy to take of there lovely cloth for our great country. .Nigeria!(true story ).. cheesy
So we should take off our tops and post it here?
Romance › Re: Guy Propose To His Girlfriend On The Same Spot He Met Her 5years Ago (pics) by ImaIma1(f): 3:25pm On Jun 26, 2018
Olifiz:
And also impregnate her and deliver her baby on the same spot too.



Sense will not kill us
You guys are just mean
Romance › Re: Please I Need Candid Advice by ImaIma1(f): 3:20pm On Jun 26, 2018
You are breeding someone that will always want everything on a platter.

How can you do everything for her? You didn't even allow her study and take ownership of her education. Her degree should be in your name not her's

When she turns out to be less than what she should be,you won't remember that you did her assignments and even project.

Allow her be responsible for a life to a large extent and help when you can. When you don't have as much as you do now, will she understand or be able to cope?

Are you doing everything for her to win or keep her? Does she even care about you and love you the same way you do? I don't think it is a good foundation and it might come back and bite you.

You need to step back and reflect and act accordingly.
Romance › Re: Nigerian Men Have Small Dicks by ImaIma1(f): 3:06pm On Jun 26, 2018
milemimi93:
All what a Nigerian lady thinks and care about is sex. Very useless beings. You need a big d!ck.

What can you offer the big d!ck aside your smelly borehole?

Ediots called naija babes wont stop amazing me with their dead brains..
Easy Tiger!

You sound hurt.

On behalf of the Naija babes whom you detest so vehemently, we donate you to Zimbabwean ladies
Romance › Re: Nigerian Men Have Small Dicks by ImaIma1(f): 3:01pm On Jun 26, 2018
Irunnobo:
Most men from southern part of Nigeria has small dicks and are unable to satisfy ladies. It's a shame northerners parade huge and satisfactory dicks than their counterparts from the south. This is why many women are relying on diildos and becoming lesbians. Shame on you guys from the south who thinks money alone can buy the heart of women. You people should improve your sexual lives or risk loosing out on Nigerian women sad
So you have slept with most of the guys in the south to come to thus conclusion?

When you say south, which areas or states do you mean exactly?
Romance › Re: Great Idea.....we Challenge The Ladies!!!! by ImaIma1(f): 2:51pm On Jun 26, 2018
DonPiiko:
None of them is bold enough, there don't even use their face on their moniker talk more of stripping
Because you people have bad mouth na.

What is wrong with going nude in my house when Eagles wins? Not a problem
Crime › Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by ImaIma1(f): 1:02pm On Jun 26, 2018
Sick woman.

It is not only little girls that parents should be mindful of. Both girls and boys should be protected.
Food › Re: I'm Frustrated! This Egwusi Soup That I Prepared Quarrels With Water. Help! by ImaIma1(f): 12:55pm On Jun 26, 2018
FraNKAPP:
I'm frustrated. This is the third time that I'm facing this issue. I don't know what I did to my village people. �

Why is it that anytime I cook Egwusi soup, the soup will divide itself into two? The egwusi/vegetables/ingredients will go one side and the water will go the other side. Out of frustrations, I have finished the meat and I'm about to get rid of the soup now. I don't know what else to do. I'm frustrated.

Please, my people, I need your help urgently. How can I make a good Egwusi soup that the ingredients doesn't quarrel with the water? If you have the step-by-step guide on how to make a good Egwusi soup, please send it to me because that's my favourite soup. Make me, *Frank Umeadi* happy, please.

Note: This does not mean that I'm not a good husband material o. I'm just preparing myself and I believe that no time is late.

Thank you so much as I await your positive response.

Food › Re: I'm Frustrated! This Egwusi Soup That I Prepared Quarrels With Water. Help! by ImaIma1(f): 12:45pm On Jun 26, 2018
FraNKAPP:
I'm frustrated. This is the third time that I'm facing this issue. I don't know what I did to my village people. �

Why is it that anytime I cook Egwusi soup, the soup will divide itself into two? The egwusi/vegetables/ingredients will go one side and the water will go the other side. Out of frustrations, I have finished the meat and I'm about to get rid of the soup now. I don't know what else to do. I'm frustrated.

Please, my people, I need your help urgently. How can I make a good Egwusi soup that the ingredients doesn't quarrel with the water? If you have the step-by-step guide on how to make a good Egwusi soup, please send it to me because that's my favourite soup. Make me, *Frank Umeadi* happy, please.

Note: This does not mean that I'm not a good husband material o. I'm just preparing myself and I believe that no time is late.

Thank you so much as I await your positive response.
Op you don't need to add anything while blending the egusi.

Mix your egusi with water and make it into a paste in a bowl.

Put a pot on fire and pour your palm oil into it. After about 30secs or 1min as long the oil is hot(don't let it bleach) add the egusi and stir.

Egusi doesn't like to be left alone while cooking. When you keep stiring in the egusi and oil, you will see that the oil incorporates into the egusi and becomes a paste.

Add water/meat stock and stir in in too. Stir this in for a while too and then cover and allow it cook. Your egusi should already look like a paste and not bar beach as someone mentioned.

Add you other ingredients as you do and there you have it.

So just remember to stir in the oil continuously and with the water too. Don't just drop them and leave.
Romance › Re: Nigeria Needs Rehab Centers For Victims Of Porn Addiction And Internet Addiction by ImaIma1(f): 11:28am On Jun 26, 2018
lefulefu:
girls also masturbate and watch porn cheesy.
As much as guys?
Romance › Re: Nigeria Needs Rehab Centers For Victims Of Porn Addiction And Internet Addiction by ImaIma1(f): 11:26am On Jun 26, 2018
StreetNews:
From your observation, especially on Nairaland you mean right. Jesus Christ, I give up on humans, especially the ones in Africa. cry
Give up on yourself first
Romance › Re: Advice Please by ImaIma1(f): 9:54am On Jun 26, 2018
How can she be respectful and abusive at the same time?
Romance › Re: Nigeria Needs Rehab Centers For Victims Of Porn Addiction And Internet Addiction by ImaIma1(f): 12:00am On Jun 26, 2018
AgricSalt:
I tell you. And the evil money lovers behind the proliferation of porn are really working hard to suppress the research into the devastating effects of porn
I pray people become aware of the effects and try to adjust and control the habit.

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