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openmine:
whether boyfriend or husband....its still doesn't change any thing....won't the husband divorce a wife or do you think a child or ring will make a man stay with a lady.....?

A good man in a relationship will be a good man in marriage....same is applicable to a good woman!

It starts from the relationship.... That's where you know who you are into....

U can't give what you don't have!

And besides,she is not doing it because of marriage...she is doing it because she loves her man!

A lady in love can do any thing for her partner....same for a guy!
There is no place for half love or careful love....

There is place for threading with caution and acting in wisdom and discretion.

A lot of boyfriends end up being exes. I guess she has the heart for whatever she gets.

The fact that unmarried people have sex in relationships doesn't still make it right.

kayus89:
he is a lost cause

You can say that again

openmine:
Nothing special about being married.....
If he doesn't love her before marriage,he won't love her after marriage!

Pls stop putting to much priority on marriage as if its going to take one to their Eldorado....

marriage does not breed commitment or solve all problems associated with relationship!

So don't relegate the significance of a relationship.... its a pointer to how ur marriage will pan out!

It doesn't change the fact that doing all these things for a boyfriend is just a ticking time bomb and not advisable for any lady.

openmine:
So you are suggesting like some one said that she should not do anything for her bf until she is married to him simply because you feel the guy in question whom you don't even know will dump her?

Please try as much as possible not to use your personal experience or what you have seen to judge another person's relationship....

Everyone is different.... and many have gone through lots of heart breaks but that didn't stop them from offering unlimited love to their partner....

Move on from your past....learn to forgive your self and forgive that person....and move on....

Not talking from personal experience.

No sad past to move on from.

But as long has not made her his wife, everything she is doing is just background noise.

What other option does she have than to leave?

She needs to go for HIV test anyway because homosexuality and AIDS go hand in hand.

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Boyfriend or husband?

I think she made a mistake and wrote boyfriend instead of husband. Someone should try and correct her.

IamD18:
Will you shut up!

How about wishing her well since you can never be like her? You ladies are so much filled with envy.

Look at you saying men are unpredictable and she might be cheated on, how many ladies are like her in this country? You think every lady must have the stupid mentality of an average Nigerian lady in a relationship? Or you think a man can just loose such a unique lady?

If reverse was the case, would you have made such silly and envy-filled comment?

Next time you find it difficult to control your jealousy, kindly ignore such thread than to end up spilling rubbish.

It's a bitter truth.

Nigga could leave her still and for someone less

marvelli:
Somebody let a small boy like you in between their legs? and how come you found three smelling girls back to back... Maybe you're the problem.

He goes to the smelly girls factory to pick them up

ClassRep001:
This failed blogger, here you go again.

Your copied (Yan baba) memes are always fucking boring.

Go get a life please, leave blogging for the professionals please.

Lame Boring list!

You must be a guy

Olalan:
I think guys who go to prostitutes are not normal cause if they are how wouldn't they be irritated sleeping with a girl every Tom dick and Harry lays with

Don't listen to any stupid advice or logic that seeks to justify the act of sleeping with prostitutes.

Some men have never slept with prostitutes. Men that hold themselves in high esteem can't belittle themselves to that level.

Please don't allow any guy of no virtue tell you it is something you cannot avoid. That is just a cooked up lie to absorb themselves of any stigma attached to the act.

I agree with Freeze on this. When did camel toe become a fashion statement? Is it that these women are not wearing panties?

I feel embarrassed when i see a fellow lady with her camel toe in full view.

Best thread in a while. It is nice to see guys acting constipated .

You guys that are not finding it funny see how it is when you always bash any lady that reports rape or attempted rape.

"Why did she sleep over if she wasn't interested" "what was she wearing that made the guy touch her" "when she was eating and drinking what was she expecting" "we needs to hear the other side of the story"...this is the funniest one

Now your fellow guy has chop money and refused to drop his pants and bend over.

How does it feel like to be at this side of the table?

If this thread was about a lady chopping and crying "rape", this thread would have reached 15 pages by now with guys bashing her. Now they are hiding like rabbits.

pocohantas:
It is not like I am supporting rape, in fact I hate rapists...but these slaykings have it coming.

Take them out and they'll drink almost one crate of beer on your head. They'll still follow you to your house and wear just boxers, displaying all their manhood. Yet, they expect nothing?

Is he your father? Or your brother?
Don't you know it is blood running through his veins?

If you don't want your butt drilled, stay in your house!
I know menists will come and talk nonsense here.

I wonder what the guys have to say now. This is a man chopping another man's money. Why did he sleep over if he didn't want to get down. Did he say "no". Or he said "no" but his actions were saying "yes".

This is so awesome!! A guy experiencing what girls do everytime and get bashed for

crazygod:
Iwobi is a frog

Ighalo was so slooow

Good defence

merrypakman:
He would have listened to his mum!

But the mum didn't say he should not marry her. She only said they should do a small wedding.

[quote author=Baawaa post=68705452]Those who loves Buhari love him not because of money but for their futures and their children's destinies.PDP has destroyed the future of this nation and had ruined a lot

Maybe tgey don't call her aunty. This actresses in the Yoruba industry are always fighting about someone nit calling them "aunty".

Please any girl that sleeps nakedd beside a guy to prove a point, the guy should tell her to put her clothes on or get out of his house.

suco01:
You're right but that is what i used and it is working perfectly for me. Note you're not to rub skineal alone but mixed with shea butter and coconut oil. if you know you know

It is just the way some mums mix funbact A in their baby's cream. It starts out giving beautiful results but eventuallythe true result shows.

suco01:
Get shea butter worth of #100, fry it and let it cool turn into a small container, mix with skineal original and coconut oil.

Skineal is an anti-fungal cream for treating skin problems. How can it become a cream to rub daily?

TonyeBarcanista:
I don't normally discuss people's family so I'll continue to seal my lips but like I had said, your MIL is not a mad woman that will be misbehaving without cause. This is same line virtually all disloyal wives say to justify disloyalty to MIL and to have "complete" takeover of the man!!!


I won't argue nor discuss further on the truism or otherwise of your claims against your MIL (heck, I'm not a judge) but I am in no way surprised at your narrative of painting yourself as the "young angel who is being maltreated by her MIL and SILs even few weeks after putting to bed and without cause. That beautiful young wife whose MIL detest her despite she showing her unconditional love".

All na wash

Lol...i am no angel and she isn't a mad woman.

I know the root cause though but it is something me and her cannot do anything about. We just have to live with the difference.

TonyeBarcanista:
With the way you are talking about your MIL shows the kind of person you are.

There are always 3 shades of stories in every matter, and I am sure Mama isn't a mad woman.

Anyway, thats your family issue... As for your husband? Well, lips sealed!


Nothing personal though

Maybe because I was the one who insisted that she comes but then i was not expecting the treatment i got.

You better unseal your lips.

freshkpomo:
let me shock you, YOU ARE GRADUALLY DANCING TP THEIR TONE... Oh yea you are,all they need from you now is a loop hole,and just a single fault from you will.....:........ Its rare to find a perfect pare...u just the kinda woman my family would want for their sons, you cant differentiate DIL'S from daughters,my mum and grand mum just pamper the hell out of them that they are now proud and kinda arrogant atimes,but here you are, all good but your MIL still acting up looool....thats the way it is my dear,its rare to find a complete pair,either a bad mother inlaw or a bad daughter inlaw,women are their own problem...but i will advice you watch for sometime,to be sure of their real intentions...how long have u been married......?

Lol...a loophole for what? Very funny. I am not a rude person but my silence is deadly. I don't plan to do wrong to people but if injustice has been done to me, i know how to put people at arms length.

Speakdatruth:
It's disturbing but it's happening out there. I tell sisters around me. Until he is making serious plans or puts you in his house officially don't put your dating life on hold.

Some guys can be wicked, why would you put a ring on a lady to pin her down and keep her away from potential husbands. Imagine giving a girl a ring for 3,4,5,6,7 years and more with no visible plans. I want to believe that any man that gives out a ring to a woman should be ready to make her a wife almost immediately. I just see a lot of dummy girls out there forming engaged and some claiming serious relationship. I'm a guy and it's evil to do.

A guy on NL saying this? Wow!! I hardly see guys here defending women and not being bias with issues concerning women.

Nice!!!

So MURIC's strategy is to rope CAN into what they probably know nothing about.

There are many religious crisis that have threatened the peace of the country. The this is Nigeria video is not one of them.

Why can't MURIC get serious and attack the real issues...killings, child marriage, etc. What they chose to focus on is Falz's video.

freshkpomo:
hahaahahaha true... Grandchild over everything...... You see family bond And amazingly your husband was aware of all that happened but he could do little or nothing to salvage things, men will choose family over anything...and for your case,i wont advice a MIL to push a DIL that way oh,though DIL need some pushing so they wont be too comfortable,and be up and doing,but pushing too much can lead to bad blood oh,like the one u already have,though you are trying to control it or should i say pretending lol

Why shouldn't i be comfortable in my own house? My husband is a very very wise man...he didn't take sides. He is the most impartial person i know.He gave me tips on how to handle the situation till they go.

He told his mum she had spoilt his sisters (especially the last)and he hopes they won't be a burden to her later.

But see...when next they come, i won't be that nice...not rude but they will help themselves. And i won't go out of my way to give them anything. Even with the phone, biggest Ghana must go bag filled with clothes, bags, they still went and said funny things.

That is my own experience. I have met MILs that are completely like a mum without any prejudice. That os how i want to be. Not to treat the DIL like an outsider.

Earthbound:
I'm pretty sure he didn't say I'm sorry to you guys. As a parent, I will ensure my kids hear it from me often. Saying sorry no be by age. It reinforces love in the family but our Naija parents are too proud to actually say it.

I don't think he did. Fathers find it harder to say sorry when they even find it difficult to say it to their wives.

Kay512:
Thank you for this.

The part I emboldened is raw gold! I won't forget it. I think it will indirectly teach them the ability to stand for themselves anywhere.

I don't remember much about my upbringing, but I grew up shy and timid. I didn't learn the necessary social skills and it really affected my self-esteem. I'm developing myself now tho, but it's a hard adventure.

It will be a good way to bring them up. I remember my dad flogging my sis and I after we came back by 10pm from a church beach outing.

We were supposed to leave early but the bus driver we took ditched us. The pastor had to rally round to get a bus. It was a tough night. But my dad didn't wait to hear any explanation. After beating us, he asked us why we were late but we refused to answer cos it was of no use.

The next day his brother came and said his daughter(my cousin) was at the same beach and had similar problems and got back by midnight but she explained what happened to him and he didn't beat her. My dad felt so ashamed that he had to try to appease us.

Parents are not always right. We should try to listen before inflicting punishment. It could help build the child's self esteem.

Not the ones on Nairaland sha..

To them every girl is a gold digger...even if they don't even have bronze that someone can dig